Maynman:


Since she has 100% right on the baby, she should also 100% take care of it?

The simple fact is that a man can have 50 wives and Concubines and 500 children. A woman can at best have 20 children no matter how promiscuous she is. And all the burden of the 20 children will be on her - physically, mentally and emotionally.

baralatie:

May this be your portion

Lol. I thought you were supporting the woman? So you don't want it to be your portion again? See fool dishing out stupid advice he himself cannot take to another person. Big fool you are. Shame on your manhood.

wirinet:


The simple fact is that a man can have 50 wives and Concubines and 500 children. A woman can at best have 20 children no matter how promiscuous she is. And all the burden of the 20 children will be on her - physically, mentally and emotionally.

And the burden of the 50 wives, concubines and 500 children will be on who?
Men are superman, it doesn’t affect them right?
Who commit suicides more?

I’m also 100% pro choice, and that choice should go all the way down, the man shouldn’t have any choice on his offspring, bravo.

Maynman:


May it be the portion of those defending a married woman bringing a Bastard home!

Lol. Amen.Why is he afraid nah?

Justbehave:
Lol. Amen.Why is he afraid nah?

Hin dey defend what he cannot take, that’s crass.

Maynman:

Hin dey defend what he cannot take, that’s crass.

Na big hypocrite him be. I thought he will say amen but the liverless fool ran away.

Maynman:


And the burden of the 50 wives, concubines and 500 children will be on who?
Men are superman, it doesn’t affect them right?

Who commit suicides more?

Who do you think bears the burden of the wives and children of Mohammed Bello Abubakar in the video below?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wz0GQA795Y

wirinet:


Who do you think bears the burden of the wives and children of Mohammed Bello Abubakar in the video below?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wz0GQA795Y

How many men are on earth, why are you bringing one random man? This is ridiculous.
Use reasonable stats not emotions.


As you can see his case is peculiar that’s they interviewed him, is that the norm?

Maynman:


How many men are on earth, why are you bringing one man?
Use reasonable stats not emotions

You are now going off point. I was arguing that women should before sacrosanct in choosing men they open their legs for, because the physical, mental and emotional responsibility of bearing children lies on them. And you are arguing that it also lies with men. I pointed out that with men it's a choice. Men can choose not to do anything after donating his sperm, Women cannot. Reiterated that a man can marry and have numerous children indiscriminately without much impact on his physicall and psychological wellbeing, a woman cannot. Each childbirth takes an enormous toll on her body.

wirinet:


You are now going off point. I was arguing that women should before sacrosanct in choosing men they open their legs for, because the physical, mental and emotional responsibility of bearing children lies on them. And you are arguing that it also lies with men. I pointed out that with men it's a choice. Men can choose not to do anything after donating his sperm, Women cannot. Reiterated that a man can marry and have numerous children indiscriminately without much impact on his physicall and psychological wellbeing, a woman cannot. Each childbirth takes an enormous toll on her body.

“This is why I am 100% pro choice and pro women's right over their bodies.”

Since she has 100% right over OUR offspring, then should she also 100% take care of it right?

And you forgot, that women can choose not to have unprotected sex and the “donated sperm” will only be in a condom, or they don’t have that choice?

Maynman:


“This is why I am 100% pro choice and pro women's right over their bodies.”

Since she has 100% right over OUR offspring, then should she also 100% take care of it right?

I never said women has 100% right over our offsprings. I am saying men has the choice not to exercise any right over offsprings, women have no choice. If a man chooses to exercise that right, then his own right to the child overrides that of the mother. There are numerous examples of fathers refusing to acknowledge a pregnancy and subsequently fatherhood. The baby becomes 100% the sole property of the mother.

wirinet:


I never said women has 100% right over our offsprings. I am saying men has the choice not to exercise any right over offsprings, women has no choice. If a man chooses to exercise that right, then his own right to the child overrides that of the mother. There are numerous examples of fathers refusing to acknowledge a pregnancy and subsequently fatherhood. The baby becomes 100% the sole property of the mother.

Women have the choice not to have unprotected sex.
And why are women having unprotected sex outside of wedlock? Everything has consequences.

Maynman:


Women have the choice not to have unprotected sex.
And why are women having unprotected sex outside of wedlock? Everything has consequences.

Women are the gate keepers of sex.Apart from rape. No man,I mean no man can have sex with a woman if the woman doesn't want to have sex with the man.So they should bear any consequence whether negative or positive. Rubbish. Person go Bleep get belle for another man come they blame separation.

wirinet:


This is why I am 100% pro choice and pro women's right over their bodies. They are the ones that gets pregnant, they are the ones that nurtures the babies and they are the ones that raise the children.
Men can just be sperm donors and abscond if a baby is conceived, a woman cannot. The best she can do is abortion or dump the baby in the dustbin after birth.. Women need to be taught to be more careful on whom they chose to couple with.

Thank you. It is nice debating with mature people who understand the need for diverse views on any topic. Not like those who insult and abuse because they don't like another perspective.

Maynman:


She is not the only one “coping” during those 7 months, and men are more Hot than women because of testosterone so your excuse are baseless, and why did she stop “coping” after getting pregnant?
The only reason she got back BEGGING is because she got pregnant, she was totally fine with the “coping”
Why didn’t she beg the 2nd month?
What introspection does a man with self worth got to do again?

Her wrongful act doesn't have to be looked at from the perspective of seeking sexual pleasure alone, something else might have led her into it, perhaps because she might be dealing alone with what was beyond her capacity.
He keeps her, there is consequences for him. He chases her out, there is also fall-out for him.

maasoap:


Her wrongful act doesn't have to be looked at from the perspective of seeking sexual pleasure alone, something else might have led her into it, perhaps because she might be dealing alone with what was beyond her capacity.
He keeps her, there is consequences for him. He chases her out, there is also fall-out for him.

She was “dealing alone” with it fine for 7 months, why come back BEGGING after she got pregnant?
Seems she was not just “dealing alone”, she was also having UNPROTECTED SEX with some dicks too.


There’s no consequences for chasing a whoring wife away but it will kill you if you don’t.

maasoap:


Thank you. It is nice debating with mature people who understand the need for diverse views on any topic. Not like those who insult and abuse because they don't like another perspective.

A big shame on you for not being able to say amen to that prayer. It only show that you are a hypocrite like your fellow weak man@ baralatie that ran away like fool claiming it will never be his portion but he want another man to take it. MAY YOUR WIFE BRING IN ANOTHER MAN'S PREGNANCY INTO YIUR MATRIMONIAL HOME IN JESUS NAME. WE WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY AMEN TO THIS. If you can't say it, then shut your mouth up.

maasoap:


Her wrongful act doesn't have to be looked at from the perspective of seeking sexual pleasure alone, something else might have led her into it, perhaps because she might be dealing alone with what was beyond her capacity.
He keeps her, there is consequences for him. He chases her out, there is also fall-out for him.

LET YOUR WIFE DO SAME IN JESUS NAME. ANSWER AMEN

maasoap. WE ARE STILL WAITING FOR YOUR AMEN TO THAT PRAYER. DONT SHOW US THAT YOU ARE A COWARD.STAND GIDIGBA FOR WETIN YOU BELIEVE.

wirinet:


I don't understand why you are patronising the wayward wife.

No, I'm not. She's not even here. All my posts are meant for the Op to read.

What would have happened to the wife and her kids if the guy refused reconciliation and finally abandoned the wife and the children? Would she have commited suicide or go and start standing on Allen avenue at night?

You didn't ask this question to be answered but the truth is that either of both could happen. We have some women who committed suicide because they didn't have the means to take care of their kids in the absence of the fathers. We have seen mothers engaging in prostitution to take care of their kids in the absence of the fathers.

She should not have driven the man away because of a temporary financial setback.

I don't agree that she actually drove him away, every home has moments of up and down. Op did what was easy and convenient for him at the time which was running away.
He got N300k from his ex boss and didn't inform his wife and consequently wasted/lost the money. That wasn't good. Instead of facing the consequences of his secretive decision, he bailed.

Justbehave:
maasoap. WE ARE STILL WAITING FOR YOUR AMEN TO THAT PRAYER. DONT SHOW US THAT YOU ARE A COWARD.STAND GIDIGBA FOR WETIN YOU BELIEVE.

I don't want quote you or respond to you anymore but since you called me out.
Big amen to your prayer. The way I see this life, you can't understand it. And don't try to understand me.

maasoap:


I don't want quote you or respond to you anymore but since you called me out.
Big amen to your prayer. The way I see this life, you can't understand it. And don't try to understand me.

And so it shall be with you in Jesus name. Amen.

Justbehave:
A big shame on you for not being able to say amen to that prayer. It only show that you are a hypocrite like your fellow weak man@ baralatie that ran away like fool claiming it will never be his portion but he want another man to take it. MAY YOUR WIFE BRING IN ANOTHER MAN'S PREGNANCY INTO YIUR MATRIMONIAL HOME IN JESUS NAME. WE WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY AMEN TO THIS. If you can't say it, then shut your mouth up.

Amen amen amen!! Can we move on now kid?

Justbehave:
And so it shall be with you in Jesus name. Amen.

Amen. Let's move on. Chai!

maasoap:


Amen. Let's move on. Chai!

Thank you so much for being an honourable man unlike your coward friend baralatie.

maasoap:


Amen. Let's move on. Chai!

A reasonable man shouldn’t tell all his business to his wife, the OP is not mandatory to tell his wife about giving money to his sister, if he wish to, he can.
Only weak men bucks and rants everything to their wife.
And how is OP not telling his wife warrants the wife to be angry to the extent of demanding a “separation” just like that??, was it her money? Were they hungry at home?
Now that she is back begging, what has changed? Does she know how many decisions he has made while she was away, so, What was the aim and essence of the “separation” which she asked for in the first place?
The whoring wife wanted to cheat in peace.
We have men that chases women for years without seeing their pants, and a MARRIED WOMAN has already crumbled less than a year.

Maynman:


A reasonable man shouldn’t tell all his business to his wife, the OP is not mandatory to tell his wife about giving money to his sister. Only weak men bucks and rants everything to their wife.
And how is OP not telling his wife warrants the wife to be angry to the extent of demanding a “separation” just like that??, was it her money? Were they hungry at home?
Now that she is back begging, what has changed? Does she know how many decisions he has made while she was away, so, What was the aim and essence of the “separation” which she asked for in the first place?
The whoring wife wanted to cheat in peace.
We have men that chases women for years without seeing their pants, and a MARRIED WOMAN has already crumbled less than a year.

Bros abeg leave all this people.

Intellectuall01:


Please do this today. Do not delay oh. Leave the house today. Tell her you are going out for something.

I had already left. I told my children that I travel for a couple of days and I will see them next week Sunday. I left some cash for their upkeep and I have also called my father in law to inform him about the meeting.
The poor man is very worried he calls back several times to ask what is going on and I have told him to hang on until next week. He pleaded me to tell him the truth because his mind won't rest until he knows the reason why I want them to come over.
I've told him to wait until next week.
I won't tell him anything until sunday because I want both families to be there so we can separate in peace for the sake of my 3 children.

Johnnyjohnnyman:




I had already left. I told my children that I travel for a couple of days and I will see them next week Sunday. I left some cash for their upkeep and I have also called my father in law to inform him about the meeting.
The poor man is very worried he calls back several times to ask what is going on and I have told him to hang on until next week. He pleaded me to tell him the truth because his mind won't rest until he knows the reason why I want them to come over.
I've told him to wait until next week.
I won't tell him anything until sunday because I want both families to be there so we can separate in peace for the sake of my 3 children.

Chance of a wrong DNA is almost impossible and it’s always 99.9% right, or why is it in her own case out of MILLIONS that the dna started to go “wrong” after 7 months separation?
Yet she is still denying, Don’t let her emotional blackmail you.

zedegit:



You didn't even wait for your post to make sense just because you want to insult op.

Meanwhile the mistake of switching babies happens in government hospitals because of crowd.

Endeavor to send your wife for delivery in a good private hospital.

U people should stop this lie
No one switch babies in govt hospitals
The lie is running too far
U guys should stop it

Now that you know, what do you intend to do

Johnnyjohnnyman:




I had already left. I told my children that I travel for a couple of days and I will see them next week Sunday. I left some cash for their upkeep and I have also called my father in law to inform him about the meeting.
The poor man is very worried he calls back several times to ask what is going on and I have told him to hang on until next week. He pleaded me to tell him the truth because his mind won't rest until he knows the reason why I want them to come over.
I've told him to wait until next week.
I won't tell him anything until sunday because I want both families to be there so we can separate in peace for the sake of my 3 children.

Nice step.