Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

You don't seem to care about what you are getting yourself into.

holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

Hahahaha
Do not bring God into this madness.
The scripture says do not tempt the lord your God.

Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

It's still the same, it isn't really horrific if it's less than 3 month and the baby hasn't formed. what will be more horrific is watching your lovable child suffer and die slowly after been full of hope for the future

Your first line of writeup has already say it all. You knew it and you went in. WHY?

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

YOU ARE A VERY VERY VERY WICKED AND SELFISH PERSON.

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

That man get sense, but you wan do head like pickin with coconut head .......

The man should also be blamed massively, the first time was GOODLUCK !!!!!!

If this second pregnancy turned out AS, you would still risk the 3rd time and head to church for testimonials....... We have brains to think and not for temptations.............

When this second child starts having crisis, I hope you would have the financial, emotional and psychological strength, to carry on ..........

DrFunmisticGlow:
You think the Catholic church will help you when you're running kitikiti katakata with a sick child every month?

Bleep that nonsense and do what's in your best interest. Abort it and beg God for forgiveness.


A [/b]good [b]number of sticklers don't make it up to 5years of age. Are you ready for that kind of sorrow?
Are you ready to struggle with Poverty
To raise this child? Because you will when your employers complain about you being absent because of a sick child. Your useless partner has jumped ship and you are busy whining about a church that doesn't care.

I lost my cousin who was 11 when I was 8 to sickle cell anaemia. I see many kids and adults succumb to it

I see and admit at least 6 sicklers every month. One of my patients is always threatening suicide in every admission due to the pain.
If you want that, go ahead.

it is not true....from what the op wrote she lives in Europe (since such tests are rare here in nigeria or cannot be carried out) ...and thus a better chance if survival past the age of 5.....@Djiri have your baby boy ,..manage the critical age of 6 months to 2.5years well ....when he gets to 3 plus place him (with doctor recommendation of course) on hydroxyurea...to enable his fetal hemoglobin induction.....and then plan for a bone marrow transplant down the line if you can fund it.....but with hydroxyurea he can leave a near normal life free from severe vaso occulusive crisis etc.....you will be happy for it

Djriri:

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Let’s be realistic before being emotional pls but before that, I think you should consult with people working/familiar with this field because I heard that there’s been a breakthrough on this I fly disease. But if there is still no cure/Medication for it yet, pls don’t ever try banking on miracle or chance, save the innocent child from the impending suffering and agony. Do what’s right. Also you are not doing the baby any good keeping him, in fact, you’ll be doing him more good by not bringing him here just to watch him suffer and praying and wishing for euthanasia. Don’t let your emotions becloud your reasoning

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

You are selfish.... Do you know the kind of pain such kids go through? Why subject a human to such unbearable pain because of your own selfish desires and emotions.

Why? this where simple logic should have trump over emotions. I don't know why you guys keep doing this all in the name of love...

Kids with sickle cell suffer pain, so much pains.

Please if you are reading this and in a relationship that will birth a sickle cell child, kindly abort that mission and move on to someone else.

DrFunmisticGlow:
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question

How is he a stupid and irresponsible person? If you don't mind, we can just have a conversation about this

please, don't abort the baby because if you do, you have committed murder I.e you are a murderer.

ABORT MISSION......I REPEAT ABORT MISSION

peace0813:
Hmm! Anybody can die at the end not only SS

Go to sleep, you know know pain. Pray you were born that way, then you will know it's easier said that done, because you are whole abi, you better thank God for your life. You don't have a first hand experience about something but here you are just opening your mouth wide.

Demonic entity

May son's never be born from your womb.

Candidlady:



This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

My Love,

I'm so sorry for your predicament at the moment.

Your partner who you are unmarried to has gone with the wind.

Your first child (a sickler) will not find it funny growing up.

On your part, you are alone and faced with a gigantic issue at hand.

Let me suggest the best solutions out of your problems.

1. There's no other way - The only way which is the hard way is to face reality and ABORT the baby...Don't look back at religion (Catholic)...They will never help you when the chips are down.

2. Never contact your ex anymore ...He has gone for good.

3. You need a caring partner with excellent health status to fall back and rest your heavy shoulders on.

4. Do everything possible to take care of the little kid you have at hand...Your baby is God's gift!

5. Lastly, send me a private message...You know why? I'm AA (Genotype) and O+ (Blood group)...I'm interested in making you happy and fulfilled as a woman...I'm single and ready to marry you, that's if you want.

Don't think much.

Cheers!

You went ahead to have the baby when you fully understand what's at stake as AS genotypes,I'll advise you to abort the pregnancy,you won't like to witness the pain the SS go through or the wahala the parents go through

There are chinese medications with proven efficacy on S gene modification. Go ahead and have ur God given child with less worries

Useless op and her equally useless boyfriend. U both know ur genotypes and u are still knacking raw.

How did we get here?

Having read most of the advise given,and also seeing what patients with SS gene go through as a doctor I think I would say u go with the majority opinion.

It's a difficult decision to make lady.
God be with you.
Amin.

holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

Close mouth jo. The only solution is Bone Marrow transplant from a donor. You can get such surgery in Europe and American easily.

Is your partner not a literate? U can let this go, your next baby will be AA so y shld he pack and go.

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

You better go and abort the baby. Because God cannot change SS to AS......

Managing SS child no be small thing o.....I repeat, abort the baby

Since you have" taken in",wait and let Allah do what he wills,because if you deliberately abort the child??its called "MURDER" especially beyond the stage of taking form.

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Bone marrow transplant might help.i don't know if we have hospitals in Nigeria that carry out such surgery.

Since you have" taken in",wait and let Allah do what he wills,because if you deliberately abort the child??its called "MURDER" especially beyond the stage of taking form.....I am s.s and there's 2 more of us,the elders girl has been the bread winner of the family for long....so be wise

MALIGNANTGuest:

Have you ever bothered to ask her how the person knew the baby in the womb has got SS?
Let the person educate us.
We are here to learn...

She already answered that question and how much it costs for the test. Check the first page.

"Chorionic villus sampling was used to diagnose the disease."

onlinestaff2020:


My Love,

I'm so sorry for your predicament at the moment.

Your partner who you are unmarried to has gone with the wind.

Your first child (a sickler) will not find it funny growing up.

On your part, you are alone and faced with a gigantic issue at hand.

Let me suggest the best solutions out of your problems.

1. There's no other way - The only way which is the hard way is to face reality and ABORT the baby...Don't look back at religion (Catholic)...They will never help you when the chips are down.

2. Never contact your ex anymore ...He has gone for good.

3. You need a caring partner with excellent health status to fall back and rest your heavy shoulders on.

4. Do everything possible to take care of the little kid you have at hand...Your baby is God's gift!

5. Lastly, send me a private message...You know why? I'm AA (Genotype) and O+ (Blood group)...I'm interested in making you happy and fulfilled as a woman...I'm single and ready to marry you, that's if you want.

Don't think much.

Cheers!

. Guy you smart o.

holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

what kind of belief is that. Stop misleading people

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

both of ur are mad people... See evil love or lust has made u want to put the poor boy through.... E no go better for both of una for what u are about to take that poor child through..

Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

so why did you come to sick advice?

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

sorry, you have to abort it, the child will suffer and all the suffering will be on your head because you knew about it.

You and your partner are stupid