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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:41pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It's obvious that the dude is an underage jor, cos how will a sane adult reason like that and peddle falsehood to get cheap likes. We're in an era where people don't reason and are not eager to know facts, they just spew whatever rubbish came to their mind. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 1:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator: Watch this: this is Shaquille talking about his ADOPTIVE dad 30 seconds https://youtube.com/shorts/T98R4qMnySw?feature=share 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Iyijohnson: 1:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Please let be conscious on issues that affects millions of people,not only Nigeria but the whole world. In a recent time poor parenting and lack of supervision have contributed immensely to waywardness of our teenagers not adoption.Asides, internet,modern day exposure,peer groups influences in schools and at homes,poor economic,Tv and celebrity have many social vices that influences our kids and these have contributed hazardously to moral decadence in our society.Yahoo is a trend that all aforementioned societal problem brought not adoption. Many adopted children are doing very well,it is unfortunate that the man in question got negative.Adoption helps base needed couples to have socour when it is necessary. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by shineeye1: 1:47pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Only one percent of children in orphanages are actually "innocent". The remaining 99% are evil fruits from evil seeds. Awàn Olori boruku. You carry them at the risk of your peace, for no man carries fire in his bossom and is not burnt. Trace their origins and discover what manner of seed they are before you carry fine trouble into your life. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by shineeye1: 1:49pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Iyijohnson: Inspirational Speaker, thank you!.. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by JackDaAlienz(m): 1:50pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
shineeye1:You expect these emotional children on nairaland to understand the wisdom you just said. See them attacking me for saying the truth. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:50pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
wiseone28:Oh God, this one has already believed the lies told by OP. Think for yourself guy, think. What OP listed there are vices and there's no correlation between vices and genetics, vices are not inheritable. Upbringing/parenting and the society/exposure/peer pressure is the key word, not adoption. Using the OP's logic, are you saying that all/most of the bad people we have in history and on Earth right now became bad because they were adopted? OP himself is a self professed homosexual/gay and there are lots of individuals here that hate gays and see it as a social vices too, should those people also conclude then that the OP became gay because he was adopted? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 1:51pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Iyijohnson: It also helps children who otherwise would have had no experience of family life at all, or even no life at all 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by HRMK: 1:52pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
you didnt tell us why your uncle adopted those two boys!is he without male children or what? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by JackDaAlienz(m): 1:54pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Dybala11:You just spew jargons without making sense Over sabinus oya,tell us the difference |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by JackDaAlienz(m): 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Dybala11:And you foolishly believed that I'm gay See how your stupidity prevent you from realizing how stupid you sound |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
membranus: True adoption is when a child is raised by a non-biological parent. Even so, the following highly successful people never knew their parents 2 Likes
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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Franking: 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Myopic, one-sided, fallacious and naive. Just because of one person's experience you are condemning adoption. There are millions of adoption cases that ended very well. Don't discourage people with your tantrums. 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 1:59pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Go and learn about this before you start spewing trash here bro. How will you say that Yahoo Yahoo is hereditary, you sure say you go school? You're not ready to learn, no need to waste my time on you. Even lions have to be taught how to hunt for survival while young by the lioness, before it can become an instinctive behaviour. Your father's friend failed as a parent, he's still in denial and doesn't want to take the blame for his failure (sorry if you consider this harsh, but it's the truth). Please just tell us that all bad people on Earth are adopted and bring the end to this discussion. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 2:02pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Germi9:Of course it is not about parenting alone, the exposure/environment is also important. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Psoul(m): 2:04pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: WHY IT IS NOT GOOD TO OWN A CAR. I was on my way from Owerri to Enugu this morning. On our way, I saw a very fatal accident. 12 passengers were mutilate. Their body parts scattered everywhere on the road. The bus was hacked into many pieces. It was a very terrible sight. To enter a car is not good. This is exactly how this your post sounded to my ears. For the fact that a particular adopted child became troublesome does not make every other child waiting for adoption a no go area. You mean to tell me that all the yahoo boys are adopted children? All criminals are adopted children? Why not say that it is even bad to bear children cos you can give birth to a criminal. Have you thought about this....what if it was failure of the man to take good care of those children as his that led them to join bad group? Failed parenting. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Honchoslim16(m): 2:06pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Feel like my mama gone away for like way too long I ain't tryna party 'round y'all Cooler than a bird body, more sauce than a Gala walk |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 2:12pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Are you gay or not? Except, maybe you didn't say that and others are telling lies against you. No need to drag issues with you again. If you have agreed to read like you were told to while in high school, then you won't be here shouting out of ignorance since morning. Humble yourself and learn mate, that's if you're open to correction and wants to go far in life. Just try to do a quick research via the Internet on the subject of discussion and get enlightened. Madness, Yahoo Yahoo, becoming a ritualist/armed robber etc are not inheritable at all. Even bad parents have been known to have children who later turn out to become good people. I really don't know how much emphasis I have to lay on this for it to enter that your thick, empty skull. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by HumanCalc: 2:15pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:This sense of reasoning is wack Adopting is just like giving birth. You can give a birth to an evil child that will bring about your death, or one that will take care of you old age. It goes both ways oga 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by jessylaurel(f): 2:17pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Divay22: Exactly.....even children that are not adopted but grew up with their biological parents are into Yahoo. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by djseanjohn77: 2:18pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: A very good point you have made, however, looking at the "AVERAGE NIGERIAN YOUTH TODAY" many are into these vices you listed and many more. To a degree, i would say, what has contributed to this can also be attributed to generally failed parenting in the past 2-3 decades. No more morals, no respect for the elders, no will to protect integrity or family name e.t.c. Nigeria is gone past that era of complete HOME TRAINING |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 2:20pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Gotam:An incident was shared on this forum probably last year or in 2 years ago. A man used a Cutlass to decapitate and kill his biological brother because they had an argument over the ownership of a mango tree. Biological brothers brought up by their parents o. May God help us all. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by pacespot(m): 2:21pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Adopt a child, but do not let your adopted child know that you are not his or her biological parent. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 2:21pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
zubito:How does genetics affect character formation? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 2:29pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
OsuIgboIpob: So easy. Disappear for sometime or fake a pregnancy |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by maasoap(m): 2:30pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Is this ignorance or something worse? Do people inherit madness? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 2:32pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Brunicekid: I thought everybody knows madness can be hereditary??!! |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dybala11(m): 2:33pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:Your write up is quite valid. I know a pastor in my village, he initially had 4 children three of which were girls. His wife pampered the male child so much that it became evident that the future might be bleak for him. Right now he's nothing to write home about, and to make matters worst years ago they gave birth to another male child and the mother calmed down small. The wife is always fond of calling the guy "my first born SON" even in the presence of his elder sisters and the so called first born son is struggling with a lot of social vices while the sisters are doing far better right now. There's still hope for him anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by maasoap(m): 2:34pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Your conclusion is not fair to the adopted children at all. The rate at which biological sons murder their parents far surpass the rate at which adopted sons murder their adopted parents. Don't tell me that you are ignorant of this. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by bibiking7(m): 2:35pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
I have seen a man who gave birth to 5 kid and they all turned out to be criminals. It's grace really. Not the adoption. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 2:36pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
safarigirl: They forget: Lord Jesus himself was adopted. And so was prophet Muhammad! |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by EndRape2(f): 2:39pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Ru bish post, even your own child can do same to you, it is not about adoption ,it is about training , if you train the adopted child ,in the fear if the lord ,that child will become great.and God fearing . quote author=JackDaAlienz post=117154614]Adoption is like suicide. You don't know what you are putting your hand in Because 90% of kids in orphanage homes Have no history or records of their father and mother Do you know if the mother was a Mad woman? Now you adopt a child who has genetics of a Mad woman. When the boy grows up and start acting like his mother what are you gonna do?? Basically, you dont know anything about the history of the child you are adopting . While there are some who turn out great. Majority of adopted kids turn out to be a huge mistake Edit: A lot of emotional children will attack me Without seeing the hard bitter truth This reminds me of when in 2014 i advise lots of youths not to vote Buhari But they were so emotional and attacked me Now it's 2022 and they are crying and wailing When you tell people hard truth they will attack and call you names. The did it to Jesus So if you emotional kids can't handle this bitter truth then that's your business. If you like go and adopt unknown gunman pikin then when he start exhibiting the genes and behaviour of his bandit father. You will start crying and wailing as usual. A russian man love a child unconditionally Adopted him and took great care of him But the boy still later killed the man. Stole his properties and flees to Turkey So will you blame the Man that adopted him for not showing the boy love Nuture a kid when he is small His true nature will come out once he grows up. [/quote] |
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