Angelacruz:
It is a like a culture in Igbo land that they will always recommend someone for marriage?

I have a roommate whose her family pressurized her to marry a guy that came back from Abroad..

And she doesn't like the guy sighting that
he is old but the family still insisted.

Akwaokukuo:


Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

Akwaokukuo:

Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

Angelacruz:
It is a like a culture in Igbo land that they will always recommend someone for marriage?

I have a roommate whose her family pressurized her to marry a guy that came back from Abroad..

And she doesn't like the guy sighting that
he is old but the family still insisted.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Sixfeetbelle:


Shebi that's how they recommended one for me all those years ago. Simply told them I wasn't interested and everybody respected their old age. Thank heavens my family were learned people sha...

Wickedfacts:


Na saviour complex dey worry you and you sill suffer if you are not smart.

I was once stupid enough to buy a car for an idiot I intended marrying. One day, she told me to stop making noise in her car. 2010 Rav4 I paid for 100%. I collected my car back and dumped her. Her mother begged taya, I didn't listen. I could cut my losses cos I was yet to be married to her and we were both in Naija.

You think your money can buy love? I laugh.
She will agree to marry you, then after she has gotten her papers, she will meet someone else, divorce you and collect your properties. I have a friend who sponsored his fiancee to Canada in October and she dumped him this December. He's running around doing family meetings and I'm just shaking my head cos I warned him.

If you want to marry, look for a lady already abroad. She won't pretend so you can take her abroad for free. She's already there.

I will share these threads with you, please read them carefully. It shows the experience of Igbo men abroad who brought ladies from Naija and married them. These wives are in the medical profession.

https://www.nairaland.com/6318683/abroad-sisters-stop-shaming-us

https://www.nairaland.com/4552939/why-nigerian-husbands-kill-wives#68340154

Sweetplum:
I v given you red card. You mouth is too long n saucy

Sweetplum:

They are awesome people. Make sure you support you doctor babe cos her moving to abroad ll open door of abroad for you too automatically

ifihearam:


Ode he is already abroad..you are too sexist.

Akwaokukuo:


Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

Sweetplum:
Ori e buru

ifihearam:


Ori baba e buru

ifihearam:


You will regret it I promise you and it will be your loss.
What tribe are you or the girl?
Never accept women from relatives, all girls in naija are opportunists..You will regret it..Never you sponsor any woman.
There are single,marriageable girls where you are, money is not everything..go out, socialize since you doing well, meet new people, interact..its better to marry a Nigerian or a foreigner who has same drive as you than sending a nigeruan girl abroad...she will disgrace you.

Akwaokukuo:


Na waoooo, I'm scared with all the comments I get from this thread.
Does it mean that there is no good girl in Nigeria who won't change and abandon one when she goes abroad?

Reminderz:

love is blind they say... it makes men act stupid most times... I pray you don't regret this... never cross a bridge for someone that can't cross over a line for you... you don't even know her well yet, abi you think say na I love you so much wey una dey tell each other abi? e go shock you... sponsor your siblings instead or one of your family instead.

even if you marry someone already abroad, you're already at a disadvantage because she can decide to change any time and use their law against you and collect all your properties. the law favours women most there whether they are right or wrong. better use your head. it doesn't end well most times.. make logical decisions or you will cry.

Akwaokukuo:


So wetin person go come do again na?
Make person no marry?

1Sharon:
Could this be another thread created just to cause civil unrest and gender wars?

Anyways,


What do you mean you plan to send her abroad?

If she's a doctor she doesn't need you to send her abroad.

The UK welcomes highly trained professionals with open arms, it's what they need right now.

Akwaokukuo:


Na waoooo, I'm scared with all the comments I get from this thread.
Does it mean that there is no good girl in Nigeria who won't change and abandon one when she goes abroad?

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage? I'm available though I'm not from igbo tribe , I promise to love and cherish you .

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.