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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by kodix(m): 12:42pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Does it means that majority of theives,rapist,Yahoo boy,kidnappers ,prostitutes e.t.c are adopted children, unfortunately they are children from families only in few cases I have even heard of adopted children doing so.I think finally is parental skill and God. 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by maziude: 12:45pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Typical Nigerian mindset blame everyone but themselves. This mentality in 2022 and you still wonder why Nigeria is still at a standstill. I guess bring down the horse for going into the mud rather than the rider for steering the horse into the mud. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Chris2863(m): 12:45pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Every Tom and dick go just wake up begin create topic on nairaland . I blame the mods shaaa. They only have one job but have failed to carry it out diligently Blame your father’s friend for not doing his job as a parent and stop displaying your ignorance online mr op |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Chris2863(m): 12:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
kodix:the op is an ignorant adult |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dearlord(m): 12:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Nazgul: You said it all bruh. If you can't keep it permanent secret don't adopt 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by TheGift: 12:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
So because of stuff like your uncles experience, the people who adopted Joke Sylva, Steve Jobs, Nelson Mandela, Colin Kaepernick, Viola Davis, Hugh Jackman, Simone Biles etc shouldn't have adopted them? 6 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by maziude: 12:48pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
kodix: Leave the hypocrite. The Op is not adopted yet can’t be critical in his reasoning. Or perhaps he is adopted but has no idea he is which might explain his flimsy reasoning. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Advancedman(m): 12:50pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Ru Ru Ru Rubbish. If you were orphaned will say the same infact you are a giagantuos ignoramus. 6 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by iLoveYouToo(m): 12:50pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Bad parenting |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by JackDaAlienz(m): 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Parrot69:Adopted kid spotted |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by crixlight2(m): 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: So you saying the boys are behaving badly without good manners ? , are they adopted from the same parents if not then your father’s friend need to check himself . You generalized it like it was only mad people or stone killer kids that are living in orphanage homes. Have you never seen a biological kids that end up beating their parents , going into thuggery, kidnapping and all type of crimes. So my brother is not because of adoptions. The same way We have good and bad biological children so is the same way you see good and bad kids in orphanage homes 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Samcent: 12:52pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Epositive: You have a point. However, knowing his age is not for me to determine his level of intelligence. Is for me to know how to approach this brazen display of malicious ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Sixfiguresmart(m): 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:But Moses was raised by his mother. Not by an Egyptian 5 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Samuels90: 1:00pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Damn, OP u talking Bullsh!t! 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Bestcreamreview: 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Your points are not valid at all because many children who grew up with their real parents end up doing yahoo, cultism and other vices. Adoption is not the reason they ended up like that, I can't believe someone would come up with something like this, it makes zero sense, I don't know how some of you think 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Maliqcious: 1:08pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Divay22:Tell them… kids learn by imitation 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by sharone21(f): 1:12pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
There is nothing wrong in adopting children....'Children don't have sin'. For those advocating that the adoption should be kept secret, we all know eg Flavour adopted a boy from Liberia who is growing fine and to being a handsome man My little concern is in the area of inheritance, will the adopted children get equal share like the biological one or they should just be give something to at least get by in life? Just asking and I need intelligent response. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by laiperi: 1:18pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Please do not blame Op for speaking from personal experience. The way a kid turns out depends not only on genetic but also environmental factors. It is nature v. nurture. The majority of those that brought Nigeria down today, in drugs and rituals have legitimate fathers and mothers. Many fathers and mothers will tell you that out of all their children, those taking care of them today are adopted children from outside or from relatives. Bestcreamreview: 3 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by cooooooks(m): 1:20pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
My uncle/aunt adopted 3 children including a niece. The niece has left the house to her first foster family, the others are good children and part of the family. Your experience is not the norm. JackDaAlienz: 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by laiperi: 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
sharone21: The best time to show appreciation to children and adopted children is through inheritance. How much are you willing to give a child that called kidnapper on you because he thinks you are "stingy "? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by fkj950ax(m): 1:24pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: I hope you know a majority of every child in the world ends up as raised by the adults in their life from childhood? Maybe your dads friend did a horrible job raising them. Can that be the problem and not the boys? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Here's a shocker - Lord Jesus was himself adopted. Adopted by Joseph who raised him as his own! 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:28pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:My apologies, but you haven't said a meaningful thing in your comments. Are you saying that no child has done this and more to their biological parents? We've heard of several children that killed their parents for money rituals. Also, are you saying that all the children that are constituting a nuisance to the society and into vices like Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping etc, were all brought up by adopted parents? Your write up is full of fallacies, fallacy of hasty generalization. Use your logic hommie, you said you there that your father's friend pampered those kids to a fault and you're still looking for some of the reasons they became what they are today? We've seen lots of orphans that lived on the street or was adopted by people becoming great people and having a positive influence on others, you just saw just a single case and you're here making wrong conclusions, you even likened yourself to Jesus sef. 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:29pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
FeliciaOja:So temper is genetic? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator: Here's what I wrote b4: How many countless times have children of the same parents turned out polar opposites. In almost all the cases it is because the parents spoilt one child for whatever reason (maybe only son out of many girls, or last born) and they grow up wayward, while their siblings turned out hard-working, upright pillars of society! |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
FeliciaOja:This your comment shows that you don't understand a thing about genetics. How will you liken temperament to inheritable traits like height, this is ment. 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Epositive(m): 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Samcent: Right about that. May the forces help you in your quest. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:33pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:How do we now recon this your statement with children that became bad individuals even though they were brought up by their biological children? Or are you insinuating that all children that grew up to become bad individuals were brought up by adopted parents? Make it make sense guy. This Nairaland sef. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:35pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Please where did you see this statistics? Maybe you collated it in the confines of your room. Stop peddling lies alaye. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Aguiyimba(m): 1:36pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Nazgul: Comrade may you live long on this earth 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:39pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:I'm still laughing reading through your comments guy. So you don't know that animals have something called "INSTINCTS". You're trying to say that instincts and genetics are the same. They told you to read in high school and you refused, here's the proof of why they told you to do so. Obviously, you won't be here peddling ignorance if you just took your time to read back then. 3 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Aguiyimba(m): 1:39pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: There are many adopted children that are successful in this country so shut up if you don't have meaningful thing to talk about 2 Likes |
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