Cinema4d:
Is this a trap or it's true?

How does marriage benefit a man??

DispatcherLagos:

Don't take advice from simps.
Nigerian girls are liabilities, except you want to remain at the level of "from hand to mouth" avoid any serious relationship talk more of marriage until food, clothing and shelter are not issues that worry you.

YOU'RE right.. SO RIGHT

Huge trap...

Don't fall for it

Samantha123:
Well, I believe in financially helping out my man with household necessities because the last thing I want is to see him stressing and aging quickly because of all the financial burden that comes with marriage.

If he puts the bread on the table, I'll then put the butter.

Good to know, we still have women that reason like you

JustANairlander:
If a man finishes five cups of rice cooked in the nigerian concoction method within three meals (breakfast, lunch, and dinner)
and a lady finishes four cups in the same circumstances
a child of 3 or 4 years old also finishes 2 cups in the same circumstances
YOU ARE NOW ASKING IF IT'S A TRAP OR NOT?
NO BE TRAP NAH TRAP LANJE

DON'T BE A SUCKER!!

I understand you, but no man can finish 5 cups of rice in one day

If you can keep a girlfriend, then u are qualified to marry

Samantha123:
Well, I believe in financially helping out my man with household necessities because the last thing I want is to see him stressing and aging quickly because of all the financial burden that comes with marriage.

If he puts the bread on the table, I'll then put the butter.

Easier said than done

How is it easier said than done?

SosaSosa:
Easier said than done

Samantha123:
I'm an introvert and I prefer having my own peace of mind and space... So two is enough for me, and I'd still want to enjoy my man after having the two kids.

But ten kids won't make it possible for me to still be able enjoy my man and I'm not a baby making machine..

Ehee!! I talk am. I knew you are definitely not a nigerian brought up. @siofra come and see the difference between your kind and other africa ladies

Why do you guys keep trying to compare me with her? Please, stop making it seems like I came here to downgrade your women because I have no issues with them.

Creativity22:

Ehee!! I talk am. I knew you are definitely not a nigerian brought up. @siofra come and see the difference between your kind and other africa ladies

Big one

Cinema4d:
Is this a trap or it's true?

True
Your old age will Flourish with little or no responsibility

A very big trap, is marriage all about feeding?? What happens when bills starts piling up, can your foodstuff pay house rent, or traded for children school fees...??

Be wise, even the foolish people are getting old...

Very true. The money some of you waste on prostitutes can build mansions, but you don't care because you are stupid

Samantha123:
I'm just being honest.

It's a parody.
U connecting being African giant with their libidinal prowess. Hhhhh. I gat u.

Samantha123:
Well, I believe in financially helping out my man with household necessities because the last thing I want is to see him stressing and aging quickly because of all the financial burden that comes with marriage.

If he puts the bread on the table, I'll then put the butter.

I'm surprised you've decided to let go of your Entitlement mentality and parasitic nature.

However we know you're only trying to sound Nice here. 2023 is indeed a Year to correct so many things about you Nigerian girls, esp as regards your Entitlement mentalities

starstaz:

It's a parody.
U connecting being African giant with their libidinal prowess. Hhhhh. I gat u.

yrhuhfy113:


It is true for some, trap for others.

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME OR FUNCTION BY THE SAME RULES..... everyone is different.

There is no clear answer. Marry late after you have established so things will be easier. Marry late and find yourself raising kids in your old age which is much more stressful.

Am I marrying her to feed her? Is that what marriage is about

Bro,
From your comment, I can imagine the type of area you live in. You need to relocate to where 'people' live.
Good luck.

DispatcherLagos:

Don't take advice from simps.
Nigerian girls are liabilities, except you want to remain at the level of "from hand to mouth" avoid any serious relationship talk more of marriage until food, clothing and shelter are not issues that worry you.

He forgot the most critical aspect of that issue which is kids because the Nigerian man I know will immediately impregnate his wife without plans.

I'm never against marriage in a my form just that I hate to see people recycle poverty by bringing kids into the world without any plan for them except God will provide.

If you can feed yourself and your wife, no problem. Get married but please have your preek and her eggs frozen until you are able to feed little mouths.

Dimples2022:


Lol. You’re an idealist and you speak with such conviction like you know people or even men! We can agree to disagree. Thank you for your time.

You just want to disagree, without bringing a superior argument to the table

Cinema4d:
Is this a trap or it's true?

It's a fućking trap!

GloriousGbola:


There is no clear answer. Marry late after you have established so things will be easier. Marry late and find yourself raising kids in your old age which is much more stressful.

Like I earlier stated.... NO MARRIAGE IS THE SAME.... you can't have it all. Did your father leave you with heavy wealth inheritance...? if NO, then you have to find which one works for you else go and do yahoooooplus and be rich so you have kids early and die young or you have them early and bring them into your karma with your ill gotten wealth. THE CHOICE IS YOURS

Problems begin when you are trying too hard not to see the reality of things. PLS BY THE WAY... what do you mean RAISING KIDS IN OLD AGE.. are you having a football team?
is OLD AGE NOT FROM 70? even if you marry at 40, your first child should be 30 by then and if you have gotten money first... the child should not be suffering so should have married before 30.

Statistics are simple, parents who became rich and married LATE(40+) GAVE BIRTH TO CHILDREN WHO MARRIED EARLY BECAUSE THE PARENTS DID THE FOUNDATIONAL WORK AHEAD FOR THE KIDS.... simple.


I don't think anyone needs to explain all these to you, its a no-brainer. Sit and plan your life according to your own vision. Simple. This is not school where you can copy

Samantha123:
Why do you guys keep trying to compare me with her? Please, stop making it seems like I came here to downgrade your women because I have no issues with them.

If she feels downgraded, that is her own problem. She is actually a low value woman anyway

Cinema4d:
Is this a trap or it's true?

Plenty comments but no answer.

@op it's a trap. Osho!

When was I ever entitled?

G00DHardDick:


I'm surprised you've decided to let go of your Entitlement mentality and parasitic nature.

However we know you're only trying to sound Nice here. 2023 is indeed a Year to correct so many things about you Nigerian girls, esp as regards your Entitlement mentalities

When you marry early you will struggle at first but with time you will be stable, but when you wants to have everything before settling down, my brother you will become hottest bachelor in town.

Samantha123:
When was I ever entitled?

You're weren't only entitled but also a parasite and a lability.

But please, don't drag me into your issues with her.. I beg you.

Creativity22:

If she feels downgraded, that is her own problem. She is actually a low value woman anyway

Okay, prove it then.

G00DHardDick:


You're weren't only entitled but also a parasite and a lability.

To each is own