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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lovediehatelive(m): 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2022
Intellectuall01:


Even if you choose to ignore women, toto go still come your way. There are certain months when the universe favours each zodiac sign be it financially or with a relationship.

So just focus on yourself. Dress well and smell nice. Toto go come your way by themselves.

No be small thing o.

But which month dey favour the air signs?
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 03, 2022
lovediehatelive:


No be small thing o.

But which month dey favour the air signs?

Fire and air
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lovediehatelive(m): 2:22pm On Oct 03, 2022
Intellectuall01:


Fire and air

Hai didn't hundastan
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Hafis1(m): 9:58am On Oct 04, 2022
I can feel your pain brother. Fathering a child that's not yours. I wonder why woman of this days can never be trust worthy.
Johnnyjohnnyman:


She is her bio mother the child looks exactly like her colleague she cheated on me with but she has denied that they were still together by the time she conceived. According to her the test result is wrong she claimed that they had breaks up in July 2020 we got back together in September 2020 she conceived that same month which is right according to the child birth date. I believed she was few days pregnant when we got back together or she had slept with both of us at the same during conception. If I am not the father the other man is surely the father.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by James289(f): 11:27am On Oct 04, 2022
(1) get divorce, (2) sue ex for costs you incurred raising someone else's child.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 12:42pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


Normally, Capricon women have very low sex appeal and that's why you are not finding her attractive. The Libra lady has sex appeal 100 times pass Capricon na why you like her more.

Na Capricon faithful pass Libra, but sex is much better with Libra than Capricon. Most Capricon women are career women, they are found in offices wearing female working class attires.

If you enter street go carry ashawo, you go rarely come across capricon, Virgo and Taurus babes for street. Na Libra, Gemini and Aquarius be the major women when full street pass.

Though you go still see Scorpio, Aries, Sagittarius, Taurus Pisces, Cancer and Leo women for street oh, but na that Libra, Gemini and Aquarius be the majority of ashawo when full street pass because they are air heads and very worldly and crazy.

Just to make you understand better, Nkechi blessing na Libra, shebi you see how she dey crazy and changing men like clothes and talking like an empty bag? Na so them be, very empty women. That boy Carter Efe na Libra when sing machala, shebi you see how the boy dey wear boxers and dance like fool for instagram? Na so Libra life be oh.

Tonto Dikeh na Gemini, shebi you see say Tonto Dikeh be like Nkechi blessing? Na just sex be the only thing when them good at. Them sabi Bleep die and them love very hard and aggressive sex too.

Libra dey much more compatible with their fellow air signs like Gemini and Aquarius.

When is your own birthday?

Nkechi Blessing na Aquarius.

Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


Nkechi Blessing na Aquarius.

I just checked and comfirmed it now. Full time street material. Run oh
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 12:44pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


Ha, my man. We are both Aries oh. I'm 29th March. We are too generous, in fact the most generous humans ever in this world and as a result of this, we carry too much burden. You can see some of your character in tinubu, see as he dey empower people up and down abi? That's Aries for you, Tinubu na March 29th too.

Aries is the King of the Zodiac, the only zodiac sign who's followers don't want to leave him. The street credibility is just too much.

Nigeria has never been ruled by an Aries president that's why people don't know the magnitude of goodness and mercy that Tinubu is about to bring into Nigeria.

Try as much as you can not to hold grudge against anyone. Whosoever offends you would come begging. You might be the womanizing type of Aries or the lover boy type.

The lover boy type can simp too much and carry all of a woman's responsibility because Aries is the only Zodiac sign in this world that will want to help you to the existent that you are better than him. Aries will help you get to his own level unlike other Zodiac signs who won't want you to be better than them.

Shebi you see how tinubu is empowering people and making them kings? No Zodiac sign does that except Aries.

Try to fight against impatience. Nor join cult otherwise you will ruin yourself because you are a rebel and most times, a one man mopol.

Try everything within your power to be secretive as much as you can because Aries talks to much. We are too impulsive.

You are the nicest person and everybody around you can attest to this fact. You can be very independent and it is best you become your own boss, try not to work for anyone.

Avoid drugs because your destiny doesn't accepts it. You dream a lot and most of your dreams have hidden messages.

You are loved by many and also envied by many. Be careful around these people Cancer, Pisces and Scorpio. This is because you sre made of fire and those people are made of water therefore, too much quarrels.

You easily forgives so make sure you date or marry a lady that is just like you. If possible, date and marry your fellow Aries and you will prosper so much.

You are a very powerful person, the number 1 leader of the zodiac. You are very honest snd it wins you too many loyal people.

The story too long oh

Aries is NOT the King of the zodiac.


They're just the first sign in the planetary movement.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 12:48pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


Too bossy. They always want to be in charge and this makes it tough to get along with people some times. Ego problem. If they cannot control their temper when angry, they might do something that would ruin them for life. Too much ego and pride and always boasting. Can be a bit generous.

After the age of 30, their anger problem starts declining bits by bits. They are very social and love attention like their lives depends on it. Can be very lazy and can also be very determined to suceed on life.

If you are the lazy type, you might not become rich in life at all. But if you are the determined type who is hardworking and has big dreams, then the sky is your limit.

Leo and Pisces are the most generous sign.

Followed by Sagittarius and Aries.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 12:54pm On Oct 04, 2022
Orgym:


August 8th, 1983. A man

1. You are a natural leader. Life has a way of putting you in leadership positions, whether you gun for it OR not — Leos are represented by a Lion for a reason — King of Beasts.

2. People gravitate towards you easily cos you're sociable.

3. You can be reckless with your finances, if you don't know how to manage it. This may lead you to borrowing, and eventually, debt.
Nevertheless, money comes to you easily.

4. Due to attention you received from people easily, you might become haughty in spirit, if you let it get to your head.

5. You love luxury, and nothing short of it.

6. Popular August Leos:
- Barack Obama
- Chris Hemsworth
- Timaya
- Runtown
- Bill Clinton
- Roger Federer
- Usain Bolt


and so on.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


Leo and Pisces are the most generous sign.

Followed by Sagittarius and Aries.

You are talking from Google search, I'm talking from experience.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:03pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


Aries is NOT the King of the zodiac.


They're just the first sign in the planetary movement.

So who is the King of the Zodiac? Nor use Google search take answer me oh! Use real life experience.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 1:04pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


You are talking from Google search, I'm talking from experience.

I'm also talking from experience.

Experience is NOT limited to you.
The earlier you know that, the better.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


I'm also talking from experience.

Experience is NOT limited to you. The earlier you know that, the better.

Okay make I leave you oh. He go be. By the way, what is your sign?
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Karlifate: 1:05pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


So who is the King of the Zodiac? Nor use Google search take answer me oh! Use real life experience.

All your posts are just based on Sun Sign alone.

And you're deep in Astrology

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


All your posts are just based on Sun Sign alone.

And you're deep in Astrology

What is your sign?
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 04, 2022
Karlifate:


Leo and Pisces are the most generous sign.

Followed by Sagittarius and Aries.

Aries, Libra, Leo Sagittarius are the most generous people I've met in this world.

I offended one of my old time Pisces friend. I'm still begging him for over 2 months now. Aries, Leo and Sagittarius will forgive you if they see a sincere apology.

Abeg remove Pisces from your list they are too vengeful and vindictive.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by GoldenqueenC(f): 1:45pm On Oct 04, 2022
Intellectuall01:


I've never been friends with any Libra guy before but I know Libra women so well. Libras in general be it male or female are not intelligent. Them nor get sense. Take Carter Efe for example, shebi you see say he dey dance like fool for instagram with only boxers?

Libras in general nor get sense abeg.
what of 27th may Gemini and a lady
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 04, 2022
GoldenqueenC:
what of 27th may Gemini and a lady

To see Gemini lady when nor dey street is difficult in today's Nigeria oh. They lie for a living. 2faced. What she told you in the morning, ask her again in the evening, she might tell you something different.

One thing about all the Zodiac signs is that, there are some influences in their planetary chart depending on the time of the day they were born including the birth month, date and year.

You can be a Gemini and be a bit different from another Gemini. As an Aries, I'm compatible a bit with Gemini ladies but if given a chance to date them, I won't do that cause I know what they function like in a relationship.

The only thing enjoyable in a relationship with a Gemini lady is sex.

Don't trust anything she says.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by litaninja(m): 3:07pm On Oct 04, 2022
Grounds for divorce.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Jesslove(f): 3:17pm On Oct 04, 2022
Paternity fraud should be a crime.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by echodrum(m): 6:27am On Oct 05, 2022
OKOATA:
You are so dumb bro, do you even know the meaning of a bastard? Something that's in the dictionary and has a meaning. You are a SIMP that's what you are. You can take care of a bastard and when the kid grows up the father will come and you will be the looser.
Poverty and religion has destroyed your sense of reasoning. Just Look at the kind of advice you are giving to a man who is in a serious dilemma to chase away little kids for something they know nothing about. If it was that easy for him to do why didn't he do it without coming online to ask for second opinion?. Tomorrow you will carry Big Bible to church asking God to love you and bless you. Are you not a bastard in the sight of God? Is God your father?. Obviously you are a little kid with no experience at all. Wait until you grow up and have little kids whom you are so much attached to and who are calling you dad every single day for about 2 to three years. And someone will call them bastards when you find yourself in the same situation this young man found him self by then you will understand how it feels.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by OKOATA(m): 7:24am On Oct 05, 2022
echodrum:
Poverty and religion has destroyed your sense of reasoning. Just Look at the kind of advice you are giving to a man who is in a serious dilemma to chase away little kids for something they know nothing about. If it was that easy for him to do why didn't he do it without coming online to ask for second opinion?. Tomorrow you will carry Big Bible to church asking God to love you and bless you. Are you not a bastard in the sight of God? Is God your father?. Obviously you are a little kid with no experience at all. Wait until you grow up and have little kids whom you are so much attached to and who are calling you dad every single day for about 2 to three years. And someone will call them bastards when you find yourself in the same situation this young man found him self by then you will understand how it feels.
It shall not be well with you, you are also a bastard for mentioning me. Na ogun go keel you bastard. Since all your kids are bastards so it's easy for another man to bring in bastard abi. I'm not a bastard like you that your mom sleeps around with a mad man that gave birth to a useless entity like you, you are obviously the kid here Mr idiot, so if my wife brings in another kid that's not mine, that means I'm suffering from poverty and religion? So davido that always do DNA for all his kids too is a poverty guy abi. Senseless entity. Since nairaland can't differentiate idiots from fools like you. If your wife brings in bastards home embrace her with your might weakling man.

Biggest SIMp on earth, so when the wife was sleeping around till she got pregnant she couldn't abort or give the baby to the real father. Idiot and foolish man like you so when you take care of another man's kid and the father comes tomorrow to claim him you will start fighting him abi. Mumu.

You are the biggest idiot on earth to take care of another man's kid. Even the person who pasted the story already made up his mind to send his wife away so why are you carrying another person matter for head. So I should take care of another man's kid even though the father is alive.

Calling me a small boy because my wife bring in a bastard to take care of. If your son bring in a bastard you will tell him to take care of him even though the site alone can cause depression and later kill him, even the bible said you must send an adulterous woman away, you obviously don't know me that's why you can open you useless and rotten mouth. It's obvious your wife sleeps around like a dog and brings you bastard to take care of cos I don't know why you are so pained, fool..

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 9:10am On Oct 05, 2022
echodrum:
Poverty and religion has destroyed your sense of reasoning. Just Look at the kind of advice you are giving to a man who is in a serious dilemma to chase away little kids for something they know nothing about. If it was that easy for him to do why didn't he do it without coming online to ask for second opinion?. Tomorrow you will carry Big Bible to church asking God to love you and bless you. Are you not a bastard in the sight of God? Is God your father?. Obviously you are a little kid with no experience at all. Wait until you grow up and have little kids whom you are so much attached to and who are calling you dad every single day for about 2 to three years. And someone will call them bastards when you find yourself in the same situation this young man found him self by then you will understand how it feels.
Fool. What concerns religion and poverty here? I dont know why weak men and simps like you always want every man to be weak like you people.Seems you are an illegitimate child or your mum brought in another man's pregnancy into your father's house or maybe your wife is sleeping around with other men or she has already brought in another man's pregnancy into your home? No right thinking person will support what that woman did except weak men like you.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by OKOATA(m): 9:28am On Oct 05, 2022
Justbehave:
Fool. What concerns religion and poverty here? I dont know why weak men and simps like you always want every man to be weak like you people.Seems you are an illegitimate child or your mum brought in another man's pregnancy into your father's house or maybe your wife is sleeping around with other men or she has already brought in another man's pregnancy into your home? No right thinking person will support what that woman did except weak men like you.
If King Charles were to be a bastard he wouldn't be the Heir to the throne, in the olden days if the Queen or Concubine of the King brings in a bastard she will be killed with her bastard baby instantly, they always assume for a Queen to bring in a bastard that means she planned with the enemies so the enemies Son can torpedo the Throne in the future.

Only a fool accepts a bastard, in my own lineage it's even impossible because we are heir to the Throne so how can we have bastards in my family.

Me for a person even see the wife has someone who doesn't value her man or even respect him, how can a wife get pregnant for another man, you didn't even deem it fit to abort it but passed it on the husband. I see that as the highest disrespect that can happen to a man. She only kept the baby because she feels the lover will still come for her in the future. In a nut shell OP wife's in love with her lover that's she didn't abort the baby.


*****Only Loosers take care of Bastard*****

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 10:03am On Oct 05, 2022
OKOATA:
If King Charles were to be a bastard he wouldn't be the Heir to the throne, in the olden days if the Queen or Concubine of the King brings in a bastard she will be killed with her bastard baby instantly, they always assume for a Queen to bring in a bastard that means she planned with the enemies so the enemies Son can torpedo the Throne in the future.

Only a fool accepts a bastard, in my own lineage it's even impossible because we are heir to the Throne so how can we have bastards in my family.

Me for a person even see the wife has someone who doesn't value her man or even respect him, how can a wife get pregnant for another man, you didn't even deem it fit to abort it but passed it on the husband. I see that as the highest disrespect that can happen to a man. She only kept the baby because she feels the lover will still come for her in the future. In a nut shell OP wife's in love with her lover that's she didn't abort the baby.


*****Only Loosers take care of Bastard*****
Don't mind that weak man that calls himself echodrum.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by UjuJoan2: 11:14am On Oct 05, 2022
Intellectuall01:


To see Gemini lady when nor dey street is difficult in today's Nigeria oh. They lie for a living. 2faced. What she told you in the morning, ask her again in the evening, she might tell you something different.

One thing about all the Zodiac signs is that, there are some influences in their planetary chart depending on the time of the day they were born including the birth month, date and year.

You can be a Gemini and be a bit different from another Gemini. As an Aries, I'm compatible a bit with Gemini ladies but if given a chance to date them, I won't do that cause I know what they function like in a relationship.

The only thing enjoyable in a relationship with a Gemini lady is sex.

Don't trust anything she says.

You call yourself an “intellectual”, but yet here you are, basing your judgment of people on superstition.

What a joke!!
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by UjuJoan2: 11:17am On Oct 05, 2022
wirinet:


The simple fact is that a man can have 50 wives and Concubines and 500 children. A woman can at best have 20 children no matter how promiscuous she is. And all the burden of the 20 children will be on her - physically, mentally and emotionally.

I agree, that’s why women need to be smarter and look out for themselves when it comes to marriage.

This OP’s wife is just a f00l.

Who would have a fling, and get pregnant, and then keep the pregnancy, and then try to pass the baby off as her husband’s child.

Only someone who is absolutely dumb!!!

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by UjuJoan2: 11:21am On Oct 05, 2022
CalmElder:

Now you are talking.
Some people are saying that you should not send her away, forgetting that beyond cheating, she didn't give you a chance or offered moral support when you were down.

Do not forget that she's manipulative, unforgiven and controlling. She thinks about herself and her comfort alone.
Run for your life before she finishes you.

You know, he did something wrong too.

The wife was taking full responsibility of the family and fending for them when he couldn’t. And he got some cash, and instead of helping out like he should, he decided to give the money to his sister. Without his wife’s knowledge. How do you think that made her feel when she found out?

Used? Betrayed? Take for granted?

Clearly what she did was not done with a clear mind.

I’m not defending her, but the man should at least take some responsibility for what happened.
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by CalmElder(m): 11:33am On Oct 05, 2022
UjuJoan2:


You know, he did something wrong too.

The wife was taking full responsibility of the family and fending for them when he couldn’t. And he got some cash, and instead of helping out like he should, he decided to give the money to his sister. Without his wife’s knowledge. How do you think that made her feel when she found out?

Used? Betrayed? Take for granted?

Clearly what she did was not done with a clear mind.

I’m not defending her, but the man should at least take some responsibility for what happened.




He did.
Carefully read the post and you will notice that he showed remorse to the wife.
It's normal for a wife to be angry when you sideline her in making decisions but in her case, she over reacted and made herself vulnerable.
The man bore the consequences of his decision without her support, it's time to reciprocate, in my opinion.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 12:18pm On Oct 05, 2022
CalmElder:





He did.
Carefully read the post and you will notice that he showed remorse to the wife.
It's normal for a wife to be angry when you sideline her in making decisions but in her case, she over reacted and made herself vulnerable.
The man bore the consequences of his decision without her support, it's time to reciprocate, in my opinion.

You are right I bore the consequences of my mistakes alone she should also bear the consequences of keeping another man pregnancy alone.

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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by UjuJoan2: 6:47pm On Oct 05, 2022
CalmElder:

He did.
Carefully read the post and you will notice that he showed remorse to the wife.
It's normal for a wife to be angry when you sideline her in making decisions but in her case, she over reacted and made herself vulnerable.
The man bore the consequences of his decision without her support, it's time to reciprocate, in my opinion.

You can’t control how people react to what you do them. People will react they way react and that’s just the way it it.

People have different threshold of betrayal and hurt. Some may waive it aside, others may take it deeply.

And what do you mean by the bore the consequences of her betrayal without her support? From what I read, while he was with his parents, the lady was fully responsible for his children, his responsibility. So tell me again, how did he suffer?

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