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Vivian16:
Help her please, humanity comes first before any other thing.

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Shut the f*ck up.

Humanity kill you there!!. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Is that girl OP's wife? Are you OK? What is wrong with u Nigerian girls

You want the op to help a hoe who's probably still exploring and collecting dicks around, and someone who will still bring guys into the apartment to bang her pussy. You dey ment?. The OP should look after his own family and spend the money on his wife, his mother and his sisters. Stop being a liability and a parasite!!!

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

op just help ur follow man with 5k pls

4kin simp.
You disgust me!

Let her character get her a house,..... If there's something else you want from her be bold enough to to say it,............

Or better still ask your wife

It never ends well having anything to do with an ex
She's an ex, meaning she's in the past now. Girls always have their way bro, they are known to always have plan Bs so focus on your marriage and let her sort herself. And I know she has a boyfriend, that should be the guy's responsibility. My humble advice though.

Guy, it seems you want to marry second wife.
When you rent the house, hope you will furnish it, food money nko? Dstv subscription etc.
Ok when the rent expires, what next?
Your intentions might be good but na small small e de start. Before you know, you don hook.

fulfil your promise...dont later go for the cookie

Hmmm! See this one, if na guy man like you, you no go help oo. You can assist her if you have the money, because you have already promised her.

funkmrflexx:


I'm asking because I'm having second thoughts

Since your intention towards your ex is pure, why not ask your wife for advice

EmzyT:
If you have so much at your disposal like you claim to, How many People do you help daily? Hope your neighbours and male counterparts aren't suffering? Well, help her, I really don't see any big deal there though.

But hope you ain't helping her with other motives? Because this one you're trying to bring your Ex closer is like keeping Chicken as a pet, we all know that one day you'll eat it.

Ask your wife for her advice.

Whatshallido:
Hmmm! See this one, if na guy man like you, you no go help oo. You can assist her if you have the money, because you have already promised her.

If na guy man like u I go help u. I've helped guys with more than houses

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

it's not bad thing except u are planning to visit her there sometimes, which will automatically turn a bad idea

deavicky:
it's not ad thing except u are planning to visit her there sometimes which will automatically turn bad idea

She'll be staying in another state

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

You are just opening the door to more requests from her.

funkmrflexx:


She'll be staying in another state

go ahead I'm at back

It's not a bad idea helping her out but I would suggest you discuss this with your wife and assure her that you are not doing it for any ulterior motive other than just to help her out and fulfill the promise you once made to her.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

funkmrflexx:


I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

my question is can she continue paying d rent after d first?
Having issues with one baby mama is my bq now.
Since after d first payment from baby daddy na wahala to pay.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

STOP MAKING A BIG SHOW OUTTA NOTHING. YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST AND POSSIBLY NOT GOING BE THE LAST.

EX OR NO EX, ALWAYS HELP WHEN YOU ARE IN THE POSITION, EVEN WHEN IT DIFFICULT TO DO SO.

GOD LIFT THE POOR AND SCATTER THE PROUD HEARTED.

GooodHardDick:
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Shut the f*ck up.

Humanity kill you there!!. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Is that girl OP's wife? Are you OK? What is wrong with u Nigerian girls

You want the op to help a hoe who's probably still exploring and collecting dicks around, and someone who will still bring guys into the apartment to bang her pussy. You dey ment?. The OP should look after his own family and spend the money on his wife, his mother and his sisters. Stop being a liability and a parasite!!!

you are a big fool and your foolishness will kill you, yes she is a hoe and the op was hoeing with her till they parted their ways and he had it in his mind to her knowing fully well that she needs the help so allow him to do what he wants to do with his money after all it is not stated any where that you should help only your immediate family nembers, some people are where they are today because someone they are not related to helped them, so carry your demonic and selfish reasoning and get out.

Reinvented:

Ask your wife for her advice.

I'm not the OP na, y'all should stop quoting me

Get a moderate one room for her. Help her to be getting some income.

Don't open your mouth to tell your wife that you want to rent house for your ex, if you do you're in deep sh*it she will suspect your every move and begin to accuse you of sleeping with her infact there will be issues in your home.

If you know, that you know deep down your heart that you want to help her genuinely without any strings attached please help her.

Don't help and begin to communicate with her or visit her before you know it clap go enter dance.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Why'nt upgrade her to baby mama instead

It's not bad to help but be very careful before you use your hand and destroy your marriage.If your wife find out na war and if you decide to tell her na war too.

funkmrflexx:


I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

It's not you that would actually ask for something, she will be the one and there is no way you would be sending money to her without thinking of going to the place one day. She will try every means possible to always get your attention; then, the game starts from there. Reason am well Oga, if your Madam gets to know.........may God have His way.

EmzyT:
If you have so much at your disposal like you claim to, How many People do you help daily? Hope your neighbours and male counterparts aren't suffering? Well, help her, I really don't see any big deal there though.

But hope you ain't helping her with other motives? Because this one you're trying to bring your Ex closer is like keeping Chicken as a pet, we all know that one day you'll eat it.

Motives plenty $$$
The Guy is about to sow what may hurt him .
His eyes still on the balls

funkmrflexx:


I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

Shut up. You want to Bleep her
I wish your wife gets to know and deal with you

If you have respect for your wife, home and children then be gracious enough to inform your wife about this move, if you can't then leave it. Things like this may look little and ordinary but can land you in big problem. The said lady may just wake up one day and decide to blackmail you and viola she's got the evidence she needed to do so, especially if she wants to subtlety get back at you. Remember its your wife at that point that can come to your rescue and tell the whole world she knows about the assistance and actually approve of it. Let your past relationship and error remain in the past, once you're married looking back can be very counter productive; remember Lot's wife. So whatever you chose to do ensure your wife is aware of it, and if she disapprove of it kindly back off. Best rest assured she can and will survive without your assistance and you. Before I quit speaking, know that Some emotions are better left unattended to, for they can ruin your present joy. My one cent to you cent!

Proverbs 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.

Vivian16:
you are a big fool and your foolishness will kill you, yes she is a hoe and the op was hoeing with her till they parted their ways and he had it in his mind to her knowing fully well that she needs the help so allow him to do what he wants to do with his money after all it is not stated any where that you should help only your immediate family nembers, some people are where they are today because someone they are not related to helped them, so carry your demonic and selfish reasoning and get out.

Your stupidity is extra ordinary. Have you helped any man in your life before? But once it comes to helping an Olosho and a community hoe, the man should go ahead na abi? Thunder fire u there idiot. Werey. If you help her yourself, will you die?

I blame the Simp op wey no know himself. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Foolish girl, if you're broke. Get a job, not a boyfriend.

Why asking us? The best person to ask or get permission from is your wife. If she says yes then go ahead.... Abi I no talk am well?

Why is this place smelling simp simp?

Discuss it with your wife and do whatever she tells you. If you do it behind her back and she finds out, it is cheating o. Carry your wife along or face front by forgetting about your ex.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself