Lyfdiscvry91:


It's God that will judge him for bringing kids the this world and abandoning them .

We went through hell growing up,there's noting like anyone poisoning our minds we saw the true definition of suffering and he he was some where leaving well.

Whatever happened btw him and my mum shouldn't stop him from reaching out to his kids knowing fully well that we are his, any man who doesn't take responsibility of his children is not worthy to be called a father.

Let me tell you this true life story that's even happening now. There is this couple, the man pays the rent fees and sometimes bring to replace the children clothes, all this and more and manages to give the woman some money at the end of the month. They re both working. The woman does not of note or record in the house in terms of contribution but goes around telling people that the dies nothing and he is a dead bit and. In all of thus the woman insults the man all the time, her parents will support her, she will most times take the man's money and say abominable things in thier house like the children are not his and how yes she has slept with this and that nd the man shld report to his village people. Alot of things about this woman she would run to her parents house after she has done this things and they wld even end up keeping her for months she will come back and it continues. Now the man is tired and he is ready for a divorce but she is pregnant so he is patiently waiting. I asked the man what of the kids in anger he said he does not care for now and all he wants is to get himself together. The truth is people don't know the he'll the man has been through. Tomorrow the children of that man will say thier father abandoned them. See life is tough and women most times lay the foundations for the suffering thier children are going through but the sometimes will never know the true story.

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thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

You are indeed a wise person.

99.9% of children don't know and will never understand what fathers are sacrificing on a daily basis for them.

Funny enough the sacrifices of a father is mostly done silently, and shown through the mother that is why most children don't even realize that most of the fainancal love they received from the mother actually came from the father.

Whether your parents are alive or not just share the money between the two ie the task you are asked to carry out

Dad 20%
Mum 80%
I just tried to be fair to my dad

emerged01:
I just lost my mother. I'm still finding it hard to cope with loss.

Sorry for the loss.
Time heals all wounds.
The Lord will comfort you and the family.

Emotionss:
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You are indeed a wise person.

99.9% of children don't know and will never understand what fathers are sacrificing on a daily basis for them.

Funny enough the sacrifices of a father is mostly done silently, and shown through the mother that is why most children don't even realize that most of the

fainancal love they received from the mother actually



came from the father.

This is not usually true because children knows that their mum works & sees all her efforts. The see their Dad's own two

What happens to equality

noble2faith:
As for me,
Father ₦60k
Mother ₦40k

What of you?

my father nor deh drop one naira for food for house
mom 100k
make my papa look bush

royalfly:


Let me tell you this true life story that's even happening now. There is this couple, the man pays the rent fees and sometimes bring to replace the children clothes, all this and more and manages to give the woman some money at the end of the month. They re both working. The woman does not of note or record in the house in terms of contribution but goes around telling people that the dies nothing and he is a dead bit and. In all of thus the woman insults the man all the time, her parents will support her, she will most times take the man's money and say abominable things in thier house like the children are not his and how yes she has slept with this and that nd the man shld report to his village people. Alot of things about this woman she would run to her parents house after she has done this things and they wld even end up keeping her for months she will come back and it continues. Now the man is tired and he is ready for a divorce but she is pregnant so he is patiently waiting. I asked the man what of the kids in anger he said he does not care for now and all he wants is to get himself together. The truth is people don't know the he'll the man has been through. Tomorrow the children of that man will say thier father abandoned them. See life is tough and women most times lay the foundations for the suffering thier children are going through but the sometimes will never know the true story.

Some women are not ok.

Mum 70k
Dad 30k

Popsy's money is only for flexing at this point in their lives. Great guy, love his style. Momsy keeps cash for all food and home maintenance related expenses.

For me

Father 40k

Mother 60k

may320:

Sorry for the loss.
Time heals all wounds.
The Lord will comfort you and the family.

Thank you 🙏

Mom : 70k

Dad: 30k

thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

No mind them. The poor man don scrap himself dry just to meet several needs

Dad 50k
Mum 50k
I love them badly

I will give as follows
Dad - N100K
Mum- N0k,

Father will keep 10K for his Church offering and dues and give N90K to mum.
Mum will manage the N90k for the family and everyone will be satisfied and happy.

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

One of those sperms that was supposed to be poured on the floor

Bankowner:
My father is late.
Sharing formula will be mother 30k.
70k to motherless children's home in memory of my father.
May his generous soul continue to rest in peace.

Lol,you no wise

thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

Leave them, na turn by turn, unless they never want to have children and family of their own

50/50

Mum 70k
Dad 30k

The one for mum will still go round last last.

Dad- 70k
Mum- 30k

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

Omo aserue fun re

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

Omo aserue fun e

BabbanBura:


Which of them give you big yansh?

I be guy wen like bigyash. Any of your ur sisters get bigyash? Let's start from there..

ChybuzzDD:


God bless you for this. Who never marry no go know.

I was surprised how every other person here was shouting mom, mom,mom!, and i began to question if it was the typical Nigerian/African family setting i used to know.

You don't know their parents more than they do. Oh! U don't know there are fathers who don't live up to expection?

I only have a father for now. So, 60k to my dad, 40k to my mother in law because she is my MOTHER now.
I no try?

noble2faith:
As for me,
Father ₦60k
Mother ₦40k

What of you?

Popsi- 70k
Mumsi - 30k

There is fire on the mountain. Men we are in serious problem. My dad is late but if the is alive, I will do 60k and mum 40k.

Dad : 80k
Mom: 20k

Mum gets everything.

Shishi!

Nobody dey see.

Na to hold the whole bar take invest on myself.

Emotionss:
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You are indeed a wise person.

99.9% of children don't know and will never understand what fathers are sacrificing on a daily basis for them.

Funny enough the sacrifices of a father is mostly done silently, and shown through the mother that is why most children don't even realize that most of the fainancal love they received from the mother actually came from the father.

True talk.
Naso my landlord out of annoyance when his wife said she suffer for nine months during the pregnancy period, then landlord said thank God that his delivered but he was pregnant for 21 years from feeding, clothing and other basic necessities at home and he doesn't know when he is going to deliver.