You had sex twice a week over the course of 3 months, but you're unsure if you're the father?
Pray, what assurances do you need?

Dominion791:


I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

Ammishaddai:
Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support .

And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father

how can a jobless young boy afford paternity test

The moment you started brapping, you've been ready my brother. Congratulations.

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

Guest911:
That girl is not pregnant, things are hard she just want money

.. So you think?
She say she nor want abortion... So how or what is her plan to get money?

Condom will have prevent this from happening

Ventura1:
some married men self no get chance to dey shag twice a week.

na unemployment and idleness cause this one so, him de catch cruise since without knowing say he go catch baby soon, married people no get this much time for consistent twice a week sex to be honest!

virginchaser:


Babe, you bad o. That guy can run into depression with your laugh.

Sir, this is a precious gift that millionaires are looking for one

You must be a muntula. You dey knack the kokolet 2 times a week without and expect her not to take in? When you dey chop alone...you no ask for advice. [color=#990000][/color]

Ammishaddai:
Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support .

And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father

Terms and conditions for child support? Is there any lower level we could degenerate to below this?

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

Typical case of "Oji Amu, Ejighi Ego" (You get only pe'nis to f"uck toto but no money for pocket to care for the responsibilities).

Faber:
That's why Donald Trump said Africans cannot produce anything except babies. Energy you for channel into something more rewarding

At your age 21 God knows I don become a millionaire already. I bought chain saw around ₦90k at Onitsha and I ventured into wood/lumbering business, in a community in Enugu state. I got that connection here on Nairaland. I had two operators and we were turning out one lorry load of timber every two weeks. Thats ₦240k per lorry load. I pay the village ₦50k, The operators ₦4k per day roughly ₦50k ( including weed and other add- one) the remaining ₦150k is my own, after expenses of fuel, servicing of the chain saw etc am left with ₦120k. That's ₦240k monthly.
Each time I am in a public transport going to Enugu from Onitsha, once I reached that village cos is along the road, I will look out from the windows and be smiling. One babe caught me and asked why the sudden smile, I told her " Babe see ehn na me finished the wood for this community...all the big big trees collect for my hand"

Go to Umuokpu timber in Awka and ask about me. I don't even know what's called toto at that age. Girls and married women keep running after me, I avoided them like epidermic. It's very bad that all over the place is sex saturated. Having sex 2 times a week for over 3 months....

Guy you are not disciplined at all. This is your reward, no pity or advice for you...gerarah here

Nice one but i am personally disturbed because i did not see where you wrote that you replaced any tree by planting seedlings. You made money by raping and abusing nature.

Dominion791:
I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

''I am a man ..i am a man...I can do what ever I want''.

See am na? You are now asking people for advice.

Mumu

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

Only 21 and you opened your mouth to mention" friend with benefit". Now benefit don hook you for throat.

Congratulations Daddy of the year.

[quote author=Dominion791 post=111680468]I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?[/quote

Just let her be she we do d needful

Realmi:
U are just 21, u dont have a job, but u can sleep with a girl....

Now u are scared

Really

Like u tot the product of sex is canada visa


Wen u dey do oxlade style and probably filming it to, u were even having sex twice in a week for three months

Time wey u for use dey find money

U have plenty problems ooo, u are not just awear

I just stand dey look you aswearyougahd.

"I've always been really, really good about using condoms"
You are a mumu

Na the 2 times a week for a month weak me.

Me for whole month na once I dey chop sef. By the time you come back from work they think about waking up 5pm going back to work your dick dey weak.

Na em this small boy dey nack back to back a week. I tire o

You seriously need help, truth be told. From the tone of your message, you sound nonchalant! You are not ready to be a father yet you went on a sex romp, from your statement 2ce a week. That is at least 8 times within a month! I'm sure if you deploy the same energy in looking for a job, you won't be in this equation. What do you think the outcome will look like? Every free gift comes with a price and consequences especially when not handled with care. Imagine your sister in this situation, what would be your stand/position? My brother, you are the owner of this pregnancy, the earlier you accept this fate the better. Go and tell your parents, this will only set your senses and make you get your priorities right.

Bola146:


Abi now, I'll donate size 1 Pampers to them with condoms when she put to bed

Well.....as a comrade I won't let you down...I will provide you 70% of delivery items. Moreover count on me all the spirit that comrade's will take during the naming ceremony.

qtguru:
I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I don't get if you've been using condom how did she get pregnant ?

With this friend, no condom.

Congrats my brother, I'm not going to laugh on this comment even though I've been laughing tirelessly reading other comments..
One, You have to brace up o, if she insists no abortion, you can't force her to.
Kindly know her relatives and talk to your own too, explain the market you don buy them, don't cover this issue too much cos as you said you don't even have a job at the moment, her relatives or yours may be kind enough to atleast care for her at this moment..
Two, baba go and hustle like maaad, get a job and start saving, taking care of babies not really an easy thing.
Third, sit her down too, discuss terms and conditions, your negotiations starts from now, are you going to marry her or just a baby daddy.

Ammishaddai:
Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support .

And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father

Paternity test doesn't come cheap o
And considering how the OP wrote.....I'm not sure he is financially bouyant

Friends with benefits at 21 can only be on Nigeria movie, don't try this at home you say no,

Don't abort the baby is a murder ,

virginchaser:


Nice one but i am personally disturbed because i did not see where you wrote that you replaced any tree by planting seedlings. You made money by raping and abusing nature.

Where you are living today, tree dey there before so what happened to the tree you cut down to build your house.
We paved way for development and urbanisation. Trees are not meant to be everywhere. Flowers can do their job within the cities

but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms

We had sex about twice a week for the last three months.
I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job.


A boy of 21years having sex twice in a week
So no be today this world spoil.
U no get work on top am.
How you take they deceive the girl?
Asking on behalf of Friend

Take care of the baby alone
Don't regret it at last ooo
Hmmmm
Tori dey for pig mouth

Bola146:
I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now


Kikikikikikikikikikiki.... aku oriire o, safe delivery

Don't ever try to start what you can't continue

GboyegaD:


With this friend, no condom.

Damn

Faber:


Where you are living today, tree dey there before so what happened to the tree you cut down to build your house.
We paved way for development and urbanisation. Trees are not meant to be everywhere. Flowers can do their job within the cities

Now, i got a little bit of your understanding.

You want to become a Killer

qtguru:


Damn

Wetin dey damn? The guy think say belle na by age.

I am suggesting you mentor him in programming as that would help him make the money he needs to earn a decent living.

You are getting kini?
When d Bleep Dey sweet, wey you Dey Dey wine n grind your waist, it was sweeting you.
Tire ki u there.

Lol..niggaz gon' learn the hard way