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Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by IbomGuy: 12:27pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
I have two advice for you...so choose one! 1. Confront the guy (her ex) and ask him if what he is doing to your wife, he will like another person to do it to his wife when he gets married? Talk things out with him and also hear what he has to say. You never can tell, it might be your wife is the one taking herself to him. 2. Tell your wife cut the link and if she doesn't..."END IT" bro. She is not loyal. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by TheGift: 12:29pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
knowingChrist: What if the Woman is not interested in the union by Her actions? You can drag the harlot to your house but it is She that will choose to stay there. And who says marriage is not breakable? Marriages break everyday? And there are many that are married on paper and in mouth but not in Heart, nor in spirit and truth. That God hates divorce doesn't mean that marriages with unwilling partners should be forced. Yes God hates divorce. And God also hates adultery. The adulterer has already done the divorcing in the process of adultering. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:29pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Davidave: even animals self once there pregnant, they don't allow another animal to touch them again, not to talk of human kiaa 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Secondly: 12:30pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: Are you sure the baby is really yours? Wait until the baby is delivered, then do a DNA paternity test on the baby. If the baby is not yours, boot her out one time. If the baby is yours, then you can start making plans on how to let bygones be bygones and move ahead with life, that is, if you can do that. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by charlesdainty(m): 12:30pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
You don't need any advice from anybody, any woman that still keep in touch with ex can never be change and can leads to your death. Chase her away and take your kids except inferiority complex is affecting you |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:32pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: is she the one feeding you and the kids, even if she is the one, oga devoiced her now now,,, haba don't be a disgrace to manhood abeg,,,if I was ur brother I for done slap or beat self |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Richarlison640(m): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Bro you will never be happy in that marriage no matter how hard you try you will keep on suspecting her and she will keep on cheating on you the only difference is that she will try and be more careful so you don't catch her as for the children let God decide brake up with her and you might find someone who truly loves you and willing to take good care of them lastly run D.N.A text cous if I get you right the only reason you are still in that marriage is because of your children what if they are not truly your's 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by EndRape2(f): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Take this advice, divorce is not always the best option, the next person might not cheat on you, but kill you to take your property , even bible says we should forgive 70*70 times Do this, tell her you are done with the marriagr because she is cheating on you, then watch her reaction, if she leave without remorse ,then let her go, if she cries and promise never to do it again, then forgive and give her conditions . 1. No password on her phone 2. She must submit all her social media account password 3. She must call the guy in your presence and tell him , never to call her again, because she does not want her marriage broken 4. She must inform her parents and elders are f her family what she did, and the must come to apologies and talk to her in your house and presence , 5.she must be willing for Dna for the kids If she is willing to do all these , Then forgive her, because of the kids, she might turn out to be the best wife, Just the way men find it hard to leave first love, same way some women can not leave their first love, but trust me, once a woman is caught she will stop it. author=Soulflai post=115765744]I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble. I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating. Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken. On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her! I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year. This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough. Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance. If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!. Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.[/quote] |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
OreoPaschal: are you from igala side leave the mumu make him just the foolish around, how I wish I Sabi am self I for beat am join. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by jimmynauty: 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: Jizz guy you are the MAN , take em to your mom, divorce her ASAP go get job, work to forget her.. common |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Nobody: 12:35pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:If you are my bro, I ll tell you to divorce her. But before that time, teach that ex some private lessons. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by ogechchukwu: 12:36pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Please my brother this advice is from the bottom of my heart.. And i will tell you what i will do if it was me.. Wholeheartedly... Please before you accept her go and do BLOOD test you heard me loud and clear blood test to prove the kids are yours And followed by HIV test too. To avoid bringing in boko Harlem child in your family.. As for me i will not forgive reason being i do not do love with pity ... |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:39pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: what is this one saying self, nawao so woman know de follow for all those crimes u mention abi?? even as that what this topic and what u are saying gat to do here, some people no get Sense oo, ur type are the ones cheating even with pregnancy |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Chummynoni(m): 12:40pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Ruthymoon:stop the generalization that everyone has an EX, my wife don’t. And again his wife having an ex doesn’t justify the shameless act she did. Well, the redpillers on this forum might be ruthless in their ways of passing their messages but I agree with them with some of their preachings. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Greatlee54: 12:41pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Inside life! |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:43pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
emmytams: I don't think so, he even call the ex to leave the wife alone, someone fucking another man with 5 months pregnant,,, he is lucky am not his brother I should have firstly beat the hell out of him, I can't even brother his type self |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Dingdongbells(m): 12:43pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Vikkoh:This one off me. Because of you Pst. Righteousness has failed to see the connection between this act and end times forgetting the fact that Bible said wickedness will increase, that people will not fear God, they will be lovers of pleasure and themselves, having a form of Godliness and denying the power of God. Pst Righteousness 2 has turned marriage counselor and therapist advising him to seek help. Pst Righteousness 2 pls this is end times o. Don't allow anyone to derail your ministry o.o. We like the original � fire and brimstone Righteousness 2. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 12:44pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
[quote author=rhymesnoni post=115783057][/quote] and how did u know those kids are his |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by jimmynauty: 12:45pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
JONSYN7154: Your opinion Sha... Though skewed |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Sammy101111(m): 12:46pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
My advice if it happened 2 years chat and you found out later Just tell her to give it a break bro best adivce give her space for a while But care less for her Don't touch or do anything intimacy with her Let her see you've change you can make her pack her load her self .Just change for good . Just change and let her know you are not mugu again. And start finding another woman to chill with when you need to |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Dingdongbells(m): 12:46pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Righteousness2:Pst Righteousness 2 this matter pass marriage counseling o. It's sign of end times. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Hohaiiiode(m): 12:49pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Vikkoh: |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Coolx: 12:49pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:Your wife slept with another man while she was pregnant and seeking for an advise I thank God say me and you no relate cos the kind slap wey ar go wos u ehn make eyes clear Let me tell you the truth na that ur wife go k*ll u..... I'm not married and my fiancee no fit try this shit with me So tell me na like this u won take train ur children U deserve beating |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by peedeeasobie(m): 12:50pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Ebubu9: Being broke shouldn't be why he decided to stay in a very depressive and emotionally abusive relationship 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by SAMAJ: 12:51pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
If you don't do away with this woman, she will kill you eventually. The ex-boyfriend may also kill you. In Yoruba land, the belief is that a man that continually sleeps with your wife will never wish you well. For me, the only thing thay can make me send my wife parking is adultery. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by CHoccolaTE: 12:52pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Cazzim: Lol Continue crying na |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Megabig: 12:52pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: You caught her texts that’s why you think the last time was two years ago, she may have had it weeks or months ago, may also not be with the ex alone. For the fact that you caught those evidence, don’t believe anything that comes out of her mouth. Make your decision to stay or leave, just stop believing things like a sIMP |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Scamperlee(m): 12:56pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Olamide must really be a pastor who sees the future. Ki oko e le bi ti Love Machine (Wonma do) O ba lowo bi puppi (Wonma do) Gbe lo Yankee fun shopping (Wonma do) Ko wun e se introduction (Wonma do) And so what pe e se wedding (Wonma do) E ba do ran yin lo yun (Wonma do) 2 months after naming (Wonma do) |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Halo22: 12:56pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
On a serious note, some stories are better imagined than to be real. I feel for you @op, cos as a jealous type, I can fathom what you must be going through now. However, I must tell you that ur so-called wife is so affectionate towards her ex, reason she even allowed him to climb her like u said, in her pregnancy. I think it is time to be a man, cos I still see her running back to the guy in question. But then, try and conduct a DNA test on those ur children now that it's still early. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by duketerry22(m): 1:00pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
First of all have you done a DNA test? Someone having sex with another at 5months you are doomed if you choose to continue with this cos mind you all this is only happening cos she got caught, you saw from WhatsApp what about calls? If you don't want to write your will early do the needful and leave but first get that DNA test. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by MrQuadri: 1:01pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: You don't need advice. When you are ready, you will leave her. |
Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Cazzim(m): 1:03pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
AishaDant: how did u know the kids are his |
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