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Blupen:
johel
I hail you

Why u dey hail me?...I be Obi cubana?

Bobmarie:
Abetterperson


Better carry your two left legs and leave that innocent young man alone. If he was a billionaire now, your dirty mouth will not open to be forming saint or even think about leaving him.

He does everything he’s supposed to do and doesn’t let his vice get in the way, you are still here yarning trash.

It’s non literates like you that will complain about weed but comfortably date a guy that drinks because you ignorantly believe there’s a difference.
Leave him alone, or send him my way, I have quality women available for him. Not airheads like you.

Better woman

Kobojunkie:
He says it stops the pain but in your arrogance you care more about having the perfect boyfriend you want than accepting him as is. Are you certain you aren't the one who needs to stop instead?,

Kobo, I must commend you for this. I'm surprised you can be at the positive side. Kudos

Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.

Henry, can't stop that weed.

Even for Uniport he didn't stop

The question you're to ask is this before proceeding to urge him to stop The are below..

- Does it affect his psychological status?

- How's he responding to The issues before
him( As commonly believed by y'all that smokers are irresponsible)?

-Is that kinda act of his, creating any damages to Those around him?

If none, you should learn to adapt his kinda lifestyle. Taking him to your acclaimed Saint route would do More harm to him than what his handling at now. Per Said And you insisted, let the Man alone inorder to let someone else who'll cope with his kinda way of life to his heart whilst you Also go for what you think that suits you right cus it's fully shown in your right up that he doesn't suits you but just trying to try luck whether you could change him to what you wanted, which is totally wrong.

If truly You dears the Love, You'll always be comfortable with that.

My opinion.

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helinues:
Mtceeeew..

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Abetterperson:
Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine

madam there’s nothing wrong in smoking allow him smoke in peace just give him kpekus.

Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.

HE IS A REAL NIGGA.
WEED IS GOOD FOR BODY BUT TOO MUCH IS BAD.

Abetterperson:
Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine

HE NEED COUNSELLING AFTER THE WED THE SITUATION STILL REMAIN,LET AM MAN OF GOD TALK TO HIM.HE WILL BE FREE;IT IS A THING OF MINDSET

Johel:
Why u dey hail me?...I be Obi cubana?

you pass obi cubana

Blupen:
you pass obi cubana

Amen o...u sef pass Dangote.

[color=#990000][/color]ok i have heard you all weed have never killed anyone before i want friends 09153534302

Eefosa1:
HE NEED COUNSELLING AFTER THE WED THE SITUATION STILL REMAIN,LET AM MAN OF GOD TALK TO HIM.HE WILL BE FREE;IT IS A THING OF MINDSET

And who told you men of God don't smoke weed. Those that don't smoke it put into their tea, I know that well so better don't deceive yourself as if pastors are not human.

Johel:
Amen o...u sef pass Dangote.

I know

johndho:
Aje, once in a while, it's good for the relationship, and you both go understand each other more. Trust me.

I dey tell you.