virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.

honestly u are right.
Chemistry matters a lot

Oga everywhere get as he take b financially, people are losing means of finances everywhere.u are not the only husband jobless. Nigeria is hard.wentin pastor, spiritual & church people for tell u after you tell them say since you marry na u stagnant Them go say d problem na your wife abi u no know? Na u Know if u like use ur hand scatter your relationship,tis day life now na d more you look the more you are confuse,so choose your posion... Above all u said u married early use ur tongue count your teeth

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

Are you sure you want to hear the truth? You are a very foolish man. And you married a good woman. When the economic reality hits hard on families it is expected that the man should loose his sanity which is happening to you. If your wife really has those spirits those useless spiritualist of yours claim, do you think she will even go with you to their shrine. The woman is good and you are tormenting her by not standing by her side when those spiritualist say rubbish. It is Nigeria's economy that is bad. There is no evil spirit chasing you. If you vote wisely next year your situation might improve. I also experienced financial crisis in my marriage and because of that me and my wife stuck with only two kids. Today I'm trying to have more cause the financial situation has improved but it seems the kids are running from me.
I pray for you "Every enemy chasing you, from January till this time. That have vow that you will not make it. If they refuse to leave you this year. They will die by fire." This should be your prayer every morning and night for the next six months. See if your state will not improve. However that prayer works faster if you pray it with your wife together.

zakkxx:
Avoid going to juju women! Be a serious Christian, don’t live that beautiful woman alone, she has been their thick and thin. Don’t allow anybody to scatter your family!! Pray every 12 mid night! Watch Jesus Christ temple ministry, Warri and bride assembly Ijesha on you tube! Your life will change for e ever! If u are in Lagos go to Bride Assembly every Tuesday morning for war fare and Friday for night vigil!

na only bride assembly? No groom own. Ohh yh women are more gulleble shey

Nonexisting1:
Your wife get sense pass you. Her decision not to go to the pastor for nonsense deliverance was superb. I suggest you change your mentality from its current state. People lose their means of livelihoods everyday. The smart ones go about looking for other means to survive but the foolish ones go about looking for solutions in prayer and spiritual houses. Tell your wife I say well done for not following you about to prayer houses like mumu.

your mentality is the reason we have so much of break up in marriage today became you think that life comes the way it's lol but the life you see on the mirror is more than that..... A life without always end up crisis and may end up under third mainland bridge..

FalseProphet1:
Your wife has an obanje spirit, and as long as that spirit hasn't be banished from her, you wouldn't succeed. Take her for deliverance and things would begin to normalize in your life.

This I have seen.

You are right FalseProphet, but the koko be say the woman no wan go for the deliverance. Maybe the spirit hubby dey nack am pass her husband

The everlasting covenant in the Blood of Jesus is bigger than any and every blood covenant both of birth and sex (marriage), stand on this and break every soul-tie manipulation. So even if she is not the one behind the case, every such soul-tie will break.
P.S. A married couple are meant to agree and advance. If you can't agree with her, break that covenant spiritually and eventually it will manifest physically.

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

you can never get your answer here bros.. This show that you are not man enough to marry..stand up and fight your battle.

miyagi01:
Why you self rush marry. Marriage matter nah serious matter. You should have prayed well to know the kind of person wey u wan marry. Some spouse get badluck that you might never make it if u're with them

100% right o!

You both should go for deliverance and try as much as possible to see a marriage counsellor. Having done that, then pick up the next hustle or next available job.

I like your type of lady
I'm a spiritualist.

Magnoliaa:


Lol. What this wife is doing is not even up to a 1/3rd of what I *can* do, Kay.

Contrary to people's perceptions, it's why I try to avoid men as much as possible, but they will still want to be doing stronghead.

My spirit husband no gbadun at all; but guys go still wan chook head for fire until he deals with them.

virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.

All this while na today you make sense.

What is wrong with you is called , Information bias, and it happens with people who are unwilling to take responsibility for their problem. These type of people try to find patterns in events to justify that some power beyond them is responsible for their problems, e.g. After your child birth you lost your job, e.g. You couldn't admit to why you lost your job, maybe you underperformed (but you are quick to tag it as mysterious ,instead of admitting that you failed.). In your search for this supernatural cause if your problem, you have tracked events to your marriage and that has led you down the path of fake pastors who tell you what you want to hear to further re enforce your bias.

Your type will never accept that they are responsible for their problems, it's always somebody hunting them ,pls if you want to leave the marriage leave the marriage,don't drag that woman into your own mess,because it doesn't matter what you do or what we tell you,you'd always believe your marriage is the problem and your wife is the problem. Even when you know deep down that you aren't doing enough.

I bid you good luck in your f"*cked up deafetist mindset

Dont give a pass mark to your marriage until you experience a drop in your economy, then you will know the strength of your love, especially the woman.

Your marriage is in perfect condition, you should play your role as the leader and navigate your family back to the right direction, including restoring the happiness of your home. You have been too comfortable for a long time. Just the fact that you lost your job, you feel your world is collapsing and self pity has creeped in, followed by hopelessness. By meeting sorcerers to tell you about your problems is a sign of frustration and lack of wisdom.

Your attitude is psychologically affecting your wife. Take control of your family by taking charge of your life.

She is not your problems!!!!!.

Bro your problem are the religious people you seek for advice from. Your wife is innocent and all these people that can't see anything telling you otherwise are the problem. taking their advice is your problem not your wife.

You live with her, tell us if you've seen anything to make you think she might be the problem. Also Keep trying to get a job and don't lose hope, but love your wife and don't blame her for your hardship and stop taking advice from fake people. Tomorrow they will say it's your mother holding your destiny. Stop seeking for so called spiritual help, they are all fake.

Magnoliaa:


Lol. What this wife is doing is not even up to a 1/3rd of what I *can* do, Kay.

Contrary to people's perceptions, it's why I try to avoid men as much as possible, but they will still want to be doing stronghead.

My spirit husband no gbadun at all; but guys go still wan chook head for fire until he deals with them.

I go like make we date

Make we know wassup

U go tell nairaland how e later go

Are you interested?

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

You are very pathetic. Keep looking for someone to blame instead of looking at yourself and taking responsibility for your own downfall. You won't make any progress until you admit your own mistakes and learn from them instead of blaming your wife.

Gullible people will keep allowing "men and women of God" to destroy their relationship in the name of prophecy.
Go to those same people that told you that your wife is ur problem and lie to them about something, just paint a fictional scenario for them about your life and see them fumble badly.
That same holy spirit that use to tell them about you will no longer open their eyes to see that you are making up stories.

Magnoliaa:


Lol. What this wife is doing is not even up to a 1/3rd of what I *can* do, Kay.

Contrary to people's perceptions, it's why I try to avoid men as much as possible, but they will still want to be doing stronghead.

My spirit husband no gbadun at all; but guys go still wan chook head for fire until he deals with them.

So you are agreeing to having a spiritual husband wey no gbadun. May God deliver you o.

1 Chronicles 4:9-10

…..and God granted his request.

May the Almighty bless you and your family, and strengthen with joy, abundance and love, the relationship between you and your wife.

May your faith be renewed, and all negative events in your life be turned to joy in Jesus Name, Amen!

Magnoliaa:


Lol. What this wife is doing is not even up to a 1/3rd of what I *can* do, Kay.

Contrary to people's perceptions, it's why I try to avoid men as much as possible, but they will still want to be doing stronghead.

My spirit husband no gbadun at all; but guys go still wan chook head for fire until he deals with them.

Am stronger than your spiritual husband
Just one strong in and out of that your pink pusy he go run back to where he from come

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

Hmm !!! Hope you did not wrong your wife in anyways, some people have some spiritual stuffs in them , even they themselves might not know , your wife should be happy of your progress , it is true she might have the feelings that when the money comes , you will cheat on her , due to what we are hearing & seeing every day , the fear is already there ...

Ask your wife some questions , if there is anytime that you have offended her , some people spirit are like that , is not everybody you can treat badly & expect the person to be happy with you ..

Not only in marriages , any where we found ourselves let's live peacebly with everyone ..

Oga, take responsibility for your life and stop looking for who to blame for your challenge. Challenges is part of life, whether you're married or single...take a deep self examination, and think of what you can do to while waiting for a better job to come...Take online courses on IT,meet people that can be of help to you, pray to God with sincerity, and humble yourself under His arm, take the current happenings part of challenges you must overcome for you to motor next level, please, stop looking for who's responsible or who to blame, remember your kids, it's time for you to arise from all excuses and shine above them all. Nothing/Nobody can stop a determined mind,even the devil...Looking at your wife as your enemy, is a strategy of the enemy of your soul to finish you, I tell you. Think, pray and work together with her, that's your partner, you'll surely have testimonies.. Shalom..

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

pikomamamusicwo

Become a Jehovahs Witness and if there's an evil spirit, it will flee from you (Read James 4:7)

Them don come with another fake story this evening.

This is a typical example of "You are Finished......"

Leave the marriage now before devil enter you make you go........ your wife.

annisy:
One thing I know from experience is financial break through is always far from family where their is no peace!! I will encourage you to talk to your wife but of you needs to create an atmosphere for genuine peace, love and work together as a team in no time things will turn around... No allow any hustle called man of God deceive you. Your wife na your wife

Oil dey your head.... plain truth..

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

Don’t listen to those fake pastors. Stick with your wife. Work hard and pray to Gods you’ll surely bounce back.

I never said all rich family, majority of rich folks live in peace compared to poor folks!!
Thesame way you find peace and tranquility in rich neighborhood

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

So all rich families live in peace? Another funny Nigerian theory.

Lifestone:

I'm a person of faith, but allowing a spiritualist to so manipulate him into believing that his Wife is the source of his problems.
It's like saying over 10million men in Nigeria without jobs or who Buhari is dealing all have bad or evil wives. Naaaa, truth is that the country is hard and only the strong and determined people can survive.
Maybe he should watch FIGURING by Kunle Afolayan to help himself

How did you arrive at your conclusion of manipulation...? Faith or sense
If you are a person of faith ....?
Is not advisable for the Ops to go to God in prayers
Instead of outright condemnation of the spiritualist message?

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

My Brother you done already marry so watn sure pass na for you and wife to sincerely repent to ask God for mercy then look for a sound believing church and join shun all those prayer house.
Nothing sure pass the mercy of God.

Pells:
Your wife has the same spirit with virginprincess and Magnoliaa, Sweetplum
It's an evil spiritual husband
Run from your wife oo and disolve the marriage

and here i am plotting some pick up lines to get maggy out of loneliness, i guess i have to abort mission...