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Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by everythinggirly(f): 12:13pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
They are very boring! |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by 1Sharon(f): 12:13pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
sultry69: Didn't you sense the arrogance in the OP's writeup? His doctor- girlfriend doesn't NEED him to go abroad. She will be welcomed into the UK without even trying because they respect medics. So he needs to let go of that God-complex. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Josbreed: 12:18pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:Didn't you see a post yesterday by someone here (I forgot his monicker) that said Africans, especially, Nigeriams abroad find it difficult to get love(sex)? 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by DestinyNigga: 12:19pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo: I have one cow at the back of my compound that you can carry and go abroad. After two years you can slaughter it and enjoy it meat. It's better than carrying a Naija girl who will go there and start causing trouble. Sharing her over size punna to any dick in town Listen to my advise and thank me later. Meanwhile, you can join me here to puff some Igbo I bought yesterday. I even hv one local olosho am drilling her smelly hole since morning That medical girl u want to take abroad will dump u there to oyibo. This I have seen 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by advanceDNA: 12:20pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
olakan22: If the story is true....Someone that said he will send her abroad may probably already be paying school fees.. Besides going abroad for doctors or any profession is not free UK plab exams for doctors cost money Visa costs money IELTS cost money Plane tickets cost money Accomodation and settling in cost money.. Any doctor traveling abroad will spend millions . where will a new graduate get millions from 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by IamMobisola(f): 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Wickedfacts:And what makes you think the Nigerian girl he meets over there won’t also start using ruler to measure where his mother can sit and stand? How do some of you think sef, mtchww 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by odoemenacelevian(m): 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
The worst thing a man can do is to Train a lady he isn't married to, talk more of sending her abroad... Be cautious man. Take that help to your brother or sister.. They will never forget. Even if they do. They will love you unconditionally.. blood is thicker than water. I am a doctor but I will tell you this... Be ready to get a house help for your children.. Especially when she starts her residency or house job.. She might sleep in the hospital for one week once in 2 months or once in a month depending.. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by MarketDispatch: 12:22pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo: My Medical Doctor Sister simply brought a younger relative from Nigeria abroad to assist her with Children and also study in addition. This may not work for everyone though. 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by IamMobisola(f): 12:23pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
jesmond3945: Medical doctors and generally ladies in Medical profession and IT and engineering do not need to pretend for abroad guys because their careers alone is a ticket for them to also relocate abroad. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Akwaokukuo: 12:26pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Lol. Some people are really very funny I swear. Let me ask those people one question? What do I gain lying? Do you know me personally? Who gives a Bleep lying to you and what do I fucking get from that? Why not run a background check on this account before spewing trash? You think I can just open an account and start the year with lies? Make una be reasonable for once. That you lie up and down doesn't mean others lie too. For the wonderful guys that contributed, I appreciate. This experience is an eye opener. Thank God I created this thread otherwise I would have wasted hundreds of thousands of naira on gifts 3 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by advanceDNA: 12:26pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
1Sharon: ..Even doctors need millions to go abroad.. NHS doesnt invite them for free....saying he's sending her abroad is just because of the finance involved 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by simplepee(f): 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Isabi4lov:Who ask you what you love or don’t love? madam notice me. Aren’t you shameful to be hitting on that guy stylistly because you don see abroad? Na una dey make all these stupid boys for NL see us finish. I dey shame for you, better delete that comment. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Yankee101: 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
“In” abroad? Akwaokukuo: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Isabi4lov: 12:31pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
simplepee:I know wailers will come , leave mine alone and focus on yours ,like I give a Bleep about anybody. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Divoc19(f): 12:31pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Premium Poison Loading if your sorry ass is irresponsible to them 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Ruwaha: 12:31pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
See look for a lady overthere and get married to,I wouldn't advice this,it's not as if I want to spoil your market but till she reaches there after marriage before you know her true colours. Be on an talking mode with air and be following her religiously as well as trying your luck with other intending serious ladies close to you,that you desire oo. Ask her questions about her long term and short term goals and see if you're in the picture,as soon as you see a red flag, abort, I repeat,abort the mission. 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by folake4u(f): 12:32pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Hmmm. You bring your matter come Nairaland, jealous people go help you dissect the whole matter and poison your mind. God safe us all. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Blazadenise(m): 12:35pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Apparently you want to send your Girl friend aboard after her studies, even some that sent there wife abroad later regret there action, Oga go and help your siblings and secure there future abroad |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Dchampion65: 12:37pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo: Follow your heart. What goes with me may not be tolerated by you. The personalities involved are different. Using my parameters to solve yours may not give you right decisions. Personally deal with the secret fear you are nursing. Commit your ways to the hands of the Lord. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by 1Sharon(f): 12:38pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Reminderz: Are you in the UK? If not, kindly shut up. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Akwaokukuo: 12:41pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: You really have time responding to all those ITK locals claiming they know it all. Apart from that, the rigorous process involved in that NHS route and the success rate compared to going abroad for post-graduate studies which is by far easier once the money is available . Some people's problem is claiming to know everything still they don't even know their own problems 2 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by biafranrealson: 12:43pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
If she makes big money, you can only be relevant in her life on one condition. She loves sex and you the husband is exceptionally gifted and good in nacking. Otherwise divorce will be loading .... |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Entrepreneurrr: 12:45pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
I qm here to learn ooo. Let me call oga pansophist to put his own |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by GoodCane: 12:51pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo: Dem dey tell you now, but you no go hear because of your emotions. Oga you better stop thinking With your emotions. Bros, until you're fully married to a girl you have absolutely no responsibility for taking care of her let alone sending her abroad to sch. Oga it's obvious "na body dey catch u". U better abort that thought ASAP to avoid had I know!!!! Don't try it. For as long as you're not married to her oga use your head and Japa. Don't try that Rubbish of sending her overseas for whatever reason. Let her father and family do it, shes their daughter. If you stubbornly refuses our advice and still go ahead, then when she has finally gotten what she wanted and dump your ass for someone else, don't come back here and start lamenting because we'll laugh at your foolishness 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by 1Sharon(f): 12:51pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: And she cannot start working as a young doctor to earn the money herself? If she gets to the UK, she'll out earn him by far especially if she gets to a consultant level. Let's see if OP will still be condescending by then. 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by sonofanarchy(m): 12:52pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
wish you good luck, you better find one oyibo or other African national and marry. |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by GloriousGbola: 12:52pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo: The truth is no one can tell what will happen. What is for sure is doctors are among the best paid professions in the US, so your wife will eventually earn more than you. Also you will be in a different society. Nigeria is a patriarchal society where as a man you can get away with anything and you have been subconsciously and actively conditioned by this In the West women have much more power. At the barest minimum, understand that some things you take for granted will simply not fly abroad. You will have to change. You will share chores and child management. No one can tell you what will happen because every marriage is different. If however you have been chancing your wife in one way or another, she may hit you back when she is empowered. It is what it is. The people giving the harshest warnings are those who regularly treat women anyhow and get away with it and are scared of what happens in a society where the tables are turned 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Socratiz: 12:56pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Rather than asking for counsel from an online forum where you're likely to get advice from teenagers who don't know anything, why don't you consider contacting a professional marriage counsellor? You will get more useful counsel from a professional counsellor. |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by advanceDNA: 12:56pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
1Sharon: Yes... she can wait for years to earn the money needed cos its not small change.....or she can do it on another person's expense... .... u and i know some women prefer spending other pple's money even for what they need ....or havent u heard countless stories of men sending women to university?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by 1Sharon(f): 1:02pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: I know this happens but any woman that goes into medicine doesn't do it to marry and sit on her behind. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by kingofthenorth: 1:16pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Akwaokukuo:I wanted to give my two cents as someone with experience but I when I saw you are trying to send a woman you are not married to abroad, I just tire.. goodluck bro. 1 Like |
Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Mobolaaji(m): 1:16pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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