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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Knows12(m): 8:35pm On Mar 30, 2022
I need work pls. hunger want kill me...
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Fireboy02: 8:37pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
Dats how it's supposed to be.
Any time I want to marry any girl, I go straight for marriage.simple and short
I will like to marry u if u are igbo girl

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by wenogodie2: 8:38pm On Mar 30, 2022
sapientia:


If this girl listen to you

She will end up living a sucessful sad life

Thankfully she doesn't have your failed mindset.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Knows12(m): 8:39pm On Mar 30, 2022
DryMouth:
20years and below are my spec. Their body still dey tight and sweet.

Sha dnt listen to what all these old mama evening newspaper would tell you. They are frustrated.
all these ladies weh dey advice her deh under one gbola rn.. it's raining here... I need work pls. hunger want kill me...
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 30, 2022
Fireboy02:

Dats how it's supposed to be.
Any time I want to marry any girl, I go straight for marriage.simple and short
I will like to marry u if u are igbo girl
am an Igbo gal
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Nadeol: 8:40pm On Mar 30, 2022
Please listen to your parent's advice, many years from now, you would kneel down, hug them and say a very big 'THANK YOU' to Daddy and Mummy.

Many ladies never had this privilege you currently have, they wish someone had advised them, but instead of telling you the truth, they would cover up their guilt and pain by telling you to explore, please don't listen to them.

Above all, try your best possible to keep your virginity into your marriage, your husband will cherish you forever.

Best wishes dear.

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by badboyTee(m): 8:41pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
can we know more about each other
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Jamesbiodun(m): 8:43pm On Mar 30, 2022
You have access to the internet so you must surely have a boyfriend
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by 07kjb: 8:43pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this

Your parents means well for you,heed to that wonderful advise

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Cutehector(m): 8:44pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
your parents are right, it is marriage or nothing.

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Ximenez(m): 8:46pm On Mar 30, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

The thing is..you will have a frank and heart to heart chat and put forth your view to them..

Because in the end it's your life and your happiness that will count....your parents will surely understand and respect your decisions when you explain it to them in a patient and rational manner..or do they expect marriage to happen all of a sudden...it has to start from somewhere.
Understood?
A dependent 20 year-old and possibly an undergradate girl should have a "frank" and heart to heart chat with her African parents to allow her have a bf?

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by arthurwillia(m): 8:48pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this

No listen
God will yelp yo
You'll fall unto someone like me hand
You'll cry ehn
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Benwallt(m): 8:51pm On Mar 30, 2022
Just prepare that pvssy, u will still get fvcked by at least 10 guys b4 u finally settle down.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Starhearts: 8:52pm On Mar 30, 2022
Since slawormiir damn niggea is back.
It remain righteousness2, d able pastor with swag nd effigy
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by deavicky(m): 8:56pm On Mar 30, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

The thing is..you will have a frank and heart to heart chat and put forth your view to them..

Because in the end it's your life and your happiness that will count....your parents will surely understand and respect your decisions when you explain it to them in a patient and rational manner..or do they expect marriage to happen all of a sudden...it has to start from somewhere.
Understood?
she is twenty for God sake. She may even be in school why should relationship be her problem. Spoilt generation.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Heavensent01(m): 8:59pm On Mar 30, 2022
so no one has liberated your legs yet




she's expected to teach you sex education then you grow to abstinence but she's teaching you abstinence before sex education



sex education is expected to be taken at tender age 13 upward but here she's holding curious 20yrs lady from not having bf. I can bet it you can't reach 21 before getting deflowered that's if they've not done it with this your curiosity of bf
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by kingyakos: 8:59pm On Mar 30, 2022
My dear l'm a man and men will always be boys and boys will always be dog. Any man that comes to you as friend wants nothing but sex and if you refused him sex he might even go extra mile in drugging and raping you.
The enticing spirit of sex has overwhelmed the world in so much that people go extra mile for it, just take your mom advise and that alone is a blessings, though even the worst man on Earth wants the best woman as a wife.

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by kingyakos: 9:04pm On Mar 30, 2022
Men will rubbish you to scrap and move on to another sweet 16....e be like say e dey hungry you to be okrika or iron condem

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Manobravo09(m): 9:05pm On Mar 30, 2022
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
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Please stick to your parents advice, they want the best for you ,they love you, stop dating unnecessarily who loves you will aske for your hands in marriage. So many guys out there are not ready for marriage just ready to date. Your parents understand what life is all about.
Listen to them please.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by myami: 9:09pm On Mar 30, 2022
DryMouth:
20years and below are my spec. Their body still dey tight and sweet.

Sha dnt listen to what all these old mama evening newspaper would tell you. They are frustrated.
do you suck pussy

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Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Emdebby2: 9:11pm On Mar 30, 2022
Your mom is protecting you. At your age you are still young. Focus on what you are doing now, be it academics or business. When you are mature for marriage husband will come. Don't disobey your parents.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 30, 2022
illicit:


Swear with ur life that u don't have a boyfriend or urges undecided
I have urges but I'm in charge and in control of it, and I don't keep boyfriend till I finally meet that one who can pin me down and make me humble and that person can only be my fiancée. I wasn't brought up to keep boyfriend but fiancee
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Solatium(m): 9:13pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this


You need boyfriend or else you no go get street sense,na street Dem dey take run marriage ooo else Dem go do you strong thing.
You need to start learning that process small small
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:15pm On Mar 30, 2022
See as you small like this u want get boyfriend abi u want turn like hen wer de do juju anyhow eh look don't u know some men are not normal in this country some are gun men and some are ritual becareful my dear cos this life no balance....oooo
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by SPAMBOX7: 9:15pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
If only they know it's not gonna be possible

Poor parents cry
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 9:15pm On Mar 30, 2022
Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this
Normally, relationships must end in marriage.

But greed, manipulations and selfish interest most times doesnt allow relationships get to the promise land.

Stick to what your parents told you, but be jovial, be friendly have a nice character and make yourself approachable.

These are what you need, to attract good guys who will definitely come into your life for genuine reason.

Then, I really don't know how you will study men and how they are wired before you make that choice you need. If you have brothers, fine.

Then you are here, so get interactive and make friends from both genders but, keep your father's Instructions and keep your mother's laws they will guide you to life.

Please make sure you have good character..Your personality will attract the man, your character will keep him..

Don't be like some virgins with arrogant/nasty character.

Follow your mom's advise but be smart..
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by SunMusk(m): 9:18pm On Mar 30, 2022
Thy re right just take it in good fate
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by MilitantAtheist: 9:22pm On Mar 30, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

The thing is..you will have a frank and heart to heart chat and put forth your view to them..

Because in the end it's your life and your happiness that will count....your parents will surely understand and respect your decisions when you explain it to them in a patient and rational manner..or do they expect marriage to happen all of a sudden...it has to start from somewhere.
Understood?
shut up, you want make the girl fhuck her life scatter like you. Don't corrupt her, my dear Janina don't explain anything to your parents pls obey them.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by BabbanBura(m): 9:22pm On Mar 30, 2022
Fireboy02:

Dats how it's supposed to be.
Any time I want to marry any girl, I go straight for marriage .simple and short
I will like to marry u if u are igbo girl

Chai!
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Bishopino: 9:24pm On Mar 30, 2022
Your mum did not stop you from having a boyfriend, she only stop you from fucking around.
You can have male friends if you wish.
To me , I have many female friends: If I meet a new girl, we have become friends and no more strangers. If I feel attracted to you, then we will become closer, if not, we stop at: Hello and hi.
My wife is not even one of my female friend. I meet her when I was ready for marriage.
Re: My Mom Has Refused Me On Having A Boyfriend by Bamzyriches451: 9:24pm On Mar 30, 2022
Damn!
Hell NO, your parents are wrong. Get a bf and Bleep the hell outta him you'll see that life is sweet...... You're seriously missing a lot dear smiley

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