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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by bekpo(m): 8:24pm On Aug 20, 2022
tonicyril:
Wait ogami, my eye dey turn...

Wait pls, u mean u and someone was running her together concurrently and she took in, then she had to lie to u in a bid to hook it on u but God saved u.

And u stil told her to deliver the baby and return back to u.. how?? Do do u stand her presence, knowing fully well that she's a postpartum woman.. U re a man ooh..ahh na man u be. Me i cant stand it..laelae.

Football match no dey start from a goal down, na from 0:0 e dey start.

U even empowered her, and was even begging her to marry u.

Oga mi na man u be, i no fit, my emotions no reach.

Our word should b our bond! I would've been a liar if afterwards, i couldn't keep 2 my promises. The day she slept with me 4 d first time was d day she quit d relationship with d guy because d guy denied d pregnancy and wasn't ready 2 father a child. She left his house 2 meet me. Even while she was in my house, according 2 her, d guys friend called and persuaded her 2 returned that he will talk 2 d guy, she was adamant and bluntly told him, she will take d pregnancy 2 some1 else.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by tonicyril: 9:06pm On Aug 20, 2022
bekpo:


Our word should b our bond! I would've been a liar if afterwards, i couldn't keep 2 my promises. The day she slept with me 4 d first time was d day she quit d relationship with d guy because d guy denied d pregnancy and wasn't ready 2 father a child. She left his house 2 meet me. Even while she was in my house, according 2 her, d guys friend called and persuaded her 2 returned that he will talk 2 d guy, she was adamant and bluntly told him, she will take d pregnancy 2 some1 else.
Hmm, that is still not enough to take upon ursef someone else's responsibility. Na hher wahala be that, bro dont do that again ooh, pls and pls sir.

Wait bro, are u average in look or u re extremely handsome??

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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by larrypourl(m): 11:19pm On Aug 20, 2022
JudgeNotHi:
We are both adults, she's 27yrs and I am 33yrs.

No bi you get belle and be firm with that. Go see a doctor and explain things to him, by stating the date you had sex, date on her test results, etc.... He'll explain better. So she's 4weeks gone within 12 days?
Wise up bro.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by otis3(m): 12:14am On Aug 21, 2022
Bros , just tell your wife that you're not going ahead with the wedding again citing the reason why it's not appropriate for u to continue with her ...you'd love to but. Let her take her decision and whatever the outcome accept it the way it comes.
As for the pregnant babe, don't marry her. Tell the mother point blank you can't marry her. Take care of the pregnancy until you are able to prove the paternity...if it's yours, she don turn babe mama be that.....just prepare your kind for the outcomes in both ways...he don happen, find a peaceful way out for yourself abeg.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by bekpo(m): 12:59am On Aug 21, 2022
tonicyril:
Hmm, that is still not enough to take upon ursef someone else's responsibility. Na hher wahala be that, bro dont do that again ooh, pls and pls sir.

Wait bro, are u average in look or u re extremely handsome??

What's d nexus between my experience and my looks? Is there any correlation?
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by tonicyril: 3:48am On Aug 21, 2022
bekpo:


What's d nexus between my experience and my looks? Is there any correlation?

Yes bro.

Handsome men hardly do that cus there are many fishes in the pond for which that can easily choose from.

But u see we ugly or semi ugly beings,girls no too dey flock around us, and u see the ones who are committed to us we hardly let them go even if they are full of mess. That is wen u wil be hearing "i am fighting for my love, she's a good girl if not for the little mistake which is pardonable".

Laslas na we dey marry fine girl pass but that is after some handsome men don use her eye see shege cry
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by BeanmanX(m): 6:40am On Aug 21, 2022
Ninisun:




Thanks for this!

#saynotoabortion
I hope u know that the useless troll u re replying is Greg.peterson,,
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by bekpo(m): 7:59am On Aug 21, 2022
tonicyril:


Yes bro.

Handsome men hardly do that cus there are many fishes in the pond for which that can easily choose from.

But u see we ugly or semi ugly beings,girls no too dey flock around us, and u see the ones who are committed to us we hardly let them go even if they are full of mess. That is wen u wil be hearing "i am fighting for my love, she's a good girl if not for the little mistake which is pardonable".

Laslas na we dey marry fine girl pass but that is after some handsome men don use her eye see shege cry

U r very funny, very hilarious!
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by tonicyril: 9:00am On Aug 21, 2022
bekpo:


U r very funny, very hilarious!
bro it might be funny but that is the reality..we all know that.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by kaaka4: 9:50am On Aug 21, 2022
@Op I don't any other thing to say. Everything has been mentioned, just go take her for ultrasound as soon as possible.
Btw, I like the way gave more insight by responding often. All I want to ask is to still come back and tell us how everything went after this issue has been sorted out because most people don't do that here.
You never can tell, you might be helping someone here

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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by charlsecy(m): 11:02am On Aug 21, 2022
RedpillAnalyst:
Fornication never results in anything positive.
It can result in positive pregnancy reports.

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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by CaptMarvel(m): 1:41pm On Aug 21, 2022
charlsecy:
It can result in positive pregnancy reports.
exactly...!
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by bekpo(m): 3:44pm On Aug 21, 2022
tonicyril:
bro it might be funny but that is the reality..we all know that.

Ur opinion!
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by tonicyril: 4:28pm On Aug 21, 2022
bekpo:


Ur opinion!
then prove me wrong sir
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by studentofTruth: 5:09pm On Aug 21, 2022
OkoRemi2023:




you seems to be a medical expert, your analysis was straightforward and comprehensive



please help me look into this brother



a street friend though is well to do, him and his gf stay far away and you know this girls you can hardly trust them, my guy have trust issues perhaps because of their distance relationship



she came over, they had sex on 24th stroke 25th of June, she was suppose to see her next period on 7th of July, she didn't see it, she informed my guy about it, my guy was worried but the babe said she should calm down that it might be because of stress or sth, till on the 11th of July the period didn't show, so my guy force her to do x-test on the 13th of July, that urine test and it came out positive that she's pregnant though they're yet to go for ultrasound test



what's the possibility of him owning the pregnancy please?

Sorry for the late reply; I don't frequently visit here.

If truly her period was to start on the 7th of July, then she ovulated on the 23rd of June. Depending on the time, her egg could survive by the time she visited on the 24th. If sex happened on that 24th, there's a chance the guy could be responsible for it.

But let them do ultrasound to find out if the pregnancy if way beyond. For example, if the ultimate says 14weeks, she's already pregnant before coming to visit your guy, but if it says 10 weeks, then pregnancy resulted from the June ovulation — it could be from your friend but could still be a foul play (sex a few days before the visit to your friend).
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by OkoRemi2023(m): 6:47pm On Aug 21, 2022
studentofTruth:


Sorry for the late reply; I don't frequently visit here.

If truly her period was to start on the 7th of July, then she ovulated on the 23rd of June. Depending on the time, her egg could survive by the time she visited on the 24th. If sex happened on that 24th, there's a chance the guy could be responsible for it.

But let them do ultrasound to find out if the pregnancy if way beyond. For example, if the ultimate says 14weeks, she's already pregnant before coming to visit your guy, but if it says 10 weeks, then pregnancy resulted from the June ovulation — it could be from your friend but could still be a foul play (sex a few days before the visit to your friend).



God bless you bro, I really appreciate your comprehensive response on this



THANKS. I will keep you updated when he carried out the ultrasound. do you have idea of how much they do the ultrasound?
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by bekpo(m): 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2022
tonicyril:
then prove me wrong sir

U r entitle 2 ur opinion and none can take that away from u.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by tonicyril: 8:56pm On Aug 21, 2022
bekpo:


U r entitle 2 ur opinion and none can take that away from u.
Well, its a popular opinion sir..

Even our elementary knowledge confirm it.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 6:07pm On Aug 25, 2022
[/b] author=VeryWickedMan post=115859920]
Arrange with your doctor to abort the baby if positive[b]



Arrange with your doctor to abort the baby if positive[b]
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by JudgeNotHi: 6:34pm On Sep 03, 2022
Finally, I'm able to say this:

* She was indeed pregnant.
* It wasn't mine
* The mother was innocent of the whole episode as she only got to know after she confessed to her.
* She only just told her mom whom the real owner of the pregnancy was (her ex)
* Unfortunately, it has been aborted.

I have learnt a lot from this ordeal.

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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by JudgeNotHi: 6:46pm On Sep 03, 2022
...
* My wedding still holds this month.
* I never brought myself to tell my bride to be about this episode, As I was advised against doing such from majority of the elders aware of the case. (Don't judge me please)
Maybe one day I will...if ever.

Thanks & God Bless.
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Ishilove: 7:13pm On Sep 03, 2022
JudgeNotHi:
Finally, I'm able to say this:

* She was indeed pregnant.
* It wasn't mine
* The mother was innocent of the whole episode as she only got to know after she confessed to her.
* She only just told her mom whom the real owner of the pregnancy was (her ex)
* Unfortunately, it has been aborted.

I have learnt a lot from this ordeal.
You dodged a bullet. Next time remain faithful to your partner

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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by MissionaryArchi(m): 9:04pm On Sep 26, 2022
JudgeNotHi:
Finally, I'm able to say this:

* She was indeed pregnant.
* It wasn't mine
* The mother was innocent of the whole episode as she only got to know after she confessed to her.
* She only just told her mom whom the real owner of the pregnancy was (her ex)
* Unfortunately, it has been aborted.

I have learnt a lot from this ordeal.
You get luck. Never cheat on your wife ever again. You try it you fall into a bigger problem, maybe this time the lady in question may die while under you having sex.
Congratulations on your wedding
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by oazeez1991(m): 3:47pm On Sep 30, 2022
JudgeNotHi:
...
* My wedding still holds this month.
* I never brought myself to tell my bride to be about this episode, As I was advised against doing such from majority of the elders aware of the case. (Don't judge me please)
Maybe one day I will...if ever.

Thanks & God Bless.

I'm happy for you bro. Just as I earlier opined, not telling your wife-to-be is the best thing to do in this situation. Imagine you resolved to telling her, now this revelation of you not being responsible for the pregnancy could have spell doom for your marriage right before it even started, and you would forever regret such act. The damage it would have cause could have been irredeemable.

Lesson learnt. Moving forward, you need to be careful and stay faithful. Wish you a blissful wedding and marital life.

Congratulations in advance.

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