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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Cutehector(m): 10:33am On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
Yeah. Always seems Fake when it has not happened to you yet. This is something happenin to me presently and you are saying Fake.
you getting tired of your marriage, you run and come to post on social media... You were asked to leave, yet you said you still love your wife...

How confused can you be! If you love her then why the fvck are you even creating a thread in the first place? Telling the whole world how bad she is.

Someone who claims to love his wife wont be coming to social media to preach about leaving the marriage..

Get the fvck out abeg

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Camelot65: 10:36am On Apr 18, 2022
Lol, that number 3 ehn, I can't live with someone that gets angry easily. Are you saying you didn't notice this before getting married to her?

If something is becoming a torment for you, then leave.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by LordKO(m): 10:56am On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
make sure you're ready to Stomach any Bullshit that appears from them

The fact that you lack the grit and gumption required to make your marriage work is not a reason enough to dissuade the guy from marrying when he sees a reasonable woman. You have to embrace grit and gumption to make yours work, your wife's obvious weaknesses, citing your submission, notwithstanding.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by AMGBoss(m): 11:01am On Apr 18, 2022
Cutehector:
you getting tired of your marriage, you run and come to post on social media... You were asked to leave, yet you said you still love your wife...

How confused can you be! If you love her then why the fvck are you even creating a thread in the first place? Telling the whole world how bad she is.

Someone who claims to love his wife wont be coming to social media to preach about leaving the marriage..

Get the fvck out abeg
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by bukatyne(f): 11:34am On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.
1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.
2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff
most especially the female friends.
3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.
I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail. Need advice pls.....

1. Ok

2. Hmmmm, I don't what you mean by too much attention; I don't know if you & your female friends understand boundaries in relationships. Also I don't know if you have given her a reason to distrust you in the past.

3. Your reaction/response to her action is faulty. While angry, she doesn't talk to you for days and you are begging; why? Don't you have self respect? Let's assume you are wrong, you apologize and she decides to continue the silent treatment; let her be.

Then the height of it: she asks you for food money & you give her during the silent treatment. You don't want to talk to me yet you want my money or any other thing I have to offer ? If it is not a life/death matter, I will develop selective deafness till you come to your senses.

You need to sit up and lead your marriage by example the way you want it to be.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Misterone: 11:43am On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
its hard. I love her.
you love her doesn't mean you should be a mumu to her. when things go south she will dump your sorry ass so fast you won't know what hit you. take control of your marriage now. be in charge and take responsibility of your actions when things happen. if she can't cope, then move on.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by tiswell(m): 11:46am On Apr 18, 2022
when we tell y'all not to marry these gals again,you call us unprintable names...happy Easter to the happy singles

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 12:23pm On Apr 18, 2022
DispatcherLagos:
To think I had wanted to put the engagement ring on my girlfriend's finger this Easter before I started seeing various threads against marriage......Omo Na postpone till further notice. I can't come and kill my happiness

Uncle, you never ready to marry. cheesy
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by jesmond3945: 12:31pm On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.
1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.
2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff
most especially the female friends.
3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.
I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail. Need advice pls.....
lol. She is using the classic manipulation and narcissism used by women to exert control in the home.
1. She doesn't have any low sex drive. She wants to have sex in her own terms.
2. Is she ready to fill the attention gap? If you check she also has men she chats with who give her attention but for you no go area. Don't let her alienate those people from you because they might be your lifesaver tommorow.
3. Don't beg her again and you would not die. Be a man. Fight her silent treatment with harsher silent treatment. If she doesn't talk to you, leave the house and go meet people who will talk to you or rather channel your attention to your daughter.
Don't quit your marriage. Don't show physical strength or emotions rather use your brain to win the battle. Show stoicism.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2022
jesmond3945:
lol. She is using the classic manipulation and narcissism used by women to exert control in the home.
1. She doesn't have any low sex drive. She wants to have sex in her own terms.
2. Is she ready to fill the attention gap? If you check she also has men she chats with who give her attention but for you no go area. Don't let her alienate those people from you because they might be your lifesaver tommorow.
3. Don't beg her again and you would not die. Be a man. Fight her silent treatment with harsher silent treatment. If she doesn't talk to you, leave the house and go meet people who will talk to you or rather channel your attention to your daughter.
Don't quit your marriage. Don't show physical strength or emotions rather use your brain to win the battle. Show stoicism.
thanks bro
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Kobojunkie: 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail. Need advice pls.....
Before you quit, consider counseling please. Your description reads like the textbook case for professional marriage counseling and possible mental health counseling as well. undecided

Please consider seeing a professional counselor to at least help you in understanding the issues behind your wife's behavior, and also aide you both in charting a best-fit way forward in your marriage. undecided

The reason why professional marriage counseling is beneficial even in the case that that relationship is finally dissolved is it allows you gain wisdom in to the relationship which you would otherwise have not been able to without that kind of intervention. The information obtained is one that will potentially help you in dealing with the future of the relationship, particularly since you both have a child between you, and all other relationships as you know what other signs to look out for. undecided
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Pascopele: 12:37pm On Apr 18, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Take a chill pill and answer my questions.
1. Why did you get married?
2. Your Bachelor days and you married life which was better.
3. Did you get married because people are getting married?
Good questionany do number 3
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by olabrinks(f): 1:01pm On Apr 18, 2022
The reasons are not enough to end a marriage, get a grip please. Next case!
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:13pm On Apr 18, 2022
Kriss216:

LOVE is just a word used by two fools to deceive themselves.

She doesn't talk to you only to ask money for food and give her

That's where your problem lies. Learn to fight fire with fire or leave the marriage. No woman is worth your peace of mind.

I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by CalmElder(m): 1:13pm On Apr 18, 2022
DispatcherLagos:


To think I "stylishly" interviewed some married men on how they are fairing in their marriages....... you will not believe that over 70% of them wish they are single. And the remaining 30% wish they married someone else






I ask married people, both male and female, point blank if they are enjoying their marriages.
Most say that they don'tt.
If not because of morals, I for no reason am lailai!
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:15pm On Apr 18, 2022
DispatcherLagos:

Bros.... I don develop serious phobia for marriage abeg
Welcome on board Gee, just find one sheri koko gv belle and enjoy your life.
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by faithfull18(f): 1:32pm On Apr 18, 2022
Sha don't leave your marriage, these are minor issues.
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:37pm On Apr 18, 2022
Camelot65:
Lol, that number 3 ehn, I can't live with someone that gets angry easily. Are you saying you didn't notice this before getting married to her?

If something is becoming a torment for you, then leave.


He noticed it but this word called love no allow baba to see it. When I say women needs tough hand not too much petting but dem simps no go believe am

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2022
tiswell:
when we tell y'all not to marry these gals again,you call us unprintable names...happy Easter to the happy singles
Same wishes o jareeee, me jeopardise my peace of mind and freedom bcs of one daughter of eve that would only add more burden
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2022
Mindlog:


Uncle, you never ready to marry. cheesy
Na by force to marry ni

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 1:41pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Na by force to marry ni

No one is pointing a gun at anyone to get married.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:47pm On Apr 18, 2022
Mindlog:


No one is pointing a gun at anyone to get married.
Oya free d guy na

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 1:59pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Oya free d guy na

Did he inform you that I was holding him?

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:30pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
i give her the money because of my daughter. My baby has to Eat na
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:34pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:35pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
i only give her because i don't want my daughter to go Hungry
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 4:02pm On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
i only give her because i don't want my daughter to go Hungry
Yeah, baby can't go hungry, but u married d wrong person and if care is not taken, I see u having BP sooner than u expect
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ImaIma1(f): 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.
1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.
2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff
most especially the female friends.
3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.
I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail. Need advice pls.....


You need to learn how to ignore her when she starts acting up especially when she's at fault. Let her know that you are not taking all the rubbish.

The issue is that you condoned it and now it has become a full blown problem.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Margy: 4:19pm On Apr 18, 2022
We4all:
The question is, would you entertain your wife keeping male friends?


you dey mind the gooat!.. keeping female friends....as if we don't know what he does with them..OP needs sense..he is the problem
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ChocolateWine(f): 4:29pm On Apr 18, 2022
Everything is a problem for this generation
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 4:39pm On Apr 18, 2022
Margy:



you dey mind the gooat!.. keeping female friends....as if we don't know what he does with them..OP needs sense..he is the problem
Op see them, dem dun show, daughters of eve dun showwwwww

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 5:19pm On Apr 18, 2022
Margy:



you dey mind the gooat!.. keeping female friends....as if we don't know what he does with them..OP needs sense..he is the problem
i haven't Slept with any other woman Asides my wife since we got married and she knows

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