Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

Yes, do well to introduce or even force him to a bank. There are numerous saving plans.
For example, they have Target account, Fixed Deposit account etc.
As long as it's not YOUR ACCOUNT!

The MOD that pushed this post wan use am catch cruise.
Awon bullet catcher acountant!
Account ko, accountability ni..

Lmao oh chim .
The comments are hilarious

Lol

mechanics:
You want him to save in your bank account so if any issue, you will jappa with his money abi, you are really funny o, no sensible man will do that.

Many guys do it, I know a girl that the boyfriend transfers money for her to save in her own account.

To shock you more, it is like my own blood brother is doing the same thing.

Fahvvy:
@rickpat

Does this girl look like she has good intentions for that guy? ... Because why exactly is she suggesting her own bank? ...

Aren't they online saving platforms?
How about a fixed deposit account?

Omorr...
Leave am...

This girl has bad plans for that guy ...
And did you also read the part where she said she "subtly threatened him"? ...

After the guy has saved like 500k in her account, when he decides to leave her, she will also "subtly threaten" him again ...

This time she'll be like, "if you leave me, forget about your money" ... And if them get issues, she will also "subtly threaten " him and be like, "if you don't apologize, forget about your money" ...

In summary...
I see more "subtle threats" in the near future ...

You are wise

Mhikasa0007:
You should obviously leave him. It is clear that he's not ready to have a future with you. Any man that has a girl and is ready to get married to her would start saving up as soon as possible. There are men out there ready to give you the world. Don't settle for less

Kai Na wa o.... See as u jump into conclusions like say na swimming pool you dive enter....Nigeria is a difficult country to live in My sister. Things are not always rosy at some sides.
Do you know if things are well with him? or una day look balance day shout "The money is all his... and he wont want to settle down", u no day understand say man day see something. No just day look only the money o, una woman, una day ask am some kain deep questions sometimes? Ha my sister no be so o... My father is retired, I lost my previous job, these witches way call themselves my girlfriends, all abandon me, na my sis day support me for internet, until i found a job, 3 months now, salary i never see, when salary come enter, i go sort bills.... even village people too, i go send money, otherwise them go show me why them call them village people... oya how savings wan day happen... Stop concluding o...

Secondly, Until the man marry the girl, nothing like savings together o. Make e use Piggyvest. Human beings can "malfunction" now adays. As person say Buhari and Tinubu day malfunction .... Even as married couples , the woman can still malfunction. No be married woman day nack native doctor the other day way thunder fire the man.

Make OP fear God sha.

Banilla:
I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a joint account, too far away to do so.

So what matters is who. And I'm better suited

Suggest to him to get a fixed deposit account and not you.

You are a thief in disguise.

Banilla:


after I've given him the best years of my life..

Please, what do you mean by this statement?

And how old are you?

How many years have you guys been together?

Mhikasa0007:
You should obviously leave him. It is clear that he's not ready to have a future with you. Any man that has a girl and is ready to get married to her would start saving up as soon as possible. There are men out there ready to give you the world. Don't settle for less

Would you advice your own brother earning like 100k to be saving like 40k monthly in his girlfriend's account?

Dimples2022:

Yahoo girl

No she is a student that want a good life for her future family

Banilla:
I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a joint account, too far away to do so.

So what matters is who. And I'm better suited

joint account with a gf..... error. Don't even go there, you have no right over him

Komu1048:


No she is a student that want a good life for her future family

Her father would have given her a good life.
A rich girl will hardly suggest that to her boyfriend.
Men should avoid poor girls

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

I don’t get it. You want him to save his hard earned money in your bank account?

I guess you are just looking for a collateral in case he breaks up with you. Or one day, you will pack your bag and run with his money to the abroad. SMH

PS: Yea, all you wrote above is about you and your wants.

ibechris:



U have not seen bullet babe.

Be cooling down...if u see real bullet u won't say this.
No Nigerian man can take any bullet for any woman except accidental discharge.

Just be calming down ok.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Minister of finance, I salute u o.....U don already open ur yansh outside na....u re scared if he would leave u so now u re planning on running away with his hard earn money.....Na u sabi manage bank acct then why u no go meet bubu make u manage zoogeria acct also.....Walia, fear women o...they have their own way of doing 419.....

Bobo don observe say him babe wan do him 360. Him sharpenly stay on a very high frequency.

You love him because he has a better income
Else, you won't think twice

Hahahaha u funny ooo! If e easy get a job earn 200k and let us see if u will not use the money to buy demonic wigs and organic cream! You said u have spent most your time with him; this is y u should not fornicate b4 marriage! I know that is the reason y u made that useless ungodly statement! If u don’t like a drunk husband find your way! What u see b4 marriage expect times 3 in marriage!

He is supposed to pretend now but he feel he has eating everything, if u go na u miss! Foolish modern woman! If u ignore the Bible teaching u will suffer! if he has not slept with u, e for done pay your dowry! You cannot preach to him because u are a sinner in bed! Which is even worst to drinking! Repent right now if not the break fast go loud!

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

come give me format Abeg make I collect from my oyinbo client too

cliqtips:

Please, what do you mean by this statement?

And how old are you?

How many years have you guys been together?

mtcheew, no carry matter go far abeg....she don gv the nigga her boli chop tire.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

Aunty be camming dan. Which one is "best years of my life" after just one year?

Cam the fak dan because it seems you are very possessive and you have a lot of growing up to do. You still have stars in yer eyes. Mos def

FalseProphet1:

You're not his wife so he has no business opening a joint account with you. You're just a girlfriend who can dump him tomorrow and abscond with his hard-earned money.

Leave him alone and Hussle for yourself.

Seconded....

EmiDon11:

She even said she dont want him to spend thier future on alcohol.

This part got me, I was like what !!!

after u dupe the guy now, u go change ur name to Vanilla for Instagram....we know ur type.

Banilla:
Hm. So I'm wrong? Should I apologize to him? I just want to be certain he's serious. I guess I can't pressure him, right?

What's your advice?

based on her previous sugar daddy post I swear dis girl is a pure gold digger

VicM6:
mtcheew, no carry matter go far abeg....she don gv the nigga her boli chop tire.

Lol..
So, the guy no give her him own too.

Make una stop seeing sex like say na only the guy enjoyed ahm

Nairaland is the worse place to bring ur problem and seek for advice,

cliqtips:


Lol..
So, the guy no give her him own too.

Make una stop seeing sex like say na only the guy enjoyed ahm

na money d guy dey pump gv her na nd she dy gv d guy kpekus.

Accept nah juju

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll
save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

You don’t know how to make money, but you can save. Tell that to a toddler

Hpesoj:



Ordinary banga, madam go discharge

I dey tell you

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

This gender sef gon!

I understand you have got better plan or honest plan. But rather than telling him save in your bank.

He should use piggy vest or kuda or all those digital saving apps

FalseProphet1:
He should save in your bank, I don't understand did he tell you his bank has problem or he doesn't know how to save money. Madam keep your eyes out of his money and focus on your education if not, no guy would take you serious.

This I have seen.

This Prophecy Isn't False, This I Have Seen

We are probably 2 decent people left here. I don't know who the other person is but definitely not this joker asking someone to save in her account. As what exactly?