| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by brandmix: 11:37am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace. 
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Baba chill Why u sounding so pained 7 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Kobicove(m): 11:37am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Stop deceiving yourself and wasting your time with this abroad nonsense boyfriend relationship.
Break it off and move on with your life! 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by demoBaba: 11:37am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Nah ontop somebody matter you write ✍️ this plenty article......if this happen to you, nah to write textbook give us to read.
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by tee59(f): 11:38am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Most men who are serious don't play with ladies emotions in relationship. They tell you what they want immediately. He sees his future in you, that was the reason he proposed. But as it's now, he's seeing you as someone who only want to marry him for the gains. Had it been you have accepted his proposal then, he would have been talking about marriage now. So dear, it's not too late to give another guy a chance. 14 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by VULCAN(m): 11:39am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Why must you rant about something that was never there? I had to read the story twice because of you as I knew that I never saw anywhere where she said the guy was based here before they started. I'm amazed that you could project such into the story. Imagine someone like you being a Judge You will send so many innocents to jail chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by AZControversial(m): 11:40am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
 Mehhnnn!!!! Truly, you're brutal!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by brandmix: 11:40am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Kollins11:
Your boyfriend is a real nigga. He knows you're a cheap girl and you don't have value just like ₦5.
You're talking as if you're a faithful girlfriend... Why can't you go settle down with Kunle that stays in Ikorodu? or Kareem that stays in Mushin?
Wait... If the guy was in Nigeria will you date him?? Because he stays abroad you wanna force him to come settle down with a "thing" like you.
Madam, go and marry that guy who stays in Ajegunle that has been disturbing you.. And leave that America dude alone.
Worthless wh*res everywhere.
Another 10 year old on the loose. Damaged children everywhere. Op should have limited her question to people with SOME ACTUAL FU*ck*ING experience in dating across Borders No be inter-town local champion red piller association. 11 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by DenreleDave(m): 11:40am On Jul 14, 2022 |
 Raalsalghul:
Nairalanders with bad mouth.
I hope the Op has the mental fortitude to withstand all these thrashing. 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cletz991(m): 11:41am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Wow bros you try o How many hours you take type this testament chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
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| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Oem18(m): 11:41am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
No he has been abroad from the beginning
When we met he came home for Christmas Ma'am don't listen to them it's a simple question do you love him and does he love you. Resolve that and the rest will fall in place. 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by jasminer: 11:42am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
What’s all this bayi ��♀️��♀️��♀️ Ignore these bitter folks here abeg. They're toxic and looking for where to dump their frustration. Back to your question, I suggest you break up with the guy. A guy with that mindset won't respect you in marriage. Let him marry women abroad or go to the American embassy and look for women who have been issued a visa. For him to open his mouth to tell you that, my dear, run oooo. He has said worse behind you, he's most likely keeping in touch for free sex whenever he's back in the country so that he can add it to the things he'll brag about to his fellow toxic men. Lest I forget, you were not wrong one bit for rejecting the proposal of someone you barely met for 3months. Any normal person will do the same. Infact if you had accepted his proposal immediately, they'll still blame you for jumping into a relationship with a man you barely know. So him taking it personal shows who he really is. You might be attracted from day 1 but you have to give each other time to really know what you're getting into and if he has a problem with that, he has many more problems you don't want to get involved in. This type of man will want a woman to follow his every decision blindly like a sheep even into the pit. Love you sis 11 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:42am On Jul 14, 2022 |
What's even special about these diasporan guys that they start behaving like mini gods? I don't even rate most of them. They always feel every girl out there wants to use them as a means to an end when no even send you.
If you like, be the son of Donald Trump, if I no rate you, I no rate you. If I were you, I would break up with him because he's a time waster, disrespectful and feels too important. What's so special about being in the USA? You as well can work hard, earn money and travel out. 9 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Fairview1: 11:42am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. But let's be honest, don't you want to travel abroad? |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by NtiObaEneke(f): 11:42am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
He wasn’t broke You have been dating yourself for two years. Borrow yourself brain and quit the charade. 3 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Joe4real1988(m): 11:43am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
He wasn’t broke He wasn't broke but u were not sure of his status, but now u are sure of it. It's same thing dear 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by nams77: 11:44am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. Just tell him if continues you will quit and do mean it |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by SPAMBOX7: 11:44am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Omo.. Vawulence everywhere 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by demoBaba: 11:44am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Nah ontop somebody matter you write this...if this happen to you nah to write textbook give us to read. Please, be claiming down. 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 11:45am On Jul 14, 2022 |
siofra:
Show me where I insulted you guys in my first mention i am not for anybody, but you said they were drowning in poverty 2 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 11:45am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Kollins11:
Your boyfriend is a real nigga. He knows you're a cheap girl and you don't have value just like ₦5.
You're talking as if you're a faithful girlfriend... Why can't you go settle down with Kunle that stays in Ikorodu? or Kareem that stays in Mushin?
Wait... If the guy was in Nigeria will you date him?? Because he stays abroad you wanna force him to come settle down with a "thing" like you.
Madam, go and marry that guy who stays in Ajegunle that has been disturbing you.. And leave that America dude alone.
Worthless wh*res everywhere.
Omo X 1000. Bro you can't love a woman with this mentality, like, try and calm down. Breathe in and breathe out! 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Joygift3666: 11:46am On Jul 14, 2022 |
;DDo you now know him? |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Haircomb: 11:46am On Jul 14, 2022 |
I doubt if he is going to marry you. He does not respect you. Just move on and find someone else.
Your relationship was long distance for two years, you don’t still know him. Long distance relationship without a solid foundation no be relationship. 3 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by brandmix: 11:46am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. You did the right thing. The same set of people that would have called you a gold digger if you agreed marriage within 4 months are still the ones that will call you names in your current situation. My recommendation is for you to take a stand and ask about the direction of your relationship ( same approach if the guy was based in ojodu or China). If the picture he paints is not in alignment with yours, then simply move on. The worst thing you can do is to validate these comments by clinging to a hope of marriage simply because of his citizenship. 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by SPAMBOX7: 11:46am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. You said no cos you were hopping on other dicks and now age isn't no more on your side and you wanna fall back to the simple man lmfao. If that isn't it then it's the abroad thing that's making you talk marriage to him every minute of the day. Either way (cos I know it's one of the two or nothing) you not the one for him. He deserves better so make you better ask for that break up so that at least you go fit get small ego wey you go take hold body 5 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
You sure sey you do comprehension for secondary school He had been in the US before she met him and so what are you capping 5 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Rhisky(m): 11:47am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
Long talk 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 11:48am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria. Jesu Kristi! All of this text untop CONJECTURE?! Dude, is everything alright? Ha?
Oga, the man has ALWAYS been in the States, according to her!
On a second thought sef, carry on... I should understand better that y'all get off on things like this, so... thumbs up. 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by siofra(f): 11:48am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Alfabest07:
i am not for anybody, but you said they were drowning in poverty Before are they swimming in riches 1 Like |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Atllanta: 11:48am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.
I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??
Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough. nor go miss luck o |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 11:49am On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.
how can i like this 1000times 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Acidosis(m): 11:49am On Jul 14, 2022 |
You are wasting your time, my dear. You both are players and you know it. 4 Likes |
| Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 11:49am On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:
So, you're now ready for a US citizen?
Ask yourself, is a US citizen ready for you now? Take your L and move on, my dear. The world has stopped revolving around you ladies waist. He was a citizen before they met, she didn't know him well then. Marriage is not relationship o, if you marry someone you just met and travel abroad, if he is a bad man, you go suffer oo. Nairaland boys Una no dey get sense 5 Likes |
