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Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by grandstar(m): 8:45pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
The only explanation for this is greed! It is best they get a good lawyer to fight this case. The man's family had sinister motives from the word go. Why did they not let him take his child away with him when he first visited with his South African wife? The poor mother 4 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: This isn't a Nigerian thing. It happens all over the world, and even within other countries. Families withholding children from their parents It is even worse when two countries are involved. One case involved an American man. His wife (from Brazil) divorced him and ran back home with their son and her new lover. Man tried to get his child back through legal means...e no do. It took the man involving his Senator...who just happened to be on a comittee that was looking at a trade deal with Brazil....before his son was released to him. . 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:46pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
This is a simple case but your Aunty is not going about it the proper way,she needs a Nigerian to guide her,if possible to smuggle to boy back to South Africa 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BRATISLAVA: 8:46pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: She's getting her introduction to Nigerian men. She knew of the forum and never read how they treat women and children as their property. Today she expects the same people to give her advice. I hope she finds the help she needs here, and not at the Nigerian embassy, since her child isn't a South African citizen. 4 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BRATISLAVA: 8:47pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Kobonaire234: It mostly is. "My children" rather than "our children". Same mentality his family are displaying. They believe men own the children. 4 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by akpunda86: 8:48pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lummoni:Men Can she pay me for the job,what location of the child,if south East easy but Ur aunt needs come down to Nigeria, accommodation u can give her but will cost her,I hand her the kid in Naija,both can stay in my house while she do her papers but will cost her.intrested DM 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: It is very common, and happens worldwide. Infact, I won't be surprised if there are Nigerians who have not seen their children born in other countries. There is even an international convention on the matter...a lot of countries have signed up to the thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by grandstar(m): 8:53pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Richy4: When my cousin was locked up in Alagbon in the early 1990s, they referred to it as 'Presidential baked beans' 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BABANGBALI: 8:53pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
ayoncox:good talk. Your head dey there. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 8:54pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: I have modified my post. I am going to add that the issue of international child custody battles is a serious matter. And yes, it involves relatives (a case happened where the mother was even dead, but the mother's relatives were witholding the child from the husband. And it involved two non-African countries). I have read about this thing for years. It's not a nice thing to read about. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Ronjule: 8:55pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Berekete family will handle this issue successfully 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by semanose: 8:57pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Mindlog: You are right, I can attest to this. It leaves an emotional scar that might never heal. In my case, I didn't allow the kids leave my sight one bit. Help from my family and my neighbours and their school saved me from them. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Alexiiydon: 8:58pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
HarlequinLekex:did he say they didn’t take care of her?all you the obituaries make una Dey get sense before una Dey type 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BRATISLAVA: 8:59pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Kobonaire234: It's not nice. Must be traumatizing for the parent who had the child taken. If they're enslaving her child while she sends them money, they are the cruel type who will keep the child away from her out of spite and greed. Maybe they are building a mansion with her payments and won't let go of the child until it's been completed. It's kind aspect of intercultural partnership people really need to look into. You can get the perfect spouse with such a different Mindset to yours culturally. And that's a recipe for pain and disaster. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
For people saying 'Typical Nigeria'.....international child custody issues happen from country to country. There are people in many countries, Nigeria and South Africa inclusive, who have not seen their children in years because they married a foreign spouse who took them back to their home country, out of the reach of the other parent. For more information, google Hague Convention On The Civil Aspects Of International Child Abduction And International Child Custody Arrangements. As at 2019, over 100 countries have signed this convention. 3 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by SPAMBOX7: 9:02pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lol na Nigerian Embassy go help her collect her pikin? Wow.. seems like your aunt a Dumbo hence deserving of whatever she getting no sympathy for her here. Bye |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Yes, though at the end, marriage is hard work. While I agree with your point...we still have cases where the broken up relationship come from the same culture, race and country, and still one parent is prevented from seeing the child by the other parent and his or her family. There is supposed to be an international convention on the matter...but it is difficult to enforce even in developed countries (and some have even refused to sign the convention self)... 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Yankee101: 9:04pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lawyer Court 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Joniww(m): 9:07pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
This is pure wickedness!!! You can't take care of the child yet you deprieve the child from living with his real mother. Op do what has been said above, meet those organizations in physical. Wicked Nigerian family. 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by MoneyMustBMade(m): 9:07pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Very bad for the child... Pay the police heavily so they will help you out, if possible bride lawyers.. case close 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Richy4(m): 9:08pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: You can't smuggle a child outside the country so easily like that nowadays buddy.. Many countries are strict on child trafficking nowadays... Yes she might be the mother of the child, but if challenged at the port of entry, does she have an instant prove to show that she is indeed the mother?..No pictures on social media where herself,the kid and family members were bonding, nothing... for her to prove her innocence, she might stay behind bars for weeks.. pending when DNA comes out... She should just follow the right process.. 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by waterpouroverfl: 9:08pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Tell us the tribe 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Richy4(m): 9:09pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
grandstar: |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by frankfrank(m): 9:15pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Did she contact south Africa Embassy in Nigeria? They can help her take up the issue 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Daniel058(m): 9:15pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lummoni:if the Man paid Lobola , then the child belong to the man and his family, that's Igbo tradition (assuming the late husband was from Igbo tribe) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by alizma: 9:15pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
sisisioge:Your approach is good but you can't take him directly to South Africa, you need passport for him. But you can arrange the movement with someone in passport official in Ghana or Benin republic, hang around till the boy is sent on an errand, pick him straight to the nearest airport, then to Lagos, from their, enter Benin or Ghana by road. From their you can arrange your movement to South Africa, eliminate anything, such as processing passport for him that will delay the movement in Nigeria. So you need to move out of Nigeria within the first two days you have physical contact with the boy. 3 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Streetmovement(m): 9:19pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking Enter street everybody go carry body Police and embassy na dullings |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by DearGorgeous(f): 9:22pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
sisisioge: I prefer this method. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Evergreen4(m): 9:24pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lummoni:Contact a very good human right activist. They will help . inbox me 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by GistFullGround: 9:25pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
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Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Karleb(m): 9:27pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Let her locate the child. When he is out playing, grab the child and japa. It takes madness to cure madness. 3 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Evergreen4(m): 9:28pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
No be by to gather fake crowed dey shout go and collect your APV APC. I no fit vote person when dey Loose guard and dey cut service 1 Like |
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