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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by KosiGee(m): 3:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Yeah it's 198kg not 198 pounds. 198kg.

I don’t believe you.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Elliotwaveforec: 3:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


What's wrong with this weight class. I weigh 198kg and I am 5ft 6 inches.
The BMI is too high, you're obese.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by saxywale2: 3:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
edoman2016:
i highly doubt it. The white sex workers are only interested in the pay. Once you can afford to pay her for the sex, she will knack you. It is strictly business and not a romantic relationship.

riverbird:
Does it mean that there's no olosho in those places?, How can someone stay for years without sex? undecided

Aside that prostitution is ilegal in the USA and Ilegal to patronize one in Canada (police conduct sting operations), the White and black sex worker (SW) would often reject black clients. This is common knowledge if you reside in any of the two countries.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Satazaa: 3:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.
true, infact I watched a YouTube video of a black Brazilian woman who was lamenting bitterly about the twin dilemma of black women in either getting white men for marriage and even black Brazilian men desperately running after white women so as to bore children with white skin for them, it's really hard and cold for our women out there

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by maasoap(m): 3:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

Really? It is that bad? I mean their perception of an average black guy!
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
Elliotwaveforec:

The BMI is too high, you're obese.
Super obese to be exact
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Ajehkpako4naija(m): 3:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
SOAPY NA D ANSWER. Soap cheap there

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by engrfaruq(m): 3:14pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious

Sex-starved Nigerian girls should date sex-starved Nigerian guys, problem solved, NEXT cool

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:15pm On Jan 08, 2023
pocohantas:


Hahahaha!!!! Oh Lord!!!

E be like say this kind thing dey sweet you for body o grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by gbassa: 3:16pm On Jan 08, 2023
Op is right. I remember my brother coming home from US for 3 weeks but ended up staying 2 months. He was just enjoying himself with Nigerian girls. He had a lot of party with our university runs girls. My dad had to beg him to return back to me US.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Maravilla: 3:17pm On Jan 08, 2023
Very useless post, don't allow Hollywood trick you, there are a lot of ugly to average people in the West, man, woman, black or white, rich or poor, etc that still engage in relationship, and get dick and pussy. You're dumb if you think you need good looks to have sexual relationship with other races, a charming personality counts for a lot in the West. But the problem is that most Nigerians are very timid, and due to the Nigeria factor struggle to adapt in a civilized society like Canada, so instead of getting into trouble, they'll rather remain in their shells. Looks got Bleep all to do with anything

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BigCowHornn: 3:17pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Worry less kid, we're coming.


Perfect response to the idiot.

If I may ask what state are you based in the US?
Doesn't sound like New Youk
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Isabi4lov: 3:18pm On Jan 08, 2023
Make una date una sef abi undecided

You can't have it all , and the ones here are busy calling every girl olosho this and that shocked

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 3:19pm On Jan 08, 2023
GloriousGbola:
ibkayee come and add your own - . include your videos of gross white chicks who have naija men in thier dms cheesy
Loool

Welp, what I will say is Nigerian women don’t tend to expand their dating pool beyond Nigerian men and aren’t generally interested in oyinbos so it’s strange that white men are the demographic that the OP is focused on for his ‘case study’. They don’t really bother looking ‘outside’ because of compatibility reasons. Also white people aren’t the only race abroad.

As for the men, I am of the opinion that they tend to expand more than the women, but let’s not lie to ourselves, a lot of the time it’s for papers so they end up settling for the less than desirable ‘oyinbo’ women.

The ones with citizenship and a stable lifestyle that don’t need to ‘hustle’ may venture out too but most also end up with Nigerian women, for compatibility reasons too. Again, let’s be honest, Naija men expect/demand very specific things from their women that they know won’t be tolerated outside so this is also a factor in addition to cultural compatibility. Hence why there’s a trend of some running home to get someone from their village when even the Naija babes have has become too ‘westernised’ for them.

As for hooking up, the dating culture is different abroad. You can get sex but I don’t think it’s in the transactional way that Naija men back home are used to, people have casual sex because they want to or they’re just fond of the person. It’s not something viewed as ‘cheap labour’ like back home so you’ll have to actually work for it to an extent outside of enticing them with money. Your ‘investment’ is more social than monetary and that may not be a dynamic the average Naija man is used to/has the patience for. Plus, Naija men aren’t really on anyone’s radar except Naija women and maybe some Black Americans so you actually have to be somewhat of a decently impressive (in whichever way) individual. Of course alternatively there are actual paid sex workers.

I’m talking about Naija men and women who were home based and then japad. Things are a bit different for 1st/2nd gen Nigerians

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by saxywale2: 3:19pm On Jan 08, 2023
ednut1:
well he is right, I heard they reject black men due to big dick and not cumming fast. Only a few 9ja guys are getting pussy. I no wan use myself as example cos my babe fit go see am. Women on dating apps want just 10% of men, my friend in this Canada has like 4 black 2 white babes he is nacking steady. Meanwhile i also have friends who came to Canada 2 years ago wey never collect kiss hahahaahahaha
There is more to it than just that. Additions to your point:

Indians are often rejected too just like black men. Indian men have small dicks. White male clients won't often patronize sex workers if they know she is fucking a black or Indian. Hygeine and looks matter too, but the stereotype on black and Indian men has swept through the industry.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Pharaoh4rin(m): 3:19pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

Daaaaammmmmnnnnnn

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by engrelvis(m): 3:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:

Yeah, and pay $7800 per session smiley. I don't need one. Women do
llol.. she thinks Nigeria is overseas . lf nt for our bad govtment no place like home. l v been travelling since early nineties n like I v always maintain here living permanently over there is a no no for me. l feel more human here.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by AutoRedux: 3:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
Nigeria is 1000% better than Canada and America but some people no go understand until them enter.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Saverin: 3:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:

God have mercy. Abeg is it same for all the countries abroad. What of those in Mexico, Brazil and co. Shey they fit see place to easily choke preek sha.


No grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by pocohantas(f): 3:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


E be like say this kind thing dey sweet you for body o grin grin

The fact that he included himself in the ugly men. To be sincere, the faces of the recent immigrants are so strong. All of them o. Don’t you see their YouTube videos? Always complaining about snow and whatnot.

Someone I know traveled to the UK. She is in her mid 30s and it is the same complain. Mind you, my male friends complain too. Only that the guys are more realistic and open to dating back home. The ladies (including this one I know) are seriously cherrypicking. Nigerians hate themselves too much.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by maziude: 3:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

Ignore the troll.

He obviously is still in Nigeria trying to impersonate a known member in Canada.

Whichever mod pushed this to front page, needs to have his or her head checked.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by agabaI23(m): 3:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Jeweltz:
But your genders said you people are the price over there and they hustle for your dick like casserole cheesy sad angry sad
Please what is casserole?
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BJanta: 3:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

That might be because they native
black community.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olaeffect(m): 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
juman:


If you live in big city there, go to city center between 12.00 am - 3.00am and walk around well, be vigilant you would see some prostitutes hanging around.

Police see them they would not arrest them. Wise prostitutes pay tax.

Oga! I can clearly see that you will be arested and deported anytime you travel abroad. Your Nigerian criminal mind is very deep grin
Sebi you saw the story of a Nigerian man that will soon go to 3yrs imprisonment because of soliciting for sex online with an undercover police disguising as a 14yr old girl.

https://www.nairaland.com/7514708/nigerian-man-imprisoned-attempting-meet/8#119832881

You think Canadian police are like Nigerian police or even some American state/county police abi?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Pharaoh4rin(m): 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. Those places worse. If you can't get sexed in US, na Brazil you wanna get an?

How do you mean? Are Brazilian girls harder to get?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Bossjakande: 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
ibkayee:

Loool

Welp, what I will say is Nigerian women don’t tend to expand their dating pool beyond Nigerian men and aren’t generally interested in oyinbos so it’s strange that white men are the demographic that the OP is focused on for his ‘case study’. They don’t really bother looking ‘outside’ because of compatibility reasons. Also white people aren’t the only race abroad.

As for the men, I am of the opinion that they tend to expand more than the women, but let’s not lie to ourselves, a lot of the time it’s for papers so they end up settling for the less than desirable ‘oyinbo’ women.

The ones with citizenship and a stable lifestyle that don’t need to ‘hustle’ may venture out too but most also end up with Nigerian women, for compatibility reasons too. Again, let’s be honest, Naija men expect/demand very specific things from their women that they know won’t be tolerated outside so this is also a factor in addition to cultural compatibility. Hence why there’s a trend of some running home to get someone from their village when even the Naija babes have has become too ‘westernised’ for them.

As for hooking up, the dating culture is different abroad. You can get sex but I don’t think it’s in the transactional way that Naija men back home are used to, people have casual sex because they want to or they’re just fond of the person. It’s not something viewed as ‘cheap labour’ like back home so you’ll have to actually work for it to an extent outside of enticing them with money. Your ‘investment’ is more social than monetary and that may not be a dynamic the average Naija man is used to/has the patience for. Plus, Naija men aren’t really on anyone’s radar except Naija women and maybe some Black Americans so you actually have to be somewhat of a decently impressive (in whichever way) individual. Of course alternatively there are actual paid sex workers.

I’m talking about Naija men and women who were home based and then japad. Things are a bit different for 1st/2nd gen Nigerians

did oyibo guys like to date or sex African girls cos I think it will be easy.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by anonymous1759(m): 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
flystrategist:
Why I agree there’s some element of truth in what you wrote, I would like to disagree with some of the points.

It’s not so hard for any Nigerian/African to date a white/classy black American( there are more decent and class African American women than the opposite.

If you are educated and you role with like minded individuals, you will never consider it a struggle or “a thing” to date whoever you want.

The only reasons some Nigerians struggle is 1) They lack exposure (2) No class

So even if you are educated and classless( this is the case of many Nigerians claiming to have class) you will only end up dating people like yourself.

I’ve lived in 19 countries as an aviator and I’m just 5.5 ft tall. Dating any race has never been a thing I had to worry or talk about until this post.

Nice write up . From my on experience online white ladies prefer their race online on an average level , secondly if they get to match you have a good communication skill this is the most essential as you can’t use food or gift to woo majority of them because of the low rate is poverty.
With good communication skill and average look you’ll be Successful with women anywhere you find yourself that’s my take .

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by baretalk: 3:27pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Shantyken(m): 3:27pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
why naija singles no hookup there than to, stress theirselves of white dick n pussy

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by maziude: 3:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
BigCowHornn:



Perfect time response to the idiot.

If I may ask what state are you based in the US?
Doesn't sound like New Youk

The person is in Nigeria and just a troll.
In one response, he or she claims to be in the US. In another response, the person claims to be in Canada.

He or she cannot even maintain a lie within a topic.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Parachoko: 3:29pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Men the UK own is really bad. One guy said he had to join 24 dating apps to find a gf. I asked a few friends who have relocated and they are seriously regretting the sexual tension. These were people having sex up to twenty times a week in Nigeria and not even able to kiss after like 3 months in the UK but then what do you do. Stay back in Nigeria and have all the sex but get bleeped by poverty or go to a society with more opportunities make money and have no sex. You can't have it all.
If am in a position to choose, I go choose to travel and make money

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Emmanuel909090: 3:29pm On Jan 08, 2023
Really shocked

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