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Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Fhowe: 3:11pm On Oct 07, 2022
Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.
most ladies that fall into this category i feel their problem is self-gratification and lack of self-control .Self gratification is indulgence in certain acts to satisfy certain desires (money and sex ) many ladies went into relationship for the monetary gain thinking less if it was heading somewhere or not ,so they keep jumping from one man to the other as long as you can pay their bills before they know it reality sets in .Then the other part which is sex ,when it comes to sex the average Nigerian girl is misguided ,most dont even understand their own bodies talk less of understanding that of another person ,many started engaging in sexual activities from a very tender age and got it all wrong from there .Recently i was discussing with a female friend and i was surprised when she was free enough to discuss with me how she buys intimacy gadgets and all that shit ,mind you she is not yet married .So lets look at it from this angle for her to result to intimacy gadgets she must have tried different guys yet not getting the satisfaction she wants now she has resulted to intimacy gadgets ,this toys become addictive from once a week you find yourself using several times a day ,in the long run it becomes tiring cause her body is used to it then she opts to buy a bigger and better one .In the course of use males will become less pleasurable to her cause she is now dependent on this toys .So tell me how will such a lady get married so i feel most of them are the architect of their problems my own opinion though
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Dshocker(m): 3:44pm On Oct 07, 2022
Divay22:
He no easy for both gender abeg
Truth is that, women suffers the most, since men are the ones doing the chasing and the fact that an older man of 50yrs can afford to get married to a girl of 16yrs, but you can't say same for women.

And again, a girl going into a relationship, she can't predict or tell where the relationship is going.

As i am talking to you, there is a family friend, they are very wealthy, but only 1 out of 12 girls is married.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Shebbs: 4:15pm On Oct 07, 2022
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Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Divay22(f): 7:24pm On Oct 07, 2022
Dshocker:
Truth is that, women suffers the most, since men are the ones doing the chasing and the fact that an older man of 50yrs can afford to get married to a girl of 16yrs, but you can't say same for women.

And again, a girl going into a relationship, she can't predict or tell where the relationship is going.

As i am talking to you, there is a family friend, they are very wealthy, but only 1 out of 12 girls is married.
Your last paragraph shocked shocked shocked
Are the remaining 11 of marriageable age?
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Dshocker(m): 2:51am On Oct 08, 2022
Divay22:
Your last paragraph shocked shocked shocked
Are the remaining 11 of marriageable age?
Omo, all should be between 30-45yrs
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Abyounghammed(m): 7:22am On Oct 08, 2022
johnfem321:
Well.. I hope you don break up with her not still allowing her deceive you
Na why I dey call her my ex
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Abyounghammed(m): 7:23am On Oct 08, 2022
mirinder:
hope you browsed her website
U dey wind me, home and away, me no get joy o
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Abyounghammed(m): 7:23am On Oct 08, 2022
mirinder:
hope say you fúckam steady
U dey wind me, home and away, me no get joy o
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Remnita(f): 7:34am On Oct 08, 2022
Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.
Only in this Africa una carry marriage for head nonsense
Allow women enjoy their lives no he by force to marry make una her sense this 2022
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Divay22(f): 7:38am On Oct 08, 2022
Dshocker:
Omo, all should be between 30-45yrs
That one is strong o shocked
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Hassanmaye(m): 5:19pm On Oct 08, 2022
toujurs:
Biggest lie. Greed and selfishness is what rendered a lot of ladies still single at early 30's. I am telling you, leave this thing you are saying. Most Nigerian women are easily decieved by what they see, very easy to decieve them, if you have a good ride and a good apartment, where they can come over for the weekend, irrespective of if you truely love them or not, it's when you eat her coochie, that is when she will begin to ask you, if you truely love her, and plan on marrying her. Yea there are decent and matured ladies who understands whats involved getting into a relationship with a decent man, who has a respectful life. But they are very few, very very few, that is why, most guys, just eat these girls to stupor, and dump afterwards, for the next babe.
If you have a car cookie will never be problem fish brain will always dash you the P
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by toujurs: 10:50am On Oct 09, 2022
Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Look at guys forming judges over the decisions and mistakes many girls made in their twenties. Michelle70 is right about many girls being the victims of circumstances but self-appointed judges think otherwise that they should be condemned for living. Bunch of hypocrites. As if you are any better than the girls.

Guess who we find in the news for cultism, [/b]armed robbery, arson, love scam, money rituals, 419, drug deals, touting, political assassination, and the likes.....yeah, your guess is right — men.[b]

Men deceive innocent girls, break their hearts and justify their evil by promoting the notion that men are polygamous in nature and still have the effrontery to ridicule them for not being married before their 30s. Evil generation. Bunch of snakes. Keep blaming girls for your woes. Their God will not leave them unfulfilled because you are not their Creator. Nonsense.

Michelle70, don't waste your breath on people who are set in their deluded ways. Imagine grown men thinking the opposite sex is their problem in this life...except most of these commenters are toddlers with the privilege of keyboard and the internet.
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at the bolded, are you aware those guys made money illegally and spend money anyhow, which is what most of these hungry and selfish women wants to see.

A guy doing a decent job, can't spend money lavishly, and she would dump him, saying he is stingy, she will dump the decent guy who spends prudently over a thief who spends lavishly. Long throat no good o!

After when the man must have wasted her time, she will come back to the decent guy, to stylishly seek for an opportunity. huh.

I hope you heard about the young guy who is an armed robber in the united stated. The wedding he did in lagos, was the talk of the town. Women are to be blamed for their situation. It takes wisdom to make the right decision, not material benefits.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Truvelisback(m): 10:57am On Oct 09, 2022
Most of them were approached but were too selective and had excessive pride.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by OBTOREPA(m): 10:51am On Oct 11, 2022
Michelle70:
how did i lie?
Read your passages, you sounds like one.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 17, 2022
Divay22:
He no easy for both gender abeg
You, You go still find wetin you dey always go look for on that Redpill Thread. There Is no single day you won't Visit that thread..grin
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Divay22(f): 8:44pm On Oct 17, 2022
Evolutionlove:
You, You go still find wetin you dey always go look for on that Redpill Thread. There Is no single day you won't Visit that thread..grin
grin grin
Na ASUU cause am
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by mirinder: 8:43am On Oct 23, 2022
Lucrativress:
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hey what's up
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Kobicove(m): 12:54am On Nov 05, 2022
Baronthecelebri:
Lies, I met a fine girl, I approach her and ask her for friendship she says no, I met her again she said that she'll think about it, I travel for a job that Last 7 month, when I came back she's pregnant for one stupid Iceland guy that is in prison for murder. She call me for urgent 2k, I gave her condition
1-when she come we'll have sex before she eat.
2- we'll have 2 rounds of sex before she go.
So guys she agreed, anytime she need 2k, I invite her we have 3 rounds of sex with the pregnancy. Did I do anything wrong.
shocked
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by AlphaTaikun: 7:06am On Dec 11, 2022
Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Prettygirl200(f): 8:14am On Dec 11, 2022
Michelle70:
Anty, redpillers will not drink sour.

It was never intended to insult ladies and termed every mature man a simp.

NL boys have successfully put a different meaning into it.

Infact redpilling is "seduction, maturity and power" all put into one.

Whenever i see u, candidlady and most NL females insult redpill, i just shake my head for u lots
Just continue to shake that head for the females in your member, including your mother. No shades!!!
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by Wainey: 7:15am On Dec 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Just continue to shake that head for the females in your member, including your mother. No shades!!!
You are always quick to insult people's mother?
I was thinking if you have a mother at home sef.
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by BigBashiru: 7:30pm On May 15, 2024
Onmyrise:
In the final analysis...
Almost all posters on here are right in one way or another.
Even the OP is right to a little extent.

Yes, Some guys are to be blamed for deceiving and misleading some ladies, and some ladies are to be blamed for passing up on good opportunities.

But i like to think for every Guy blamed, there are like 10 ladies to be blamed for willfully and unreasonably rejecting so many Guys who would have made better hubbies.

Many ladies dont even dare to give a humble and nice Guy a fair hearing not to mention freindzoning.

The facts speaks for itself. Its not about a gender blame game.

Every lady is usually engulfed by the fire of youthful exuberance at ages 18-28. Its hard to find many ladies that escape that fire unconsumed.

Its not bad for a lady to have choices and to refuse 1,2.3.,4 Guys who approach them, there can be very valid reasons for that. But if nature keeps bringing relatively good guys your way and you keep being mean to them and keep chosing the ones who are clearly toxic.,then, you would prolly end up a lost case.


Any serious, focused, unbiased and intelligent lady, should have captured and kept their sweetheart at age
30,max 31 32 huhmax.??

Ladies need to be more profound minded.
The problem with a woman getting married at 30 is that its a very bad deal for the husband. 31 she looks less attractive. 32 she looks less. 33 she looks less. Its a downward spiral from there. At the same time and naturally so, other girls will be entering the husbands eyes. He is stuck with a 32+ and is to be tormented by young attractive things for life! This my friends is the origin of most side chick incidents...

i think its a good deal/arrangement tho, the young ones dont want to settle down. So hv them as sidechick/girlfriend then marry the 30+ yo. They dont hv any option than be loyal cos their SMV has plummetted lolz
Re: Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's by BigBashiru: 7:51pm On May 15, 2024
Jijuo:
Most women are not attracted to good guys. And after spending their youthful lives with bad guys, they turn to good guys before then age is not on their side.
In this scenario, is the good guy justified in getting a side chick while married since he wants to be looking at something nice.
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