Shybeauty:


I can't speak of his sexual status cos i don't know but there is a girl in the same group that is seducing him constantly and trying all to get his attention but his attention is fixated on me. There are other things he does like inviting me to marriage ceremony and sorts. But, he never calls or texts. When peradventure i text him, I notice he waits most times 1hr or 2 hrs before responding

He must have been staring at your bwess without your consent n you thought he likef you.

I’m pretty sure this is all in her head. The guy doesn’t even think about you at all. He’s just being polite and nice by smiling at you. Madam, there is only one way to be sure, ask him out.

And collect your “L” in peace.

Women and their stoopeed ego.

Shybeauty:


You are crazy .
Anyways, when i was sick and couldn't eat. Most people got me juice but he was like he wasn't sure of what i'll like to drink and bought me four kinds of drinks: juice, yoghurt, smoothie and tea.
If he's asking everyone questions directly on a group as a group leader, he will prefer to send me a text and ask me, making me feel respected.

Ehn, it is not hard. Simply tell him

"oga, whenever I happen to glance at your general direction your eyes are always on me. Anything for the girls?"

It's called puppy love. In other words, " I LOVE YOU, TALK YOUR OWN".

Shot your short and don’t forget to familiarize your self with burna boy highest selling single on love damini album

JoeRizzla:


Bitc.h I have something meaningful doing but what do have nothing but a wide decayed tunnel in between your legs for lovepeddling. If you are not a Nigerian why seek opinions of Nigerians on this forum. Odeh

You're clearly an animal.

meobizy:
Na only preek and toto matter full these Nairalanders brains.

Oshe Isaac Newton...na encyclopedia full your own brain.

Shybeauty:
If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

Hope he is not stalking you while you convince yourself that he is head over heels for you.

Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.


Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

Here is a personal experience @Op

2020 I met a girl @ the library.I was First shy like your crush. But just little stare and smile to get her attention most of the time.

After a month we began sharing the same sit but I didn't say anything serious.

My guy call me one day that she was asking of my Digit. The rest they say is history

with time I we got along after 3 month.

When you two lovely birds met, it doesn't matter who make the first move.


I am quiet shy around a girl I like most often.

Seems the guy na OG and lots of matured people around, here once dem suspect anything btw a guy and girl people go begin call una lovers making things easy for the girl. She go assume her position as girlfriend, e tire me

hmmmm!

Awon love nwantiti

Invite him to some kind of date. Drink a bottle of Fayrouz then act tipsy and tell him you get tipsy with fayrouz.

Ask about his girlfriend
Ask if he is seeing someone

Ask him how he feels about you.

You either go home bitter or happy.

But the situation will never remain the same.


P.S: There's no vacant boyfriend anywhere.

if you really need someonething, you either work for it, pay for it or steal it from who has.


my two cents.

Shybeauty:


Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.

You are a lady, you too can make a move, very subtly. But before your move be sure he will not be scared off as I have noticed you care for him too.

Not to loose him, confirm he is good at conversation and njakiri kind of speaking. Then launch by teasing him that his looking at you meant anything because you have noticed it too often. If he is evasive tease him that does he always look at his girlfriends like that. Then probe by saying does he think you can be his girlfriend too.

Then watch and see how far and recalculate. Don't push too much on the first day and conversation. Wait for his future response and action. If he is not forthcoming, please abandon project and focus elsewhere.

Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

He's a flirt , trying to subdue you emotionally before devouring you.

Guard your emotion and ignore his emotional advances......A player has got nothing to offer than winning his GAMES, don't be one of them

Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

Kill yourself.

Approach him, collect dick like 3 times and if you both want anything more you can discuss it

Lol it must be hard to be an African lady

Is the guy rich? Let me start from there cause Nigerian girls don't develop feelings for a guy unless he's got substance

They send you to school, instead of reading you are busy looking for a prick to fck.

Shybeauty:
I felt he is shy but i think i'm very wrong as i heard that he had an ex-girlfriend before and their love was known within the group and outside

Why don't just approach him and tell him your feelings?

Why do most Nigerian women think it's the guy duty to ask yall out?
Not every guy out there have the gut or skill to approach you and ask you out.

Tell him how you feel, worse case scenario is REJECTION.

If you want somebody walk up to am and tell am you love am ehh, because no time at all

Shybeauty:
I can't speak of his sexual status cos i don't know but there is a girl in the same group that is seducing him constantly and trying all to get his attention but his attention is fixated on me. There are other things he does like inviting me to marriage ceremony and sorts. But, he never calls or texts. When peradventure i text him, I notice he waits most times 1hr or 2 hrs before responding

The guy is a manipulator.
He's playing with your mind.
Fashy the guy ASAP for your own good.

Shybeauty:


You are crazy .
Anyways, when i was sick and couldn't eat. Most people got me juice but he was like he wasn't sure of what i'll like to drink and bought me four kinds of drinks: juice, yoghurt, smoothie and tea.
If he's asking everyone questions directly on a group as a group leader, he will prefer to send me a text and ask me, making me feel respected.

If he eventually comes for relationship or marriage....
Are you ready to leave the company...and look for job elsewhere.....

It might sound appalling but he get why I ask

How old are you

Will a shy guy smile back? Eeehhhh?

Use ur brain... Make e nor be like say you are being misled.
Peace

Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

Pls sis, save urself now and run .
Stuff like this don't end well

This is some secondary school sh!t

How about you ask him for sometime to talk. and you can bare your mind out to him to see his response. Atleast you will be able to place his passive actions towards you and know what direction or step to take.

Use your tongue to count your teeth.

Ask him outrightly "Why are you always staring at me?" He will then be forced to take action.