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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by mariahAngel(f): 7:40pm On Dec 07, 2022
gloryhomemaker:


Nne abeg no make me laugh.

Calabar girls don suffer no be small.

I dey tell you!

Those ones sef no dey help matter.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by onlinestaff2020: 7:41pm On Dec 07, 2022
Kollins11:
Seeing them in canteen is even better.

Come club na, you go see as married men plenty for there. Even as late as 1am they are still boozing down some Shayoo with we the single guys in the club.

On Friday here, one married man literally told me his wife is a big problem in his house, that he wish he could be sleeping in the club everyday of his life. He said his wife can't cook, she's always nagging, she's very troublesome, she report him to different kinds of people.

Many married men has found rest in club. Men are really going through a lot in the hands of these daughters of jezebel.

The woman wey go tamper with my peace of mind is yet to be born. Them never born her papa well. She dey Mad?

You must meet a woman who will tamper with your peace.
Oga, there's nothing you can do about it.
Best thing is to throw her out early...If you decide to manage her after many years, you don enter everlasting ONE CHANCE.
Also, don't let her have many kids for you because na YAWA be that with BAGGAGES.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by mariahAngel(f): 7:41pm On Dec 07, 2022
Zonefree:

Obviously, you're jealous of calabar girls, Mariah grin

Maka gini? undecided
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Annahh(f): 7:42pm On Dec 07, 2022
I understand my colleagues that are bachelors that a canteen feed them everyday, morning and afternoon, what I don't understand is the married ones.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by FuckSilly: 7:45pm On Dec 07, 2022
HanisahZuwy:
See guy, forget. When that particular woman wey get your mumu button shows, just forget it. Na you go dey wash her pants, even the ones soaked with menstrual blood sef. Una dey talk like this because that particular woman wey get una mumu button never show, yet. When she shows, forget matter.
Ọr dẹ
Muh mu...
How old are you?
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by TheGift: 7:47pm On Dec 07, 2022
Because they can't cook or
Because they won't cook.

Many can't or won't cook because they believe it is a Woman's work to cook. Many of them were given this orientation by their Mothers (other Women) who made it the work of their sisters and other female relations to be in the kitchen.

Some of those Men are eating there for different reasons e.g

Their wife can't cook to their taste
Their wife can cook but is not willing to cook for Him
Their wife can cook but She is not around to cook for Him because she is busy at work, to help the family
Their wife can cook but She is literally not around because e.g She is out of the country doing Her masters.
Their wife can cook but she is incapacitated by illness or recent child birth
Their wife can cook but she is wondering why a full grown Man cannot feed Himself except She is around to sort Him out.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Zonefree(m): 7:50pm On Dec 07, 2022
mariahAngel:


Maka gini? undecided
Ama'm gi.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by iamjavadem(m): 7:52pm On Dec 07, 2022
Because our wives will not cook and we cannot come and starve to death.
Jeon:
The answer is yes.



Nah this one you see take judge.
Yet they will say "Men think logical"


Men eat in canteen /restaurant based on different reasons.

Take for example those Men working in companies [Lagos for example ] where traffic is compulsory, and those have to resume work by 5,6: o clock am. Do you expect the man to take time in eating at home? If ur answer is yes, how will he excuse the traffic?
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Originakalokalo(m): 7:52pm On Dec 07, 2022
Magnoliaa:


A man who left his wife at home and found succour in the club is an hurt man looking for peace, but a married woman partying with her friends and going to clubs and hangouts is an irresponsible fellow who has turned her husband to a simp, and cannot let go of the independence she enjoyed before marrying.

Nor be say she dey run from troublesome King Ahab husband at home o.

That's beautiful. grin

Well said.

The heart of humans are incredibly wicked.
It goes both ways. Males and females
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 7:54pm On Dec 07, 2022
socialmediaman:


Is it lunch time that you see them there? Many married men don't usually go home for lunch from their workplaces unless it's very close

If it's dinner time then they probably prefer the food at the restaurant to the one at home
I mean men who lives close to or around their houses eating eba and soup in the canteen often.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 7:58pm On Dec 07, 2022
ISellBeer:
You will understand when you marry
I have begin to understand gradually.

Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Coldie(m): 8:00pm On Dec 07, 2022
Some women can’t cook or the quality of the food at the restaurant is undeniable. I once went to my uncles house and his wife didn’t know how to cook, to avoid eating her food in the morning I will leave the house by 7am and not come back till 11am have my bath run out again before she will tell me lunch is ready, while for dinner I try my best to come back as late as possible so I won’t come during dinner time.

Her husband does same thing codedly, his work starts by 10am but he would leave just before she finishes cooking, d day I knew was when we started meeting in the same restaurant.

In Lagos there are some bad ass restaurants that are run by all those iyawo, u fit but just #100rice put meat of #500, from round about, to Pomo, to towel. Braun bursting

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Oceanjagaban: 8:05pm On Dec 07, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do most married men eat in the canteen or restaurant? Is it that their wives can't cook nice meals? I'm a bachelor and i do eat in the canteen but surprisingly, i do see married men eat there. Although, the owner of the canteen is a good cook.
the same reason why some married men still dey dagger olosho
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 8:08pm On Dec 07, 2022
ISellBeer:

You will understand when you marry
I know a married elderly man who decided to have a side chick because his wife refuse to cook for him to eat and if she even manage to cook, she won't bring his ration. The side chick this man met was a single mother(of a boy) living alone. The man decided to buy foodstuffs for her to cook for him. Note: The woman too was financially independent. The man use to spend the night there and have fun there. I know who later cast the news, his wife later findout. But man didn't give a damn.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 8:14pm On Dec 07, 2022
Pnorh:


Majorly Calabar Kitchens grin
True. The canteen i dey even talk abt sele na Calabar canteen.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by NairaMaster1(m): 8:18pm On Dec 07, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do most married men eat in the canteen or restaurant? Is it that their wives can't cook nice meals? I'm a bachelor and i do eat in the canteen but surprisingly, i do see married men eat there. Although, the owner of the canteen is a good cook.
did you ask yourself if they have offices close by, or you want married men to be driving home to eat and come back to work?
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 8:28pm On Dec 07, 2022
Chee59:
Should people not eat food any longer because they're married?
If ur husband eats their often, it is are lazy in cooking or ur cooking skill is poor. Most men rarely tell their wives that their cooking skill is poor to avoid drama in the home.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by irunoko(m): 8:30pm On Dec 07, 2022
xtocom:
When you marry, you will know.
abeg shut up.the answer is already clear

Awon oniranu gbo gbo.they want to be married yet they still want to be single.they Want to enjoy the privileges of being married yet act single.

No wonder side chicks are getting richer and Lazer
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Chee59(f): 8:31pm On Dec 07, 2022
Truvelisback:
If ur husband eats their often, it is are lazy in cooking or ur cooking skill is poor. Most men rarely tell their wives that their cooking skill is poor to avoid drama in the home.
You've conveniently removed the option of preparing food for himself, even if its bread and tea. But go on.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 8:32pm On Dec 07, 2022
NairaMaster1:
did you ask yourself if they have offices close by, or you want married men to be driving home to eat and come back to work?
I talking abt married men whos houses are close to the canteens they eat.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by AngelaInteriorz: 8:39pm On Dec 07, 2022
Kollins11:
Seeing them in canteen is even better.

Come club na, you go see as married men plenty for there. Even as late as 1am they are still boozing down some Shayoo with we the single guys in the club.

On Friday here, one married man literally told me his wife is a big problem in his house, that he wish he could be sleeping in the club everyday of his life. He said his wife can't cook, she's always nagging, she's very troublesome, she report him to different kinds of people.

Many married men has found rest in club. Men are really going through a lot in the hands of these daughters of jezebel.

The woman wey go tamper with my peace of mind is yet to be born. Them never born her papa well. She dey Mad?


grin
You don dey make mouth. Just pray not to fall in the hands of a troublesome wife. When you do. Na then you go know say na Delilah humble Samson wey be strong man for Bible.

No be you still talk one man say he wish he go dey sleep for inside club everyday. Just imagine club noise but the man find peace for club noise than go home to his troublesome wife.

Proverbs 25:24 NIV — Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 8:41pm On Dec 07, 2022
Nobleou:
This is a stupid question OP, think before you ask...


Must your wife cook every food you want to eat?


Is she a slave?


NL, forget about whether a wife knows how to cook or not. Sometimes you want to eat a particular meal and you don't want to stress your wife since a penny can do that justice
Often and Sometimes, are they the same? I mean everyday. They rarely miss. As a matter of fact, i do see married women with children buy soup with eba too. Can't they cook?
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by armyofone(m): 8:45pm On Dec 07, 2022
I think maybe to socialize, feed your eyes, something different etc
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by MoneyMustBMade(m): 8:45pm On Dec 07, 2022
Why won't I eat anywhere I want?
Them cage me? My wife is a good cook but that doesn't mean I can't still eat outside if I want, as a married man you need to be working and when is time to eat you look for nearestby restaurant and eat, is not a crime bro
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by MoneyMustBMade(m): 8:47pm On Dec 07, 2022
Jeon:
The answer is yes.



Nah this one you see take judge.
Yet they will say "Men think logical"


Men eat in canteen /restaurant based on different reasons.

Take for example those Men working in companies [Lagos for example ] where traffic is compulsory, and those have to resume work by 5,6: o clock am. Do you expect the man to take time in eating at home? If ur answer is yes, how will he excuse the traffic?

Don't mind op asking stupid questions
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by MadeMan01(m): 8:50pm On Dec 07, 2022
They stupidly married feminist women who don't see it as duty to prepare meals for husband

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by AngelaInteriorz: 8:58pm On Dec 07, 2022
Coldie:
Some women can’t cook or the quality of the food at the restaurant is undeniable. I once went to my uncles house and his wife didn’t know how to cook, to avoid eating her food in the morning I will leave the house by 7am and not come back till 11am have my bath run out again before she will tell me lunch is ready, while for dinner I try my best to come back as late as possible so I won’t come during dinner time.

Her husband does same thing codedly, his work starts by 10am but he would leave just before she finishes cooking, d day I knew was when we started meeting in the same restaurant.

In Lagos there are some bad ass restaurants that are run by all those iyawo, u fit but just #100rice put meat of #500, from round about, to Pomo, to towel. Braun bursting


grin grin grin grin

You just reminded me when I once lived with one woman who didn't know how to cook.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by HanisahZuwy: 9:04pm On Dec 07, 2022
FuckSilly:

Ọr dẹ
Muh mu...
How old are you?
Why do you ask?
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Truvelisback(m): 9:06pm On Dec 07, 2022
TheGift:
Because they can't cook or
Because they won't cook.

Many can't or won't cook because they believe it is a Woman's work to cook. Many of them were given this orientation by their Mothers (other Women) who made it the work of their sisters and other female relations to be in the kitchen.

Some of those Men are eating there for different reasons e.g

Their wife can't cook to their taste
Their wife can cook but is not willing to cook for Him
Their wife can cook but She is not around to cook for Him because she is busy at work, to help the family
Their wife can cook but She is literally not around because e.g She is out of the country doing Her masters.
Their wife can cook but she is incapacitated by illness or recent child birth
Their wife can cook but she is wondering why a full grown Man cannot feed Himself except She is around to sort Him out.
Some of ur reasons are understandable. The shocking part are the full housewives, who stays at home 247. If a working class woman can prepare nice meal for her husband, what is now stopping a full housewife from doing the same?

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Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by Fujiyama: 9:08pm On Dec 07, 2022
Bahamas95:
When you marry the right person there wouldn't be need for that. Even as a bachelor I don't fancy eating outside, I prefer my homemade meals.

Nothing would make me eat outside when I have a wife at home......The only reason I would do it is when am outta town.

^^^
grin

OK.

It isn't clear whether you are married or not.
Re: Why Do Some Married Men Eat In The Canteen Or Restaurant? by HanisahZuwy: 9:08pm On Dec 07, 2022
Josephkabila12:
wch button u dey talk sef say nah sex or wetin
Forget when the time come, you go know.

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