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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by cocolacec(m): 7:47am On Jun 12, 2022
womenareapez:
I bet you, you won't regret. Just keep that at the back of your mind that you will date a White woman apart from those gorillas species called naija women undecided

I'm a living testimony and the experience so far is out of this world kiss

White women will choke you with love but gorillas will finish you with frustration undecided

Be wise and dont go for gorillas

Wrong a white woman will sleep with your friend,brother or any man around you without remorse.

Whites dont have entitled mentality because their govt provide everything for them from unemployment benefits,maternity benefits,Childrens benefits,single mothers earn more so what else do they need men for except for sx or companionship.

Whenever she is done with you,she will date your friend or brother.In case of divorce you will never see your children again.whites can dump after 20 years of marriage for a younger man.

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Breadfruit: 8:02am On Jun 12, 2022
BigDawsNet:



You gerrit... not like they don't lie sometimes..but they are honest in some kind of area...
It's part of their DNA

I love you
It's over
those two words...don't joke with it...

They hav issues forgiving sometimes too

Don't cheat, if you do..don't get caught
Don't abuse them physically
Don't abuse them verbally
If you do this 3 things... bro just know ur gf/wife is gone.... they can't forgive easily

When it comes with highly intelligent... not all hav that .. but majority possess it because of the society they grew up from...

Finally if you ready to settle with one... you will hav to erase the "AFRICAN MAN OF THE MAN " attitude and mentality...

Goan cook for me
Goan dry clean my cloth
I want to hav sex by force
Sit down there..
You must not make friends
all this will not work.

If you wanna last with her.... not like you hav to be extremely soft but you hav to learn how a husband behave in a foreign country with their wives....

If you don't follow the rules...you will be a regular customer at cops station

So you people discard the garb of anyhowness when you get with white women? You reserve the worst of your behavior for black women but will still not let black women drink water and drop cup…

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Frankcasanova(m): 8:07am On Jun 12, 2022
DaInferno:
og,I agree with your decision 100%. Pass me her number biko...the girl wey I been d date no d fear God, na God d fear am.
����� My belle wan burst cos say I dey laugh

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by smudge2079(m): 8:15am On Jun 12, 2022
dawnomike:
Never experienced that cos my late dad would always say "...two things that I do not choose for my children are: their career and who to marry." Lest, you blame him for your misfortune in the future grin

No truer words have been said
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Enny2013(f): 8:16am On Jun 12, 2022
Demigod22:


LoL, how did you survive the plan throughout?
I gave her my number to give to her son. I pretended as if I was interested.we talked for a while bfr I stopped picking his calls.i left for Lagos wen I heard his mum telling him to come home for proper introduction to my family as Christmas celebration was close. She knew my parents wud come home. I ran for my dear life.Neva liked d guy n he had bin chasing me since I was eighteen.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Leonbonapart(m): 8:17am On Jun 12, 2022
Demigod22:
My mom have a friend, a very good one. The woman really like me because I am a boy and she doesn't have a male child, so she holds me in high esteem. She has five daughters, my senior, my age mate and my juniors.

Since I returned back from school after my final exam, the respect is becoming too much, my mom started complaining about me being single and her friend becoming more friendlier. Her third daughter just graduated too, and my mom is trying everything for two of us to date. Recently, the started chatting me up frequently and I discovered she is not my spec. She is this spiritual and religious Bible kind of girl and I am a liberal. When I told her that I am not spiritual nor religious, I can see the shock on her face.

She doesn't wear trouser, no earrings nor necklace, a very decent girl by appearance of course, and that's the kind of girl I want. She is even complaining that I am too unstable because I am always traveling every now and then and she doesn't like it.

I am not ready for any relationship right now and I don't want any relationship that involves two families. I will get a girlfriend for myself whenever I am ready. So I told my mom to bury that thought, it won't happen and she said I am too stubborn and rebellious and radical, I smiled and said nothing.

So has your parents ever try to match make you with anyone before? Please share your experience.
liberal my foot
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 8:23am On Jun 12, 2022
Enny2013:

I gave her my number to give to her son. I pretended as if I was interested.we talked for a while bfr I stopped picking his calls.i left for Lagos wen I heard his mum telling him to come home for proper introduction to my family as Christmas celebration was close. She knew my parents wud come home. I ran for my dear life.Neva liked d guy n he had bin chasing me since I was eighteen.


LoL, good for you. Sometimes, these parents don't know that the things we want may not be the things they think are good for us. I don't even like relationship that is orchestrated by family, it's a turn off. I should do the whole process myself and introduce her.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 8:24am On Jun 12, 2022
Leonbonapart:
liberal my foot

Be calming down, you are not the only one Buhari is ruling. Something that everyone is giving opinion and suggestion and telling experiences, now that it's your turn, you brought your frustration here.

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Enny2013(f): 8:37am On Jun 12, 2022
Demigod22:



LoL, good for you. Sometimes, these parents don't know that the things we want may not be the things they think are good for us. I don't even like relationship that is orchestrated by family, it's a turn off. I should do the whole process myself and introduce her.
Better...
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Yuneehk(f): 8:57am On Jun 12, 2022
77star:


cheesy cheesy cheesy

A good father indeed

but yuneehk wait o, do u watch football?

and how come u sabi shevchenko?

at which club did he rise to stardom?
pls don't google search!

Ahn ahn.
Is this an exam? I used to watch football, not everytime though. And I've heard the name a couple of times. This isn't my first time of hearing/reading Shevchenko abeg. For your other question, I really don't know.

Good morning.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by BigDawsNet: 9:19am On Jun 12, 2022
Breadfruit:


So you people discard the garb of anyhowness when you get with white women? You reserve the worst of your behavior for black women but will still not let black women drink water and drop cup…


I don't know what you talking about miss.. I guess you don't hav to generalised it...

This mentality is common with our African men... doesn't mean everyone does it ...
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by womenareapez: 11:29am On Jun 12, 2022
cocolacec:


Wrong a white woman will sleep with your friend,brother or any man around you without remorse.

Whites dont have entitled mentality because their govt provide everything for them from unemployment benefits,maternity benefits,Childrens benefits,single mothers earn more so what else do they need men for except for sx or companionship.

Whenever she is done with you,she will date your friend or brother.In case of divorce you will never see your children again.whites can dump after 20 years of marriage for a younger man.
na if you go follow stripers or feminist White women, na there you go hear am.

Follow the Christians white, there are very decent and devotional.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by 77star: 12:30pm On Jun 12, 2022
Yuneehk:


Ahn ahn.
Is this an exam? I used to watch football, not everytime though. And I've heard the name a couple of times. This isn't my first time of hearing/reading Shevchenko abeg. For your other question, I really don't know.

Good morning.
morning ma
i love u sincerity wink
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by LordGuru1: 12:36pm On Jun 12, 2022
peepydelano:
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You said the very Truth but you let your CREATOR down. Read: Luke 9:62. He was hated and you expect your Truth to get most to thanks you? Why did you change your comments that would have saved many to marry right and have peace of mind? You are so afraid of Critics that you can't standout to be useful for your Generation?! A genuine Decently-dressed Christian wife is a great Blessing in this age of aboundant immorality that makes marriages breakup faster than daybreak.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by efealex: 12:44pm On Jun 12, 2022
Hmm that's true the beautiful ones are yet to be born, but noted before they are born you are old. You better open your eyes now and marry a woman that is Godly. Am not saying you should marry a woman your Mom choose for you but a woman you prayed to come and God showing you. Please let it be a pleasure to be married to a believer not a religious partner anyway. And you also please repent from your lustful ways and see the better truth in the unseen realm were you are met to function as gods cos everyone of us are not ordinary if only we know the power we have through the crucified Lamb of God(JESUS CHRIST)
Demigod22:


Marriage is beyond being decent in Christian encyclopedia. I can't possibly marry who I am not sexually attracted to, she is not my spec, I didn't say she is not good, but she is not my choice. Talking about me looking for her later.

PS: the beautiful ones are not yet born.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by emmaodet: 12:45pm On Jun 12, 2022
ravensckar:
Mine was on the contrary. Na my papa scatter the free kpekus wey I don arrange for long.

There's this lady whose mum attend our prayer gathering (Asalatu). Initially, it was only the mum alone that used to attend. I sha noticed that the mum likes me so much, she'll be smiling while talking to me. Asking me about school, studies and life after school. Long story cut short, she brought her daughter (tall, fair, beautiful & well endowed) to the group and specifically introduced us.

We became so close that I started getting the son in-law vibe from the mum. The mum now jokingly told my dad that she'd be expecting him to pay her a visit soon so as to formalize the union. Na there kasala take burst. My dad told her that it will be better for her if her daughter is unmarried than to betroth her to me. That she probably don't know my nickname 'Shevchenko'. I no dey miss one on one. And that by the time I destroyed her daughter's womb, las las, I no go still marry her. The woman was beyond shocked.

As if that was not enough, my dad made a public sermon also talking about how humans can never be perfect. He said for example, as intelligent and well-behaved as I am, I no dey use eye see women (especially a fair & beautiful one). The man burn my cable publicly. Na so the relationship crashed before it even began. It took me a while to forgive him for that action because I been don program that chick for long term chopping. cheesy cheesy cheesy Aside that, every other lady in that our group started avoiding me like plague. It was even rumoured that if they smile at me, they will be hooked.


Fast forward to 5 years ago when I introduced my then fiancé to him. This man started again. He asked her if she truly knows what she's getting into. That I just look responsible for face but I no dey use eye see anything under skirt. After asking her which university she graduated from, my dad told her he was sure that I'd have other girlfriends in that same institution. Fear catch my fiancé. But luckily, I had told her everything about my past and how I've repented. Na there that relationship too for hit rock. cheesy cheesy


Some years later, I asked him why he was deliberately sabotaging me. He said he wants the ladies to know what they are getting into. Since him self born female pikin, he wouldn't open his eyes and let me destroy someone daughter's future. sad sad

So, those of una wey una parents dey try arrange for una, you people are very lucky. Me, after I don suffer arrange chick for myself, na my papa go scatter everything.

grin grin
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by FroshFunds123(m): 12:49pm On Jun 12, 2022
Me wey be say nah Bad ass girls be my type�
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by alloy123: 1:48pm On Jun 12, 2022
Once you are not sexual attracted to a gal,,better forget abt her bcuz issues are mostly settled through sexual means since both parties are now lords in marriage..Relationship is nt marriage follow ur mind.
Demigod22:


Marriage is beyond being decent in Christian encyclopedia. I can't possibly marry who I am not sexually attracted to, she is not my spec, I didn't say she is not good, but she is not my choice. Talking about me looking for her later.

PS: the beautiful ones are not yet born.

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by StanislausWeCan(m): 2:03pm On Jun 12, 2022
Nice one.
U see, u are specific and direct. I wish u more blessings including that ur spec.
Demigod22:


Marriage is beyond being decent in Christian encyclopedia. I can't possibly marry who I am not sexually attracted to, she is not my spec, I didn't say she is not good, but she is not my choice. Talking about me looking for her later.

PS: the beautiful ones are not yet born.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Bahamas95(m): 2:46pm On Jun 12, 2022
My mum hasn't done it before but her friend made that move early this year.....She was trying to match make me with her daughter in the UK. She said it the first time and we laughed over it thinking she was joking but she told me to my face again 3days later.

The last time I saw the girl was about 6years ago, I don't even know much about her. She started showing me her recent pictures and even did video call with her in my presence. The girl was kinda shy as we were talking and I suspect her mum had already told her whatsup..... I was kinda confused because I don't know how to tell her am not interested without making her feel bad. I discussed with my mum to help me tell her I have a serious girlfriend.

Even if I don't have a serious girlfriend I wont still do it because I don't like the girl's father. He's a terrible human being, I can't have that kinda person as my father in-law.

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 12:10am On Jun 13, 2022
kunkelhanspeter:

Pray dey post you to a city not village
.
They just posted me to Yobe, do you have any idea about that place?
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 12:12am On Jun 13, 2022
Bahamas95:
My mum hasn't done it before but her friend made that move early this year.....She was trying to match make me with her daughter in the UK. She said it the first time and we laughed over it thinking she was joking but she told me to my face again 3days later.

The last time I saw the girl was about 6years ago, I don't even know much about her. She started showing me her recent pictures and even did video call with her in my presence. The girl was kinda shy as we were talking and I suspect her mum had already told her whatsup..... I was kinda confused because I don't know how to tell her am not interested without making her feel bad. I discussed with my mum to help me tell her I have a serious girlfriend.

Even if I don't have a serious girlfriend I wont still do it because I don't like the girl's father. He's a terrible human being, I can't have that kinda person as my father in-law.

And the girl is already falling over you like kilode.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by kunkelhanspeter(m): 3:46am On Jun 13, 2022
Demigod22:

.
They just posted me to Yobe, do you have any idea about that place?
Haven’t been to North before
They post my gf to kaduna
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Bahamas95(m): 3:48am On Jun 13, 2022
Demigod22:


And the girl is already falling over you like kilode.
Women are like that, they are easily convinced unlike men.....I wonder what her mum told her about me. A woman that respects and is fond of her mum would do anything to please her.

I turned her down mainly for two reasons, her father and the distance. I can't do a distant relationship stuff, a bird at hand is worth more than ten in the UK.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by damoobaba: 6:31pm On Jun 13, 2022
Demigod22:


LoL, normally I am bigger than your bad mouth.
No wahala, your Mum cares so much for you. You should appreciate her concern
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by sexysage(m): 8:33pm On Jun 13, 2022
This me rn. Funny part is that my mom doesn't even know I've asked the babe out and she said she's not ready cos she doesn't want distraction. However, it's not a match making thing. Myself and the babe have been friends since our a'level days. I've met a handful of her relatives. She's also met my sister.
All my mom has seen is her pictures and they've spoken on phone a couple of times. Yet she keeps insisting she's the one I'll marry. Initially I thought it was a joke oh. Now she's taking it serious.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 11:07pm On Jun 13, 2022
damoobaba:

No wahala, your Mum cares so much for you. You should appreciate her concern

Thanks man.

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 11:09pm On Jun 13, 2022
Bahamas95:
Women are like that, they are easily convinced unlike men.....I wonder what her mum told her about me. A woman that respects and is fond of her mum would do anything to please her.

I turned her down mainly for two reasons, her father and the distance. I can't do a distant relationship stuff, a bird at hand is worth more than ten in the UK.

You are like me, I can't do distance relationship. I don't have the emotional and mental capacity to sustain distance relationship, it's not for me.
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by luvyaself95(m): 4:22am On Jun 14, 2022
ravensckar:
Mine was on the contrary. Na my papa scatter the free kpekus wey I don arrange for long.

There's this lady whose mum attend our prayer gathering (Asalatu). Initially, it was only the mum alone that used to attend. I sha noticed that the mum likes me so much, she'll be smiling while talking to me. Asking me about school, studies and life after school. Long story cut short, she brought her daughter (tall, fair, beautiful & well endowed) to the group and specifically introduced us.

We became so close that I started getting the son in-law vibe from the mum. The mum now jokingly told my dad that she'd be expecting him to pay her a visit soon so as to formalize the union. Na there kasala take burst. My dad told her that it will be better for her if her daughter is unmarried than to betroth her to me. That she probably don't know my nickname 'Shevchenko'. I no dey miss one on one. And that by the time I destroyed her daughter's womb, las las, I no go still marry her. The woman was beyond shocked.

As if that was not enough, my dad made a public sermon also talking about how humans can never be perfect. He said for example, as intelligent and well-behaved as I am, I no dey use eye see women (especially a fair & beautiful one). The man burn my cable publicly. Na so the relationship crashed before it even began. It took me a while to forgive him for that action because I been don program that chick for long term chopping. cheesy cheesy cheesy Aside that, every other lady in that our group started avoiding me like plague. It was even rumoured that if they smile at me, they will be hooked.


Fast forward to 5 years ago when I introduced my then fiancé to him. This man started again. He asked her if she truly knows what she's getting into. That I just look responsible for face but I no dey use eye see anything under skirt. After asking her which university she graduated from, my dad told her he was sure that I'd have other girlfriends in that same institution. Fear catch my fiancé. But luckily, I had told her everything about my past and how I've repented. Na there that relationship too for hit rock. cheesy cheesy


Some years later, I asked him why he was deliberately sabotaging me. He said he wants the ladies to know what they are getting into. Since him self born female pikin, he wouldn't open his eyes and let me destroy someone daughter's future. sad sad

So, those of una wey una parents dey try arrange for una, you people are very lucky. Me, after I don suffer arrange chick for myself, na my papa go scatter everything.
Wotoworiously speaking i was rolling on the floor laughing about calling your dad calling you shevcheko grin grin grin that part mad gan.
Since you're born again i hope say you no be simp wink

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Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by luvyaself95(m): 4:27am On Jun 14, 2022
Demigod22:


LoL, after watching a particular movie I wanted to marry a White lady so bad, not because of the color but their reasoning. I still have that fantasy but I am still in Nigeria anyways.

Congrats to you and your Dad is a real OG.
What movie is that bro
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by luvyaself95(m): 4:31am On Jun 14, 2022
Normalguyy:
Omo e get this girl wey I dey eye and as per say I no really get liver go meet her that time and me I no even know say my dad don dey sight the girl and she get mad curves ... So na so I just gain admission enter school I no come see the girl again . So I came back from school after the semester my papa come tell me say he don see wife for me o I say for where and omo to my greatest surprise na that same girl , I dey happy die , papa don dey even perform part of my role dey giver her money and buy her things ... even my mum dey support anytime she come buy something for my mum shop they go give her free stuffs so tey my papa dey pay for the money to make her hair and baba don arrange me well , he don talk better things about me to the girl ..... na so we shaa dey give we got really close and fond of each other na so I ask babe out o she say make I give her time .... for over four years now she neither said yes or no but we still dey , e don even tire my papa he no even ask me of her again coz before I tell am say the girl no gree na everyday he dey ask me about the girl .... when she come greet me for school.... I say make we bleep she no gree o after I don spend money..... I no even dey follow her talk any relationship talk again and watin dey pain me be say she dey always tell me say she’s still single
Singularity Kee her their undecided
Na your parents fvck they were too fast fowarded
Re: Have Your Parents Ever Tried To Match Make You Before? Share Your Experience by Demigod22: 8:51am On Jun 14, 2022
luvyaself95:
What movie is that bro

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