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Rosrozz:
Was there an agreement with your wife not to have kids before marriage? I think there’s more to this, your wife is hiding a very important issue about her from you.

Unzerious:
10 Years!! Abandon ship ASAP!

Divorce her first, you'll only be bringing Unlimited harm to your new Wife and Unborn Kids If you dont.

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

Zonefree:
You don't need a second wife yet.

You need to divorce that Jezebel first and get yourself another beautiful damsel to console your heart for a decade of living with the devil.

Unzerious:
10 Years!! Abandon ship ASAP!

Divorce her first, you'll only be bringing Unlimited harm to your new Wife and Unborn Kids If you dont.

Richy4:
Sorry to ask.. but what were u people discussing during courtship...I believe there are times that u said I will like you to be the mother of my kids.. what do you think we should call our first kids etc.. what was her reactions?..I believe both of you were not on the same page before you tie the knot..

udede:
our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

udede:
thanks for this angle you are coming from. She was a student when I married her and when i raise the issue of having children, her excuss then was that dhe can't combine schooling with having kids, we did not have long courtship actually and i think it contributed to all these, she was able to hide her disdem for kids, and it never crossed my mind that a lady could marry without wanting kids

udede:
thanks for this angle you are coming from. She was a student when I married her and when i raise the issue of having children, her excuss then was that dhe can't combine schooling with having kids, we did not have long courtship actually and i think it contributed to all these, she was able to hide her disdem for kids, and it never crossed my mind that a lady could marry without wanting kids

@ red highlights, It never crossed my mind too until I was exposed to the reality of life... I never even knew that a man might decide not to get married in this world except the Reverend fathers but yeah..it happens...

Maybe an open and honest conversation could be the solutions this time around... Put all cards on the table while discussing...At least she should meet you half way.. is she opened to surrogacy,.. is she gonna be ok for you to have a baby Mama, or is she opened for a second wife options...

Both of you loved each other... she doesn't want kids, u want kids.. so there should be compromise... meeting each other half way is the deal... 50:50

Richy4:
@ red highlights, It never crossed my mind too until I was exposed to the reality of life... I never even knew that a man might decide not to get married in this world except the Reverend fathers but yeah..it happens...

Maybe an open and honest conversation could be the solutions this time around... Put all cards on the table while discussing...At least she should meet you half way.. is she opened to surrogacy,.. is she gonna be ok for you to have a baby Mama, or is she opened for a second wife options...

Both of you loved each other... she doesn't want kids, u want kids.. so there should be compromise... meeting each other half way is the deal... 50:50

frozen70:
You seems to be alone in this

Why not involve your family and both families with meet and end this marriage then file for a divorce

But am very sure that she is not in good terms with your family

You may remain like this forever if you don't take the above step and advice

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

udede:
if you read my responses you will notice that i have had a heart tp heart talk with her many times , that was when she permitted me to marry a second wife

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

If you are ok with the arrengment don't waste time to reach me.

My contact line is on my DP

udede:
our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

ireneidiva:
What denomination in Christianity supports polygamy?

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

udede:
our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

StPete:
You’re just hungry to be fucking two women or possibly have every reason to have legitimate three.some without consequences. I pity any woman who takes up this useless offer

Spherica177:
Which denomination? Please i beg to differ. No church will do such thing. You can go ahead with your second wife plan but i disagree at the bolded

anthonyuncle:
wow!
did you wed your wife the day you met her?
what were you guys discussing during dating and courtship?
why didn't you go for medical checks before marriage?

and wakanda church desist from counseling your wife to be sincere about her past & health, forbids divorce, adultery and yet supports polygamy.

NB: there's nothing like peaceful polygamy in our society.