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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by ibechris(m): 6:15pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
satandeterrible: U are a bastard! Make ur points and stop being an idiots. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Arsenate(m): 6:29pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
ibechris:He literally just made a point, lol. Women set standards for men, all the time and you are basically advising men not to reciprocate the gesture. Una just funny for here I swear. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by satandeterrible: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Evening newspaper. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by satandeterrible: 7:04pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Arsenate:Asin ehh.. The fool had to open his wide mouth like gutter to say men shouldn't have standards. Whilst women set high standards for men. Isn't that innate stupidity, and self-loathing? What an animal! 21 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by passionberry(f): 7:09pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Jeon:Very true. One person will just hate you for nothing oh .no matter the good deeds. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Arsenate(m): 7:16pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
satandeterrible:Haha, Baba I feel your frustration. We just have to, once in a while, chip in our opposing views to help prevent young impressionable minds from swallowing the very twisted logic that is being thrown around here. 6 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by postmann: 7:21pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
ibechris: This would have been absolutely none of my business but since you made it a public statement and thereby advocate it as a standard for your readers to imbibe, I'm obliged to make my point. Now, to the emboldened as highlighted; you need to let your wife have the dick dangling purposelessly in-between your thighs since you picked her for her business sense and she probably picked you for your domestic sense. What a Wuss! 19 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by satandeterrible: 7:22pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Arsenate:Exactly bro. A young man somewhere might be reading through and after reading that foolish comment from that foolish poster, will feel it is okay to be a doornat to girls or that it is okay to place a girl on a pedestal. For any young man who might be reading this, please do have high standards. Never settle for low quality women. No woman will stay with you if you were not providing some sort of value. They have their standards for the men they want. So what can't you? I beg you in the name of God, have your own high standards. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by JovialJune(f): 7:36pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
All these mumu that grew up in a dysfunctional family and damaged upbringing, trying foolishly to make their stupid thought process and background the yardstick and standard If una papa no show una love in little things and always being there, that's your business, keep drinking your bitterness, envy and hatred alone. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:49pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Arsenate: Set standards for sweeping. Cheap men. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:50pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
satandeterrible: Is that all you can say? I'm happily one naw. As if being an evening newspaper is a sin. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by cayorday89(m): 8:22pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
ibechris: I am your kind of person, it's what I have done from childhood, had two very much younger siblings got so used to those house chores that I don't even see it as anything, the issue now is to find that woman that will compliment and do what is right and not one that will take all those lifestyle as one being a fool. I grew up seeing my Dad do some on the regular, especially sweeping and his own laundry, when he sweeps outside and we are just looking at him, some people will be saying we cannot collect broom from our father but we know him more than they know him. All these standard if it is used for every women, I can bet it my sisters will fail especially my immediate sister. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by ibechris(m): 9:36pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
cayorday89: Kudos brother! One lazy man here asked why do I still do all these things when I have a nanny at home and answered him,that I want my children to learn from me because I learnt what I know today from my parents. And moreover, no be person born the nanny...is she a slave? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Sirqt5(m): 9:40pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by cayorday89(m): 10:26pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
ibechris:What I see about those kinda people is that, they take public opinion too hard whereas they will not be married to the public but just their spouse/s with each having their flaws, why not address those flaws of the partner(wife or husband) and act accordingly, rather than lambast every human, when you can only have one or very few(according to your religious acceptance or orientation, for women with multiple husbands) to yourself with their own unique advantage and disadvantage. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by LagBae(f): 10:39pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
FahBuLous: If I was the girl, I would wipe you back for hitting me and calling it nonsense tradition, then leave your house for you; I get my own house. I followed your son to visit you and because I did not offer to help, you'll now use broom to wipe me. Nigerians glorifying assault under the guise of demanding respect. Mtcheeeeeewww! 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by folake4u(f): 11:51pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
JovialJune: Chineke God!!!!! See finishing. Chai. 10 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Raalsalghul: 1:19am On Jul 08, 2022 |
ibechris: I'm trying to fathom what you mean by this: "men should stop setting standards for ladies". Don't women set standards for men all the time? What is wrong with some of you on this forum? The Nairaland demographic wey you dey try please no even send you highest na likes and shares. Jeez! 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Raalsalghul: 1:22am On Jul 08, 2022 |
satandeterrible: Touché |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jman06(m): 1:50am On Jul 08, 2022 |
Men are not allowed to have standards! Only women can have standards because the world revolves around them. That's what this yeye op means 6 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by satandeterrible: 3:54am On Jul 08, 2022 |
Jman06:No mind the fool. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by satandeterrible: 3:59am On Jul 08, 2022 |
cayorday89:Oga let your sister settle for low quality men that can tolerate her low quality. High quality men like us will continue to set high standards for the women we roll with. 9 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Elporo(m): 5:49am On Jul 08, 2022 |
ibechris: @Arsenate @satandeterrible ibechris house documents and money are in his wives "ownership", not possession. He said so in a thread sometime ago. So, what he has is "StandGuard" not "StanDard". Because, winter is coming and his "chi" knows this Hence, the dishwashing, pant washing, cooking and sweeping. He ain't got no choice, because what is used to measure his success as a man "his resources" are now in the hands of a woman. He's the last person you should listen to on issues like these, along with KoboJunkie. A man with no ego is no man. 6 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by kkins25(m): 6:54am On Jul 08, 2022 |
Nazgul: So why wasn't the son sweeping? If truly what you say above is true, then the man should have collected the broom from his mother. My mother taught me to collect broom from elders just like she taught me NOT TO GO TO SOMEONE's HOUSE TO SWEEP. If the capability to do chores is what you black unthinking men use as criteria for selecting a spouse, no wonder you end up asking why your wife can't contribute to family affairs. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
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