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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 5:57am On May 31, 2022
micflo28:
Not studying Medicine to land a lucrative job
That makes two of us.
I believe life would have been different.
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 5:58am On May 31, 2022
Ayomide1012:
I Masturbated for 15 years of my life and finally stopped this year
Are you married now? Or you have a sex partner?
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 5:59am On May 31, 2022
Spain007:
No regrets....just lessons

There are some situations you will never have the opportunity to relive again. Do you also cal those lessons?

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 6:10am On May 31, 2022
Yakson5:
Masturbation and drugs is my greatest regrets in life.I pray that God will save me from this miserable addictions
You can be free.
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Dannyfan(m): 6:12am On May 31, 2022
Fairview1:


Do you have any tangible property that's worth 80k on a second hand value?
Nope
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 6:12am On May 31, 2022
ForexMaster123:
Guess you married him cause he was rich

Please can you send me a whatapp msg. Thanks
Zero.eight.zero.three.seven.six.one.five.one.nine.one.
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by zedegit: 6:16am On May 31, 2022
Das1mama:
Although I had this illusion that made me to say, I regretted ever knowing the mother of my son reasons was that she left both me and son when the hardship of this so called Nigeria was at the extreme or apex level, for almost 4-5years now am still finding it difficult to be stable; but on d second taught i had to accept it as my fate and cross to bear that the world we live in today is a teacher and the experience or the mistake i made was an added knowledge but though through d hard way.

She lessoned the burden for you as you couldn't feed her.

Were you even working? Some men relax as long as their wives is making enough money.

Marriage is a joint partnership with shared responsibility. That's why you should take your time to get a sensible and responsible partner.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by zedegit: 6:23am On May 31, 2022
FriendsAndFans:
Although I have always known since 100 level but during my final year in the university, I realized I made a very bad choice regarding my course of study.
I should have quit since 100 level. I shouldn't have bothered what my mum and dad would say. I should have quit. I should have quit and wrote more jamb and wait for a better course regardless how long

But fvck it.... Ama go back to school and get another degree... It's all about the finance I can still change my story but can't take back that 4 years


I had similar experience with you but I refused to regret it because it's a learning experience and I can counsel others from making it.

Parents should guide but not force their children into courses. It's not the name of course that matter but the opportunities to secure paid employment after it. Choose a course that interests you and you can excel in it.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Gaddafih001(m): 6:24am On May 31, 2022
Irupetepete:
it is hell on earth, you will waste years with no headway in life
God bless you immensely.
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Gaddafih001(m): 6:27am On May 31, 2022
Jmichael1:


we dey dsame shoe bro,loan apps nack me wetin no good at all.,
i've used almost 320k jst to pay loans btw january till dis month.
i dn cross my mind,i no dey pay again,make dem do their worst....
i still dey owe newcredit 55k,xcash 46k,xcrosscash 39k...
i dn change my sim card b4 i die of HBP...
Lwkmdddddd
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by jclassiq(m): 6:30am On May 31, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
Being disobedient 2 my parents,agreeing to date him,and being a mastubator finding it hard 2 stop

i just pray GOD will help me cuz am tired of myself crycry
Agreeing to date him? Did he initiate you into masturbation?
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by wilroy: 6:38am On May 31, 2022
I really regret losing my parents as a minor
It really affected everything about my life till this present moment
I have seen shege in the hands of men

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Das1mama: 6:41am On May 31, 2022
zedegit:


She lessoned the burden for you as you couldn't feed her.

Were you even working? Some men relax as long as their wives is making enough money.

Marriage is a joint partnership with shared responsibility. That's why you should take your time to get a sensible and responsible partner.
Thanks for the input i appreciate.
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by segcymoor(m): 7:02am On May 31, 2022
Irupetepete:
rich for where?

Perhaps for down there...
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by paduzman: 7:09am On May 31, 2022
Nothing really, cos I can't change what has happened but I can always look towards a better future. Having said that, get yourself an Oraimo power bank and say goodbye to your phone ever being out of power.

Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Bahamas95(m): 7:14am On May 31, 2022
I regret being born in Nigeria, everything about Nigeria and Nigerians annoy me. So many wicked people here, most times we blame the leaders but the masses are more wicked. Nigerians take advantage of everything to punish themselves. They are happy whenever prices of things go up because even when it comes down they leave it like that or even increase it.

I have always loved these three countries, I wish I was born there.........

1. Italy

2. Germany

3. Russia

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Cyntie55(f): 7:15am On May 31, 2022
Jmichael1:

we dey dsame shoe bro,loan apps nack me wetin no good at all.,
i've used almost 320k jst to pay loans btw january till dis month.
i dn cross my mind,i no dey pay again,make dem do their worst....
i still dey owe newcredit 55k,xcash 46k,xcrosscash 39k...
i dn change my sim card b4 i die of HBP...
Well, I'm not surprised. You're just a typical Nigerian man.

You people know how to beg for loan, but to pay back it's a big problem... That's bad. Go and pay back your loans.

Didn't you agree to the terms and conditions before you signed up for it?? So why are you destroying people's business??

When you were borrowing, you don't have HBP but time to pay back you developed HBP.

This is the major reason I don't borrow Nigerians money. Please pay back your loans.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by segcymoor(m): 7:18am On May 31, 2022
ukaface:
you know me before? undecided undecidedson of Adam
Monitoring spirit, no go mind your business.

He must be a good guesser.... that's the primary problem of almost all Ladies especially in this part of the world

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:38am On May 31, 2022
Divay22:
Alright....
hi please can we talk via email?
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by aswani(m): 7:39am On May 31, 2022
Regret being born into a family of people who want to be treated as important but don't want to put in the effort and hard work to justify it.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:40am On May 31, 2022
segcymoor:


He must be a good guesser.... that's the primary problem of almost all Ladies especially in this part of the world
check all the comments coming from ladies on this thread.
all their regrets are centered on either dating, relationship, man, marriageable or family.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by cuteralph101(m): 7:41am On May 31, 2022
Funkyswagzz:
One of the things i regret up till today is that i didnt study in a private university. I have my personal reasons for saying that. Also i regret helping my cousin when he needed me cos i later found out that he around me to gain what ever he can. This dude stopped calling me because he is making his money. So i had to keep my distance.

Feel free to share yours. Its the only way u can let go of those regret.
posted this in January 2020...as at today I've spent over 900k on repairs accidents and mechanical issues. Car is milking me badly . Read

How I spent over 2.6 million on a car that gets me sad, embarrassed and frustrated. Now I am getting depressed…

Last year 22 June is one day I can't easily forget. I just got myself a Toyota Camry 2007 for my 25th Birthday. I bought the car for 1.8m from a very good friend of mine (8 years together). He buys and sells used and foreign (tokunbo) cars although not a certified dealer. He drove the car down to my loc and I accessed the car I was shocked as it was far from what I expected. On inspecting the car, I was not so impressed, despite having a california plate number like heck this shit supposed be better than i anticipated. The sound of the car was too noisy, the vibrations from the dashboard, the windscreen cracked (about 28inches), the interior a bit neat but the sound system to the gear lever area was not so neat. I began to doubt the prize of the car but we already negotiated at 1.8m. I asked if this car is okay, he affirmed that it is and can't sell a problem to his brother.

I drove the car out to look for a car diagnosing company but it was a rainy day had to come back not being able to get a car company to check the car. The car consumes fuel a little bit more than conventional 4 plugs and it raised further doubt about the roadworthiness of the car but what do I know car was moving although skips when entering gear 3. I didn't know much about all this as overtime I didn't put the discipline of owning a car with this being my second car am so ashamed. Went back home I asked my friend what's wrong with the car he affirmed again that nothing is wrong. A month later I started noticing oil stain where I park. I bent over and saw oil dripping my heart almost skipped while this is a small issue (I knew this later) I trembled…this car is just a month old. I spent 31k fixing this shit cos I was too busy to inspect the repairs. A week later the same issue occurred. This was getting too much.

This got me sad and mad and I was already regretting the choice of getting a car. I later opted for a car company (My worst mistake). Oil seal was fixed 4 times in 7 months oil keeps dripping from the engine. Between this period the car abruptly stops on the road and sometimes won't even start after parking. I suffered all this with a faulty steering pump which causes the steering to be stiff. Some car companies aren't trustworthy and won't likely be the solution to your car problems...but they got my car moving each time it breaks down and I paid the exorbitant cost for minor repairs for fear of this roadside mechanics. The drill continued and I kept repairing and kept paying. The worst happened in March this year when I had a hit with a reckless driver. The bonnet bent a little and bumper beyond repair. I painted the car after 11 days. I told a panel beater working with the painter to bring the car home for me on reaching close the car stopped. Suffered to get it home as the car keeps draining charged batteries.

The next day I called the car company to come take the car for checks and possible repair. The next day I was told the engine has to be ringed that it's not the alternator. Bill of 169k for everything. I opted for a new engine (2AZ and was billed 300k for everything by the same company). I also bought shaft for both legs (55k). The former engine I was told is now scrapped and would be sold for a small amount (I left it for them). The car was with them for about 7 weeks as I wasn't around. When the car was out, AC no longer working. I called and was told the compressor is bad and needs to be changed. Why me! Bill 148k Like my God what have I done...? I spent 96k to fix AC (I had to call someone else from the neighboring state). I discovered that the AC had been fixed before and resulted to change most of the AC components. had to rethink this whole spending, right now my windscreen is bad can't see well when it's raining, my headlamp bad not bright, my exhaust very noisy unwanted sound from the manifold and consumes fuel, the legs need to be checked again (camber bushing or what do they call it) and interior needs fixing. Other issues although not certain is the suspension.
After penning my frustration in this piece Nairaland kept banning me from uploading…I gave up trying. The worst right now my gear doesn't select after a journey of 112km to and fro where I base. I need to share this experience so people can learn from this.
The estimate for expenses carried out so far on repairs so far should be over 850k in one year (major repairs: New Engine + Shaft 355k, AC 96k, Legs [fixed twice] 64K {break pads, hub, tie rod, bushing etc}) (minor repairs: oil seal repair 4 times around 80k (new oil every time to put a new oil seal), Nozzle + Plugs + Fan + Key starter 44k, Exhaust (net) 10.4k. Others: painting 60k and panel beating 15k. (all of this excluding gear) Bought tires several times as they keep peeling off from bad alignment although Belgium tires. There are others I can't remember right now. All this excluding fuel. I honestly can't continue like this.

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:43am On May 31, 2022
ukaface:
you know me before? undecided undecidedson of Adam
Monitoring spirit, no go mind your business.
please can we talk via email
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:49am On May 31, 2022
Fearme344:
My only regret is disobey my mum and dad when I was younger but now dat I have sense and trying to fix things I hope I have not destroyed my future just because of my kid
same here, we all tend to develop sense as we grow and face the realities of life

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:54am On May 31, 2022
198800Mam:
MY GREATEST REGRET IN LIFE IS THIS
kilo nsele?

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:55am On May 31, 2022
spiceadole:


Ever taking sides with my mother while she suffered DV in the hands of my father.

I regret all the care and protection I gave her.
If I had known, I would have ignored her and allow him continue to beat her
haba I don't understand.
wetin happen
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by iceone2000: 7:57am On May 31, 2022
Connected1:

I did like to learn a thing or two from you?

Can I ask?

Yes, bring it on!
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:58am On May 31, 2022
lansile:
Marrying someone I found out a bit too late she doesn't love me. I thought she does initially but it's clear as day to me now she accepted me just to get a father for our daughter. I have seen every indication she is just being in marriage just to boost her social class. I regret seriously now not putting enough efforts to marry someone who until now she hasn't got over our separation. I also feel my marriage was supposed to be 2 years later which was the exact time my ex girlfriend told me she would get marry but I decided to marry my wife because of pressure from family and the fact that I was around 40 and still single too.
ladies don't marry because of love, they marry because they want to settle down and have children.
after they give birth, they'll now focus all their love and attention on their children and no more the husband

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Anndrew(m): 7:58am On May 31, 2022
Decembe:
I wasted a whole 6years.
Instead of me to learn a skill or continue my education,I stayed with sister to assist her after she gave birth to twins.
Stayed with another of my sis during corona period to take care of her kids because of her work then.
Now am doing A'level programme and none of them never for once call me to ask of me if I don't call or flash them.Shishi i never see from them since last year October.
I told them I need 5000# to start perfume oil business,no response from them.
My story long gan.
But oomoooo....I really regret helping them.

There is no success without Regret,u did what was best to them,..u have alrdy made a sacrifice..it will pay off,trust me..No Regret

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Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by TechBIogger: 7:59am On May 31, 2022
Johel:


Being born in Nigeria.
na you cause am?
Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by Beautygoddesss: 7:59am On May 31, 2022
jclassiq:

Agreeing to date him? Did he initiate you into masturbation?
kinda yescry

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