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Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by bukatyne(f): 12:28am On Mar 31, 2023 |
This is why it is good to very stubborn in some things. My people say 'if you throw away the knife that cuts your hand, the knife has done what it wants to do and throwing it away doesn't reverse that.' And I admire the wife's liver sha; to ask for same thing you rejected that led to the person's death. Anyways OP, if you are a Christian, there would be a lot of pressure to forgive & accommodate your MIL. If (God forbid) anything happens to her while not in your house, you will have the burden of guilt. Let her stay & support caring for her to the best of your ability. Let this also open your eyes to the fact that your wife is a very entitled, selfish person who can't be 'gbekeled'. Biko, someone should help me translate. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by cococandy(f): 3:17am On Mar 31, 2023 |
I haven’t said anything that indicates I have any problem with this sort of arrangement. It sounds ideal and I don’t see why not. as long as all the burden isn’t automatically shifted to the wife. I’m just pointing out that in most cases most men leave all the physical labor of providing care to their wives. A factual statement that didn’t even warrant any argument. It’s a matter of yea you’re right and maybe we need to do better. Instead of all the needless back and forth People on this forum just love to argue for the sake of it. sharone21: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Filmdirect: 4:01am On Mar 31, 2023 |
ozalogbo: Shame on you for how you treated your mother. Shame on you. The woman that gave birth to you, you sent away at her moment of need because of a wife? You couldn’t put your foot down to protect your mother. And so it is. To save your marriage tell your wife that you will not allow her mother in your house. She can send money to her as needed. Why? Because no matter what anyone tells you you will resent your wife if her mother lives with you. You already hold resentment for yourself, by how you let your mother down. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by 2016easy2017: 6:09am On Mar 31, 2023 |
cococandy:may God grant you long life and also the same daughter in-law as op.amin 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by 2016easy2017: 6:31am On Mar 31, 2023 |
cococandy:just like his own mother can die for him too and his mother in-law can never do 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by 2016easy2017: 6:41am On Mar 31, 2023 |
Dottormentor:what could have been her own side of the story? Had the mother not taken care of the husband would she have married him. Let her mother go to stay with her daughter in-law too |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by cococandy(f): 6:43am On Mar 31, 2023 |
2016easy2017:exactly. That’s why it’s his responsibility not his wife. Glad we are on the same page |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by 2016easy2017: 6:56am On Mar 31, 2023 |
[quote author=kazyhm post=122156137] You typed absolute nonsense!![/q You're not yet old sha, when you grow to a ripe old age you'll understand what the op's wife did |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kazyhm(m): 8:49am On Mar 31, 2023 |
[quote author=2016easy2017 post=122187572][/quote] Likewise you......when you become of age, you'll understand what the op wife did. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by jacquelintorres: 9:29am On Mar 31, 2023 |
I'm currently divorcing my wife, and to be honest, I'm glad we agreed on Postnuptial Agreement. You can read more about this contract on the Internet, but I think it's especially important if there is joint property, real estate, children, and so on. Something like a guarantee of financial security for both parties. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by gudugudumeje: 12:30pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
It is a law she had applied, let same law apply to her too. Justice, equity and fairness is it; do not play the weak. Get a person employed to live with her mother and pay for it and praise will be there for ur mum in her rest. Law applied has nothing to do wt forgiveness. Nb. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by ACE1010: 1:42pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Allowing your mother in-law to come live in your home is not a sign of weakness on your part after what your wife did to your own mother. Replay the Nollywood movie to your wife how she treated your mum and let her conscience do the rest.. remind her that she would be a mother in-law sometime in the future. And whatever she sow, she will reap. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by ACE1010: 1:53pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
donaldchidi: Let truth be told. You're not making any sense to me 😡😡😢😢🙁 Maybe you don't value your mother. Apologies to your mother !!!! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by oladiran2(m): 3:24pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Are you in your right senses at all?? Am noy sure you re-read what you wrote at all. She can't take care of her MIL but can do for her own right? Common sense is not common at all. cococandy: |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by fxexperts: 4:04pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Zaynmax:Leave those bitter genders alone. They will never reason like us. We should have followed the pattern of our forefathers by marring more than one woman. men of these days are becoming very weak, all thanks to this useless western culture of Christianity and the likes. cococandy:I pray you have only male children and your male children's ends up with wife of this mentality of yours, then you will come back here to preach this same sermon when you are old. cococandy:So0 you are saying he is not going to have any commitment to her mother while she is in his house. is that what you are saying? Financially, emotionally abi. Your logic doesn't stand abeg. Some Nigerian women are plain evil. in the actually sense it is Nigerian who marries most of the Nigerian men away from their parents. because they always look for a way to cut you off from your relatives, so they can deal with you mercilessly. Fear Nigerian women, they are very jealous and selfish. ACE1010:Her conscience will not do her anything, rather she will feel she is smart and she has control over her man. I have met many uncivilized, selfish women in the past who boasted to me that when they get married they will separate their husband from his family to focus only on them, their children and their family. they say these things with all confidence and i wonder the planet they came from, and most of these women are the ones who start a fight with their own brothers wife, accusing her of trying to cut their brother from them, they are very evil i can tell you that. fear them. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:08pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Admin please ban this account. Lindahandley: |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:04pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
sandra50:Sharap! Do as I say! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
summerflame:From your useless mouth. I had to reply you before April to tell you your condition is worst! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Cowbell521:Ask your ancestors |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Iamzik:Ask google |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:07pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:07pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
jaxxy:Of cos I know |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 4:20am On Apr 01, 2023 |
sandra50:You don buy market |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kumbhuru: 1:17pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Neweramify:You are mad |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Stkutsu(m): 11:00pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
IDERAWOLE:at this point the love died with his mother..what is applicable to bala should also apply to bulus period |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dindondin(m): 11:01pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
summerflame:No problem. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Stkutsu(m): 11:02pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
VTJN:there should be justice even at the expense of peace |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Stkutsu(m): 11:04pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
soles21:simple |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Stkutsu(m): 11:11pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Truth001:do not listen to this emotional blackmail..so who are you to blame for the bad thing that has already happened to your mum... |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Cowbell521: 12:43pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
ozalogbo:Cried reading this. Oga no let dat woman bring her mother come ur house |
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