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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Savedday: 10:43am On Dec 28, 2022
If that happens in all 9ja homes, that means bride price will be totally abolish because all 9ja girls from 16years and above, are all runs girls. Some do it codedly why the rest openly.

The day you ask a 9ja girl to keep her virginity, that day she dies of hunger. Very useless gender........all of them

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Isabi4lov: 10:44am On Dec 28, 2022
grin Dey play
How much be the bride price sef
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by stormborn28(m): 10:44am On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:
OK.
At least this is the perfect Father, your children are animals anyways.

Your response shows you slept with your buttocks raised up...did he state that his daughters were promiscuous?



"Demanding huge money for a loose woman is fraud, u can do some traditional rite but I will not collect bride price for any of my daughter's if they are disvirgined before marriage," he said.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Johel(m): 10:45am On Dec 28, 2022
ebukajay184:
I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters, If They Are Disvirgined Before Marriage - Nigerian Man

A Port Harcourt based man, Kapav Riksha, has said that he won't collect bride price from his daughters' suitors if they are not virgins, IGBERETV reports.

He stated this on Facebook while responding to a man seeking advice after his in-law to be, gave him a list of marital items worth almost N1.2m.

"Demanding huge money for a loose woman is fraud, u can do some traditional rite but I will not collect bride price for any of my daughter's if they are disvirgined before marriage," he said.

In response to a comment, he said;

"I am not ignorant of that, in a case of rape d husband to be should decide,, but if I know she is promiscuous there is no need of collecting"



As it should be.
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Nobody: 10:45am On Dec 28, 2022
Aareakinwunmi:
This was the practice in the olden days, before western civilization came to destroy our culture.

Funny how you typing from a device that is the product of western civilization.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by stormborn28(m): 10:45am On Dec 28, 2022
grin
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by ObiaboAdoka(m): 10:45am On Dec 28, 2022
Justbehave:
Why this virgin Mata dey always pain girls like this?
Bcus most of Dem r not virgin.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by judedwriter(m): 10:46am On Dec 28, 2022
Aareakinwunmi:
This was the practice in the olden days, before western civilization came to destroy our culture.

Yes. In the old days, no virginity, no bride price.

That's how it's supposed to be but internet pornography/dating has rubbished virginity among girls.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by toujurs: 10:46am On Dec 28, 2022
Justbehave:
Why this virgin Mata dey always pain girls like this?
Exactly my thoughts grin it's even okay, if she is disvirgined, how about the single mum

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Jennyclay(f): 10:46am On Dec 28, 2022
toujurs:
I know rich guys have knacked you tyre. grin.

The way you sweat under every topic on virginity say's alot cheesy

As for some girls, their dad would give her out, without any marriage rites.
biko, shut up.

If you like give your non virgin daughters out so cheaply to men, that's your own cup of agbo.

A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make you life more miserable.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Ebubu: 10:47am On Dec 28, 2022
Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.
ashawo’s excuse

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Nawttiboi007(m): 10:47am On Dec 28, 2022
Just shut up
Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by BigBashiru: 10:47am On Dec 28, 2022
Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

A man is only really able to take care of a woman in the traditional sense if the woman belongs to him. We do not go for virgins because she is the "best". We go for virgins because it is an incentive for us to work ourselves hard to take care of her.

Since women no longer marry as virgins these days thats why guys are asking "what you bring to the table" and "what your financial contribution to the household is".

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Justbehave(m): 10:48am On Dec 28, 2022
ObiaboAdoka:

Bcus most of Dem r not virgin.
grin grin
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by johnfem321: 10:48am On Dec 28, 2022
If you want a car will you choose a Brand New car or you will choose a Nigerian used bartered car.. well the brand new car might still give you issues but it’s better than dented Nigerian used car

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by bobolaga: 10:48am On Dec 28, 2022
The girl father is 100% right, there is different prices to buy tear rubber cars and fairly used car popular known as tokubo, if you wanted to buy tokubo car you need to go with qualify mechanic, but in case of tear rubber car no mechanic will be there, you will buy it with guaranty,

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by stormborn28(m): 10:49am On Dec 28, 2022
triple996:

Am beginning to think it's a female behind this moniker

She is a female.. Well known here

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by emmygod: 10:50am On Dec 28, 2022
The man said the truth but the same loose men and women will see wrong in truth. Bed undiffile before marriage. Carry on my like mind

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by BigBashiru: 10:50am On Dec 28, 2022
castro2468:


Funny how you typing from a device that is the product of western civilization.

the device he is typing from is not a product of western civilization - it is a product with contributions of engineers from every part of the world....

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by toujurs: 10:50am On Dec 28, 2022
Jennyclay:
biko, shut up.

If you like give your non virgin daughters out so cheaply to men, that's your own cup of agbo.

A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make you life more miserable.
A Virgin can't cheat, because her husband gbola is the only she has seen amd knows about,

But a disvirgined girl, have tasted alot of gbola, that is why she can tell, which one is satisfying and not satisfying, either the long or the short one.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by StrongAlphMale: 10:51am On Dec 28, 2022
Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? undecided Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

Olosho don drop quote.

This one lost her virginity when she was 14 with Numerous body counts

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by shortgun(m): 10:52am On Dec 28, 2022
In our culture the marriage rites for a virgin bride is still different from that of a non virgin girl.
Alot of parents and elderly ones know this but they don't make it obvious cos of the stigma that's associated with losing virginity before marriage.

The man is 100% correct, the more men a girl sleeps with the more her value, chastity and respect drops drastically.

Promiscuity doesn't treat women same way it treats men.....I don't know about others but there's this repugnant aura that emanates from promiscuous girls that makes them less desirable for a long term commitment.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by marlow1962(m): 10:53am On Dec 28, 2022
dyera:
The foolish man doesn't know the purpose of Bride price. The family of the Bride asking for Bride price is them asking the man to prove his financial capability, that way they can entrust their daughter to him with peace of mind.
This is the dumbest comment I’ve seen today, so inside u and d man hu cun really be fool?

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Benwallt(m): 10:54am On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:
OK.
At least this is the perfect Father, your children are animals anyways.

As much as I sworn not to quote u on this forum, meeehnn, you are too slow, shallow n senseless. It is appallingly annoying.

Must you talk rubbish! Haba.

God bless the man. I pray other men copy this and to you getting married if you don't meet you girl a virgin, don't pay shi shi.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Jennyclay(f): 10:54am On Dec 28, 2022
toujurs:
A Virgin can't cheat, because her husband gbola is the only she has seen amd knows about,

But a disvirgined girl, have tasted alot of gbola, that is why she can tell, which one is satisfying and not satisfying, the long and the short one.
what a poor response undecided. I really pity your type. Pls don't quote me again.

Have a bad day okay. Bye!
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by stormborn28(m): 10:55am On Dec 28, 2022
virginprincess:
Nigeria men don't deserve virgins,how can a community dick be praying for a virgin,they deserve the kind of women they have now,so they have no choice than to pay the bride price of such women because they are no different from the women,like beget like.

We know you are not a virgin just like Buhari claiming to be a man of integrity.. We don see am for he regime

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by ukaface(f): 10:56am On Dec 28, 2022
Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? undecided Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.
virginity is still a plus
Don’t normalize immorality
She may not be the ‘ best’ but at least allow her own her pride
And any guy that choose a virgin or non virgin I’m sure definitely has his reasons

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Financialman: 10:58am On Dec 28, 2022
Zonefree:
See that "Gloria Blessing" disgracing herself on shosha media.



Ask 100 Nigerian girls how they got deflowered, 98.783% will tell you is as a result of rape. None will ever tell you she got deflowered by a big black gbola.

To pay bride price for a non virgin Nigerian girl is 3rd most senseless things on earth!


Tinubu will have my vote and that of my family members only if he promise to proscribe non virgin Nigerian girls as terrorist.
Hmmmmmm, what if you are making sense
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Misterone: 10:58am On Dec 28, 2022
WHAT IS BETWEEN A WOMAN'S LEG DOES NOT DEFINE WHO SHE IS.
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by dyera(m): 10:58am On Dec 28, 2022
marlow1962:

This is the dumbest comment I’ve seen today, so inside u and d man hu cun really be fool?



You may think what you like about my comment, all I did was to simply state the truth about the purpose to which bride price was invented, a purpose that has been lost in history.

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Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by CutSoap(m): 11:00am On Dec 28, 2022
If to say i never marry i for marry one of his daughters cos i can bet my left ball that non of his daughters be virgin walai.
Re: I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters If Disvirgined Before Marriage- Man by Toks2008(m): 11:00am On Dec 28, 2022
ebukajay184:
I Won't Collect Bride Price For My Daughters, If They Are Disvirgined Before Marriage - Nigerian Man

A Port Harcourt based man, Kapav Riksha, has said that he won't collect bride price from his daughters' suitors if they are not virgins, IGBERETV reports.

He stated this on Facebook while responding to a man seeking advice after his in-law to be, gave him a list of marital items worth almost N1.2m.

"Demanding huge money for a loose woman is fraud, u can do some traditional rite but I will not collect bride price for any of my daughter's if they are disvirgined before marriage," he said.

In response to a comment, he said;

"I am not ignorant of that, in a case of rape d husband to be should decide,, but if I know she is promiscuous there is no need of collecting"

This man too get sense.

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