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I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now


Kikikikikikikikikikiki.... aku oriire o, safe delivery

Don't ever try to start what you can't continue

Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support .

And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father

Bola146:

make i follow you laugh

Cutehector:
make i follow you laugh

Abi now, I'll donate size 1 Pampers to them with condoms when she put to bed

And so what? We should fry plantain? When you were sagging her, are we there? Abeg carry your wahala go jare.

man up and take care of your responsibilities.

Bola146:
Abi now, I'll donate size 1 Pampers to them with condoms when she put to bed

as in eh. That thing dey sweet o. He no tell us as he dey chook prick. That thing dey turn man head eh.

Wen she tell u to use condom u no gree, say u no go pour akamu 4 her flask

Now u don come dey ask wat to do

My frnd u beta take care of ur responsibility

Congrats in advance deadbeat dad

I just dey look u

Ammishaddai:
Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss with her the terms and conditions you'd be willing to accept for child support .

Lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father

Do you know how much they do DNA? He no get kobo, you can give him, he will appreciate it sir

Congratulations.. U are now a Benefit father in waiting

Bola146:
Do you know how much they do DNA? He no get kobo, you can give him, he will appreciate it sir

I dey carry my own cross ; make him too learn the way of carrying his own cross

The baby have come to stay, there is nothing you can do about it , no weapon fashion against it shall prosper, but on a serious note my advise to you is to allow her to born the baby, don't insist on abortion.

Insist that she gets an abortion

Ooti mor meme, sheybi o mo obo do ni?

Maa do Lo ooooo

That girl is not pregnant, things are hard she just want money

You are only 21 but you know how to embark on the kind of journey that birthed you.



Please do not disturb us.

Belle With Benefits!!!

me want chop rice.. nothing concer me.

Let's see one of your videos during the knacking session

Imagine if she was your sister and another is thinking what you are thinking.

Go take responsibility bro, query her well if she's sure it's your child, don't encourage her to do abortion against her wish because if it turns South, no be you go die or get damaged womb.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Nbotee:
Congratulations.. U are now a Benefit father in waiting

when bois of him agree no the Sleep all to gain Benefit money, you busy the Shag a girl for friends with Benefit. Now Benefit Baby don show...

U are just 21, u dont have a job, but u can sleep with a girl....

Now u are scared

Really

Like u tot the product of sex is canada visa


Wen u dey do oxlade style and probably filming it to, u were even having sex twice in a week for three months

Time wey u for use dey find money

U have plenty problems ooo, u are not just awear

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months ,since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description. There was a some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father. For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion. I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion.  I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford  to raise a child right now  and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her  to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone . What do I do now?

tell her the truth about how you feel...tell her you dont want this baby, tell her you have no plan to be with her nor in this baby life, let her understand from the get go that you aint got what she wants from you (aka step up to be that baby's father ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU WERE WEARING CD)....dont go about being all gentle about it, go straight to the point! this is a mistake that you both did, and that needs to be fixed. at best, she will be a single mother with a baby daddy!

Don't worry. Nairaland family will support u when she put to bed.
Go and get a job. In 9 months time you will be a father.

Stay strong. Don't abort a baby. If the baby is truly of your DNA then get your butt up and take care of your responsibility

Ammishaddai:
I dey carry my own cross ; make him too learn the way of carrying his own cross

Clash of crises

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months ,since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description. There was a some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father. For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion. I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion.  I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford  to raise a child right now  and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her  to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone . What do I do now?

Zip up, you people will not hear. You see am ?
You are OYO. Go and borrow money to do DNA

Omo u dey on ur own o ...Baby products don cost for market now o

Omo mehn crazy stuff everywhere

congratulations in advance

Well, congratulations my niggi! Three times a week for over 3 months no be small thing. You might need to talk to her in relation to if she wants to keep the baby or nah