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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by ENDTIMEISNEAR: 10:46am On Nov 18, 2022 |
Is like the Op likes food, the man notice his funny behaviour Samantha123: 5 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Nobody: 10:55am On Nov 18, 2022 |
And I get where his uncle is coming from. The man just told op the bitter truth and now this guy wants to completely cut his uncle off just because of mere food that he could eat at home before visiting. ENDTIMEISNEAR: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by brain54(m): 11:01am On Nov 18, 2022 |
Note these points… He didn’t stop you from coming to his house. He just said you should come less frequently. He said you should spend time in your own house helping your mother. You stated you visit at LEAST 4 times a week. Meaning some weeks you visit more times. You eat every time you go there. I think you may have even exaggerated the way he yelled at you. I see absolutely nothing wrong in what your uncle told you. Help your mom at home and visit less frequently. Some times truth is bitter. Bitter like bitter leaf! 14 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by habsydiamond(m): 1:11pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:because of his children that are close to you, I think u shouldn't cut ties but don't go visit for a long time to see how he reacts. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by merieam16(f): 2:46pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
jamesversion:who knows it might even be the wife that is behind it.... I'm a woman but I don't trust us wen it comes to this 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Rolexxxy(f): 3:27pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by DropsMic(m): 3:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Lol… Four times a week.. Haba baba. Even me go para and I’m a nice person 8 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by MadamVanessa(f): 3:39pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: If you can disconnect totally from that your uncle, please do it. I hate men like that. 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Cde1: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Many goes through it directly or indirectly while young. Just stay focus on your life and be successful 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by MaverickA3: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Even the Bible says, Do not visit a friend too often or they'll begin to hate you. Three times in a week is too much bro. Do not cut your uncle off. Change your visiting time to twice in a month, later once in a month, then once in three months and you will gain your uncle's respect. You make people you visit often feel uncomfortable no matter the relationship. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by TenQ: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:The man is going through very hard times at this period. Please, give him space. But it also means that you are not worth your weight in gold with respect to helping them in the house. You eat more than you give. Please , give them space. Your uncle doesn't hate you He's only passing through a difficult time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by mytime24(f): 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Joezik(m): 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: This is what we call see finish. U should have seen the signs 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by int0x80(m): 3:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Give him some space for now, things are hard. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by fkj950ax(m): 3:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Severing ties with your uncle? What does that mean or achieve? And you should be sensitive to people personal space, even if they are related to you. He may be going through a lot financially with the horrible way the government has managed the economy. Maybe he’s having hard time to meet his responsibilities. Maybe his family is really making concessions to manage and they can’t afford to host or have someone over four times a week (that’s 16 days out of 31). You too reason with him!!! And you seem to be a bit too much uppity in your head thinking your uncle is subservient to you and you will cut him off from your life? That’s some bad behavior bro. 5 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Sammy07: 3:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
jamesversion: I love your signature |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by sharpwriter(m): 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:Proverbs 25:17 is real. No matter the love, once you are frequent in someone's house, you become a nuisance, or even a suspect sef. Apply this lesson to all known person as from today. It doesn't even mean they are bad people. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Amathania: 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Haaaa |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Mrkumareze(m): 3:43pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Everything has limit, don't frequent anyone's house. He might have done this to call your senses to order. I believe he has giv8ng you signals earlier but you failed to understand. 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by babtoundey(m): 3:43pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
There is no point cutting ties with him. Relate with him and his children as you always do. But limit whatever business you have with him to outside his house. If I were you, I would be friendly with him as always, but if he gives me money or any gift at all, my answer is going to be thank you. And nothing in the whole wide world will make me step foot into his house again. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by OhiOfIhima: 3:43pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
If I were you, I will stay away from there for like 6months and more 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by vikstandon(m): 3:44pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Calvary247: Na you be the Uncle? You call am name like say, you know the person hiding under the moniker. Op your Uncle dey Nairaland, e don catch you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by staga: 3:45pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: What are you always doing in your uncle's house as a grown man? Can't you look for work and help your mother like he said? 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Guyman01: 3:45pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
See why his uncle doesn't want him around his children from his previous post 1 Like
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by lomprico(m): 3:45pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Yes! Go ahead. But why you dey like chop plenty food when u dey dia? You and your uncle should vote right next year, if not even if na once a year you dey visit, the day you go there he will call police to arrest you for attempting to eat his food. Contri hard. 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Megabig: 3:46pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Just go once a month, let people crave your appearance, them don see you finish 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by twosquare(m): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
As it is written: "Don't visit your neighbors too often; they may get tired of you and come to hate you." (Proverbs 25:17) Not just your neighbours...even families. @Messi1 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Funflipper: 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Why go to your uncle's house uninvited in the first place? |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by jurjes(f): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Long time no see is better than have you come again? Moderation is key 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by RZArecta(m): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:learn to reduce the way you visit people, let them value your absence. Your uncle is under serious pressure now. Foodstuff is expensive and children won't hear story. Cut away from him for now, tomorrow, you people can settle. Things rough outside oga and this your story will turn to a regular anthem across the country soon |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Ara21(f): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: You are still considering severing all ties or you should have sever all ties already Una get soft heart sha, till that man dies he will not see me again, I will not even tell my children that I am related to him. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
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