Obidient4life3:


Oga you did nothing wrong! That lady doesn't love you simple!

Too deep

Maconstruct:
Use sweeter words in formatting and massaging her brain into giving into yr ideas while hyping her when nxt yr 1 on 1 with her.
If it is working yu will see it.
Otherwise, japa.

we are ok now bro, she seems to understand

Biglittlelois:
Are you gay

Your gender says female

Didn't you know many guys just set their gender as female on here?

Age matters to me .
I was careful not to be involved with any man younger than I am,even if by one day.

Age was one of the first things I tried to find out about a prospective suitor .

I once ghosted a guy who I later found out was 12 days younger than me.

Nigerian men and age shaming women...I couldn't deal ooh

Gosh234:

Tomorrow will be "you are not proud of me,I can't predict either, I have apologised, everywhere good now"

Make sure you know her real age… and she can still conceive . You two need to go do fertility test.. cos tomorrow.. you know my age and still married me kinda of blame. Marriage is about interests and business

spiceadole:
Age matters to me .
I was careful not to be involved with any man younger than I am,even if by one day.

Age was one of the first things I tried to find out about a prospective suitor .

I once ghosted a guy who I later found out was 12 days younger than me.

Nigerian men and age shaming women...I couldn't deal ooh

It’s Naija women that are hung up on age diff.

Shugargal:

I'm confused �, Your name says female. Or is your write up the other way round?

Maybe, maybe not.

BigIyanga:

It’s Naija women that are hung up on age diff.

Who calls matured single ladies," evening newspapers"?

SUPERPACK:
If love is blind, marriage is an eye opener.

Word on marble.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

truthsayer009:


I could somewhat agree with this statement, but I have a question. Isn't this going to be a recurring issue that keeps coming up?.

I tried to date someone older than me with a year, I can genuinely say she loved me because of the evidences I saw but omo the disrespect no be here oh. It was clear cut that she couldn't bring herself to respect someone younger.

I have asked women this questions offline too and the answer I get is that they cannot see themselves respecting a younger man.

Most dont even respect men older than them....not to talk of Younger men.

Reality is That: women expect you the Man to be Better than her Most Departments like: Finances, Age, Height, Social dynamics etc.

nowornever2016:
make it low key oga.

Certain things can influence the man typing....Baba make dem give boiz leg to da direct path.

GentlePEACE:


She is a wise woman. Relationships are best kept between two lovers, don't make your r/ship a public affair or else people will be the ones to scatter before u know it. You are telling people just to get their opinion if you don't know, she that decide to keep it secret knows best.

oga I read your diary I am interested pls let's connect on what'sapp

oxiide22:
oga I read your diary I am interested pls let's connect on what'sapp

pm me

GentlePEACE:
pm me

ok

U shouldn't be disturbed... If she no Want u again.. you should both move on.
She will be the one losing..
Cos it will be hard to get a guy of ur age to marry her.... she'd have to resort to looking for men far older than her..
Let me even tell u one thing.. nothing is hidden...
If I keep hiding her age...
One day, friends and family will eventually know.... And will be disappointed.
So it's better they know now n be disappointed n eventually give blessings to ur marriage compared to finding out after marriage..
Your gf is too sensitive n overreacting n for her to say how did she get into this relationship.....if Na me be you.
.it's over.