dontrulee:
You're a making a good choice but it will be difficult Sha.

Medical doctors hardly have time for themselves not to talk of having time for family, perhaps in the UK, it may be better.
But here are a few challenges you may have:
1. Most medical doctors have a fixed way of doing things, this may eventually show in their homes and if their spouse is not understanding, it may lead to issues.

2. If you marry a medical doctor, the way she thinks will definitely be different from the way you think. This will lead to a clash of personalities. Not to talk of female medical doctors that feel they're on top of the world and everyone is beneath them, however some are very humble and have good character.

3. You can be well assured that you and your children will be taken care of health wise but they may not have luxury of time to spend with you and your children and time is needed to build emotional attraction and love in a family. Think well.


4. Most medical personnel are boring to be with, they think of medicine almost all the time. Can you cope if your partner is one of such persons??

In summary, weigh the benefits and the risks and choose, in my own personal opinion it will be good if you marry her but there will definitely be some little frictions trying to understand each other's misunderstanding!

jogsman01:
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Sweetplum:
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advanceDNA:



Yes... she can wait for years to earn the money needed cos its not small change.....or she can do it on another person's expense...

.... u and i know some women prefer spending other pple's money even for what they need ....or havent u heard countless stories of men sending women to university??

dontrulee:
You're a making a good choice but it will be difficult Sha.

Medical doctors hardly have time for themselves not to talk of having time for family, perhaps in the UK, it may be better.
But here are a few challenges you may have:
1. Most medical doctors have a fixed way of doing things, this may eventually show in their homes and if their spouse is not understanding, it may lead to issues.

2. If you marry a medical doctor, the way she thinks will definitely be different from the way you think. This will lead to a clash of personalities. Not to talk of female medical doctors that feel they're on top of the world and everyone is beneath them, however some are very humble and have good character.

3. You can be well assured that you and your children will be taken care of health wise but they may not have luxury of time to spend with you and your children and time is needed to build emotional attraction and love in a family. Think well.


4. Most medical personnel are boring to be with, they think of medicine almost all the time. Can you cope if your partner is one of such persons??

In summary, weigh the benefits and the risks and choose, in my own personal opinion it will be good if you marry her but there will definitely be some little frictions trying to understand each other's misunderstanding!

horlahwaley:
Hmm. Make sure you are far richer than her sha so she will be able to respect you cos when she finished, she is in money already and trust me it will be hard for you to impress her with money especially when she reach abroad.
The responsibility of building your home lies on your shoulder. Know that and know peace

Akwaokukuo:


I am in abroad already and whoever I get married to must join me too so that we both stay here together as a husband and a wife.
I only want to check my options first before delving deep into it

Akwaokukuo:


Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

1Sharon:
Could this be another thread created just to cause civil unrest and gender wars?

Anyways,


What do you mean you plan to send her abroad?

If she's a doctor she doesn't NEED YOU to send her abroad.

The UK welcomes highly trained professionals with open arms, it's what they need right now.

So let go of your God-complex.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Executive729:


If you want honest advise don't do it, I am older but live in UK over 35 years, recently I came back to marry a nurse in Nigeria after my family drove my first wife away. She is still in Nigeria whilst I perfect documents for her to join me in UK. Looking back 3 years now I think and believed is the worst decision I ever made. Look this generations of Nigerian women are not our mothers and grandmothers the way we knew them, these are entitlement block heads having the least respect for husbands and family institutions, as in doctor in UK her least salary is NGN47m a year this excludes her agency work which could double this amount. In summary you can't control her the chances of her leaving you is 70-80 percent. In my case I have already achieved everything I need in life when she Bleep off I don't care I will never put my life in a woman's hands. It will end in tears if you don't listen to my advise, find someone over there to marry there son.

Akwaokukuo:


I am in abroad already and whoever I get married to must join me too so that we both stay here together as a husband and a wife.
I only want to check my options first before delving deep into it

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Akwaokukuo:


How do you mean?

Akwaokukuo:
I was just going through my Facebook around 4am and noticed that someone tagged my so called girlfriend and her husband and congratulated them on their wedding which happened on 7th January.
She wasn't the one that posted, she was tagged to the post.
This is the highest shock of my life this year.
As in, is this happening? or am I dreaming?
How could she be in a serious relationship and still kept on acting along and toying with my emotion?
She was recommended to me last month around 15th December, what is the big deal in telling me that she is not single so that I move on with my life as fast as possible?
She was chatting romantically with me all these while and giving me all the green light and even sending hug and kiss emojis and my head was swelling.
Thank you all for your wonderful responses

chukel:
jettison that thought. Most Nigerian female doctors and nurses are proud and entitled. They will mess your life and ditch you. Most of them in my center have disjointed marriages. Forget this medical thing. Look for a humble, faithful, respectful and responsible girl to marry. If she turns out to be a doctor or nurse, better. Unless you are looking for someone to make money tor you. Even at that, eventually it will be premium tears.

Oleash:
If the lady is serious, she can raise the money for her exams by NYSC year, get a job and earn more than she spent within 2 months maximum. It costs around 2 million.
I don't think OP "sending her abroad" will be a big deal to her because she can do it for herself. She'll most likely be more financially stable than him.

Executive729:


If you want honest advise don't do it, I am older but live in UK over 35 years, recently I came back to marry a nurse in Nigeria after my family drove my first wife away. She is still in Nigeria whilst I perfect documents for her to join me in UK. Looking back 3 years now I think and believed is the worst decision I ever made. Look this generations of Nigerian women are not our mothers and grandmothers the way we knew them, these are entitlement block heads having the least respect for husbands and family institutions, as in doctor in UK her least salary is NGN47m a year this excludes her agency work which could double this amount. In summary you can't control her the chances of her leaving you is 70-80 percent. In my case I have already achieved everything I need in life when she Bleep off I don't care I will never put my life in a woman's hands. It will end in tears if you don't listen to my advise, find someone over there to marry there son.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

DBestDoc:



I’m sorry things happened the way they did but she did nothing bad really.

@Bolded, she was very much single.

She must have learnt through experience that it is very very foolish for an unmarried woman to chase other prospective love interests away because there’s some guy somewhere who ‘ promised’ her marriage. Highy foolish.

If her eggs were all in your basket alone, you’d have dumped her as.s after the discouraging comments you got here the first day you created this thread and she’d have to start all over. But look at it this way, if things didn’t work out between her other man and herself, you’re there already as another solid plan A ‘cause you guys must have started bonding already.

So, there’s nothing wrong in being polite with you and many others, provided she isn’t sleeping with you guys. After all, she’s not God that knows the end of a thing from the beginning.

Your own woman would come, no worries.

In my case, it was 5 guys at once after I received sense.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

franchasng:
Hahahahaha




But it's easier for a Nigerian Nurse to migrate to UK via work visa than for a Nigerian trained Doctor. And when it comes to US and Canada, it's almost impossible for Nigerian trained doctors to practice there without going through lots of hurdles unlike Nigerian trained Nurses, so I don't see why a Nigerian trained Doctor should be prideful to her spouse, honestly Nurses even have brighter chances than Doctors in Nigeria with lesser stress and resources lol

DBestDoc:



I’m sorry things happened the way they did but she did nothing bad really.

@Bolded, she was very much single.

She must have learnt through experience that it is very very foolish for an unmarried woman to chase other prospective love interests away because there’s some guy somewhere who ‘ promised’ her marriage. Highy foolish.

If her eggs were all in your basket alone, you’d have dumped her as.s after the discouraging comments you got here the first day you created this thread and she’d have to start all over. But look at it this way, if things didn’t work out between her other man and herself, you’re there already as another solid plan A ‘cause you guys must have started bonding already.

So, there’s nothing wrong in being polite with you and many others, provided she isn’t sleeping with you guys. After all, she’s not God that knows the end of a thing from the beginning.

Your own woman would come, no worries.

In my case, it was 5 guys at once after I received sense.

Akwaokukuo:


I am in abroad already and whoever I get married to must join me too so that we both stay here together as a husband and a wife.
I only want to check my options first before delving deep into it

Akwaokukuo:
I was just going through my Facebook around 4am and noticed that someone tagged my so called girlfriend and her husband and congratulated them on their wedding which happened on 7th January.
She wasn't the one that posted, she was tagged to the post.
This is the highest shock of my life this year.
As in, is this happening? or am I dreaming?
How could she be in a serious relationship and still kept on acting along and toying with my emotion?
She was recommended to me last month around 15th December, what is the big deal in telling me that she is not single so that I move on with my life as fast as possible?
She was chatting romantically with me all these while and giving me all the green light and even sending hug and kiss emojis and my head was swelling.
Thank you all for your wonderful responses

advanceDNA:


How will she pull it off with service year??
Exchamge rate is over 800naira to one pound

Plab 1 is 247£
Plab 2 is 906£
There is no exam centre in nigeria or africa ... doctors travel to Manchester to sit for the exam....that means visa cost, plane ticket, hotel accomodation .....

How much do u think they are paying NYsC doctors ...?? its not a simple matter for NYSC doctor or even the ones working full time...

some dont pass the exam once....after passing...they will spend money on IELTS, visa fees, rent and settling down fees.... e pass two million now ooo, especially with the bad exchange rate

Sixfeetbelle:


Which part do you think is a lie?

Annahh:
If she wasn't a doctor would you have been interested, I have heard of how abroad men line up in federal hospitals looking for nurses and doctors to marry so that it will be easier for them abroad.

Like I said again, if she isn't a doctor, would you have been interested to marry her?

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.