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oyinmykel:
You see why lying is bad?

You accused him of losing the phone and you helped him find it by tracking it. He then allowed a little time and then asked if you saw money in the carton he kept the phone.
He is upset with you because you took him to be stupid. He has every right to be upset with you.

From your message, you still didn’t acknowledge your fault. First I’ll advice you take a bold step to really apologize to him and make a resolution on what you have to do to make money and help the family.
Those advising you to leave are probably under their parents roof too. Outside no easy make I tell you

Look for something to do, no matter how small. Give some money to support the house to show you’re responsible. Occasionally recharge his phone or pay electricity bills.
Trust me, he will start acknowledging how proud he is of you

Outside no easy?
But the foolish boy is buying iPhone.
Did he buy iPhone for his father?
He's not supporting the dad in anyway and yet is doing Yanga with phone.
He really deserves heavy slap
The old man is tired of the boy.
.
He should really stay outside that house.
But if he CANNOT do so at this age,
SELL that Fucking iPhone and give your dad a gift.
Humble himself till he can find a good job, leave the house and go and buy iPhone OUTSIDE in his own house.

tonididdy:
That your papa na Igbo man, I know

Yorubadman he is

cococandy:
Your father is abusive. His curse won’t do anything to you.
I don’t know why African parents like to provoke their children

If you had money, he won’t be trying you this way as a 27 year old man that you are

I noticed that a lot in our parents, child that was doing well before, and start having financial problem is easily tag as useless child, Is even worst if the child is still staying with them.

YeyeGbami:
Enter street go hustle don't have to be yahoo, at that age he suppose don dey inside life sinceee.

Please link me up with any hustle cuz rn I don’t know where to start from

InformationTV:
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You should be able to tell yourself THE TRUTH about The Real Life Situations which you are faced with.



Money Stops Nonsense:

However, your problem here is that you are 27 Years and You are still with Your Dad. He expects you to be doing financially better by now.


It's High time You Moved Out of The House to a place of your own.

This is exactly what he wants, so get yourself Financially Independent and Location Free.


Sadly, you are not monetarily buoyant and here lies the Ultimate Problem between You and Your Dad.


So, Get Money.

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Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

Bro, your papa no go just collect your waya like that....you are into something.


Keep lying to urself... u hear?

InformationTV:
ONLY YOU can make the decision to stay or go back home.

You should be able to tell yourself THE TRUTH about The Real Life Situations which you are faced with.



Money Stops Nonsense:

However, your problem here is that you are 27 Years and You are still with Your Dad. He expects you to be doing financially better by now.


It's High time You Moved Out of The House to a place of your own.

This is exactly what he wants, so get yourself Financially Independent and Location Free.


Sadly, you are not monetarily buoyant and here lies the Ultimate Problem between You and Your Dad.


So, Get Money.

PS:

To earn yourself some passive money; you should consider earning money Digitally through Trending Means like Cryptos, NFTs and Other E-Currencies. Learn these Skills and you'll be glad you did.


Another easy business that you canbgo into for Quick and Good Profits is Agricultural Merchandise of Non-Perishables like Palm Oil and Garri.


Feel Free to Enrol into Our Financial Freedom Institution so that you learn how to Achieve Financial Freedom by MAKING MONEY ONLINE.


I'll drop more details about this Digital Finance Institute below.

Please how can reach u sir

sholay2011:
This one na real wa...

If there are people that can go with you to apologize to your dad (it's not good for one's parent to rain curses on them even if not justified), but I don't think it's the best idea to go sleep in that house. This should be a wake up-call for you to be independent of your dad. You will actually earn his respect that way, and he may begin to miss you sef after all the fights una don fight. But really, can your father kill you ni or is his anger that bad?

God help you.

The man deserves no apology. A 27 year old man is not a small.boy that you will sieze his property. If no be Nigeria economy 27 year old boy go don born at least 2 children of his own.

If you cant respect the choices of your 27 year old son and have to assault him to make your point then you are not a good dad.

At 15 i calmly told my dad that i lead and control friends outside...he should therefore talk to me with some dignity and iron out whatever the issue is as i will not accept another human being being violent with me.

We became very close after that

Alexpetra:
I noticed that a lot in our parents, child that was doing well before, and start having financial problem is easily tag as useless child, Is even worst if the child is still staying with them.

Then he should leave the house.
27years is over due to leave .

Please don't mention any kind of succeess or doing well if you are still in your parents house
You are not doing ANYTHING until you have left that house
20 years tops!!

With all due respect your father is a jonsing man

SarkinYarki:
What are you doing in your dad's house at 27

I don’t have enough money to move

oyinmykel:
You see why lying is bad?

You accused him of losing the phone and you helped him find it by tracking it. He then allowed a little time and then asked if you saw money in the carton he kept the phone.
He is upset with you because you took him to be stupid. He has every right to be upset with you.

From your message, you still didn’t acknowledge your fault. First I’ll advice you take a bold step to really apologize to him and make a resolution on what you have to do to make money and help the family.
Those advising you to leave are probably under their parents roof too. Outside no easy make I tell you

Look for something to do, no matter how small. Give some money to support the house to show you’re responsible. Occasionally recharge his phone or pay electricity bills.
Trust me, he will start acknowledging how proud he is of you

You want a 27yo graduate to continue living under his parent? When is gonna start his life as a man? Or you want him to remain a boy till he maybe get to inherit dad's property?
No sensible father will enjoy having his son idling around after service. Obi WAS a boy. Now he's a man hence the need for him to act as a man and move out.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

First thing, You need to realize that you are lost. You depend on Nairaland for family advice. Your father may be wrong, (we don't have his side of the story) but you are clearly wrong. You need to start acting like a man and grow up. Your father is very right in suspecting you of Yahoo. You already confessed to being a smuggler (you smuggle petrol products to Benin). You are obviously living a life of crime and no good father would support that.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

For your own good, DON'T TRUST YOUR STEP MOTHER.
Respect her, but I forbid you from trusting her ever again. If you continue this your naivity of trusting people, you'll land your destiny in big soup.
Pikin wey nor get mama dey wise, them nor dey trust people at all. I don't know why your own case is so different.
Are you the first son? Let me know, so that I can advise you further.

Alexpetra:
I noticed that a lot in our parents, child that was doing well before, and start having financial problem is easily tag as useless child, Is even worst if the child is still staying with them.

The boy says he smuggles petrol to Benin. He was clearly living a life of crime. No good father would be comfortable with such.

otipoju:
The man deserves no apology. A 27 year old man is not a small.boy that you will sieze his property. If no be Nigeria economy 27 year old boy go don born at least 2 children of his own.

If you cant respect the choices of your 27 year old son and have to assault him to make your point then you are not a good dad.

At 15 i calmly told my dad that i lead and control friends outside...he should therefore talk to me with some dignity and iron out whatever the issue is as i will not accept another human being being violent with me.

We became very close after that

Are you still in your father's house?
Are you paying rent?
Useless pikin.
27year old man cannot pay rent and is making noise that his father slapped him.
If he can born 2 children by age 27,
He should get the f*ck out of the house and born the kids in HIS OWN house
Until then,
Apologize and SHUT UP!

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please link me up with any hustle cuz rn I don’t know where to start from

Any hustle keh, my brother be careful o. It is cold outside.

If you don’t have the resources to survive in the wilderness, don’t leave your papa house o.

Nobody go give you update for free like that o.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

You either wrestle your dad or move out of that house. If everything you narrated here is 100% true, then your dad needs to be spanked and he'll come to his sense. No apologies becos I mean it.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Yorubadman he is

baba just try go tomorrow morning when your Stepmom is around, and hear what they have to say, and if your dad is speaking just resist the temptation to reply him, he fit make am vex more, after All...prepare yourself to move out, it might not be this moment, but try to move, it will be hard but it will give you some mental rest.

YeyeGbami:
Enter street go hustle don't have to be yahoo, at that age he suppose don dey inside life sinceee.

Oya help am with the 'non yahoo' street hustle wey you dey do so that he fit comot from him predicament


Infact drop the hustle cuz e go help many people here

neonly:
Do u know d kind of sacrifice yur dad endure to raise you to d point where u can afford a phone common it just a phone
U hurt him but you might no know d kind gravity
He probably showing off indirectly to yur step mum dat my children listen to me etc
Yes if you were staying in yur own place d case wound be different but wait his house his rules
My own dad was still beating with correct slap even though I was staying in my own house till I got d age of 38
Bro's it was just a phone you could have saved again to buy another one
It shows u are rude
U try dat my late papa u are done
What yur did was bad accept and try to build trust and d bridge between you and yur dad back OK

Complete trash.

berbs:
You either wrestle your dad or move out of that house. If everything you narrated here is 100% true, then your dad needs to be spanked and he'll come to his sense. No apologies becos I mean it.

no now... It is true that it is his father's house but the house still belong to his father, he can't wrestle with him,
Best is to leave. Father calling his own son bastard?? Mehn!

YeyeGbami:
Any hustle keh, my brother be careful o. It is cold outside.

If you don’t have the resources to survive in the wilderness, don’t leave your papa house o.

Nobody go give you update for free like that o.

This 27year old bought BRAND NEW IPHONE, last year.
And he wasn't thinking of any business.
He saved his hard money to buy iPhone.
What happened to Nokia of 30k?

Now the iPhone has failed you and you're looking for money to do hustle.
He can't even pay rent and live independently outside.
Even me here, I want to slap the Young man.
If his father dies now, where will he see money to bury him?
Or the father should not die again?
Phone
Phone
Phone
This generation will DIE because of phone.

Bobmarie:
Complete trash.

Big one for that matter.

Goldie16:
For your own good, DON'T TRUST YOUR STEP MOTHER.
Respect her, but I forbid you from trusting her ever again. If you continue this your naivity of trusting people, you'll land your destiny in big soup.
Pikin wey nor get mama dey wise, them nor dey trust people at all. I don't know why your own case is so different.
Are you the first son? Let me know, so that I can advise you further.

Yes I’m the first son of the family.

I had similar issues with my dad after graduation few years back(no be small thing o). To cut the long story short bro. Look for a way to get a room apartment or stay with a friend for now. I guess he’s tired of feeding you at 27.
He loves you trust me.
Go into the world and make exploits.
MAFO

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

Your dad is just like my dad wen it comes to angry mood.
Just this morning, my younger sister had to call me to come around cos Popsy may just injure her.
The rate at which our parents get angry sometimes amaze me, even wen they know they are at fault.
My advice is for you to settle with him, then get yourself an accommodation & leave his house.
Then, he will be the one begging to see you. When I left my dad house in 2018, he wasn't quickly aware and by the time he got to know, it was too late.
I didn't allow him access my house for good 4 months, he had to report me to some elders in my area before I allow him to visit my house.
Our fathers are different ooo but sometimes we need to be firm and courageous to withstand their unwarranted insults and nagging.

tctrills:
The boy says he smuggles petrol to Benin. He was clearly living a life of crime. No good father would be comfortable with such.

no the bitterness towards him started when he was not doing the so called Petrol smuggling again.

Man, throw yourself away, you’re not a kid no more. Guys that are not up to your age left home with no place in mind just to make it and get better.

Don’t you have real guys in your town or outside your town you can go squat with for some time.

uuzba:
Then he should leave the house.
27years is over due to leave .

Please don't mention any kind of succeess or doing well if you are still in your parents house
You are not doing ANYTHING until you have left that house
20 years tops!!

Some of una go just dey talk as if nor be this same Nigeria all of us dey...what opportunities are there for 30+ graduates in this country that your are putting 20yrs as the maximum to leave your parent's house?...Na this kind nonsense societal pressure dey push weak minded people go do wetin them nor suppose do just to 'level up'

With this kind of talk and mindset and you all sound alarmed when you hear of sixteen year old boys butchering girls to do ritual.

Na this kind character and way of reasoning/communicating dey lead to the exponential rise of inhumane act just to make money in this country

akinsmyk:
Man, throw yourself away, you’re not a kid no more. Guys that are not up to your age left home with no place in mind just to make it and get better.

Don’t you have real guys in your town or outside your town you can go squat with for some time.

He should leave home and go join his real guys in street hustling aka Yahoo to prove he's a man right?..This country will continue going down the drain with the mindset most of you have