Johnnyjohnnyman:


True my younger brother has also said the same thing he ask me to come over to his house and stay until the meeting. I will go and stay with him until next week Sunday.

Maynman:
You started the abuse, slave, by bringing my parents in, why playing victim, ooh i forgot you are a worthless slave, you are always a victim.



Listen, son of a worthless olosho, Your mom is an imbecil.e, no education and has no value that’s why out of all the work in the world, selling her laxity body was her option to “sustain” you, and see how you yourself turned out, a worthless slave with no value, married to a smelly prostitute that brings her customers home.
Look at your mentality, menial jobs are what you know and can do, why won’t you support your prostitute wife that feeds you and “sustain” those worthless bastards you call children.

HRMK:
SIMPLY TELL US HOW YOUR SAINT OF A MUM COPED WITH YOU AND YOUR SIBLINGS AFTER YOUR DRUGADDICTED FATHER ABANDONED YOU?DID SHE WORK IN A BUILDING SITE TO PROVE HOW RESPONSIBLE SHE WAS?WE ARE WAITING!WE KNOW SHE ISNT A PROSTITUTE,ACCORDING TO YOU!!

Maynman:


Son of olosho, you are back to wasting your time, hin pain am bwahahahah

wirinet:


I am trying to understand your arguments. Are you saying that once a man abandons or divorces a wife/lover, the next thing is to go into prostitution to support herself and her children? Are you saying that single mothers must enter prostitution to be able to take care of their children? Do you know the share number of single mothers doing legitimate hussles to cater for their children?

HRMK:
ITS YOUR DAYS YOU AV OLOSHOS NOT IN MY DAYS!YOU GET REPLIES WHEN NECESSARY!!

CalmElder:


People, including myself stay, have stayed, or can stay without a relationship or sex for a very long time if we're chasing a very important goal.

If you don't make certain sacrifices in life, you can't go very far.
Forgiveness is sacrifice. Sticking to an individual when you can leave or cheat on them is not the lack of the opportunity, but sacrifice.


Who started the issue that led to the breakup. Is she not the one?

Wetin be ordinary 7 months to go without sex?

maasoap:


That's not just about sex, that separation was about many things, more like about everything. A man has many responsibilities to his wife and kids, not just sex for the wife and food for the kids. He bailed!

maasoap:


That's not just about sex, that separation was about many things, more like about everything. A man has many responsibilities to his wife and kids, not just sex for the wife and food for the kids. He bailed!

Johnnyjohnnyman:


True my younger brother has also said the same thing he ask me to come over to his house and stay until the meeting. I will go and stay with him until next week Sunday.

maasoap:


That's not just about sex, that separation was about many things, more like about everything. A man has many responsibilities to his wife and kids, not just sex for the wife and food for the kids. He bailed!

baralatie:

That is why I said a miscalculation has lead to more miscalculations and when they both tried to solve their problem.they ended up with a bigger problem.
There are other issues that I wanted to bring to his notice so that he can avoid another miscalculation.
But the best is to pray for all involved to come out successzful

baralatie:

That is why I said a miscalculation has lead to more miscalculations and when they both tried to solve their problem.they ended up with a bigger problem.
There are other issues that I wanted to bring to his notice so that he can avoid another miscalculation.
But the best is to pray for all involved to come out successzful

Justbehave:
So why didn't the woman bring in better thing back with her to let the husband know that he failed but no she brought in a bastard which only implies that she was never a good wife.May your wife bring in another man's pregnancy into your matrimonial home in Jesus name. men.

maasoap:


That's not just about sex, that separation was about many things, more like about everything. A man has many responsibilities to his wife and kids, not just sex for the wife and food for the kids. He bailed!

maasoap:


You this insane kid, I have stopped responding to you when I realised that you were attacking everyone with different opinions to yours, you should have noticed that now. When you finally grow some decency, you can come back to quote me.

wirinet:


I am yet to understand how this is a justification for cheating or prostitution. Did she thing the new lover will take in her and her 3 kids? What then happens if the husband becomes incapacitated - accident or stroke. She will be fucking other men to cater for her self and her kids?

I am not exonorating the buy for leaving his family, particularly the children, but that's in no way justifies creating.

Maynman:


Who initiated the “Separation”?, why did she come back begging after getting pregnant, if she didn’t she’ll still be enjoying the side di.ck.
What’s a married woman responsibility? Bringing Bastards home?

Justbehave:
And the right calculation was for her to come back with a bastard?

wirinet:


I am yet to understand how this is a justification for cheating or prostitution. Did she thing the new lover will take in her and her 3 kids? What then happens if the husband becomes incapacitated - accident or stroke. She will be fucking other men to cater for her self and her kids?

I am not exonorating the buy for leaving his family, particularly the children, but that's in no way justifies creating.

maasoap:


Never said that she did right for having sex or lying to her husband about the pregnancy that's not his. Just letting the husband whose side of the story we saw here realise that he's not entirely blameless.
Remember, the only story we saw here is that of the husband. So, we will be naturally subconsciously sympathise with him. We didn't know how the woman coped with everything for those seven months period: food, kids, cloths, books, school fees, sex life, companionship and all that.
My point: Op should do some introspection before taking final decision.

baralatie:

First of all .you have to respect the life of a child .the child did not come to this world by his own choice .The child deserves to be catered for ,clothed,loved,trained,nutured and what have you.

Second if az at when a couple (together) are already having financial stress .then you don't expect a perfect result when the main responsibility carrier virtually leaves the whole problems on a woman with kids to solve .
It literally means the woman and the kids are blown wide open for manipulation and exploitation by other men who having looking for that excuse .
The right calculatoion in this case who have been that support group(mother,sisters,aunt etc) who have been supporting the woman [b] till she is strong enough to cater for her home.
But unfortunately there is a problem with that and another miscalculation that ensued is thinking that a man who you are not married to will support her financially while having kids for another man .it is not that there are no good men.it will take a miracle for women in problem to even find one talk less of having one as a friend

So the issue is that while people can forgive themselves about cheating.it becomes a totally different problem.if the woman gets pregnant and delivered the child!

So it is a miscalculation to another miscalculation to another miscalculation and here we have a problem.

maasoap:


The country is hard enough for many single people living alone and not having to cater for anyone not to talk of a woman having to cater for three kids and herself. Op should think hard and deep, ultimate decision is still his and the life will continue for both irrespective of his decision.
Men should stop exposing their wives to hard life and difficult choices just because we find it easier to abandon our kids to our wives at the simplest excuse. And yet, we claim to have more right over these kids than the mothers do.

maasoap:


I'm glad that you saw what I'm talking about. My own perspective is that he should take time before responding to this new discovery.

wirinet:


I don't understand why you are patronising the wayward wife. What would have happened to the wife and her kids if the guy refused reconciliation and finally abandoned the wife and the children? Would she have commited suicide or go and start standing on Allen avenue at night? She should not have driven the man away because of a temporary financial setback.

maasoap:


Never said that she did right for having sex or lying to her husband about the pregnancy that's not his. Just letting the husband whose side of the story we saw here realise that he's not entirely blameless.
Remember, the only story we saw here is that of the husband. So, we will be naturally subconsciously sympathise with him. We didn't know how the woman coped with everything for those seven months period: food, kids, cloths, books, school fees, sex life, companionship and all that.
My point: Op should do some introspection before taking final decision.

maasoap:


The country is hard enough for many single people living alone and not having to cater for anyone not to talk of a woman having to cater for three kids and herself. Op should think hard and deep, ultimate decision is still his and the life will continue for both irrespective of his decision.
Men should stop exposing their wives to hard life and difficult choices just because we find it easier to abandon our kids to our wives at the simplest excuse. And yet, we claim to have more right over these kids than the mothers do.

Justbehave:
What a beautiful nonsense. Let the father of the child take care of her. It's not the op's responsibility. She has a father let him take the responsibility. His work is not only to sleep with another man's wife and getting her pregnant. He should also take care of his baby.Like I use to tell you all supporting her,May your own wife bring in another man's pregnancy to your home. In Jesus name. Answer amen then I will take you serious.