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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by richie240: 10:27am On Mar 27, 2022 |
Yamiriflathead:Truth be told, right from inception what a woman had to bring to d table had bn nothing but: 1: Vagina 2: brezz 3: womb and most importantly 4: Agreeability ie submission. The 'woke' women of nowadays only come with d first 3. Their failure to be submissive to dr man is what's causing men regrets in marrying in d first place. If not for need for legitimate sex and children, marriage is inversely proportional to a man's peace of mind! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by qtguru(m): 11:10am On Mar 27, 2022 |
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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 27, 2022 |
qtguru:I won’t leave you alone.Show me your fiancées picture let me see |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MansoryMX(m): 1:26pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Gamesmart: I don’t do that religious shit y’all hide under and commit evil. Secondly I don’t owe you anything. As I tell you say I never knack outside, take it or leave it. Some of us are focused on what we have and not looking for what will ruin your life and home you have built for yourself. It’s a personal choice if you choose to protect yourself for your spouse. Them nor dey tie person preek for am. Used your head boy! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 3:16pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
MansoryMX: My friend, cut the bullcrap! You don't cheat on your wife gan ni. That is why you are running from swearing upandan. Look, I have no interest in causing problem in your household. But next time, be wise and keep your mouth shut. Don't be coming here to try to deceive women that some Prince Charming exists with your lies. And don't be coming here to lie and try to use other men to shine by putting them down with your fake, non-existent self. I know you will soon call one of your olosho poor girls and go and take your Sunday blowjjob, then crediting her akant, before going back home to your wife and faking it that she is the only one you want in life! Mr "Responsible and Faithful" husband! Desperate to be told by NL girls that you are a "Real Man", "Mature", "Responsible". Continue faking it! "You are happily married". |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:24pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
AlphaBeta130: sex has always been free...when a wife makes loves to her husband, THATS FREE! when a gf fukcs with her bf, THATS FREE!!!! the problem today is that many women are trying to make men believe that they are doing "you" a favor when they have sex with you, therefore they make you believe that you have to pay somehow (with money, gift, favour or taking care of her needs) here is a clue: when two people have sex, they are both enjoying the act, and therefore nobody is helping the other. ONLY PROSTITUTES EXPECT MONEY/GIFTS IN ORDER TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Simpubozz(m): 5:38pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
All these iyayawo people should scrap their unreasonable demands in the name of marriage rites.. and they should stop putting unnecessary pressure on their daughters |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by haggai247: 6:59pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
porthouse7: Companionship, is that the new format? "Anyone who is looking for someone else to make them happy or complete will never ever be happy or find happiness". Jesus Christ. You have to love yourself before you can even really love another person. Ps. The only reason our father's paid bride price is because in those days girls married as virgin. Finding virgin now is like waiting for sunset in the east which is almost impossible. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by judedwriter(m): 6:59pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Highlyrespected: Hmmm... Marriage is so sweet when you marry someone you are compatible with mentally, spiritually and physically. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 3:31pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Favfables1: @bolded Men have also practically slept with many other women/girls; its common knowledge that men are kids at heart; men throw tantrums the most over every lil' issue; you've not met some insecure men who nag at the slightest discomfort; every human desires to be treated with love whether male or female. So your assertion could pretty much go either way regardless of the gender. But y'all generalize a lot. Truth remains that the economy ain't smiling. Most bachelors under 40years are unemployed/underemployed and can't sustain a family. Trying to push the narrative that women are the cause of your frustrations on this platform for likes is simply hasty generalization! If you meet a good woman, who has a good source of income, you'll be an advocate of marriage. Don't let bad news about other people's marriages poison your mind. Our destinies are different in life. Marriage is the subunit of every functional society, without it, we can't build stable homes, balanced children and strong communities. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 3:47pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
apatheticme: 1. You talk about fallacy and yet you can confidently make this?? LMAO Yes my assertion could go either ways, both men and women sleep around bla bla bla, but women still don't take care of all financial expenses ... A 40year old man may not be able to sustain a family, but he can sustain himself, so why should he marry? Because at the end of it all, if he cannot carry out his responsibilities "as a man", you think his wife will do it without complaining and yet still respect him? ... 2. First off... I'm not trying to push anything on anyone, but it seems like you are ... Secondly... Everything I wrote in the earlier post can be backed up with facts and facts don't lie ... Thirdly... What makes you think I'm frustrated? Or is this the "fallacy of hasty generalization you spoke about" .... Fourthly... You sound like marriage is a goal for you, and if more men see it as a sham, then you won't achieve your goal...Pele o Fifth... What you bolded in my earlier post that led to all this plenty write up, is a question I'm currently asking myself, because I'm considering marriage, do you think a man who can consider marriage now, in this economy is "frustrated"? ... 3. Another fallacious statement ... So in your mind, the reason I'm not an advocate of marriage is because I haven't met a "good woman with a good source of income" .... And besides... A woman's income does not in anyway benefit me, because at the end of it all, "his money is our money and my money is my money" , abi no be so? Abi will it be "manly" to split bills with my wife ? 4. Yeah.... I agree with this 100% But you also forgot to add, "Marriage isn't compulsory" .... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 8:11pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
apatheticme: Are women paying for all these mens' expenses? You appear to have missed the core point of his argument that you addressed. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 8:13pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Favfables1: Aaaah! You already replied and addressed your point that she completely missed. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 12:00am On Mar 29, 2022 |
Favfables1: You can push whatever narratives that make you sleep better at night. @1st bolded, a lot of homes these days (in this Buhari economy) are run by women financially, but because they don't run to social media to announce likes you guys, you erroneously assume that only men finance the home. Do not use celebrities or social media noise to generalize! Are you saying as a matter of fact that your mom never contributed one Kobo to the home or to your development till you got to this level you are?? @2nd bolded You people and your baseless assumptions on this forum that every female here is unmarried. FYI, I'm married, with kids. Marriage ain't a goal for me, I work, earn a decent living and contribute immensely in my home. Marriage is just one of the things secured in the bag. There are other numerous things secured already!! @3rd bolded, You could keep the write up simple and resist the urge to explain! It is what it is, most of your reasons for avoiding marriage are baseless,shallow and lack depth! Many of you would grow pass this stage and literally eat your words!! @4th bolded; You're speaking from a relationship point, We talking marriage here. In marriage, Ego is meant to be put aside. Each partner is supposed to invest in the marriage financially and otherwise equally without bias! Well, most people were raised badly from poor homes so they have weird financial backgrounds and mentalities. Ideally, marriage according to Biblical standards means 2people coming together to be one in flesh,soul, spirit and finances as well as other values meant to be shared in godly homes! @5th bolded; Of course, variety is the spice of life! After all said and done, everyone reserves the exclusive rights to decide not to get married. I only wish they do not take such decisions based on social media noise and bandwagon mentality of feeling among, celebrity lifestyle and general stupidity! Our communities,society and future world deserve better children raised from balanced homes rather than bastards from baby mama papa madness!! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by emmaodet: 2:47am On Mar 29, 2022 |
sparko1: Omoooooo. Guys dey para for this thread ooooo 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by emmaodet: 4:05am On Mar 29, 2022 |
Gerrard59: Gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you believe getting admission to university, graduating, clearing your WAEC, buying a car, building a house, getting a visa to japa are all achievements, then getting married or having a kid should also be one. Achievements are landmarks or milestones in our life. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by LaJoe2: 9:55am On Mar 29, 2022 |
sparko1: i want to frame this comment and hang it in my parlor. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 3:24pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Gamesmart: In life, people usually speak from their various perspectives! I don't really know where yall get the ghetto, broke ass girls/women yall date/Marry with warped mentalities as regards finances! One thing is clear, a well brought up lass, from a good home , without enough to drink and eat will not behave like a longer throat outside! She will not only be cultured and classy,she will also be gainfully employed and will be ready to spend her entire savings on her man and kids. Such virtuous ladies/women while they exist, may not come in attractive packaged, with bums,boobs, nails, eyelash etc that y'all tag full option! Date/Marry homely and cultured ladies, y'all would say no and run after the ghetto,broke ass bosom and bum ladies with entitlement mentality. then when they suck y'all dry you turn around to wail and blame the entirety of Nigerian women! Nigerian men are confused!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 3:28pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
apatheticme: Aunty these spanking don dey too much na. Take am easy na. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 3:33pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Truth is usually bitter, but it sets free Ain't spanking anyone, Just dropping my honest opinions on a subject of discourse!! Offline reality is different from online blabbings. Offline all around us,we see daily how women toil in various disciplines to make ends meet for them and their families. so why will some people come online and keep pushing the narrative that only men bring money,it's disgusting! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 3:35pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
apatheticme: Atleast 60% of homes are financailly run by women but boys in 20s don't know cause they've not gotten to that bridge yet. Everyone brags until reality sets in. Same way everyone talks tough until they get beaten up badly. No too stress am 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 5:14pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
apatheticme: Okay, I get it! Based on your perspective, over 80% of women on Earth are (hence the average woman is a) " ghetto,broke ass bosom and bum ladies with entitlement mentality" because they tend to want a man who can be responsible for ALL the expenses, despite acting like a child, throw tantrums, nag at every slightest opportunity and yet still want to be treated with "love"? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 5:16pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: GUY!!!!!!! For fcck sake, ease on the Simping! |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 5:17pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Gamesmart: Until you enter marriage before you go see wetin dey inside. For now, win the arguement, i nor get money banter |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 5:38pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
apatheticme: You missed the point again! It is not about what is forced by life to happen. The point was about what is sought and planned to happen. apatheticme: Sorry I am going to be blunt! This is a typical illogical way a woman argues against a point she does not like or want to accept. She switches to using the exception, minority or self to make a general rule. For example, tell a woman that: Women tend to lose their looks as they age and cannot easily attract a desirable, high-earning man by the time they are 50+ years old. Typical women's response: That is a lie. Look at Jennifer Lopez! She is still pulling men in her 50s. As for the claim that "Marriage ain't a goal for me", I suspect that is just another case of a typical illogical way a woman argue against a point she does not like or want to accept: Just lie outrightly to win the point! Lets go back to that essential thing called FACTS: Women around the world, and especially Nigeria, generally want to marry. It is their goal and what they look forward to. Cut the nonsense about "you". I am sure you are lying. Even if you are not, it is not good point. Stick to facts! apatheticme: Una see? The same woman who said "Marriage ain't a goal for me" would be the same one who gets angry when men don't want to marry or condemn the institution of marriage. That is when you know she just lied outrightly to desperately win the point. If the facts and logic is too strong for women and does not favour their, they tend to try and make the argument become senseless or derail it. apatheticme: Marriage is a useless institution for the modern day man. The downsides outweigh the benefits to gain from it. apatheticme: Don't worry how they take the decision of what they want in their lives. Don't get angry about their decision. Simp DoctorOlasDesk, you are free to back her up here. You will get your pat on the head, boy. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 5:39pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Gamesmart: I've brought together and i've been actively involved in atleast 7 - 10 marriages Go and sit down. Kid |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 5:41pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Sorry, but: 1) I am not a Simp. 2) I am not dumb enough to make mistakes others are making by going to find out what is inside something over 60% of people who go inside to find out don't like what they see when inside. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 5:44pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Good one, Simp. "You are a .....................Real Man. So responsible and mature". I know you will not appreciate me saying that. It does not hit the sweet spot for a Simp as well as if it is a woman that praises him like that. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 6:11pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: No stress at all, just making my own point like every other person on the thread! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Roger3D(m): 6:47pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
faithfull18:This is a false assertion. There is no society on earth with women being more financially successful than men 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
sparko1:ur observation z correct |
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