₦airaland Forum

KamsiViva:
Foolishness resides here... Probably a teenager too

Or deh
You can't eat your cake and have it.

Cutehector:
he is not done with having kids,she is the one done, she should get her ovaries removed!

tel am

na all ds ones dey wish say dem fit wipe out men bt dem go still buy cucumber and Love Machine instead of female looking toys.

Oga the federal government in order to control our population growth make provision in our budget to buy huge amount off contraceptives for Nigerians. I think they spent over N800m for contraceptives 4years ago and they still spend even more than that every year. It is given free of charge in clinics all over Nigeria, although those clinics still tell you to buy cotton wool and spirit for them . Less than 1k should fix that . There is one called nexplanon ,they put in your wife's upper underarm close to her armpit area not in her armpit though but under that her upper arm. One strip of it lasts for 3years straight,very,very effective. If she puts two it protects against pregnancy for 5 years straight. Once she removes it she returns to her fertile ways again fiam! .The sides effect are normal stuffs, period comes not monthly again and irregular, sometimes scanty sometimes heavy,for some people weight gain but the job gets done well. No pregnancy ever! I'm talking from the experience.
Contraceptives is for both single and married people but our people nor dey hear word. I can vouch for this one, nexplanon na helele .
Good luck!

kiddkash:
Is it expensive

no, just come let me snip ur testicles with pruning shears.

woman dey plan ur destruction, u dey ask how much.

tomorrow now DNA test go prove say na her lecturer wey dey kafanchan get all the pikin and she go carry them run to northern cyprus.

then na only u go still waka come nairaland dey lament ur impotency.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Normalize the use of condom mister, You can't be bringing children into the World irresponsibly

Allow her to do the planning and I strongly believe she will give up in less than a year. Convince her to have the implant, my wife didi it after our first issue even without discussing it with me. She only told me after she didi it, as we speak, she hate hearing about family planning.

If you go for the implant, trust me, she will go for a removal before next October.

superCleanworks:
Oya send her back to her papa house.
na joke i dey oh

Now on a serious note.
go for planning. or retire from football. Your wife obviously doesn't need another baby.

it is VERY IMPORTANT to note that she is not denying you access to her SACRED PART. She says you can chop as you like but she has to be sure that she can do it to the fullest without getting preggy. She even offered to do it with a condom, which 99% of married women will kill you if you ever bring a condom near them. This means she also wants to bang but you dey dull her. The implication of this is that you are also starving your wife of sex but you are here thinking about only yourself.
You have male and female but you still want to send her on another 9 months I.T in this beautiful economy. Abi Buhari dey pay you per child?

You talk too much.

DAramis:
Can you share the name and picture of the seeds?

castor bean

Abemy:
Allow her to do the planning and I strongly believe she will give up in less than a year. Convince her to have the implant, my wife didi it after our first issue even without discussing it with me. She only told me after she didi it, as we speak, she hate hearing about family planning.

If you go for the implant, trust me, she will go for a removal before next October.

true, because women only think of today today and not the future effects of todays decisions.

07kjb:
U better give that MAN a son

hahahaha…. Saw what u did. I will let it slide.

Me na expert for withdrawal method. Once its coming l don commot am - on my hand for u to see say nothing enter.na me fear to give woman pass.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Bros, you married the best woman on planet earth. She is only helping both of you. Go do family planning jare.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Mr man use a condom if you wants it. Maybe she's not on her safe period that's why she insists.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

There is natural family planning, go to Catholic church bookshop buy this book "LOVE AND LIFE"

excellence44:
Haba you self check am na. With this harsh buhari economy you still wan drop another seed given the high cost of everything even preg care. Aneg use circle which is still the best for couples avoiding pregnancy.
Agree with you on your fears with family planning, but if your tradition is not against it allow her to go get it done so that you can cum add you like. Which is actually a win win for both you and her and the 3 angels.

Is there any tradition that's against family planning? His fear, I think, is about the side effects of some family planning methods. Or maybe abortion, but abortion is not a family planning method. The family planning method with zero side effect is abstinence - not total abstinence, but to abstain when she's likely to get pregnant. So, the couple should find out when the women ovulates and avoid intimacy (5) days before the day. Simple as abc. No condoms, no pills, no injection, no implant, no nothing - you go just dey enjoy unaself dey go, dey go, dey go RAW.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

She is even helping you out to solve the problem of having another child or engaging in abortion, what of women who refused to accept family planning and said it make them get fat? Oga either you do family planning or get your satisfaction else where nor be everything dem Dey carry come shioshio midia

Bro
Go n do DNA for your kids first before you embark on family planning
Thank you

mu2sa2:
[b]is there any tradition that's against family planning? [/b]His fear, I think, is about the side effects of some family planning methods. Or maybe abortion, but abortion is not a family planning method. The family planning method with zero side effect is abstinence - not total abstinence, but to abstain when she's likely to get pregnant. So, the couple should find out when the women ovulates and avoid intimacy (5) days before the day. Simple as abc. No condoms, no pills, no injection, no implant, no nothing - you go just dey enjoy unaself dey go, dey go, dey go RAW.

Ask some idoma people of Benue and part of akwaibom

excellence44:
Haba you self check am na. With this harsh buhari economy you still wan drop another seed given the high cost of everything even preg care. Aneg use circle which is still the best for couples avoiding pregnancy.
Agree with you on your fears with family planning, but if your tradition is not against it allow her to go get it done so that you can cum add you like. Which is actually a win win for both you and her and the 3 angels.

even cost of quality seed now is high

Our African forefathers were wise men.

You want to have the 4th angel. ?

and pay 500 + every 3 months in school fees .. that is 2 Million..


oh u dont care about there future or incase u drop dead.

she has sense more than u.

ednut1:
You are a disgrace. In this harsh economy you still wan born more kids

What is dosgraceful about it? I have five kids and plan on adding three more,so i see nothing wrong in having as many kids as you can if you can comfortably cater for them.

Wise woman

op. what else are you looking for? Get a vasectomy done,

DM me if you are in Abuja or Lagos, and I'll direct you to a world class hospital to get it done in less than an hour.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Op! Sorry for your wife. Have pity on her! Consider her health. Sit and listen to her. Family planning is not bad or evil.

Find quality time to discuss with her on this issue. Meanwhile, You can start with using oral methods like... Condoms

Family planning methods could be very harsh on women and even on the marriage itself.But completely not having sex is not the right way to go especially if it's just one partner that wants it.There are girls out there dressed to kill a man.But nature has a way of creating a balance. A woman can only get pregnant when she is ovulating which is between 4 to 5 days in a month,try and find out these days.Avoid having sex so that she won't get pregnant.The others are free.This method is called Natural family planning method.

This is wrong, she has no right to deny your access to your properties. Does she want you to be running after women? If you really still need kids she should allow you to rip the fruit of your labour or she should be very accurate calculating her period and ovulation if you no need more kids period! I hate what I don't like

The simple answer here is that your wife is far wider than you in reasoning because if you are still bringing a thread like this here for us, then you seriously need that counseling

jeromestarks:
You talk too much.

and who is measuring? you? hug a transformer.

Since ur wife is done giving birth. Go for Vasectomy. I does not have any side effect.



Goodluck