Humble yourself and visit her sometimes and u may know whether she's actually busy or merely giving excuses.

"TRUTHLY", na something wey de hungry you wey you never get for long de make you vex.

You needed to be more supportive than make demands. A bit selfish of you.
If you truly value her and the future of you both, use all this time you have to yourself and develop yourself too.

Person work Monday to Saturday, you want make she come work Sunday again, haba! you no want make she rest?

polite2:
OP pls just move on. This babe does not priorities you anymore.. she now have option where she takes off stress on Sundays .

Same thought here happened to me too, I had to rest � BP is real

una still dey do relationship..una dey try ooo

Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?

Don't mind what people say. Youve done the right thing.

Four Sundays and she couldn't sacrifice one lol.

She has break up with you lol.

Abizz:
That woman sure deserves better.
Sometimes I wonder where women even meet animals.

Like attracts like

NeckingNgulping:


Persephone, honestly, i have seen that you never ever try to see things from other people's point of view. You only care about yourself and how you feel and your likes.

It's clear that they've been dating before she got the job. I know that the new job will limit them from seeing each other as they usually do, but can't be completely busy Monday through Sunday.

His supposed girlfriend hasn't come to see him for weeks, he even said Months. He complained about it, and everyone is calling him names.

He wanted one day, just one day to spend with the one he loves.

Honestly all the guy just needed was a little attention,& all nairalanders could do was just to be bashing him up & down,to be honest all I can see behind this faceless forum are kids.

Mike008:
"TRUTHLY", na something wey de hungry you wey you never get for long de make you vex.

You needed to be more supportive than make demands. A bit selfish of you.
If you truly value her and the future of you both, use all this time you have to yourself and develop yourself too.

Person work Monday to Saturday, you want make she come work Sunday again, haba! you no want make she rest?

If the tables were turned, the lady would have done worse

Dating na scamA GIRL WOULD BE DATING YOU SERIOUSLY FOR TWO YEARS, AND HER BODYCOUNT IN THAT TWO YEARS WOULD STILL BE MORE THAN 5...HOW CUM?HOW CUMS? Dating na scamA GIRL WOULD BE DATING YOU SERIOUSLY FOR TWO YEARS, AND HER BODYCOUNT IN THAT TWO YEARS WOULD STILL BE MORE THAN 5...HOW CUM?HOW CUMS? ...

Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?

Hmmmm see it is not easy for her too.... Just like me that work from Mon - Fri will still close late.... I go for classes sat nd sun ..... Where is the time for relationship

As an OG in the making, I want to ask you some few questions. I don't just cut off a lady if she still do the following:

1. If she still call me

2. If she still chat me up to check up on me

3. If she still try her best to keep in touch with you out of her busy schedule even if there is no frequent physical meet up between you both.

Does she do all of the above? If she does, then she is still very much interested in you. But if she doesn't, and you're the only one doing all of the above, then I can tell you for free that your moving on is the right decision.

Know this, no matter how busy a lady is, if she is interested in you, she will always keep in touch with you. Not necessarily as per meeting physically only, if she is still putting in effort to talk to you, that's a sign that she still wants you.

So, check the above and make an informed decision. If she does all the above, don't just cut her off like that. You can only cut her off, if she isn't doing any of the above.

Bradford111

Why you no reply the FTC

Bradford111:


I don’t get you. What do you mean?

Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?

Watin concern Wike and Atiku if you you like breakup or breakdown or even break off patapata you break in OR out joining it break over just continue ur breakfast nobody get time with ur personal life. Abi na you be the first

If it will give u peace of mind.....
Then it's the right decision

Michelle70:
which one is i love u truthly again na?
The babe cannot work again cos she is dating an ASUU victim like u?

u jobless bag of shit upon zeroness and emptiness

konji nai deh worry u.

hahahaha Wetin the guy do you now biko Small small

1234IKECHhukwu:
Honestly all the guy just needed was a little attention,& all nairalanders could do was just to be bashing him up & down,to be honest all I can see behind this faceless forum are kids.

so, you dont know that nairaland had become home of kids and juveniles. one yabaleft patient was even calling him animal lol.

it been month i browse dis forum self lol.

the OP is only looking for a prophet to tell him that the lady had moved on

Those Sundays are her only day to get some rest. Just keep that in mind

Why are you now telling us?

All the times she had your time, you no carry us along o...you come dey give us news wey no concern us now.

I'll advise you get busy bro and find something doing to ensure you become successful instead of sharing "truthly love" upandan

Let her leave the job and focus on her relationship.
Las las na love una go chop

1234IKECHhukwu:
Honestly all the guy just needed was a little attention,& all nairalanders could do was just to be bashing him up & down,to be honest all I can see behind this faceless forum are kids.

Too many kids on this forum bro.. It's just sickening. Their IQ level is too poor.. Some are adults with kid's mentality..

Abizz:
That woman sure deserves better.
Sometimes I wonder where women even meet animals.

... Mostly in the "Zoo"

Guy u have made a mistake before consulting the house...what u should have done is to make her augment the lapses in financial gratitude... Unless she is busy for nothing that is when your action is justified..

NemoDatQuod:
Ha!ha!ha!ha!

My guy. To be openly honest, I suspect she broke up with you a while back already.

When things change in our lives, it makes us reassess our circumstances. I suspect getting that job made her reassess her relationship with you and most likely, from your self absorbed post, she found the negatives far outweigh the positives and she legged it.

So while you were busy selfishly fuming at her for not coming to drop dead at your Almighty feet on Sundays after working 6 day weeks, she had already moved on. So the question you came here to ask is irrelevant.

Next time, think about what you can do to make life easier for someone you say you love "truthly", though I don't understand what that word means. When you start off by thinking of how you can make things easier for your mate, he or she will usually reciprocate the gesture, if they are decent people.

What would you advise if they're not decent people?

if she no get job. She's a leech. If she get job, she's a bitch. Go and get a job Oga.

The responses to this is shocking. The plight of men is never taken seriously. When they cry out in pain, they are ridiculed.

She just has a job, she's not building a spaceship ffs. People are here making it seem like having a job is some sort of sacred calling. The truth is that if something is important to you, you'll make time for it. If seeing someone was important to you, you will find a way to see them.

If she had a job interview for higher paying job to attend on each of those four Sundays, would she have been unable to attend all of them because of her 'busy schedule'?

Your sucrutum is filled to the brim with cum. Go get a life and never go back to that girl. She works Mondays to Saturdays. Then Sundays when she will go to church, prepare for the next work week and rest, make she come spend am with you fool.

You don't toast babe with text message and don't break up with text message.

Another thing you should not have discussed the issue with her any longer if you have tried all your possible effort to make the relationship work. Just move on without telling her anything. Get your self relief with another babe instantly.

Go ahead and approach new babes. Continue trying different girls till you find the one that accept you. Just let your former girl be on her own, if she calls back and change, it's fine and if she doesn't, let her be. No need to talk about it for now until you meet again.

If you really feel you must talk about any issues you guys are having, travel down where ever she is, work place, church or her home, take the risk even if it's long distance or at night. Talk to her, ask her questions and behave normally to know your stand in her life.

She’s found something or someone that is worth her while so she won’t feel bad about the break up. Perhaps you’ve helped her to do what she wanted to happen weeks ago.

Lol,see this one and woman MATTER,carry for head like GALA

Good question

I wouldn't get into bed with someone who is not a decent human being in the first place.

But if that does happen, I will disengage from that relationship. There is no specific woman for a particular man or a specific man for a particular woman. It is when you find someone who reflects the values that are important to you and vice versa, then we say we have found our soulmate.

How on earth will someone who is self centred and lacks empathy going to be anyone's soulmate?

Naijaolosho2:



What would you advise if they're not decent people?

You want to be nacking somebody's daughter every Sunday abi ? Your own is 4 weeks you are there complaining, so me that is dating someone in Abuja while am in Lagos , I should go and die na ?

Sad truth, you guys are not on same league again .

Someone on same league is probably in the office.

Move on and be fine.