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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by ELEYIofNigeria: 6:20pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ojonugba2014: You can still give her the benefit of doubt when love dey shack you. Naa wetin men dey do |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Osombo: 6:22pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
U have my respect! It's her type that won't tolerate that from a lady her son brought, the raising of legs for his mom confirms the lady has little or no respect for her mother. Who knows maybe the guys Mom used her instinct and equally observed some facial expressions from the said lady. This is Africa, keep promoting that rubbish whole the ladies with wisdom knows how to build solid foundation for a lasting relationship. I guess OP was raised by single mother, most are toxic |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by yusufmurry: 6:23pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: I have nothing wrong with her posting a new child. But she was busy then writing that she can't submit to man; can't do house chores; won't obey any man's standard. But las las, she still meet man she can't obey man's standards |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
jaxxy:1. You won't take the broom from your own mother but you will expect your friend to take the broom because by showing up at your house, the person automatically submits to being judged by you by a standard which you don't even hold hour own self to? 2. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Fira09(m): 6:27pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ishilove: You guys should use WISDOM to deal with this matter and not insulting yourselves which sounds childish. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Fira09(m): 6:30pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
KoshCAD: A man don't talks too much......He use WISDOM and ACTION......both of u should deal with this matter AMICABLY. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by EdwardRandy(m): 6:30pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Karleb:The bitch deserves a very dirty slap. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 6:31pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Is sweeping a man's job. If her father was the one sweeping, yes, i will gladly collect it, it doesn't make me feel less of a man or make me foolish. It is a sign of respect. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 6:34pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Fira09:She always thinks she has mouth. I need to give her the way she worth it. After all, she introduced parents into it. So I will help her since she has no regard for her parents. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
KoshCAD:A sexist kind of respect where you feel somethings are beneath you, right? You only take the broom if you see another man sweeping, else, regardless of age, you will not take the broom from a woman hence no respect for them as elders in that abi? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by jaxxy(m): 6:55pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: yes I would if my idiotic fiancée doesn't. Ladies should be homely and home builders even if a man would help around also. That's my grouse. as for my frnd I won't be too bother because I also used to act that way till my mom home trained on it being rude. if I go to my funds house and his mom or dad is sweeping close to me I will take it over them even if he lacks the manners to do so for his parents. It's my home training and I adopted it. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 6:59pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You don't get. Do you? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 7:05pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UpInTheSky:No parents will expect a guest to help out. Even if the girl offers to help out, the woman will not allow that. When my brother's wife was brought home and my mom was busy cooking in the kitchen and was watching plate while I just came in before taking over. The responsible lady offered to watch the plate that is not really dirty but my mum did not allow her step into the kitchen. She did everything and served her. That is a sign of respect, not all these useless education you talk about. The lady In question is a master's degree owner. So carry education to one side. You don't tell owner of a house when to do things in there house. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
jaxxy:1. Your own mother we are talking of here yet you expect someone else to do it first? That alone reveals a Crack in your own upbringing as far as the standard you hold others to. Ladies should be homely and homebuilders? According to what Law is this? Why can't a mother equally raise her own sons to be homely and homebuilders? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Aboguede(m): 7:09pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
I can my girlfriend...1000% u are not marrit cos u can't FERNANDEZISBACK: |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:11pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
KoshCAD: Always feeding people's generations. Please, ask for her account number. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:12pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ojonugba2014: Who your marriage proposal epp? To hell with you, your marriage and entitled family. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 7:17pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Ask for her acount number, for what exactly please? Is this a style of begging or what? Atleast you should have reason for that. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:19pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ishilove: Don't degrade yourself to that poor urchin's level. He's possibly a benefit boy who begs Emoney on Instagram and partakes in Twitter's giveaway for a living. I know his type. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:20pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Zane2point4: Guy, get lost. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:21pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
KoshCAD: Are you foolish? Do you even have the money to give, you this nitwit? I thought you said you can feed her and her generations? Ask for her account number to validate that. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by nams77: 7:27pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA:My brother I understand. But I will rather use that time to watch YouTube video than to indulge in all these their baseless argument |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by advanceDNA: 7:30pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by jaxxy(m): 7:34pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: U conveniently left out the part I said I can do it for other elders I know or a friends mum also? That is a crack in ur counter analogy of my upbringing. 2ndly I didn't say every woman should be homely bt mine should be and if I reject a gal for not meeting my fair standards I'm well within my rights. Culture and biblical wise women are also ment to be homely. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 7:38pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
jaxxy:No follower of Jesus Christ, male or female, will do what you claim since Jesus Christ Himself commanded His followers to abhor the teachings and traditions of men. So don't deceive yourself thinking scripture has anything to do with your traditions/cultures cause it doesn't. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by jaxxy(m): 7:43pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Nope Jesus and disciples followed Jewish traditions ASLONG as they were against God's word. Stop trying to twist the truth. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
jaxxy:What Jesus Christ instead followed was the National Constitution of the State of Israel aka the Law of Moses given by God to the people of Israel. These laws are not of the ideas and traditions of men but of God Himself. So try to pay close attention, will you? Your cultures and traditions are of men, and not of God , and Jesus Christ warned His followers not fo follow after such in His name.. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by EMEKAodogwu1: 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:The man whose post is the bone of contention for this thread has his choice, you reacting to his post has your choice of a partner. But I tell you the probability of that guy meeting and marrying his choice is far higher than your probability of meeting and marrying your choice partner. It is even more likely that you will end up shifting ground 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:12pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
EMEKAodogwu1: Compromise? Of course everyone does that. But, based on this? NEVER IN MY LIFETIME. He will meet his likes. You need to go out more often, though. So many better men. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jobola1: 8:17pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ishilove: Una go dey yarn as if Dem born una for Yankee Anybody wey get sense suppose make life easier for the elderly, has nothing to do with being his mom. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by jaxxy(m): 8:20pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Traditions of men doesn't mean culture it means lifestyle of the man or the world system. Jews have a Tradition formed from laws of God bt God has changed those law and now they are mere jews Traditions which are still ok if not against the word of God in the new dispensation cos some have been discarded. Same way others have their Traditions and any that goes against God's word should be discarded. |
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