| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by BePrepared: 3:12pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
No he has been abroad from the beginning
When we met he came home for Christmas You seem a good person and I really feel for you. Unless he's genuinely born again how are you sure he doesn't have women in the US How can a man that is not born again stay single in the US |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by frozen70(f): 3:13pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. Well he response to you was arrogant and not even from him If you observe that he is not talking about marriage Just sort yourself out by looking for another relationship because I don't know how long that you will have to wait for him to propose to you A woman can't continue waiting Never the less, don't break up with him yet 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by CIAOps: 3:22pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Sistaaa... Na travel you want travel, leave all these your rhetoric.. |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Odunharry(m): 3:30pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Damn.. This is pure violence.. Wetin d aunti do you na. 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by deavicky(m): 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. why where you not ready while he was in Nigeria now that he has travelled abroad u suddenly became ready. Senior girl I heal thee |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Positiveme2020: 3:47pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
2dice01:
The plan reach Z sef  Abi oh.. |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Poleski: 3:49pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. Don't talk about marriage again with him, and if he brings it up, tell him you're not interested in talking about it. If he asks why Tell him you don't want to be accused of using him to travel abroad. If he has a conscience and truly wants you, he'll apologize. And if he does that, you have to forgive him.
If there's no love in this relationship, don't talk about marriage. Good luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Bizibi(m): 3:51pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
No he has been abroad from the beginning
When we met he came home for Christmas that guy is being careful!!! |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by rickleye: 4:00pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
He’s 34
I’m 27
And he doesn’t even have any kid
Don’t know what’s wrong with him o?
Who suppose dey pressure who? Ill be honest ... Guys do not mind being single till 40. So the pressure is on you. if I could talk to him, It would be for him to let you know if you are the one or if he has found someone else and therefore not string you along. He should do that math . if you get pregnant at 30 and he is 37 meaning that he is raising a child for at least 18 years into his mid 50's or later depending on how many you both plan to have. Now, kids have different Issues at various ages but I would want to have my kids at an early age so i can match their energy and travel together with you cause when kids come - they are selfish and demand attention . See if you can give him a breather on the marriage for a while. Talk about your future together - where you would like to visit together as partners and ask him how he wants to make it happen. I am sure you have spoken about how many kids , their names , etc etc. However, you have to give yourself a time frame. if within a certain time frame nothing is happening then close the case and move on. Godspeed! 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by zolajpower: 4:15pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
qtguru:
Personally unless I love the person and Sabi am die, it makes sense to pick a Nigerian babe from abroad than bring over. Too much involved and stress and easy to be deceived too. Not all babes are users, OP might be genuine but when you hear gifts outside, no one wants to be brave to find out. Did you not read a post about a guy ( Igbo ) that shot is wife on her face and called 911 ? And bf then there are cases of Nigerian men who killed their wife who re Nigerians as well . The akata women foe me re far better to pick abroad than bringing a nija women over there . Their eye too tear |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Cool down.
You didn't read her first post.
She edited the posts later and even added that he's always been in the US so as not to look like a gold digger.
You no dey dig gold too? Who poverty help? Abi you are praying for your sis' to be with poor men? You have time to be typing epistle on top person matter. Your own sisters might be worst sef. Your comment sounded so bitter, abeg change. 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by chimeremodlyn: 4:42pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
oboy eeee, you just make me laugh die. Wetin you say make the babe do nah 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by chimeremodlyn: 4:46pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
oboy eee, you do make me laugh die. Which kain person you be. Abeg, wetin you say make the babe do nah |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by 9jaGovernment: 4:48pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. Hey young lady I don't know who you are but trust me your parent raised you pretty much well. I can see some people giving you negative and harsh comments but you respond to them calmly. I can see you are ObidientThe time the USA guy realize the wonderful lady he's about the lose the better for him I wish you all the best in all your endeavours. 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
9jaGovernment:
Hey young lady I don't know who you are but trust me your parent raised you pretty much well.
I can see some people giving you negative and harsh comments but you respond to them calmly. I can see you are Obidient
The time the USA guy realize the wonderful lady he's about the lose the better for him
I wish you all the best in all your endeavours. 
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Abyounghammed(m): 4:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
The guy na redpiller, dem ubunja disciple 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Dskillful(m): 5:39pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Some Nigerian ladies eh... If a guy in Abuja want to date a girl in Port Harcourt the babe will day she doesn't like distant relationship, but the same babe can date a guy who base in America. Is America your father's compound? ���
What the guy said is basically the truth, because he base in America you are talking about marriage. Now because of the issues u r thinking he might be a woman beater or a serial killer. You funny ooo you want public sympathy right.
If you like don't move on. 3 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Bigsharkmob: 5:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Some people here don’t even understand her and been talking like kids here . Ahh |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by aronski(m): 6:27pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
ojun50:
I no understand why abroad guy dey confused alot of una. See eh you better look for some one close and build yr life with "Who go leave 9ja, who no go leave 9ja"  |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by lilvicky68(m): 6:49pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Cool down.
You didn't read her first post.
She edited the posts later and even added that he's always been in the US so as not to look like a gold digger.
Oga you just dey waste your strength to answer them |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by LINTUNE(m): 6:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
God bless u for this reply bro... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by emmaodet: 6:56pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:
Kunle Ikorodu is not even ready to settle down. He's still busy with agbo and Chelsea dry gin. I'll suggest she try Kareem Mushin.  2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Ebenezer4141(m): 8:14pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Comrade, you deserve an award for this magnitude of vawulence!!. Keep the fire burning. 1 Like 1 Share 
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Ebenezer4141(m): 8:15pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:
Kunle Ikorodu is not even ready to settle down. He's still busy with agbo and Chelsea dry gin. I'll suggest she try Kareem Mushin. Una no go kill me for this nairaland. |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Ebenezer4141(m): 8:33pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
poiZon:
Small matter, u don write book..
Imagine if na buhari tell u to say something about his leadership style, we will be reading ur response for 3full hours nonstop.
Oga learn the act of summary, we no come read styleplus for nairaland If na Buhari matter, make e long like that. |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Ebenezer4141(m): 8:52pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
descartes400:
Peace isn't taken, it is consumed by vawulence. For vawulence can neither be created nor destroy but it can be transformed from one state into another. Yes comrade. No peace! 
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nyascobar1414: 8:55pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Mummypurity1:
My sister don’t put ya head in what u cannot carry, it’s not easy my husband is based in America it’s 10 yrs now I got married,hmmm I wish! But what can I do! Madam.. How you dey lash? |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nyascobar1414: 8:58pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nyascobar1414: 8:59pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Enuguguy:
I met my girlfriend in May and we are getting married in November
I can't date a girl beyond 6months
6months is even too much a time
How can a guy abroad date you for 2yrs..you carry his kidney?
Na your type dey marry left over babes... She is giving you her rest years.. |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by micaluk: 9:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
last last you don cast,breakfast go still reach you |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by OgaTheTop2: 9:59pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. Don't get deceived.. He has another life in America...he 85% is married. Na so guys run it over here  1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Dliss(m): 10:00pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
rickpat:
okay,that means he can bring you to America by Marriage...
now,since he feels you want to use him to relocate...kindly leave him... because that Marriage will be filled with disrespectf.
secondly be very very careful before that guy will come to Nigeria and marry you then goes back to America...that way you will be his "Nigerian wife" while he probably has his American wife....be wise girl...that guy may marry you and leave you in Nigeria...you will be get frustrated...the Choice is yours ...he doesn't respect you or see you as someone productive that's why he can boldly tell you,you wanna use him to travel....whether you want to use him or not...just know that he will not take you to America...you best bet is to be his Nigerian wife...give him Nigerian kids and die of loneliness in Nigeria......while he sends you $100 a month...and rock his life in Yankee... be wise
I may be wrong but think about if I'm right...
good luck You are wise 1 Like |
