funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Do it with the consent of your wife.

Indirectly gunning for a second wife bro, rip in in advance

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Who dey help no dey ask for advice
Mediocrity everywhere
You either quietly do a TF to her and not raise anybody's eye to it
Learn to help without photographers and Media aides

Favfables1:


Hmmm....
I can see you really really want to help this exgirlfriend of yours, and that isn't a bad thing...

But truth is, don't allow past relationships ruin present marriage, it's just not worth it!

"Helping" your ex will inevitably reestablish a bond between you two and that bond, if not regulated could spell disaster...

You may be doing this without an ulterior motive, but how're bout your ex? Can you be sure of her motives? What if she using this as a means to want to keep the ball rolling between you two? Don't you think it could spell trouble in your home?

And besides after you've paid her bills, what next? And if she can't get her shit together before the rent expires, who do you think she'll call?

Put yourself in your wife's shoes and be frank, if your wife tells you she wants to help her ex, would you not raise eyebrows the next time you see her ex's miss call on her phone?

Either ways sha...
If you must help your ex girlfriend, involve your wife every step of the way, but also be ready face the aftermath of whatever this act of your will yield ...

Never you advise a man in love,it's useless


The OP is a pathetic human and we will be here to read how he messed up his family

Hoe-lo-shi Hoe-ni-shina. Go tell your wife and anything way she talk be final. Me and you know say you go end up fucking that girl. Nah your second home be that omoale. Born bastard

If you have the money help her please, get a house for her and help her to secure a job that can pay the house bills or you can give her some cash to start her life

Since you are married now, you don't have business with her, how will you feel if it was your wife that want to help her ex the way you want to do.

You said you got the money...
I'm sure you've made your decision by now.
Whatever you choose to do, cut contact with her afterwards.

Imagine how you'd react if you find out your wife was still communicating with her ex.... Don't do something that'll make your wife start thinking funny things.

One more thing: show me the money way.

Beebah2000:
Shabi, una don breakup na.
You no get any business with her again na.

If na u dey her shoes, she no go even reason to help you. If your wife find out say you rent house for another woman, e go cause wahala.
You know how women dey very emotional na.

You better use the money package yourself and your beautiful wife.
Wahala e no dey finish oh oh, make you try dey enjoy oh

Ex ain't foes. Everyone ain't the same. Some people are just naturally too good.

Hope you'll be fine if you hear that your wife got an apartment for his ex boyfriend because she already promised him while they were dating? Do unto others what you want them do to you.

You ended things with her because she was treating you badly through her behavior.

You don't have any business with her anymore.

Let her take care of herself abeg.

Well, I see sincerity of your help towards her, but you must not make her feel there's something left between you guys ooo

If possible giver her the money to go sort herself out

I pray it goes well ooo cos dem nor dey know person mind finish oooo

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Why not first discuss it with your wife if you think helping her isn't a big deal. Helping her is a big deal with lasting effects...

Help her, Man. The fact that you broke up with her doesn't mean you are now enemies. From your write-up, I can see it's borne out of a clear conscience... simply the humanity in you. Please help, BUT NEVER let the handshake go beyond the elbow.

Best wishes.

funkmrflexx:


So as a married man If I want to Bleep it's my ex go hungry me. Wen kitten full outside like pure water

It's called 'Okafor's Law' I believe you should know about this or read up on it.

SLOVFO:


Why not first discuss it with your wife if you think helping her isn't a big deal. Helping her is a big deal with lasting effects...

Very thoughtful. If he has any reservation in discussing with the wife for whatever reason then he should forego the idea. His priority should be his family now.

Tell your wife about it. Don't render the help that will choke you later.

ValCon888:
I have nothing to say to this. Do what your heart wishes.
But let us not hear that your ex is pregnant for you because you started to fúck her in the house you rented.
For all your Father Christmas intentions, we both know you want to continue fûcking her.

Comrade off your Mic. Let him fucck her in peace. Once debe, always debe.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Just say you need a side pusssssy to be knacking yeye human being Mr helper face your marriage

Fulfill your promises to her bro.

Get a one bedroom apartment and pay the rent for two years. Then let her sort her life out.

There's no way this dude, won't go visit this babe one cool evening and later after spending hours, sucking her nipples; he will say ''It is the devil's handiwork''
And the way am seeing it, this man is gonna be jealous (if he finds out that a guy is coming to see this particular ex-gal; he rented an apartment for)

EmzyT:
If you have so much at your disposal like you claim to, How many People do you help daily? Hope your neighbours and male counterparts aren't suffering? Well, help her, I really don't see any big deal there though.

But hope you ain't helping her with other motives? Because this one you're trying to bring your Ex closer is like keeping Chicken as a pet, we all know that one day you'll eat it.

Can't you just advice someone peacefully, without adding unnecessary talks to it...

funkmrflexx:


As u don help ur whole family finish e good for u na.
Mugu.

The guy na real mugu...

Iyaebe:
You already promised her,so fulfill your promise and you shall be rewarded for it.Please help her in every way you can

I'm not surprised. You obviously have a bias towards women.

EmzyT:
If you have so much at your disposal like you claim to, How many People do you help daily? Hope your neighbours and male counterparts aren't suffering? Well, help her, I really don't see any big deal there though.

But hope you ain't helping her with other motives? Because this one you're trying to bring your Ex closer is like keeping Chicken as a pet, we all know that one day you'll eat it.

comrade
Spot on!

After you don chop and belleful, personally by yourself, u wan use Ur own hand buy your death...

RIP in advance

Wetn this guy Dey scam for ? Details please

Ask your wife.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Beebah2000:
Shabi, una don breakup na.
You no get any business with her again na.

If na u dey her shoes, she no go even reason to help you. If your wife find out say you rent house for another woman, e go cause wahala.
You know how women dey very emotional na.

You better use the money package yourself and your beautiful wife.
Wahala e no dey finish oh oh, make you try dey enjoy oh

If the guy nor get any motive make he help there is nothing wrong but e go bad say the reason he wants to help is because he wants to lash

It’s your “EX” she should be in your past. Believe me when I say she must have figured out something about her accommodation. With the situation on ground i suggest you help her with some money to look for it. I’m against the idea of having to pay the full rent. Remember you have a family too. It could lead to infidelity. Except ashewo dy your eyes sha �

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

I know ur type, u want to rent house for her so that u go dey visit am,,
Remember say na woman, she go dey nack other men for that house, she go later dey see u as simp

Please go ahead and help her. A father that harasses his daughter is enough reason to assist her.


Assist and don't develop feelings for her to the detriment of your marriage Please.