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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Iceberg3: 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
Blaqroman0000:
see how you are promoting Internet fraud aka (yahoo).. Very soon u go jam jam
And see how people are liking his posts!!!! shocked

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TinubuAdvocate1: 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.
why you carry this your yahoo for head? Even doing your best to lure people in. Nawa o

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by clinician2x: 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
I am in late 20s, I live in my parents house, I drive my own car I bought at 27 and I make 1000$ every month working from home. My leaving my parents house is traveling to USA and never coming back.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by IgOga(m): 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Move out asap....get a room...start small...otherwise you will never understand what it means to be responsible. I hope you are contributing to the upkeep of your parents home and not just living and eating free food

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Khez: 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
You have not failed bro, if Nigeria was where it should be by now you’d get equal opportunities with the children of the elites, this is what they want, for you to remain poor and depressed and hungry so when they give you branded bread , you’d collect with open hands and joy , get your pvc and vote right, it’d shock you that a lot of this political jobbermen are even married in their parents house , people without sense , no future, no hope , yet they can’t support a good candidate to take them out of their problems. You’d be fine bro , if you wanna work , p c me and let me get your cv and help fix you somewhere , so you can atleast see more money to move out and stand on your feet over the time .

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by WHITELIGHTER: 10:18am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

Yahoo don bless you, now u don dey form motigbentional speaker. Fraud is fraud. Btw I don't see any big deal still living in your dad's house at 30. If his dad was Dangote I bet it wouldn't be an issue, yes?

Op, don't over do yourself, it will only put undue pressure on yourself...continue to hustle legitimately. Not everyone will be a billionaire at 25

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by NofiuFade(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2022
I don't blame those that are bashing the op at all, I have alot of friends like this op that not even ashamed at Old age still living under their parent house yet they will still be using it to brag up and down to some of us that normally hustle and pay alot of outrageous bills to survive! grin

Op let me tell you, the earliest you understand the better for you, you have fail yourself! Your type are the type of guys that always pray your parents die quickly so you can take over their property! You are a failure in life!

And try and learn to always respect those young guys around you that pay their rent and nepa bills themselves! You think their papa no get house abi? You think they don't have various family houses they can always hide their head ba?


You see your life? See wetin your papa house your papa house turn you to at age 30!

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Ronjule: 10:19am On Jul 06, 2022
God bless you! This is one of the best comments I have read so far on this platform. Once again you are blessed
nokspos:
I left my parent's house at a much older age, and I was already making millions, I just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land at my parent's house. But I made sure I spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in Lagos, the year I fenced the compound, another year I put a roller gate, and another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduce being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that I could afford my apartment but I chose to stay for my reasons.

Stop the cap and face life's reality. it's not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.


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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by HandsomeGuyman(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2022
You can't make heaven i swear. Instead of you to encourage him you dey cap ceaseless
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Johel(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2022
LikeAking:


Just make friend's.



Friends are not mostly helpful in recent time.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by biggy4joe(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2022
PapaNnamdi:


See beta advice here OP,
If this dude can make it, you also can,
Just believe in what you do

No mind the fool wey say make you do yahoo,
Yahoo is like gambling,

Yahoo is not like gambling nah,gambling is like drugs but yahoo is evil and demonic,the only reason u still support yahoo is because u never loose guard ur phone for street or details online.....No worry sha,ask that Yoruba actress that they stole her 1m on Friday dis people have caused alot of our parents pain,u call them and deceive them that u r from their bank and ask them to send their OTP and u wipe all they have laboured for 40years of their life and cash out go buy AZUL no worry ur breakfast go come with Kpapangolo

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Mattwillz: 10:20am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
That's the choice (yahoo) I made bro and it has helped me.

I'm not forcing anyone here to do yahoo. I presented two choices before them (learn a profitable skill or do yahoo).. The choice is left for them.

I'm just telling y'all what is working for me. I'm a graduate in civil engineering but today na yahoo I dey do and it's paying me big time.... Make my certificate dey one side first
Boss let me be your home boy abeg..i can stay with you for an agreed period of time bro pls
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by godoluwa(m): 10:20am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

What should be on your mind now is how to be financially stable

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Emary(f): 10:20am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

There's nothing wrong with you and you're not a failure. It's the present economy that is causing it. So long as you are helping your parents and contributing to the bills at home, don't worry. Just set aside money as often as you can towards a place then move out when you get one. Don't let anyone pressure you into feeling bad about it. During the post-2008 depression in America, a lot of young people had to move back in with their parents until things picked up again.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by WrksOnMyMachine: 10:21am On Jul 06, 2022
Revolution2022:
Everybody is facing one problem or the other,both married and unmarried.I get colleague for my former work.This guy was so jealous of me because I was no married,while he has got married.His wife always called him at work and I could hear them argue because of money.He earned #20k.As at 2017.I wonder how he could impregnate a lady with a meagre salary.Those who left their parents houses and are living alone are also facing problems of unpaid house rent for 1 or 2 years,job loses due to retrenchment at work,quit notice from their landlords over unpaid rent,debt to loan apps, depression due to stress at work couple with low pay.So my brother,no dey envy anybody.Na Nigeria we dey.If you no be politician,and government workers(Na them dey chop money through corrupt means)e dey hard to make ends meet.
Na people wey go buy tokumbo cars dey soferam.Visit'car talk section for nairaland and read complaint from car owners.Depression is everywhere.

The truth nobody will tell you. OP If your father is Dangote, would you be so eager to leave the family mansion?

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Kasdat5(m): 10:22am On Jul 06, 2022
You better remain there o , we keep giving ourselves pressure .. When it's time ul move out

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by pocohantas(f): 10:22am On Jul 06, 2022
nokspos:
I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons.

Stop the cap and face life reality. its not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.



At least I have seen you make one reasonable comment in my lifetime. lipsrsealed

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by kwasoly(m): 10:22am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?



Be patient your time will come

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by ufotty2001: 10:22am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?
Oga.. you can stand from one room or batcher ..Remove proud! I started in one room.. now am living in 2bedroom flat and I am building my house gradually.. remove shame and start small

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by freshpzy1(m): 10:22am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.



so you can proudly say YAHOO......



YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO HUMANITY



VERY AOON PEOPLE WILL OPENLY TELL US THEY ARE HIRED KILLERS


ask yourself........does SEUN OSEWA have 2 heads.



make i hear say you are one of the people criticising him recently.


bloody criminal..........with the code name.......YAHOO BOY

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by ludorum1(m): 10:23am On Jul 06, 2022
Boss abeg which update dy...I wan learn
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Olayinkavin29(m): 10:23am On Jul 06, 2022
Never give up my guy
People time are different
People grace are different also
But that does not mean u should relax
Start hustle and save
Get closer to God
U are never a loser as long u keep moving in life
Never give up!!!
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by damola1: 10:23am On Jul 06, 2022
One of the dangers of short cut is lack of character exhibited by the criminal up there.

He cannot fall and stand as you see him. Every day he uses the little fraud money he steals from others to cover is lack of mental growth.

He cannot deal with any situation as he didn’t complete the process.

Do not follow his advise. As it won’t end well for him.

Enjoy your papa house. It’s rent free. Focus on building capacity

A rented apartment is negative akant. What you need is positive akant. Read a page. A chapter of good books daily. Work out daily. And grow daily.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Drillminded: 10:23am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep
look here you are not rich via your hard work, you are a thief, a charlatan and the scrum of the earth but as long as you are comfortable I your skin. Do you!

But don't come here to flex when all you have is rightfully not yours OLE !

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by FreeStuffsNG: 10:24am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep
Even though I attained all these about same age as yours, I did not leave my parents house. I had a steady serious altar-bound relationship and focused entirely on career progression as a young Professional and my relationship.

Actually, it was very obvious that I can be on my own but I did not leave my parents house. I was never asked to contribute for electricity, food etc. My Dad just won't outsource his role even though he knew I could be on my own. It is now that I realize that he was happy to provide a sanctuary for his children. Regardless of my age and status then, he still sees me as his son.

If you do not have any hassle living with your parents and you are not from a dysfunctional family, honestly, you will not move out of your parents house until it is time to get married even if you are swimming in millions wink

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Mamaab: 10:24am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep
Your foolishness and stupidity is universal. Ritualist.

Dear OP, don't listen to these agents on demons here pls. There is nothing wrong with you and you have not failed in life. Sorry to say, but if your parents are pushing you out, they are equally as foolish as that useless commenter up there.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Zeewirld: 10:24am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?
..Why do you need an apartment to dey nack small-small girls upandan or what exactly is getting an apartment more important than looking for how to improve your personal development

Why would you want to squat when you have parents whose house you can stay and develop your sense haba ! be reasonable and pursue how to develop yourself .So that you can also own and build your own apartment.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Holla911(m): 10:25am On Jul 06, 2022
smallvill:


My brother don't beat yourself up am sure if you had the means you will not want to be there, but things now are not the same as 30 years ago, everything is very expensive now, even to rent one room is high. If your parent's place is rented try and get something doing so you can contribute to the rent money but if the house is owned by your parents try dey buy food in the house, long story short you need to look for a job. do not rush to get a house when you don't have the means of paying the next year's rent.
and lastly for now leave women they are very expensive

Make Op hold this advice well. Leave woman for now and hustle to be better. No forget your parents well ground soft finish.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Pimine: 10:25am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?
Sorry, about your plight. Apartment no too cost like that, na you dey find expensive ones. Look for one face me I slap you and manage while building yourself.

Trust me, there are levels you may not unlock until you step out of your comfort zone. Your parents house is your comfort zone and is now becoming an impediment to your progress. Leave there now!

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Kinzo0917(m): 10:25am On Jul 06, 2022
Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep
. OP don't take this useless advice. Yahoo is evil. It is satanic. There is a way that seemeth right to a man but the end thereof is destruction. Don't ever consider yahoo of any sort. The Lord will give you devine direction on what to do. I know it can be frustrating but with God, it is possible. You can consider the option of learning a trade. God bless you.

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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Dorakay93(m): 10:27am On Jul 06, 2022
People shud be careful on how they talk to this guy, he knows it's not a good thing, if he enters depression and do the unthinkable na una knoo . Nigeria is a useless country on her own. If u go to school all these go and learn skill shud not come up. So those wey no go school wud have dia incomes shared from their hustling leading to low standard of living.

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