A Nigerian man has shared a screenshot of a message from his house cleaner who asked him out.

In the message, the cleaner expressed her love for him and further added that she needs him in her life.

@Otunbatoba who described this as his craziest experience in a longtime, recounted how he's been nice to his cleaner who is a widow with two children.

The Twitter user who regretted being nice to the cleaner, stated that he now needs a wife so his cleaner will know that there is a "madam" in the house.

He tweeted;

My craziest experience in a longtime. Earlier today, I got this text from my house cleaner who happened to be a widow with 2 children and should be in her 40s. I was and still am confused, I thought I was helping her by

1. providing her with the job

2. Paying her extra

3. Not complaining when foodstuff, fruits, & drinks go less in the kitchen after cleaning, & in most cases, she asks if she can take it, especially for products that are about to expire.

4. Solving her minor problems like adding to kids Sch. Fee or extra cash during the festivals I guess na me fckv up.

Being nice can be stupid in most cases.

At this point, I agree that I need a wife. at least my next cleaner will know that madam is in the house.

https://twitter.com/OtunbaToba/status/1574087399612846080?s=20&t=4mHxb1Q-oJGEUtSMrQHHiQ

Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

She did bad thing by loving you

A foolish move by a foolish cleaner, it's very good to be professional in dealing with things like this, you did not even set boundaries from the beginning, infact you did nothing,... now you see why setting boundaries from the beginning is very good and effective, if he had set boundaries, the woman wouldn't have dared to cross it in the first place knowing fully well the repercussions for such an act.

To slap that cleaner dey hungry me,

So common Sense didn't tell her that the man is being nice to her, she didn't appreciate the fact that she has a good, understanding and supportive employer, or does she think that such employers are easy to come by.

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

So much for women that think men really matters in their life when dildos is always available.

Use your Dildos in peace make we hear word.

Na so she take sack herself.

she just sacked herself

So na because of this small thing u say u need a wife,u really don't need one

Why must he Expose this, if na true? Very immature man. I detest men who behave this way

I don’t see anything wrong in what the woman did sha.
The man is just being petty....why post it online?
Nawa oh

Nemesis0147:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the woman did sha.
The man is just being petty....why post it online?
Nawa oh

When that coper lady posted that the gateman of her workplace asked her out...all women here inclusing female asślickers supported her...say "what effontry", and that she did the right thing

Now tables have turned...its now not a big deal....
Once a man doesnt dance to a woman's tune... he must be a scum, childish, immature, or evil...

advanceDNA:


When that coper lady posted that the gateman of her workplace asked her out...all women here inclusing female asślickers supported her...say "what effontry", and that she did the right thing

Now tables have turned...its now not a big deal....
Once a man doesnt dance to a woman's tune... he must be a scum, childish, immature, or evil

the coper and this man are the same.
They are both petty!!
Nothing bad in expressing one’s felling.

Nemesis0147:
the coper and this man are the same.
They are both petty!!
Nothing bad in expressing one’s felling.

Exactly...nothing wrong in expressing love...but women always feel some men are not their standard

advanceDNA:


Exactly...nothing wrong in expressing love...but women always feel some men are not their standard

the same thing the man just did now...which is wrong from both side

advanceDNA:


When that coper lady posted that the gateman of her workplace asked her out...all women here inclusing female asślickers supported her...say "what effontry", and that she did the right thing

Now tables have turned...its now not a big deal....
Once a man doesnt dance to a woman's tune... he must be a scum, childish, immature, or evil...

no mind them always playing the victim card.

There’s nothing here, everybody deserves love.

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

So much for women that think men really matters in their life when dildos is always available.

the man Bleep up but you Bleep up bigger than him.


So you believe in dildos more than men And you are using a phone bought for you by a man.

Dildos don't suck breast .

Try and have small sense next time

DaddyRochie1642:



Use your Dildos in peace make we hear word.

Hey buddy, missed you around here, were u go since, sabbatical

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

Calm down ma.
Let one guy not discourage all the women from expressing their feelings.
I'm very sure reasonable dudes won't post it online.

MadamVanessa

Where have you been

Its very important to set boundries for your employees. Secondly, like a large percentage of women she mistook the man's 'niceness' for 'likeness.' Lastly, posting it online is low and petty. There are some behaviour I don't expect from men, but what do I know.

Most ladies will prefer an already made man compared to an hustler
I won't be surprised if one SIMPle young gentleman is desperate for her attention

The lady professed her love. Basically, anyone can process love to another.

Maybe it's now a little too far based on the work relationship between you two.

But normally when someone professes love, you simply decline if you are not interested. What's all these coming on social media and posting screenshots?

Petty!!!

She wants the relationship to be more closer than before means they had something in common before.

Tobi wants "chop and clean mouth" while madam cleaner wants "serious relationship" . Tales of two petty hooligans

Tho the man didn't act mature by exposing the chats, but this widow wants a tear rubber young, rich and fresh dude that would take responsibility on two kids fathered by someone else, Nah...This is not love but fantasy because she has imagine herself as the madam of the house, this people no dey fear God shaah...

ehhhh love her now

Why are this gender like this?

9ja girls are so useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Nemesis0147:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the woman did sha.
The man is just being petty....why post it online?
Nawa oh

He’s even proud. Like a cleaner isn’t human or what ??

Cleaner don see money,she no fit hold herself again.. Before you will know what is happening that guyman go pack go village. The guy should not give her that chance o,if he loves his life ..

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

Very childish fool

Zonefree:
She wants the relationship to be more closer than before means they had something in common before.

Tobi wants "chop and clean mouth" while madam cleaner wants "serious relationship" . Tales of two petty hooligans

Before I area your message I was about typing same. The text proved that they have been having sex. That why she want more than just sex and want it to be a permanent relationship. The guy just shot himself for leg. Lol

Sucre6:


Hey buddy, missed you around here, were u go since, sabbatical

I was in the trenches

Everything to clout chase.

I won't be suprised if he wrote that message by himself