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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Ola4lead(m): 2:44pm On May 09, 2022
Buy him more weed...lol


NOTE : You can only take a horse to the river, but you can force the horse to drink water
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by UBAHA(m): 2:45pm On May 09, 2022
The first step to finding a solution is to step in before it's too late - Assuming he's in his early twenties. If he's willing to change, then...

Start by volunteering to be the one to buy the weed for him (that's if you constantly pay him a visit). Monitor the amount he takes daily and reduce it by not more than 25% for every 90 days. This is because it takes the body 3 months to form a lifestyle.

Reduce it gradually till his body adjust and adopt. This will take time but if you love him enough then it's a piece of cake.


Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by satandeterrible: 2:53pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:


Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine
You're such a big fool.
You better leave that young man now before you kill him with your constant nagging.
Animal.
You want to cut him off from his only coping mechanism bc if your selfish, narcissistic desires.
Stupid bitch. You didn't also mention how he carries your liability. Fuckingg retard.
Please leave that guy and allow him focus on himself and family.

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Vallyanthony(m): 2:55pm On May 09, 2022
Eeeyaa.. but over 80% of guys out dere smokes weed, az even loud.. This country get plenty wahala.. u really cant do much in this situation

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 09, 2022
What's the issue?

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by emani03(m): 2:59pm On May 09, 2022
Since he doesn’t misbehave after taking the weed,
I was once in that place...you have to remind him of the risk of smoking...
With time,he will adjust,don’t use force...for now
Be his peace.

Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine[/quote]
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by tomzyELNINO: 3:04pm On May 09, 2022
Many of these ladies that cry about physical abuse really need mental help.

How can somebody be a weed addict and you still claim you love him? later on, you will start crying about physical abuse. Get sense now!!
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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by extroveee(m): 3:09pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.


My dear, he will definitely stop, keep praying and encouraging him, I was once a cannabis consumer, but thank God for Lucky who led me to Christ it's been ten years now I said bye bye to cannabis smoking and drugs abuse.... Change is dynamic, with right attitude, and association nothing is impossible. Don't give up on him yet.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by 15ssDRIVE(m): 3:10pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.


Leave that man as you meet am, many things are working for good. It’s called Ewe Ola,leaf’s of riches.

Na idiots dey smoke and start violence, he just dey use weed catch cruiseX.

If our guy is non violence,jeje carry your cross.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by 15ssDRIVE(m): 3:12pm On May 09, 2022
Kriss216:


He's addicted yet he doesn't let it control him. I'm confused


Boss,
Addicted - like am die

Not control him: after smoking, same behavior as prior to smoking.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by 15ssDRIVE(m): 3:13pm On May 09, 2022
tomzyELNINO:
Many of these ladies that cry about physical abuse really need mental help.

How can somebody be a weed addict and you still claim you love him? later on, you will start crying about physical abuse. Get sense now!!

Because. Rastaman don’t do violence.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by olaniyilukman(m): 3:14pm On May 09, 2022
I think i am not in the best position to provide solution to the problem you just present, but I have specialist I can refer u to in the person of Naira marley, he should be able to help in this regards.. Expecting ur thanks

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by OKOATA(m): 3:18pm On May 09, 2022
zedegit:


I pity you. How much do you know these people you mentioned? Have you lived with any of them to know how they relate with their partners? How many times have some of them been called out for irresponsible behavior or has your love for their music beclouded your senses?

Ogbeni you no get point abeg. Don't you know any weed smokers around you? How many can you point that with an agressive behavior as you potray. So all those people wey beat their wives recently and killed them including the woman singer, was there any record they were weed smokers?
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Justinlean02(m): 3:21pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:


Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine
allow him take his medication while going through the struggle, help him control it when you're both made. I'm an addict only when I'm depressed, anxious and worried, weed is my natural remedy for those. You can only know when you've smoke

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Nobody: 3:24pm On May 09, 2022
U are lucky ur bf is a weed addict,wat if.





Go pay ur tithe sharply b4 ur colleagues go collect am dis year

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by BobPRESS5(m): 3:25pm On May 09, 2022
He will stop it one day, when the need arise
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by jacoik(m): 3:25pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:


Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine
your kind of girl is rare walahi. Imagine thinking good of a person you haven't gotten married to. My dear daughter, may our ancestors bless you and keep you save, may that young man find means to avoid weed intake because truly, that stuff is not good. Forget about the people who said it gives them inspiration, inspiration to inspire what please?

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Proverbboy: 3:25pm On May 09, 2022
Dreadlock69:
Never separate him from Mary j
But tell him to reduce his visit to Mary j

Cause Mary j will be there for him when you live
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by jacoik(m): 3:26pm On May 09, 2022
your kind of girl is rare walahi. Imagine thinking good of a person you haven't gotten married to. My dear daughter, may our ancestors bless you and keep you save, may that young man find means to avoid weed intake because truly, that stuff is not good. Forget about the people who said it gives them inspiration, inspiration to inspire what please?
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Proverbboy: 3:27pm On May 09, 2022
Dreadlock69:
Never separate him from Mary j
But tell him to reduce his visit to Mary j

Cause Mary j will be there for him when you live

Mary Jane is best love

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Proverbboy: 3:30pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.
My dear I'm also a weed addict, no shame in saying this. I'm not happy about it, stopping weed is a very difficult thing........ What I have to is that no amount of word, prayer or advice can change him expect he advices himself

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by AriseNews: 3:31pm On May 09, 2022
placeofallure:


I understand what she's saying, don't be confused.

I have a friend like that, he's a few years older. We used to be neighbors before we became friends. He's a big weed smoker. Apart from his dark lips, there's nothing to tell you he smokes. He made excellent grades from the university, he's an electrical engineer. He dresses well and speaks impeccable English. He used to be an employee now he owns his company, big one that solves problems. Oyinbos will carry him from here to the abroad, all expense paid trip to go sort out issues for them. Many times we'll be together when Chinese, indians, whites call him and we'd laugh over their bad English. As he's picking calls, he's smoking his weed. I've never seen him misbehaving or acting irresponsibly. I stopped telling him to quit smoking when I discovered that people who don't smoke aren't half as reasonable as he is.

I think that's the picture OP is trying to paint.

My friend has made me to conclude that cannabis doesn't cause anyone to misbehave, you misbehave because you want to.

Lol..know someone like this too. But he is trying to quit Sha...he regrets it sometimes. But he is smart and doing well for himself. He owns one of the popular leather brand in Nigeria today.
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by orumba(m): 3:33pm On May 09, 2022
Very soon you go join him
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by offset67(m): 3:36pm On May 09, 2022
It's a good thing
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by Tzar(m): 3:39pm On May 09, 2022
Drugs destroys lives. It destroys the lives of those who take it & their loved ones.
Beg him to stop, pray for him & ask God to compel him to stop. LEAVE HIM if he refuses.
He may even kill you one day while under the influence of a high! How sure are you that he is not into other worse drugs?
Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by VincenzoZhuxu: 3:42pm On May 09, 2022
God made smoke you gerrit if you don't forget about it

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by ThinkSmarter: 3:56pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.
From what you said, he doesn't let it[marijuana]control his behaviour or his function [his day to day biz]
That means he is not an addict.
He doesn't exhibit the traits of a drug addict.
He is a modest user like most people.
I use marijuana too like your boyfriend.
The problem is that society have indoctrinated to you that smoking or using a natural plant is evil.
And the same society stereotyping marijuana is the same society many other herbal plants like neem leaves, guava leaves, ginger, garlic, onions, basil, myrrh, etc.
Except for health reasons where smoking it comes with respiratory associated risks like lung cancer and artery blockage.
Allow him to use it modestly, except it's affecting his mental or physical health.
I am smoking marijuana as i am typing right now.
People that have never smoked marijuana can never give an open minded and objective analysis of the drug impact on the human body.
The whites has started legalising marijuana for medical and recreational uses.

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by ubreal(m): 3:59pm On May 09, 2022
Na drunkards or womaniser u want abi!!
All men have their Achilles heel
If you can cope with him
Then go ahead
Made perfect men dey only jumia!!
Okoli pass me the kpoli!!

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by darichlife: 4:00pm On May 09, 2022
Jmichael1:


he smoke weed bt does nt get high or misbehave...
I now believe when philosophers says women are the originators of confusion on earth, they seem not know what they want most times and thats why SIMPS wil kip dying. THC Does nt affect ur man negatively and it worries you? Sis just say you hate the impression people wil have abt him taking weed.

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Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by MoneyGoDrop: 4:10pm On May 09, 2022
Abeg leave the young man alone. Weed is the only reason,he's behaving sanely and hasn't committed suicide because of depression. Weed will always be there for him in his time of need while you nagg his ear off.

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