Like I said earlier, you're using the minority to judge the majority. Nigerian men are well respected in Africa and the world at large when it comes to hard work and getting resources, the only people who tend to belittle Nigerian men are ironically Nigerian women. Women of other nationalities respect us and wanna be with us (that can't be said of men of other nationalities regarding our women) but back home they take us for granted because dem don see us finish. This is the reason our guys are marrying foreign babes because a prophet is hardly homoured at home.
This thread is not to do unnecessary comparison but a wake up call for our brothers who have forgotten they have the knife and the yam!

lilwetdick:


how many of you will become the next dangote, innoson and otedeola?? none of you

you brought out few men out of the milllions of men in this country doing nothing

the dirty world of politics is men stuff, we can agree on that but see where we are today, we live in a poor country where people cant afford basic stuff.

so all women bringing food to the table have big gods, this is corny as Bleep, it shows insecurity

the same complaining and nagging we talking about, is the stuff you are basically doing, women this and that, i wonder what type of man you will become.

the moment when a man starts to complain and nag instead of solving issues that is the end of that man, he will never be anything..that is facts and that is what we see in our society, men who complain and nag always.

just take a clue, How many of those men who nag and complain in front of newpapers about Nigeria's problem amount to something- none, if you call them for protest, will they show up-no.

DMerciful:
Like I said earlier, you're using the minority to judge the majority. Nigerian men are well respected in Africa and the world at large when it comes to hard work and getting resources, the only people who tend to belittle Nigerian men are ironically Nigerian women. Women of other nationalities respect us and wanna be with us (that can't be said of men of other nationalities regarding our women) but back home they take us for granted because dem don see us finish. This is the reason our guys are marrying foreign babes because a prophet is hardly homoured at home.
This thread is not to do unnecessary comparison but a wake up call for our brothers who have forgotten they have the knife and the yam!

Nigerian arent respected anyway even in africa, was it not in south africa they wanted to kill us, even ghana are driving us away, almost every country do not want Nigerians because of our men, pls dont be deceived, was it not in Croatia 2 Nigerian men were sent to refugee camp just because they were Nigerians.

the hype about other women wanting Nigerian men is false, it is the same gold digging African women looking to exhort gullible Nigerian men for their money, once the money finish they run back to their men. Nigerians outside are just heavy flashers once they get cash, as soon as the money finishes, these so call women who love nigerian men are no where to be found

Once you travel out side Nigeria, you will know how far, all those hype about how foreign women love Nigerian men that some gullible men post here, when you see the reality on ground, na you go mellow.

ubunja:
damn. Everytime I hear these stories of "I thought she was a virgin but later realized she's screwing abc" I die a little on the inside.

Why are guys so trusting of the words of women?? It's like guys take everything women say at face value.... Smh.

Bro, am telling you av locked up my mind when dealing with girls b4 they start to psyche my brain with am a virgin, my pastor told me to stay away from sex, this thing is sin all nah scam...

One fucking gold rule no girl is a virgin until I confirm it myself...

pocohantas:


At no point have you all ever been "tigers", you only had women that were very submissive- thus making your pseudo-masculinity obvious. Tiger that was colonised and whipped in the butt, watched their women get fcked by colonial masters, sold themselves for mirrors and combs. Tiger that is in a third world country ravaged by hunger and ordinary malaria. Tiger that can't even boast of good roads and electricity...

Can you see that your masculinity revolves around toto? Something that is inconsequential to fast developing counties?

We are very hungry and bitter people, so we love and fck for all the wrong reasons. It is only normal we experience lots of fake pain.

Touche.. .. ..

pocohantas:


No jokes Johnny. I have been chill these past weeks and it looks like I am losing my steam- but I gave it a hard thought. What are the youths even up to in this country? Once it is relationship matter, we ready to talk for 22 pages, anything else and the thread dies in nanoseconds.

This 2020, I am going to support my friend in her startup, start another certification, focus on my job, workout more, hangout more and make friends with goal-driven persons. Nobody should tag me in nonsense, I go insult am well well...

Good points u'r making.

buh let's be honest, societal infuence is enough to make you run mad on a nice Christmas Eve.

Take for instance, I have people around me that equates my masculinity with marriage, wetin I go do? It gets worse when people start asking you if you be gay. Crazy hood! Crazy yoots oo

Any which way, like I wud say, the problem of Nigeria is Nigerians!!!

On a serious note. Building great relationships is important. IMHO, I think if people can understand the dynamics of a good relationship, it will help them become better.

As a matter of fact, I enjoy relationship threads than others on NL because, I can't stand the childish tribalism that goes on here.

It is only on relationship threads that people argue objectively. The rest na childish abuses and tribalism.

The annoying thing is they don't post with their real accounts

Lol 2019 Thread..

Martinez39:
Reading that Akinbahm's post, it's clear that some guys are too stupid to be saved. Life must teach them. Some won't still learn because "there are good women". Can imagine that some men, overseas, after being raped in the divorce court, still marry again? Many men, despite knowing the divorce and child support laws, are still get married? Some men are just beyond redemption.

Most men are Weak & Stupid, Most especially this generation. Forget the Masculinity, Physical look & Muscle of some Men. A simple touch or even a Voice of an endowed lady, They are off their Feet. I look at many grown Up men shivering & loosing balance and focus at the appearance of a female. Most Men are extremely weak In the mind.

2019 thread. Hian

Shit! 2019 post making front page in 2022?

Octopusssy:
2019 thread. Hian

It baffles me too.

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

shut up your mouth

2019 thread

Oluwa awa Pelu yin ooo
Wadoooo
Hahahahaha

2019 thread but still applicable to today

Aren’t you guys tired of this masculinity farce? Studies have shown that most guys posting ‘lamentations’ about their relationships on here aren’t using their real accounts, including the OP probably

J

Who the Bleep is Ubunja, is he iLegend?

Na young, broke, Yoruba, yahoo boys full Nairaland. It’s normal for girls to dribble them. When they get older and develop sexual patience, the tables reverse. By then the younger generation of broke, Yoruba, yahoo boys will litter this forum — if it still exists then — with the threads you’re complaining about now.

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

So this whole long post is because your girlfriend/wife discovered you're a one minute man?

To y'all on this thread, never lose hope. If a thread of 2019 can make it to FP in 2022, your success is near too.

pocohantas:


At no point have you all ever been "tigers", you only had women that were very submissive- thus making your pseudo-masculinity obvious. Tiger that was colonised and whipped in the butt, watched their women get fcked by colonial masters, sold themselves for mirrors and combs. Tiger that is in a third world country ravaged by hunger and ordinary malaria. Tiger that can't even boast of good roads and electricity...

Can you see that your masculinity revolves around toto? Something that is inconsequential to fast developing counties?

We are very hungry and bitter people, so we love and fck for all the wrong reasons. It is only normal we experience lots of fake pain.

Hahahahahaha


See upper cut

This thread made front Page after three years of its creation? Wow, it simply means no matter what you're currently facing your turn to shine will come

3 years later and it has gone from bad to worse to rotten!!! Na to call hell rufai to turn am from rotten to bad remain

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

Ubunja is no doubt a genius, but, you see, his miseducation and reality are sometimes two parallel lines. Matters of the heart can take different twists and turns.

GolDRoger:
This thread made front Page after three years of its creation? Wow, it simply means no matter what you're currently facing your turn to shine will come

Just checked and I am like wow !


2019 thread.

Dreams come true

Davash222:
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!

i wanted to slap the guy initially till i realized the guy was far away

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

You came from between the legs of a woman, right? If you like keep running your mouth, you go see car wey dey stand on top water.

emmaodet:


My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

With all due respect, shatap!

Men are not built for sissy talks...

We have the mental capacity to know what to do; and the will to see it done.
Not by crying online...but by critical thinking and taking actions.

If those actions include TALKING, best believe its Real Talk, not online whining.

Jeweltz:
To y'all on this thread, never lose hope. If a thread of 2019 can make it to FP in 2022, your success is near too.

So true

Bobbiee:


So this whole long post is because your girlfriend/wife discovered you're a one minute man?

You are mean.

ibkayee:
2019 thread but still applicable to today

Aren’t you guys tired of this masculinity farce? Studies have shown that most guys posting ‘lamentations’ about their relationships on here aren’t using their real accounts, including the OP probably

Exactly. I am sure there years after nothing changed

MoneySEASON:
Shit! 2019 post making front page in 2022?

Never lose hope

DMerciful:
Our forefathers married many wives and coped very well..nowadays men are struggling with 1 or 2 ladies. Men becoming cry babies

Marrying many wives is easy when they are either novices, uncivilized, you control them with money or other famous positions or jazz.

It's not easy to have an educated and civilized woman as second wife if you don't have any of the things mentioned above.

You creating a tread ontop woman matter makes you a bigger SIMP

real men don’t give a Bleep

doggedfighter:




Never lose hope

Lol, sure.