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UyaiIncomparabl:
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FalseProphet1:
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Kelechi009:
I don't really see the usefulness of this thread, are you complaining or stating a point that men are the problem?
Prostitution will never stop, and the people or threads who are complaining on Nairaland are just jokers.

I suspect you really hate the average Nigerian man because all your posts are such, when I read your posts It strikes me as a Slave Master to a Westerner or something similar, you would fit that role perfectly.

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Gerrard59:
I appreciate all the responses, including the ones that said I am a security man in the US and the tribal slur that I am an IPOB because I don't believe in the Fulanised Nigerian army (what if I am from Kajuru nko?)

Hopefully, this thread would serve as a template for moneyed folks in the abroad who plan or wish to return to Nigeria someday.

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Additionally, the responses have proven my belief that the greatest achievement of black men especially Nigerian men is to dangle their smelly preek around while chanting alfa meils alfa meils alfa meils!!! If you read through, very few suggested these rich people should try to change the system for the better. I mentioned insecurity as a major issue even if I am not affected, but rather than suggest these moneyed folks try to change the system so that the farmers in Zango-Kataf can cultivate their crops in peace, they suggested hiring security personnel as the antidote to insecurity. When I said Nigerian men have failed their women, I was not lying. The responses prove it

The average black person esp man is inherently greedy, wicked, shortsighted, and a poor planner. Thus, I don't believe black people can build a functioning society nor can they manage one if given on a platter of gold. The ones in Bermuda, Bahamas etc are exceptions, not the norm.

I am not any slave master. In fact, I admire East Asian leaders than western politicians. There is a picture of Xi and Abe that gave me gossebumps.

Gerrard59:
I am not any slave master. In fact, I admire East Asian leaders than western politicians. There is a picture of Xi and Abe that gave me gossebumps.

Its giving " I have Black friends, so I cannot be racist "

Kelechi009:
Its giving " I have Black friends, so I cannot be racist "

If you knew abi initio as you claimed that prostitutuion will never end, why did you not tell those ignorant people lampooning Nigerian girls about hookup? Why is it when I created a thread about that you found it thoughtful to let me know it has always existed?

About Nigerian men, nothing interests me about the vast majority of Nigerian men, If I was a woman, shame for catch me seeing how other men developed their societies and play responsible politicos. Nigerian politicians supported largely by Nigerian men play crude, outdated and animalistic politicos. More than 120 people were killed in just one local government, yet none of the elites in the country has commiserated with them. Na me wey dey bash the average Nigerian man be problem, not the men who control power.

Me, a nobody, is the problem, not your favourite pastors you attended the recent concert in London or the senior pastors you have met, of which NONE has condemned the brutal butchering of Christians across Northern Nigeria.

Tell me, when you walk through the streets of America, don't you feel ashamed the way things are done in Nigeria? Na women develop America?

Gerrard59:
If you knew abi initio as you claimed that prostitutuion will never end, why did you not tell those ignorant people lampooning Nigerian girls about hookup? Why is it when I created a thread about that you found it thoughtful to let me know it has always existed?

About Nigerian men, nothing interests me about the vast majority of Nigerian men, If I was a woman, shame for catch me seeing how other men developed their societies and play responsible politicos. Nigerian politicians supported largely by Nigerian men play crude, outdated and animalistic politicos. More than 120 people were killed in just one local government, yet none of the elites in the country has commiserated with them. Na me wey dey bash the average Nigerian man be problem, not the men who control power.

Me, a nobody, is the problem, not your favourite pastors you attended the recent concert in London or the senior pastors you have met, of which NONE has condemned the brutal butchering of Christians across Northern Nigeria.

Tell me, when you walk through the streets of America, don't you feel ashamed the way things are done in Nigeria? Na women develop America?

You were just defending yourself a while ago, now you have come out purely.

People can always whine about hookup; it has never been a problem. Your argument is that Western men are more intellectual in this area and that Nigerian guys are more backward in their mentality, which drives this hookup behaviour. So I believe it to be a slave master mentality, therefore I gave you the demographic and Onlyfans statistics because I'd rather do that than debate needlessly. I agree with some of your arguments that men place demands on prostitutes for it continue, but you seem to have forgotten that prostitution is a quick way to make money as long as it is legal.

My points are (a) You cannot get rid of prostitution, you can only modernise it. (b) Women engage in prostitution because it pays well and makes their lives easier, not just because men want them to. Win-win situation for customers and producers alike.

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pansophist:
Widespread prostitution, criminality, corruption and every other societal vices are symptoms of an extremely sick society. Look all around the world, the more fallen a society is, the high likely its social structure will degenerate.

Your solution of expecting men to voluntarily stop seeking sexual services will not work. It's like applying bandage to an internal cut instead of surgery. When a country is so corrupt that it doesn't give men hope, then men will seek pleasure, and sex is one of it.

More specifically, it's in women hands to stop prostitution, not men. It's why women are shamed more for being sexually loose compare to men. If all the sex workers that dress and go stand in the junction stop coming out, then men won't see who to pay.

Women are the gatekeeper of sex. They deny sex to men daily, such as the guys they ain't attracted to, their faithful simps, and friendzone brethrens. So why not deny the men that want to pay for it? It's the same dynamics.

For example, people always blame men that let a woman use him for cash and attention. you may scream till tomorrow that women should go and work, and that relationship is not a Poverty alleviation program. But it's not effective, except men stop bankrolling such women.

It is he, who is the giver/seller that has the monopoly to stop anything. When government wanted to ban okada in Lagos, they didn't start arresting paying passengers, instead, they ban okada and arrest any stubborn drivers who still choose to carry passengers.

For prostitution to stop, it's more on women, not on men. But a bigger solution will be for society to become better, so people can live a dignified life without selling their soul.

Nicely put.

pansophist:
Widespread prostitution, criminality, corruption and every other societal vices are symptoms of an extremely sick society. Look all around the world, the more fallen a society is, the high likely its social structure will degenerate.

Your solution of expecting men to voluntarily stop seeking sexual services will not work. It's like applying bandage to an internal cut instead of surgery. When a country is so corrupt that it doesn't give men hope, then men will seek pleasure, and sex is one of it.

More specifically, it's in women hands to stop prostitution, not men. It's why women are shamed more for being sexually loose compare to men. If all the sex workers that dress and go stand in the junction stop coming out, then men won't see who to pay.

Women are the gatekeeper of sex. They deny sex to men daily, such as the guys they ain't attracted to, their faithful simps, and friendzone brethrens. So why not deny the men that want to pay for it? It's the same dynamics.

For example, people always blame men that let a woman use him for cash and attention. you may scream till tomorrow that women should go and work, and that relationship is not a Poverty alleviation program. But it's not effective, except men stop bankrolling such women.

It is he, who is the giver/seller that has the monopoly to stop anything. When government wanted to ban okada in Lagos, they didn't start arresting paying passengers, instead, they ban okada and arrest any stubborn drivers who still choose to carry passengers.

For prostitution to stop, it's more on women, not on men. But a bigger solution will be for society to become better, so people can live a dignified life without selling their soul.

You too get sense...Whatttt see wisdom

This cannot be reduced

Go to TwitterNG. What do you see?

I have stated it: Nigerian men like sex, just as men all over the world. Men love sex and would spend any amount to get it. It is biology. Hormones aren't mo.rons. Modern-day women have to accept it that it is biological for a man to have sex with different women. Whether the man is a Christian or Muslim or atheist, the average man anywhere in the world LOVES TO FVCK.

Modern-day women who don't like this arrangement should do any of the following:

- Marry a woman
- Remain single for life
- Marry a much poorer man. In my books, you don't have the right to dictate to a rich man how many women he wants to fvck. It is a ridiculous belief.
- Become a reverend sister.

For young men out there, MAKE MONEY. Do anything LEGALLY possible to make as much money as you want. Look at Sharon Ooja marrying a serial divorcee who is almost 50 years old. This serial divorcee married two years ago o! Or Chioma marrying a community pen!s. When you have made enough money, enjoy yourself and don't give a hoot what people say. Preferably, reside in your dominant society. If Yoruba, live in Lagos. If Igbo, live in Enugu. If Hausa, live in Kano. Alternatively, reside in prosperous black-dominated Caribbean nations such as Barbados and Bahamas. Nothing will happen. That is why you are a rich man.

Have money!

cc: franchasofficia

Gerrard59:
Go to TwitterNG. What do you see?

I have stated it: Nigerian men like sex, just as men all over the world. Men love sex and would spend any amount to get it. It is biology. Hormones aren't mo.rons. Modern-day women have to accept it that it is biological for a man to have sex with different women. Whether the man is a Christian or Muslim or atheist, the average man anywhere in the world LOVES TO FVCK.

Modern-day women who don't like this arrangement should do any of the following:

- Marry a woman
- Remain single for life
- Marry a much poorer man. In my books, you don't have the right to dictate to a rich man how many women he wants to fvck. It is a ridiculous belief.
- Become a reverend sister.

For young men out there, MAKE MONEY. Do anything LEGALLY possible to make as much money as you want. Look at Sharon Ooja marrying a serial divorcee who is almost 50 years old. This serial divorcee married two years ago o! Or Chioma marrying a community pen!s. When you have made enough money, enjoy yourself and don't give a hoot what people say. Preferably, reside in your dominant society. If Yoruba, live in Lagos. If Igbo, live in Enugu. If Hausa, live in Kano. Alternatively, reside in prosperous black-dominated Caribbean nations such as Barbados and Bahamas. Nothing will happen. That is why you are a rich man.

Have money!

cc: franchasofficia

The only issue is that I now disagree with this premise based on personal relationship with God Almighty the maker of Heaven and Earth.


For the love of Jesus Christ, I think every man or woman should strive to be at peace with God and to live Holy because sincerely, riches without Jesus Christ to my realization of recent is disastrous.


It's not easy to follow Jesus Christ's teachings and ways, but by His grace and mercy, one can make a good try.


Christ in me, the hope of my salvation.


Remain blessed and may Christ help us all to love and draw closer to Him everyday, amen

Lagos men spent over half a trillion naira on sex in 2024: https://x.com/kayomosebi/status/1900541042417434832

One easy way to make money in Nigeria is in the hospitality industry provided you have a hands-on approach. Another is to focus on women's products. As seen in the research, more than half of the earnings were spent on women looking good for men.

Again, sex is not free and has never been and would never be.

How possible?

cocolacec:
The way to reduce hook up is for the government to arrest the men patronising prostitutes on the streets and the web.

The Government should also fine the men heavily like N500,000 or jail term term of 2 years.
Most men will prefer to pay a fine ,the govt generates good money from these money wasting men and it is utilised back into the society.

Lol the same government that's funding the life styles of actress and others. Is that not hook up?

keemsleek:
Lol the same government that's funding the life styles of actress and others. Is that not hook up?

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