satandeterrible:

Who be this fool?
Women set standards for men all the time.
Women set financial standard, height, stature, physique of the man the want to marry.
But it is a crime for a man to have his own standards?
You're very sick in the head.

U are a bastard!
Make ur points and stop being an idiots.

ibechris:




U are a bastard!
Make ur points and stop being an idiots.

He literally just made a point, lol. Women set standards for men, all the time and you are basically advising men not to reciprocate the gesture.

Una just funny for here I swear.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are the sick one for calling him sick. He spilt the truth all in a wrap! Cover your face in shame.

Evening newspaper.

Arsenate:

He literally just made a point, lol. Women set standards for men, all the time and you are basically advising men not to reciprocate the gesture.

Una just funny for here I swear.

Asin ehh..
The fool had to open his wide mouth like gutter to say men shouldn't have standards. Whilst women set high standards for men.
Isn't that innate stupidity, and self-loathing?
What an animal!

Jeon:
LOL..

IF YOU LIKE GO DIVIDE UR HEAD INTO SEVEN PIECES OR ACT LIKE AN ANCIENT BLACK SLAVE, YOU WILL STILL BE HATED FOR BEING A SISTER IN-LAW IN SOME FAMILY .

so no time to please anyone.... just be yourself.

Very true. One person will just hate you for nothing oh .no matter the good deeds.

satandeterrible:

Asin ehh..
The fool had to open his wide mouth like gutter to say men shouldn't have standards. Whilst women set high standards for men.
Isn't that innate stupidity, and self-loathing?
What an animal!

Haha, Baba I feel your frustration. We just have to, once in a while, chip in our opposing views to help prevent young impressionable minds from swallowing the very twisted logic that is being thrown around here.

ibechris:
See if u like fine,if u like no fine...If I like your business sense and discipline as a woman,every other thing na rubbish.

Because I can wash,I can help u to cook,I wash your clothes as my wife...I bath my children regularly,who says is a woman's job?

I don't just write this here to curry favour from the ladies,but that is just me at home. I wash dishes at home times without number,even my nanny sometimes gets scared about her jobs.

Men should stop setting standards because if u push a lady to pretend along and u eventually marries her,u are a gonner,then u will see what u never bargained for in the marriage.

This would have been absolutely none of my business but since you made it a public statement and thereby advocate it as a standard for your readers to imbibe, I'm obliged to make my point.

Now, to the emboldened as highlighted; you need to let your wife have the dick dangling purposelessly in-between your thighs since you picked her for her business sense and she probably picked you for your domestic sense.

What a Wuss!

Arsenate:

Haha, Baba I feel your frustration. We just have to, once in a while, chip in our opposing views to help prevent young impressionable minds from swallowing the very twisted logic that is being thrown around here.

Exactly bro.
A young man somewhere might be reading through and after reading that foolish comment from that foolish poster, will feel it is okay to be a doornat to girls or that it is okay to place a girl on a pedestal.

For any young man who might be reading this, please do have high standards.
Never settle for low quality women.
No woman will stay with you if you were not providing some sort of value. They have their standards for the men they want. So what can't you?

I beg you in the name of God, have your own high standards.

All these mumu that grew up in a dysfunctional family and damaged upbringing, trying foolishly to make their stupid thought process and background the yardstick and standard

If una papa no show una love in little things and always being there, that's your business, keep drinking your bitterness, envy and hatred alone.

Arsenate:

He literally just made a point, lol. Women set standards for men, all the time and you are basically advising men not to reciprocate the gesture.

Una just funny for here I swear.

Set standards for sweeping. Cheap men.

satandeterrible:

Evening newspaper.

Is that all you can say? I'm happily one naw.

As if being an evening newspaper is a sin.

ibechris:
See if u like fine,if u like no fine...If I like your business sense and discipline as a woman,every other thing na rubbish.

Because I can wash,I can help u to cook,I wash your clothes as my wife...I bath my children regularly,who says is a woman's job?

I don't just write this here to curry favour from the ladies,but that is just me at home. I wash dishes at home times without number,even my nanny sometimes gets scared about her jobs.

Men should stop setting standards because if u push a lady to pretend along and u eventually marries her,u are a gonner,then u will see what u never bargained for in the marriage.

I am your kind of person, it's what I have done from childhood, had two very much younger siblings got so used to those house chores that I don't even see it as anything, the issue now is to find that woman that will compliment and do what is right and not one that will take all those lifestyle as one being a fool. I grew up seeing my Dad do some on the regular, especially sweeping and his own laundry, when he sweeps outside and we are just looking at him, some people will be saying we cannot collect broom from our father but we know him more than they know him.

All these standard if it is used for every women, I can bet it my sisters will fail especially my immediate sister.

cayorday89:


I am your kind of person, it's what I have done from childhood, had two very much younger siblings got so used to those house chores that I don't even see it as anything, the issue now is to find that woman that will compliment and do what is right and not one that will take all those lifestyle as one being a fool. I grew up seeing my Dad do some on the regular, especially sweeping and his own laundry, when he sweeps outside and we are just looking at him, some people will be saying we cannot collect broom from our father but we know him more than they know him.

All these standard if it is used for every women, I can bet it my sisters will fail especially my immediate sister.

Kudos brother!

One lazy man here asked why do I still do all these things when I have a nanny at home and answered him,that I want my children to learn from me because I learnt what I know today from my parents.

And moreover, no be person born the nanny...is she a slave?

Lalasticlala

ibechris:




Kudos brother!

One lazy man here asked why do I still do all these things when I have a nanny at home and answered him,that I want my children to learn from me because I learnt what I know today from my parents.

And moreover, no be person born the nanny...is she a slave?

What I see about those kinda people is that, they take public opinion too hard whereas they will not be married to the public but just their spouse/s with each having their flaws, why not address those flaws of the partner(wife or husband) and act accordingly, rather than lambast every human, when you can only have one or very few(according to your religious acceptance or orientation, for women with multiple husbands) to yourself with their own unique advantage and disadvantage.

FahBuLous:
But reason this thing o...

We are Africans for crying out loud, this isn't the western part of the world...

Even if it's not your potential in-law, it's very wrong to raise your legs for the elderly to sweep under them..

Instead of raising your legs, just get up and leave the place then maybe come back when she is done sweeping...

Girls of this days are not well trained at all..

Imagine the level of insult, if I was the woman, I will wipe her that broom and send her out, stupid untrained fool...

If I was the girl, I would wipe you back for hitting me and calling it nonsense tradition, then leave your house for you; I get my own house.

I followed your son to visit you and because I did not offer to help, you'll now use broom to wipe me.

Nigerians glorifying assault under the guise of demanding respect. Mtcheeeeeewww!

JovialJune:



Wayray alaso

My babies just clocked 3yrs not 6 months ode

And thank you for analysing my family life on a faceless forum, as if your nonsense thought process matters mumu

We understand why it is difficult for you to accept the fact that hands on Dad's are always appreciated than others, because your upbringing was so damaged it seems alien to you, that's why your foamy brain couldn't accept that show of love, your papa failed you, and it shows in your bitterness, envy and hatred, pele

If you don't talk about the female body parts as your weak comeback you will not rest, we know you have been cursed with your constant horniness and sexual comments to women, whoever cursed you did a good job, na to enter street naked dey harrass women remain for you

Perfect 21st century flappy dog.

Chineke God!!!!!
See finishing. Chai.

ibechris:

Men should stop setting standards because if u push a lady to pretend along and u eventually marries her,u are a gonner,then u will see what u never bargained for in the marriage.

I'm trying to fathom what you mean by this: "men should stop setting standards for ladies".

Don't women set standards for men all the time?

What is wrong with some of you on this forum?

The Nairaland demographic wey you dey try please no even send you highest na likes and shares.

Jeez!

satandeterrible:

Exactly bro.
A young man somewhere might be reading through and after reading that foolish comment from that foolish poster, will feel it is okay to be a doornat to girls or that it is okay to place a girl on a pedestal.

For any young man who might be reading this, please do have high standards.
Never settle for low quality women.
No woman will stay with you if you were not providing some sort of value. They have their standards for the men they want. So what can't you?

I beg you in the name of God, have your own high standards.

Touché

Men are not allowed to have standards!
Only women can have standards because the world revolves around them.

That's what this yeye op means

Jman06:
Men are not allowed to have standards!
Only women can have standards because the world revolves around them.

That's what this yeye op means

No mind the fool.

cayorday89:


I am your kind of person, it's what I have done from childhood, had two very much younger siblings got so used to those house chores that I don't even see it as anything, the issue now is to find that woman that will compliment and do what is right and not one that will take all those lifestyle as one being a fool. I grew up seeing my Dad do some on the regular, especially sweeping and his own laundry, when he sweeps outside and we are just looking at him, some people will be saying we cannot collect broom from our father but we know him more than they know him.

All these standard if it is used for every women, I can bet it my sisters will fail especially my immediate sister.

Oga let your sister settle for low quality men that can tolerate her low quality.
High quality men like us will continue to set high standards for the women we roll with.

ibechris:




U are a bastard!
Make ur points and stop being an idiots.

@Arsenate @satandeterrible

ibechris house documents and money are in his wives "ownership", not possession. He said so in a thread sometime ago.

So, what he has is "StandGuard" not "StanDard". Because, winter is coming and his "chi" knows this Hence, the dishwashing, pant washing, cooking and sweeping. He ain't got no choice, because what is used to measure his success as a man "his resources" are now in the hands of a woman.

He's the last person you should listen to on issues like these, along with KoboJunkie.

A man with no ego is no man.

Nazgul:
The pic you uploaded has nothing to do with standard, it's all about how the girl was brought up.

We're Africans not Americans, African culture demands that when an elder is doing a chore or carrying something, you should offer to help.

I've gotten up for a pregnant woman to sit down during my NIN registration, I didn't know her from anywhere, but I felt since she's pregnant she ought to sit while me the agile young man should do the standing...that's the way I was brought up. Even on the ATM, if line is long and I see an elderly person at the back, I'll go behind him/her as ask him/her to take my position and withdraw before me.

Like I said, it has nothing to do with standard, it's just about how you were brought up. The girl on that pics you uploaded, has no respect for elderly people and one can easily conclude that she has little regard for her parents at home. The guy's mom did right by walking her out of her house, such behavior is not part of our culture.

So why wasn't the son sweeping? If truly what you say above is true, then the man should have collected the broom from his mother.
My mother taught me to collect broom from elders just like she taught me NOT TO GO TO SOMEONE's HOUSE TO SWEEP.
If the capability to do chores is what you black unthinking men use as criteria for selecting a spouse, no wonder you end up asking why your wife can't contribute to family affairs.