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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by vickydevoka(m): 7:51pm On Jan 08, 2023
Chris2863:
So, what can we do for you people This disturbance is not necessary op. If you guys are tired, make all of una carry una loads come back
I tire o. When soapy de
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by vickydevoka(m): 7:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
Jeweltz:
But your genders said you people are the price over there and they hustle for your dick like casserole cheesy sad angry sad
But it's true. Buh must be an older lady
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Ibrahimcoomasie: 7:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
1Sharon:


That's racism sis.


As long as a man has money to pay, he should be able to get the service he wants.

Unless ofcourse, he's violent and aggressive.

When it comes to hygiene, they can put disclaimers out to weed out the unhygienic ones.

We can scream racism but who do you report to? The police or some other sex trafficking organization? Remember that is is an ilegal activity. It's like telling the police that a crack dealer wouldn't sell to some particular customer based on race.

I have done some reading on this topic. Some other reasons mentioned already and some not mentioned yet here. Reasons why escorts put up a NO black gents in ad listings, or will decline a black client:

1- Hygiene: there are stereotypes that black, and to some extent Indians are unhygienic. It is a common stereotype in the sex worker industry.

2- Black men haggle on price after initially agreeing on price before meeting up.

3- Some black men are endowed. A prostitute aim is to make as much money as possible without being hurt down there and recuperating.

4- Some black men try to love-vendor the girls

5- Some black men are violent. They will bring out a gun so as not to pay for sex

6- Some white men will not buy sex from girls that sleep with black men or do not have a no black gents note on their ad. (This is common in the pornography movie industry to an extent. The values of the alot of girls drop when they start interracial sex.

7- Outright Racism



Ps: some black escorts and hookup girls also decline blackmen.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Frenchkiss564: 7:53pm On Jan 08, 2023
LastProphet:


Okay I'm not referring to Brazil, even Venezuela, Mexico sef, but not America pls, America is a shitload of overfed entitled fat women with potbellies whether white, black or orange. The ugliest women I have seen in the world in large numbers is here in America.

What is in America that makes people fat? The obesity epidemic is alarming
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by vickydevoka(m): 7:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
Enny2013:
They should b marrying themselves nau. Is it hard?
Most black guys don't want the ladies
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by LILTJAY: 7:56pm On Jan 08, 2023
saxywale2:

Interesting. Most of the Philippinos I met in Alberta in my days of working for an oil company are very educated. I mean engineers and all. To get them will require some extra ordinary parole. You can't buy that food to bed them cheesy. I do see a lot of Philippinos working in fast food restaurants though. Maybe those ones would be easy.

The Eritrean and Ethiopians on the other hand - Most of them are cleaners in offices and are not good looking. Some even have tribal marks.
grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by jaxxy(m): 7:56pm On Jan 08, 2023
shegzhkn:


Forget about Elon bruv, he is Caucasian.

On the kadashev scale the black man is still an underachiever.

I don't agree for the back man bt I do agree for the black race.

The black man has achieved alot in some areas more than whites.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Raalsalghul: 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2023
maasoap:


Nigerians are sacrificing a lots going abroad, working and leaving there.
The struggle starts with searching for genuine connection, money for agents or school fees, money for visa and flight. You get there and instantly welcome by extreme weather and strange culture. You work tirelessly, day and night. On top of all that, loneliness now crown it all. And difficulty in getting laid by both genders! It is serious.
The search for money or way out of poverty, does it really worth it?

It's a matter of choosing your poison: between the devil and the deep blue sea.

But all these talk of black men not getting sex na wash.

There are certain places they can look.

It's all a matter of mingling with the right crowd.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ufotunang: 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2023
With all the sexual immorality happening over there...if you know how to toast them and talk with them. You will be dating and knacking them everytime

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by 1Sharon(f): 8:03pm On Jan 08, 2023
LastProphet:


Bros white girls worwor pass all the girls you have ever seen, I'm here and I'm telling you that 9 out of 10 white girls are worwor, potbelly, plus hump for back which is surprising though caused by excess chicken meat. But is true the girls are delusional and think they deserve Brad Pitt. If you face Mexicans, Caribbeans, AA women etc you no get problem. Even white boys say their girls are delusional

You're probably talking from a US/UK/Canada perspective.

Have you been to Eastern Europe??

I can't even hate, Most of the white women there are good looking.

I never saw an overweight one. They are petite and very shapely, behind is not too big like Bw but round enough and they dress very feminine especially in the summer.

The Western diet had messed up the looks of white women in the west.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Ikerr: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Ohhh yeah I'm sorry. That's true. I forgot to talk about that. White guys detest obsesse women to the point that these women are basically depressed and does not matter in the dating scenes. Go check the "Forever alone women" on Reddit. These women cry all the time because they just don't get attention from white guys.

These are The women Nigerian people score and still treat them like a price,but not even well. We also score black American women that had been damaged with severe baby daddy issue and has like 5kids, smoke like chimney, and speak like thrash

Omo na rubbish dis one dey yarn o, bicos olodo no sabi pull babe e tink say na d same for evribodi .
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Backpedal: 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
ogunara:

Facts bro. White women are ugly to me. I don’t get the obsession
I guess everyone has their preference sha.

I know a guy Sha
If no be white babe he is not fvcking with her

He eventually married a Bulgarian Sha and is well settled
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Regex: 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Have you been to the US or Canada before? Why does Nigerians who don't even have visa always have the most updated info about what they do abroad

Ah swear. Na the thing weh deh off me.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Backpedal: 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
1Sharon:


You're probably talking from a US/UK/Canada perspective.

Have you been to Eastern Europe??

I can't even hate, Most of the white women there are good looking.

I never saw an overweight one. They are petite and very shapely, behind is not too big like Bw but round enough and they dress very feminine especially in the summer.

The Western diet had messed up the looks of white women in the west.
The bolded is very true

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2023
Other thing I know for sure is that if you’re an average looking guy you’re almost likely going to be sexually frustrated whether you are white or any other race. I’m speaking for the west cost US cos that’s what I know, it may be slightly different in other parts of the world say Europe or South America. Particularly true for East Asian males on the west coast. High achieving, good to ok looking, yet generally find it hard to score with women of their own race. And they are the least desirable among other races.

So that’s to say if you’re a naija guy, you are not bucking this trend if you really do not stand out in some way. But if you move in the same social circles, maybe church, attend a decent college and you are still at that impressionable 18-25 range yeah I think it helps normalize things but that’s not to say you won’t experience the same sociobiological walls every male of our species faces. Spermatozoa is cheap. Ovaries are expensive. Sexual interactions are so much costlier for women than they are for men, that’s why for they most part women are drawn to the most reproductively fit men. 8% of guys on dating apps getting like 80% of the swipes on dating apps speaks to this point.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BigName101: 8:09pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


How good looking are you? When you comment, try and add your attractive scale
I'd say average but it also depends on what you carry. Grace matters

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Raalsalghul: 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2023
pansophist:


Being fit is the starter, then have a good life. Graduate college and stay off debt, have your own place, and no baby mamaism. I strongly believe that one can change their circumstances, after all, those living better life are just like you.


Sometimes wish this fat or at least gaining weight is my problem.

I chop heaven, chop earth even chop hell fire join.

For where, the weight never still come.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by 1Sharon(f): 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ibrahimcoomasie:

We can scream racism but who do you report to? The police or some other sex trafficking organization? Remember that is is an ilegal activity. It's like telling the police that a crack dealer wouldn't sell to some particular customer based on race.

I have done some reading on this topic. Some other reasons mentioned already and some not mentioned yet here. Reasons why escorts put up a NO black gents in ad listings, or will decline a black client:

1- Hygiene: there are stereotypes that black, and to some extent Indians are unhygienic. It is a common stereotype in the sex worker industry.

2- Black men haggle on price after initially agreeing on price before meeting up.

3- Some black men are endowed. A prostitute aim is to make as much money as possible without being hurt down there and recuperating.

4- Some black men try to love-vendor the girls

5- Some black men are violent. They will bring out a gun so as not to pay for sex

6- Some white men will not buy sex from girls that sleep with black men or do not have a no black gents note on their ad. (This is common in the pornography movie industry to an extent. The values of the alot of girls drop when they start interracial sex.

7- Outright Racism



Ps: some black escorts and hookup girls also decline blackmen.

Chaiiii...I'm truly surprised.

I've heard porn stars decline to sleep with black men but I never knew this was going on in the sex work industry aswell!

Black ppl are truly hated in every facet undecided

Why do WM decline sex with a prostitute that has slept with black men??!

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by shegzhkn: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
jaxxy:


I don't agree for the back man bt I do agree for the black race.

The black man has achieved alot in some areas more than whites.

@ bolded : I know right, helping increasing the world population.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Raalsalghul: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
pacespot:


@ bolded grin those White sex workers are smart, they know it is an easier job for them to make money with White customers than black cheesy

A black man will pay you but your punna go hear am grin

Lol!

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BigCowHornn: 8:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
maziude:


The person is in Nigeria and just a troll.
In one response, he or she claims to be in the US. In another response, the person claims to be in Canada.

He or she cannot even maintain a lie within a topic.


Well, this is Xmas holiday period, many foreign based folks are back home here. You never know if he is one.
Beside look at his post. Toto dey hungry this guy for a while now. He could just have come home to fix that. It's his kind flashy overseas returnee that book rooms in big hotels in Owerri and just keep fvcking different girls for 3 weeks. They only visit their family mud hut in the village on Mondays and Wednesdays to make noise with second hand cars. Next thing you hear is they have gone back abroad.
You look around and you cant anything they did.

His account of life overseas is fairly correct but not quite. Reading that thing you will think there is no short man in America. That's a damn lie.
You'll also notice he seems to have a thing for white girls and the fact that he can't even get anywhere near their pant is driving him nuts.

I have lived in the US. Was born there. I can tell you right off that this guy is a hustler. The kind of Afrcian that go to the US without good education and so never get a good job besides thing like Taxi driving and menial jobs. They live poor and eat from paper bags.
Further more he doesn't seem to be living in a majority black neighborhood.

Go to Texas. There are place you go everyone is speaking Yoruba or Igbo. They dress in traditionals and even have Chiefs. Tell me you can't find a girl there huh

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by jaxxy(m): 8:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
shegzhkn:


@ bolded : I know right, helping increasing the world population.

Go and check music and sports pls, even science and tech there are achievements.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
Raalsalghul:


Sometimes wish this fat or at least gaining weight is my problem.

I chop heaven, chop earth even chop hell fire join.

For where, the weight never still come.

What do you weigh? What's your height? And your age range
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
From what I can deduce on this thread. Look is the only thing to get attention in the west. You can be shitty, disrespectful, break their heart but as long as you are good looking, you'll get women. Doesn't matter whether you chase her out of your house after sex or not, but as long as you're good looking as a man, women will worship you.

Ibkaye, pocohantas, siofra, is my asserting true?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by DMerciful(m): 8:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
The ability of men to embrace house chores depends on their home training from their mothers when they were younger. If mothers train their sons not to do house chores, its expected that they'd dislike it.

But my initial point was that mothers and sisters do not appreciate the sons/brothers doing as chores. Its only the wives that complain their husband don't do house chores but that same wife complain that her husband is not doing house chores will visit his brother and frown at her brother for doing house chores for his wife
1Sharon:


Reword your comment pls

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Ibrahimcoomasie: 8:31pm On Jan 08, 2023
1Sharon:


Chaiiii...I'm truly surprised.

I've heard porn stars decline to sleep with black men but I never knew this was going on in the sex work industry aswell!

Black ppl are truly hated in every facet undecided

Why do WM decline sex with a prostitute that has slept with black men??!

1. Racism from baked in conservative values inherited from their parents.

2.They feel the girl has become dirty and unclean with disease so they avoid. Escorts lose money when that starts to happen). WM and some White sex workers have the stereotype that black people have HIV and all sorts of STD. Research backs it up to an extent. The below stat applies to the black race generally as well since Africa has the highest rate of HIV infection in the world.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by FarmTech(m): 8:35pm On Jan 08, 2023
ednut1:
hahahahahahaha you wish. I be 6ft 3 , i no ugly too, and i get swag. Pussy is not a problem for me here cheesy
.
Hmm. The way u guys glorify fornication is really disgusting. You guys need Christ else hell fire await all sinners . Fornication will lead u to hell.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Raalsalghul: 8:39pm On Jan 08, 2023
Lade18:
From what I can deduce on this thread. Look is the only thing to get attention in the west. You can be shitty, disrespectful, break their heart but as long as you are good looking, you'll get women. Doesn't matter whether you chase her out of your house after sex or not, but as long as you're good looking as a man, women will worship you.

Ibkaye, pocohantas, siofra, is my asserting true?

Very very true.

Nobody cares about the character beyond the looks.

That's why it's a haven of baby mamas and even at that, they have the government to look after them.

To buttress my point, one of America's most notorious serial killers Ted Bundy got married and had a daughter while on trial.

Tell me, why will a woman go for a man who was on trial for killing about 40 other women if not for looks.

And believe me, Bundy was a handsome man.

So many stories like that of handsome criminals getting love letters in prison.

Another one was Jeffrey Dahmer a serial killer who murdered 17 men and was gay.

Still, that did not stop the barrage of love letters from women pouring in.

It's all about looks looks looks!

I don't even know whether to call it a problem but it's just the way the world works and one has no control. Just thank your stars if you're good looking

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by deyplay: 8:39pm On Jan 08, 2023
kollinzgee:
There is no where in the world you cant get a chick if you know how to approach and woo women,white girls are not like naija girls they are more attracted to your looks and personality than mobey.
Chuck Knuckles! Law of biological attraction between men and women is universal, the difference in culture and environment has little or no effect if either of the party makes himself or herself attractive enough.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by GeneralPula: 8:41pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

In Brazil if you don't have sense, the small one you get, sex go comot am. You literally have to hold yourself and be focused. Girls too much and too fine and na them go come meet you self lol
What’s life like in Brazil?
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olaeffect(m): 8:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
juman:


I can understand you.
I talked like you the time nigerian guy told me there are prostitutes like that.
Despite i be here for sometime, I never heard that before.
Until I saw them myself. Some of them are nigerians. Some are young beautiful.
One would shed tears.

Since you insist.
Oya hook me up nah grin
But me I will not take that risk by myself ooo tongue
I better suffer konji, than be sent back to 9ja on prostitution charges.
God forbid.
May God never give my village people such joy.

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