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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 6:58am On Aug 13, 2022 |
advanceDNA:I don't know what what you're yammering about but this particular story is a lie. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by MrCuteking(m): 6:58am On Aug 13, 2022 |
If she had given birth to a boy child I would have pleaded with you to tell your friend. Imagine a boy child inheriting someone else’s properties. That’s how far women can go. They take secrets to the grave. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Regardless(op): 7:19am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Let me just clarify some things. 1. For those who don't believe me and think I'm seeking clout like Truvelisback and co., you lots are entitled to your opinions. Not everyone seeks clout. 2. For those accusing me of hiding the information from my 'friend' and choosing a hoe over him, I don't consider him a 'friend'. That dude eh, I just don't want to reveal too much to maintain anonymity. Dude is even currently wanted by the authorities in his state. 3. For those accusing me of blackmailing and collecting money from my guy, please I didn't. He wanted to give me the moment I choose to start tracing her. I never told him I had started. I also have no intentions of blackmailing the lady for money. I'm doing well for myself. 4. And for the ladies that feel I posted this to bash female gender, I confess that was the main reason I wanted to post this especially after the big reveal to the husband - to teach men about the nature of women, however I just can't stop thinking about that little girl. Abeg I weak.. you lots can think what you want.... I really wish I was the one reading this instead of writing it. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:22am On Aug 13, 2022 |
detective I hail o no offense did you who really your father. allow your friend to find out |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Regardless(op): 7:29am On Aug 13, 2022 |
AbujaCitiBlog:Bro.. leave the brothers code and female rage aside, we're humans with emotions. A child's whole world is at stake. Reason am nau... |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by lonelygem(m): 7:30am On Aug 13, 2022 |
There are quite three phases to this story. Let's start from this angle, if the oil worker guy had not been available during the period of antenatal and pregnancy care which is the first stage of every child survival, who knows the baby we are talking about today might have died due to lack of care or inability to pay hospital bills long ago. Perhaps your friend wouldn't be in position to even look back or remember that girl today as his intentions then never focused on taking the relationship beyond s3x. On the other hand, all laws permit anyone who is financially capable and sane to take in, claim and shoulder responsibility of fathering a child he is not biologically connected to. To even think that the oil worker has other kids, he has nothing to lose, rather the child might end up being destroyed considering the lifestyle of the father. Going forward, the lady can get a good lawyer and deny the yahoo guy the ownership of that child. Lastly, how many of us would be willing to let our close relatives live under the roof of such a guy with questionable characters like history of Armed robbery, cultism and by extension, internet fraud? Any court of competent jurisdiction would deny him the child and restrict his access to the child. Which I'm certain he wouldn't have such effrontery to proceed to court as he already knows he could be arrested any moment. Every human fervently pray and wish for a lifetime free of financial stress. We call it a guaranteed future. In all these, I have no reason to blame the lady. If she had not taken that decision, the child might probably be roaming the street uncared for as one of those Almajiris. The question is, in the interest of the society and the innocent child, would anyone of us prefer seeing the child roaming the street, being exposed to all manner of sexual abuse or have her at a safe place irrespective who claims to answer her father. Whatever secrets God has covered, no human should proceed or take any step exposing it.. If all these never expose anyone to danger or direct threat, let it be please. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Truvelisback(m): 7:32am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:What's even ur business with their private life? What are u even trying to prove?
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by AbujaCitiBlog: 7:35am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:What you owe every child is the truth. Let he know her real father. But the OP is busy sidelining the father because if pussy! Too bad. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ebonygeek(f): 7:36am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:Don't fúck up a child's life for nothing. What future do you think she will have with such a sorry excuse for a father? ![]() She's got a good home now and has better chances of living a good and promising life where she is! |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Marvyx(m): 8:04am On Aug 13, 2022 |
lonelygem:Damn.. Most mature post I've read so far. OP should have taken this story to family section to see more posts like this. This is so on point. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by sayso: 11:19am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:Be careful now cos in war, you only eliminate the threat. Crystal ?. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Mom007(f): 12:27pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
You are a small boy trying to play God with what you don't know about. That cheating girl you knew 7years ago is no more o, let me tell you. She is now a mother of 3 children and somebody's wife. Remove hand from her and her family matter before something bad happens to you. Or are you jealous her life turned out better than you expected? The small child you claim you are feeling for, what better place do you think she can be aside from where she is? You want to bring a druggy, junkie, armed robber yahoo boy into the small child's life now and you think thats really the best for her? Can your friend take care of the child? What claim does he have on that child besides donating sperm? Leave that family alone if you like yourself. Besides, if you tell the husband, you ruin the whole family. What of he sends her out with the 2 kids who are truly his and they become destitute in the street? Can you have that on your conscience? Whats it to you anyway? You are not connected to them in any way so whats your own? The woman's karma will locate her eventually, never doubt it but it doesn't need to come from you. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by advanceDNA: 12:41pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
DrinkWater10:?? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by advanceDNA: 12:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:Oh sorry òooo ....i only agreed with your opinion...but somehow I'm the only one yammering ![]() |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 12:45pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
advanceDNA:Ok don't worry. I accept your apology. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Salihusaliheen(m): 12:55pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Why didn't he claim the child at the first place?not until now that someone raised the child and he want her back.ok how will u feel like when ur dad is Rich and later on u heard that he's not ur biological dad,(ur dad is a farmer in a village). |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by OlatunjiJohn(m): 1:18pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mom007:Women and irrational, evil thinking. No woman on earth want her son to father another man's children and stay with a cheating woman. No woman on earth wants her son to stupidly spend on girlfriends and rest but will advocate for other people's son to do exactly what they can't wish their brothers and son. If I were him the husband would have heard about it long ago. You called that a healthy family where a man father bastard? I don't care about the child. Bad wives should be covered and they only cared and complain about bad husband. Once it get to talking about women's bad and evil attitude you will start hearing nonsense. Truly women are the real Lucifer. God knows one woman won't tell me a child is mine without me confirming. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Oesophagus99(m): 1:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Lead ur guy off her their tracks.. That gurl is too young for those things. Girls full ground to impregnate & Everyone can be Happy where they are. ![]() |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by lomprico(m): 4:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:You are vile and evil. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Mamaafrik1(m): 4:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Get the guy number and send him an anonymous msg advising him on a DNA, he will take it from there. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by xeratek: 4:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:Another fake story from patlex AKA Patrick Enyum and group |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Dozie32(m): 4:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
She made a terrible mistake by using another man's pregnancy to someone else. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by BATified2023: 4:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:u are just another broke idiot who will definitely drop d new husband number once d South Africa guy send u small change What’s your business with peoples life for crying out loud? U are forming fbi on top another person matter when u obviously know your guy can’t take care of d girl I bet u if u scatter the girl home she will kill u for sure Broke idiot |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by callthefred: 4:40pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Omo this is really tough. This is why DNA is necessary. To avoid stories that touch. You were banging two guys at the same time. Who even knows if the other children belong to the husband. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Okobola146: 4:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
This is one of the reasons they send hired killers to finish some people. Op you better face your front and stop forming James bond. How are you sure the man that raised you up is truly your biological father? No go sidon and mind your fokn business. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by BATified2023: 4:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Hamzaaaaaaaa:the op deserves death I know d room mate is offering him money n that’s y he’s doing fbi on top another person matter If the girl get sense na to low key get his details n take him out |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Okobola146: 4:43pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
BATified2023:don't mind the modafoka |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by NehemiahReturns: 4:44pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
jeromestarks:boss you just took this words out of my mouth. the idiot get luck say na faceless forum be this cos na hard spanking e for collect @ Blackdeewhy you're a Bastard |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by BATified2023: 4:44pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
jeromestarks:so the irresponsible dude is the innocent man? The op even confessed that he’s sure his guy can’t take care of the girl |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by HITsquad: 4:45pm On Aug 13, 2022*. Modified: 2:52am On Aug 14, 2022 |
If that your former roommate is not really your "Friend" or he is just another random guy, then mind your business as It doesn't concern you. But if he is your friend? and you still dey reason what to do... Then you be confam fvck up guy and a fvcking fake ass hommie! Where the fvck is your Loyalty? Smh It's not your call to judge your former roommate's lifestyle... He still a father who needs his child. For the ladies here screaming "don't break someone's marriage" y'all women are all the same! Heartless and have no conscience... Y'all only care about yourselves! How can you pin an innocent man with another man's child and still comfortably look him in the eyes everyday for 7 yrs? Smh for women. That marriage is not real, it was built on a concrete foundation of lies and doesn't deserve to continue.... A woman like that can kill her husband! |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by CSTRR: 4:46pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Too bad for the husband. All the years of sweating in school, studying hard,coming out with a good grade and getting a good oil job. Only to fall into the hands of a wife that have been ravished by a Yahoo boy. And worse, the ex will still come one-day for a girl he thought was his first child. What a bad luck in life. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Moh247: 4:46pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
let them be jare, when its not like you friend is impotent |
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